Annessa

yaaaay! :-)

wow I would have to agree! ?I lost everything,? she says. ?I want others to know what a big corporation has done. I trusted Rogers with my personal information. We had a contract ? and agreement that put my life right in their hands.? ummm.....I feel that the husband may be saying something similar...but to her perhaps?? lol. Pay as you go phone would have def saved her from losing everything...and judging by her income, its not like she couldnt afford one.

I like to see one client during the daytime and one client at night as a general rule of thumb. It leaves room for everything else I have to do during the day while my son is at school and leaves me free after work in the evening to still have a social life with my friends. I always have a strange guilt seeing a client when I have just come from another client's house or rushing away from one client to go see another. It doesnt always work out that way tho unfortunately (slow weeks etc)..however on a slow week I remember I decided to accept calls from three clients in one day and that was enough for me, I was exhausted after and I even got a call afterwards to go on an outcall that evening and I turned it down saying I wasn't accepting any more calls that day.

I know Lovely Dorinda from Ontario is planning a trip soon, I'm not sure if shes still going ...or what part of Florida she'll be in....but perhaps you could contact her on here (Lovely Dorinda), she truly IS lovely!

I had the pleasure of meeting Soleil last night at an all-SP social and I must say that she is such a sweetheart, a total bombshell and a real treat to talk to!...and I gotta say she has got AH-mazing breasts!!....we got to see first hand...and wow! :boobeyes: Ottawa gentlemen, I believe she is only in town until this coming wednesday so definitely do NOT miss the boat on this one! *huggs Soleil!*

I forgot one.. sometimes I take out a block of Jalepeno Havarti cheese and slice it in front of the computer for a snack. well last night I went through 3/4 of the block! gah! I just read that per 2cm cube there is 30gs of fat. *cries* but I LOOOOVE it! waaaaah! *goes running* ;-)

raw Oysters n horseradish cold peel n eat shrimp cashews tortilla chips and artichoke/asiago-cheese dip or Guac...mmm... those reeeeeally soft mini chocolate-chip cookies....drooool... grrrr! damn u Carrie, now I'm hungry!! lol

well thats one name and face I'll burn into my memory...sick. ppl like that should get a death sentance. and even if sex is protected theres no chance that its 100% safe, as we all know. so many people claim they have been safe after realizing they have contracted a STI...but there are many factors that could lead to transmitting.....it just makes my head spin that someone would knowingly do this. They say it was a bold move for them to post his pic and name on a related site but I feel that this was appropriate for any girl who unknowingly came in sexual contact with him who hasn't yet got tested...how horrible!

Grrr...both Peachka AND Blog10 beat me to it, lol I was in tears when I saw both for the first time :-)

I always like to hopethat if I get a gift it is something small and discrete, a gentlman ringing the dorbell to my incall location with a large bouquet of flowers might raise suspicion for neighbors...and if I'm crossing a hotel lobby 2 hours later with a bouquet it might look ify to hotel staff, lol I'm not really one for sweets either and many girls are the same surprisingly so unless its dark chocolate, it may be re-gifted. I was surprised however on a first time visit recently with a small box and a cute pair of simple earrings. The client had done his research first to make sure my ears were pierced and I thought it was a really thoughtful gift. but yeah I would stay away from anything too specific, flowers, chocolate or perfumes (although I've been surprised with a perfume that actually really suited me)..then in doubt, make it more of a nice gesture, and something that doesn't break your bank if she doesnt like it :-)

I love your shoes babe! definitely you have good taste in them and know when a deal is presented!..or a one-time offer on them! its funny there was a really good paragraph that a client read to me from the book Frakonomics....(potential spelling of the best seller may be wrong and quotes folowing etc) but there waqs an entire chapter on "why an escort was like a secret santa" (again quote may be off...) the story followed a woman who decided to quit her blue collar job and become an escort....she charged at first a certain amount...around $250 or so...then after a year of doing so she decided to move to New York and tried to decide what her rate would be... she decided to go "out there" and charge $400...she realized then that men would see her for longer periods of time because they were the men who could afford her and wanted "the eperience"...she relocated again and started charging $500/hr and a minimum of 2-hour visits and still was just as busy with her low-volume quality clientele.... the end of the story was that no matter where she went and no matter what she charged, as long as she was a quality provider and kept up her reputation she would still be happy and making enough no matter how high she raised her bar. when you think to the girls charging $100 on CL to try and get more volume and probably seeing 1-time clients...no offence but I think I'll relocate a couple times or even stay in the city and raise my "bar" after each milestone where I feel i deserve a certain amount...not by what the bar around me is. That being said once my website is up in a couple months rates will be higher, lol....banners and websites cost money after all *wink*

Interesting thread, but I'll agree with Angela when I say its a bit of a pot-stir-er (shh! its a word now! lol) I had a conversation with a client when he phoned me for my rates, when he heard my difference in incall rates to outcall rates he kinda scoffed and said "hmm...isn't incall supposed to cost less??" (I charge more for incalls) however, some girls work out of their homes for incall and I work out of another SPs apartment when I need to do an incall and pay her a fee per call...therefore I charge a little extra to handle that fee. it did kinda bother me that someone was telling me which of my rates was *supposed* to cost x-amount. I have never given a special until this week...but thats because unlike other weeks where I dont need the volume, I have something extra special I'm trying to work towards this week that I need the funds for. Not desperation. every girl has her reasons, and like it was said before, if one person is comfortable charging x-amount over x-amount it shouldnt be up to anyone else to wonder why....and definitely not up to anyone else to tell them that their prices dont fit the "market" of their surroundings.

k...if the guy was really a wannabe pimp or was actually trying to gain your business as that he would have said "lady you called"'s phone....she is unavailable to anser...may i pass along a request" in a perfect world however.....these wannabe pimps dont know what the hell they're into and intimidating a potential client loking like "the man in charge" will do them more harm than good...and is definitely a bad warning sign as to the respect they have for their customers....I've worked for agencies and do you think the female dispachers ever answered "what do you want??? fo shizzle!" good for you for hanging up. in the same sense I have been left a voicemail message or two by potential clients asking me to call back....when a WOMAN ansers the phone I always say "oh..um is JUDY there?" generally the pissy lady says "no you have the wrong number!" and I'm relieved when I hear the *click* opposite sex answering the phone never works well on ANY end! and whos to say that the guy answering the pone in the first place wasn't a jealous boyfriend who got a hold of the worker's phone and *may* try and make you think its really a cute gal coming to your place and not someone whos willing to take some rage out on you.... yes...male agents answering the phone may NOT be that, but if a guy is going to answer the phone with attitude like that....hang up the phone as fast as u can!

sorry I should have said "picked apart" instead (as in quoting and such and feeling the need to clear up etc etc...not in a "picking on" sense) ...point is I dont understand why we're all being so defensive if we all aggree on the same subject. just seems silly to go round in circles, its tiring...phewf! No one is characterizing you or your posts so no need to get defensive. :-)

I think you're taking my one sentance a bit too far. if we're both in agreement that blabbing to another member about a girl isnt right I dont see why we're still picking at each other's wording. moving on....

WIT, I'm a little dissapointed in your response as I respect your comments but am in no way trying to start a fight here... yes it is a lesson to all girls to check up on the validity of a man's word and most of us do...and know about reference checks etc..I'm in no way saying all girls are naiive what I said was: "some girls dont catch on to that and if they have a horrible or dangerous date with the fellow, instantly remember "oh this was *insert member he references before's friend....that not good. Guilty by association." as one member said here every guy had to start somewhere and just the same so does every girl. THAT was the genre of people that I was referring to...not ALL girls or that this should be the ONLY reason why a gent shouldnt share his comments with another member....but ONE of them amongst the newer ladies not the idea that the ladies would actually believe them....but the idea that some guy out there might be using your opinion (and in turn your rep) as a basis of trying to build his rep amongst a lady, It has happened to many of us and most of us say "yeah ok buddy" but what about the gals that dont based on the idea that someone they saw and trusted felt the meber that contacted them was trust-worthy enough to get inside info from their client? it forms a strange sense of security as we all would hope that our clients wouldn't blurt out anything to anyone that was private about us....so some ladies *might* think "oh I know the guy who he was talking to, hes a sweetie and wouldnt divulge anything to just anyone so this guy must be in his good books" When that sense of security turns ugly we sometimes wonder...be it your fault or not..."why did my client trust this idiot with so much info about me?" ....which is not cool. And that was my point. But I will say good advice on checking up on these so called friends of everyone....I know for one I dont take appointments from anyone who feels he has to go to someone else for info when they could go to me first. And I would hope that no guy I've seen would never give any info that should remain private of our encounter to a guy who didnt have the ba*ls to contact me first unless he wants to be associated as trusting the character asking with that info.

As an on n off fun-friend while Sarah is in Ottawa, I can say that This girl is definitely in a category all her own! I would recommend couples also seek her because she is a tiger with the men BUT is also sweet and cuddly and respectful to the ladies...she will make you feel special whether you are male or female...and may even spend more time on the ladies...leaving the boys drooling, lol. Adorable goofy personality and a definite 'sex should be FUN!" attitude...dont get me wrong, those pouty lips and decorative tattoos will make any man shake.....but if you want a REAL girl who you could see prancing around in white panties and your favorite football jersey who could make you laugh and pleasure you all at the same time.......I wouldnt look any further. when are you coming back to Ottawa Sara!!! miss u! xoxo

I realise there are other threads on this linked above but I havent commented on any until now..... As an Sp, I know many of us would be happier if you PMed *US* for info as to the clients we have see or the service we provide regarding your personal questions. Many Members Have started recent threads in the forums stating that they cringe at being PMed by prospect clients about their experience with a lady hey have seen...they feel like they are breaking a rule of discretion sometimes. I know that it is an instant turn-off to hear from a potential client "I asked *insert Cerb member name* about you and he said yadda yadda yadda" I end up wondering....so why didnt you ask me? I'm here, available on PM, I'm not going to ridicule you for asking questions because *news-flash* you want to know just exactly you are going to be getting naked with without meeting...and who better to give you that info than me?? Just beacuse we shared a certain chemistry with one client does not mean that your experience would be the same so its best to message the lady in question with your requests...and like another member said, dont be shy (but be respectful) In the end, its best to eliminate the middle-man and speak directly to the woman you want to address. dont worry, we dont bite. (unless thats what you're looking for ;-))

if they are asking for info as to the phone number, address or rates of a girl it is different than the recos section.....also if they are asking a gent about his experience with her, he really should be a gent and point them to her recommendations section or say 'ask her yourself" As an Sp I have received messages from potential client saying :I was speaking to *so-and-so* and he gave me your number and said you were great" Guys realize that when you speak to a member he may take your word and use it as a potential means to bulk up his reperatoire od "friends" who recommended you to a girl. In cases like this I always say(once they start asking questions like they have no idea who I am or have not read my ad) that they might need to review my ad and research me.... some girls dont catch on to that and if they have a horrible or dangerous date with the fellow, instantly remember "oh this was *insert member he references before*'s friend....that not good. Guilty by association. All this being said there are many things to loose by giving info to a guy who is too scared to ask the girl in question...including your own reputation...play safe boys! xoxo

it might be best to give us a sense of what gender or sexual orientation your friend provides services for....homosexual, straight, bi, bi for pay etc..... ? I will say that in my searches for women looking for heterosexual men the sites are very limited...but I may not have dove deep enough

if you are looking to find a lady for 5 hours you may want to see a couple for a shorter visit (say 1 hour) first for an introductory session before you narrow down your search to one you like and would be willing to see you for a lengthly visit I know myself that I would not be comfortable seeing someone I have never met before for such a long period of time for a first meeting, so to make sure you get the most out of your money and to make sure the girl would be comfortable soending that much time with you, probably best to test the waters on a smaller scale first. Also keep in mind that because another member might recommend her, it may not mean that you and her will share the same chemistry. Good luck!

I'm not picking on anybody...as I said before I just hope that his bad experience doesn't taint him from seeing a girl regularily again. I'm not saying his opinion is wrong, rather just putting it out there that it shouldnt be expected when starting a new SP relationship that you're going to get hosed, lol I wont deny that there are girls out there who take advantage of clients...but I would emphasize that those gals are the exception...not the rule. There are as many types of girls out there as there are working girls...and in any friendship, relationship, or SP-relation you may find a gold digger....I'm just saying that just as a guy who gets into a relationship and starts off by paying for everything...he may have a girl whos not interested in him, yet uses him. That doesnt mean that all women in a relationship with him after that point are all going to do the same. Play wisely, learn when to say no, and keep it proffessional. One would argue when we're in the business of keeping someone company there can be grey areas. I dont think so, as long as the gal stays proffessional and the gent does the same. It shouldnt mean that you have to always have your guard up...how will you ever get the best out of your experience if thats the case?

I'm a fan of comparisons and I like this one. :-) well put Naomi

perhaps this is just me but when a regular is a noble gent there is no need to "make it work"...it just works. I'm sorry you were taken advantage of by girls who saw you regularily. but my initial post to your reply was to reassure you that this is not the norm nor anywhere near proffessional for anyone to do and I hope it doesn't put the idea inyour head that if you see a girl on a regular basis that she is only going to take advantage of you like the other girls before you did. Regular and newbie are also not opposite sides of the spectrum, I'll add. Regular is a term near and dear to my heart which implies that I have and would see that client (or you see that girl) again....it doesnt imply their experience level. Someone can be new to the industry (a "newbie") and still have regulars so I'm not sure why that was brought up. The OP was about 'do regular clients matter?'...If an SP has scammed you the answer is pretty easy that it matters enough that you would be angry about it afterwards....but there is a simple solution to that....dont see her again..in which case, she is no longer a regular SP of your choice.....same as if a client becomes unworthy of our time we stop seeing them....and stop considering them a regular.....so in both cases, both situations no longer apply to the original post of this thread. xo