Annessa

I'm no stripper Bella, but from what I gather is that its the rules of the gals NOT to kiss the clients in the CR. Mainly because most girls dont, if you are kissing clients in the champagne room, the dude in the stall next to you getting a dance from another dancer is going to get pissy that SHEs not doing it to him. it can create a lot of drama from what I've known of my friends who dance so I would really just tread carfefully.....its not disgusting per se, but a huge faux-pas and you could get fired from it in some places or deal with a lot of girls being fed up with you and feeding your boss BS about you. I dont think you want that stress. a kiss is just a kiss....sometimes not

every girl is different...if we all said we had a play-by play way of dealing with our clients ("first 5 mins I talk about the weather, secondly we move to the couch, thirdly we talk, fourthlyh I ask him if he'd like a glass of wine"..etc etc) we would kinda come off as having a cookie-cutter way of dealing with each client and our time together.....and just like every girl is different: so is every client

to be clear on wording....the "session" (ie. your ladies time with you be it sex or no sex) starts the minute she walks in the door. generally there should be some light talk and it is not recommended for a client to pounce on her right away. now...if by "session" you mean "the sex", everyone is different but generally speaking whe dont disrobe fully nude along with our jacket right away and direct you to the bedroom (!), that wouldnt be cool. just curious, but why has this been bugging you? did you have a rushed encounter?

I am NOT a hockey fan. BEFORE everyone beats me senseless tho in this thread, I will admit I watched the game and the medal giving and when the Canadian national anthem was playing I noticed myself getting all teary-eyed durring the follow-up when the collumnist's essay was read talking about how Canadians came together for the Olympics, god medals or not. go Canada go! very proud indeed to live in Canada today :-)

ahhh i see....then I was deep in rem sleep by that point, ...shucks, I wanted to feel the earthquake! lol

what time? I was in bed by ten and up at 3;30am for some reason and couldnt go back to sleep, but didnt feel anything

i think if mr. insecure was "mr happy to be with you" and mr. cool was "mr. you should be so lucky to be with a guy like me, I mean, c'mon"" then the desicion would be pretty easy as choosing the first over the second. I personally dont like being with anyone who thinks they're too cool to "have to pay for it" I prefer seeing the honesty in men, BIG turn on....generally in non work and work related relationships, someone who thinks hes mr. cool is a huge turn off. but as stated before, there are SO many in-betweens of types of gents. but as per the question between those two types, I would take someone who was insecure (mainly because he wouldnt be so after being with me, hehe) and happy to be with me over someone who thought he was the cat's meow :-)

personally i really enjoy the rush I get before meeting a client for the first time. the anticipation is all part of the game! sometimes I'll listen to their voicemail message just before going on the call....try and imagine what they look like etc. Its definitely a thrill....i feel very secret-agent-ish....as I said once before: like I'm on a secret mission of lust and I'm about to meet my victim...and i wont know who he is until i open the door. very exciting :-)

Seymour is absolutely correct. there have been two times where I showed up at a call and I ID'd my client. (!!) you have to be safe no matter what situation you feel you've fallen into and its not like us SPs need to send photo-copies of our ID to be members here or on cl (even if that was the case, it could easily be forged). Go with your gut, gents. ask for ID and get her to cover her name on the card when she shows it. be safe! *hugs*

generally speaking, Jazzy. if your dont receive a confirmation reply its best to not assume the date is on. same goes for us, if we dont get a confirmation with an address and info etc after an initial inquiry, we will "pencil' the date in but if something else comes up with a sure-fire confirmation, we will take it instead of the "maybe" (also named "so I'll call you close to the apointment time?)-client in the case of incall, if the communication has reached the point where you have established the location, then your date has therefore been confirmed. No professional ladies will ever disclose this info and then forget that you had booked that time-frame...and if there is a problem, that is why we ask for a phone number (cell) to reach you on in case there is a general emergency or an emergency that could endanger our or your discretion. as workers, we have to be sure of how serious our clients are of booking. a client that gives all info requested upon request the night before booking is definitely a serious customer...and there is no excuse to be a no-show. The same should be applied to the clients seeking ladies, if you do not receive a reply or a confirmation that the date is on after you text her asking for a specific date/time, make other plans and dont wait up for someone who hasn't offered you the respect to confirm your date. Personally, even if I am away from my computer/have my phone off and I receive requests a day later, I always text or email back appologizing for missing their message so that they know I was not ignoring them and just had the night off or was not at my desk.

I'd be interested to see the result here too. personally in my everyday life I'm a comando girl....however I've aquired many nice lacy underthings while starting to care about matchings sets that i wear when escorting. I will say however that in the summer I like to give the surprise of wearing a sundress minus panties to a customer. I havent had any complains, lol.

armani- Aqua di Gio. funny thing is I liked this scent so much that i started wearing it myself. worked well for men who were at an incall and didnt want to go home to their wives smelling like mango and lavender, lol I will say however that any scent should be used sparingly! and gents....never spray a round of cologne below the belt. spray some on your thumb and suck it and see how it tastes....not so great! proper showering will do wonders....no need to over-compensate :-)

if you go to Collection, order a "multiple orgasm" martini. its even funnier if you order another after. "waiter...can I have another multiple orgasm?" hehe

gotcha. regardless, it still seems a little light, hopefully his next charges dont make it sound like hes being grounded

I have to say I feel the same way. whether it was HIV or Herpes, both are with you for life and can have very negative effects on your mental state, how you conduct yourself sexually and your physical health. I doubt any of these six women are breathing any sigh of relief that he "only gave them herpes...phewf! at least its not HIV" an STD is an STD I had a call with a client who grilled me about getting sexually tested. I assured him of my testing schedule and even still he kinda scoffed and said "well I'm sure that some girls know they have something and just work anyway coz they're low on cash right?" whaaaat???? it boils down to morals, and what he did was morally wrong...if he was aware of his condition and didnt tell his partners he really does deserve to be sued.....that cant be compared to giving someone a cold-sore by accident. and did I read that wrong or did he only get charged with $3,000 and having his online priviledges taken away? what a slap on the wrist

I really liked Sasha Grey in that movie. Cindy should be forwarned that The Girlfriend experience is a documentary form movie....just coz its not really as hollywood drama as Leaving Las Vegas...yanno also The Girlfriend Experienceis not to be confused with the movie "Gifrlfriend Experience" the documentary like movie from a client's perspective. Another good flic too, however I think they give ppl the idea that the client is a sex-obsessed man doomed for being arrested

I'd be rehashing what everyone has said in this thread if i said its unfair to swear off all dancers or SPs as scammers.....dont let one or two bad apples make you toss out the crate. in the same sense, I've been scammed and ripped off by a couple clients in my time...if I let myself believe that every next client was out to do the same to me I wouldnt still be in this business. you have to treat everyone differently as a new and individual person, and let your past experiences become a learning experience.....not fuel for any assumptions.

is this a thread about best kisser or best at making you reach a climax? I sure all ladies including myself mentioned by Kubrickfan could easily acheive both.....but lets not get ahead of ourselves and stay on topic ;-)

Happy Bee-daaay Cato!!! :boobies:

I've been known to experience once or twice the feeling of olympic toe- curling hehe ;-)

*shrug* we're allowed to choose who we see and dont.....nothing to get excited about slurp ;-)

i was not at milestones and I do not nor will not see the member Dummpy anymore. just to clarify ;-)

do you have an skills on the side that you could say you are freelancing in? for example, I went to school for graphic design and I also do artwork on commission. I explain how I make my money as I'm meeting with clients and woking from home on projects with them. thats what I say to my parents and that I plugg out more art that I'm actually doing to account for the cash I bring in. I say I work on a cash basis yadda yadda yadda... do you have anything where you could say you were self employed in? massage therapy could work but you may need to read up on it f you dont know the scientifics of it and the other person just so happens to have more knowledge about it...you never know! :-)

lol. nice. i advertise on CL very rarely and mostly during slow seasons. I have actually met some really great clients from there. but I do agree that some...well, MANY bad apples make it a bad place for us....many girls will also say that only sleazes look on CL for girls tho, yes I have encountered some time wasters, but I have also found many great honest clients and couples there (or rather, THEY found ME there, lol)...its a strange double standard (or whatever the proper word for it is) ...... as with any situation, there will always be a better solution to finding the answer you're looking for....it shouldnt mean however that exceptions can't be found in the place least expected...be it client or SP :-)

I used to be in sales at one point...what this SP is doing is what a dirty salesman would do....cold-call at the most inappropriate time possible. not only should she have not cold-called in the first place at a time when you would obviously be home with family, but I've said it time and time again that cold calling previous clients for business is much like "bulldozing intimacy" sending an email that you will be working for said week or in town or hosting incalls is ok...but calling a client and asking them to schedule an appointment???? huge faux pas and if I was the client in question I would definitley see the move as more than tacky. I only save regulars numbers if they say its ok or I send them under a number or a letter that only I will recognize....not their full name. that being said however I dont send them anything on the phone...especially if they aren't single...even if they are, they may have started dating someone, you never know! email is the way to go