Annessa

count me in :-)

*blush* *blush* *blush* hehe sadly I dont think I'm short and spinner-slim tho at 5'8" and 140lbs ;-)

wow great list! I think you pretty much covered it all! lol

I'm a PC lover to the tee!...but the iPod touch is just so nifty, lol.......still obviously its synched to my PC. i dont care how pretty those macs are...nuthins gonna make me junk my years of program set-up for a couple grand, ;-)

I'm sure no one is going to question your (well-sourced) knowledge about the different graduated penalties that breathalyzer digits or number of repeat infractions etc due to being caught or causing death in a situation...I do hope that despite the graduated penalties everyone realizes this holiday season that driving drunk is just wrong.....no matter what the outcome or penalty. slap on the wrist losing your license paying a large fine taking someone's life taking your own life some pretty heavy penalties to deal with in the later if you ask me. Someone can easily make a very poor judgment-call breathing over 0.05 as someone who blows over 0.08.....i dont think any driver driving under the influence should be treated any differently. Hopefully this changes

ahhh, t'was unclear :-).......maybe the same as some men ask "how many roses should I bring"? hehe

I would definitely recommend putting in the effort to do some research ("pre-screen"). not everyone has the budget to book two girls at the same time for a lengthly session...plus you dont want to put any unnecessary pressure on the client for having to pick between two girls and send one home. let him relax and enjoy his session with one girl that he has done the proper amount of research on...after all, narrowing it down to one who fits his needs shouldnt be too tough given the cornocopia of input on the ladies here. if however, he cant choose between multiple ladies (after screening his likes and dislikes) then take the plunge for a duo. generally speaking tho, an awesome SP will make every minute of your time together special, be it one, two or four hours. Probably best to try out those SPs separately (as not all SPs function well as duos) on a shorter time basis first and finding your true gem tho, before embarking on a longer booking (as mentioned before) :-)

I sometimes feel a little weird answering PMs "hello there!".... yet while I havent used a terms of endearment while doing so, I do think that the client approaching an SP could easily avoid eventually being offended by such words (or attempts at what to address someone as, not necessarily a false illusion of familiarity) by signing a name (not their CERB handle and not a single letter like "C." etc) to their PMs. if you dont give us anything to work with, how can we address anyone as they should be addressed?

Erin is worth her valued posts' weight in gold....I always love reading her comments seeping with honest knowledge.....giddy-up! xoxoxo

I'm pretty sure you were joking here tho right T'Storm? just wanted to clarify. gifts are not a key to the golden door......a good attitude will win a lady over more than any gift on a first encounter.....just wanted to be sure that was a jest, lol :-)

a gift isn't necessary, just as peachy perfectly put it (say that five times fast!) once you get to know your SP perhaps something will come to mind to bring her. aside from what Peachy said about going twice...if you tell your SP to "be gentle' with you you could possibly have the most wonderful prolonged hour and a wonderful release at the end...complete with some naked-time pillow-talk after. Ease into the session slowly if you're concearned about bursting your bubble early...no need to get "right down to business" if you are worried about not being able to go a second time (physically I mean, not due to the SP). Wishing you some happy hunting and good luck on your first session! let us all know how it goes :-)

hehe congrats Sixernine, I know the feling, I had one of the old ipods and had it stolen out of my car....so I went back to my good ol panasonic Shockwave Discman. After my ipod got swiped I was using the discman for about two years! The battery cover was gone on it so I'd often have to open the whole thing up, take the disc out and pop the batteries back in their slot I just got the ipod touch and I've never been happier...loaded all my CDs on it, and gave the "oh so cool Discman" to my eight year old, lol :-) yaaay

its actually a pic from the summer...but my hair doesnt really sway too far from that, lol....thanks for the compliment! :-)

agreed many ladies (including myself) have been known to give regulars discounts. I just wouldn't expect it on a first encounter :-)

this is a little late so I had to go and read the thread over. quite simply if you're still questioning (in somewhat disbelief) the difference between physical attraction and overall attraction, then as YS pointed out, you're still not getting it, or aren't appreciating the answers that people are all trying to help you understand....or dont want to. just sayin how your answers could be perceived. thats all

not unique in your request at all. I have many clients who are fans of a hj finish...a couple of them used to frequent MPs before for example. As Angela said tho, many of us charge for our time, not the action, and those clients I see are still willing to pay the amount for the full hour. depending on the lady you're addressing in first contact sometimes stating that you are looking for just caressing, kissing and hj might hint that you are looking to pay less .....if you're alright with paying the full amount for the time you spend with her, but just mention that to avoid any awkwardness should things move further, you would like to avoid fs as a finish. who know, your lady may have a special rate for that. But Even if she doesn't you have brought your request up politely and all your cards are on the table :-)

lol...only in the good way...not in the bad way ;-)

whoa! are you serious? Just another reason to add to the fact that the SUN can be a really garbage news-source that doesnt really think twice about the consequences of publishing what they think is a juicy attention grabbing story in search of their own journalistic recognition. I'm not sure how much info and facts that the writer mentioned are already available out there but bringing up workers real-life names and drawing attention to a place that is supposed to be rather private is a real faux pas for this writer. If the writer has also made false claims as "facts" to support their story here I would recommend having this article pulled asap (not that you probably havent thought of it already) unless they want their asses sued

there is no right or wrong, we're all here to offer our opinions or angles AND to learn from each other....not force feed "what we think is right" to anyone, coz thats not cool. we can all say "I understand....BUT" (*insert opinion given our side of things while not putting anyone's actions or opinions down*) as long as we all understand where everyone is coming from and why they're offering their input, then its all good :-) If we had to agree with everyone everyday about everything, you know what would happen? we'd go MAD! lol.....however politely voicing that we see where an individual is coming from ...while voicing your take on things (or maybe even just suggesting a devils advocate view, lol) turns a conversation into an exchange of ideas.......not a debate that being said, I'm here to learn too......its all about the exchange.... That and i really sucked at debate in Highschool coz i generally was seen as agreeing with the other team even if I had an opposite opinion but was just acknowledging their views lol :-)

i was only kidding darlin! however our times have been always most memorable.......priceless is the best compliment i have received all day, hehe (recession-friendly was a term I was considering for low end hehe.....I jest tho! I know you didn't mean it in that way anyway) grabs Kleenex box to finish sniffling.......and then the lotion to use the kleenex for happier things ;-) ) xoxo

oh my...I dont think you did get my point unfortunately. sorry if you took it personally and felt the need to point out the details of my abbreviation rather than see what I was saying. I thought I clarified my post I never said that a one time experience was the norm,.....I'm a bit lost here....? there is no fine line between sharing your experience and encouraging good behavior....if anything what I suggested thus far was sharing my experience from an SPs side and encouraging good behavior but not suggesting that good behavior entitled anyone to special treatment (just in case any new member were only showing good behavior to gainthe benefits you said you received because of that). I'm not downplaying your statement (as I said before) but realize that there is a lot more to hourly first-contacts and proper conduct that will bring the guys a bonus. this is a compliment to you BTW (oops, sorry....I mean By The Way), basically I'm aying that you have something special with your SP and its awesome you have been given that deal.....but I'm going to assume that you attained that through more than just booking her for an overnight or for a lengthly first visit. right? I'm really thinking you may have misinterpreted my post....Anyone who has seen me or knows me knows that I value my repeat clients. Why are you jumping to the conclusion that i am downplaying that? I'm sorry if you're offended SEXNONSTOP (note: written in full, not trying to be snarky, but I dont want you to think that I'm half-assing this reply, k?) BUT I was just trying to say (politely, I'll add) that if you have been given discounts to not say so as thats a private arrangement. and that, yes agreed (notice how before I said agreed and noted?) that good behavior could eventually lead to some benefits long-term.....However, I just wanted to voice for the newer gents here that it should NOT be expected and that if your lady gives you the credit of a deal, appreciate it as a vow of comfort and confidence and keep it private. I'm speaking from an SP's point of view here, and not voicing my opinion to hear myself talk (or type) or put you down......this is a network, and regardless of no names mentioned, members generally talk or one person knows who sees a certain SP on a regular basis (if not a one-time encounter, some members tend to figure it out), it may not take long for an individual to realize that hes not getting the deal you're getting.....this can bruise anyone's ego or ruin business for the lady in question. This is usually the reason some of us cut our losses and go back to square one with gents we have given that privilege to. very sorry SEXNONSTOP if you misinterpreted my posts or thought I was trying to deface your input. I appreciate your input (unless the next post from you is a stab at my abbreviations followed by winky-emoticons) and I always hear everyone's posts out, however realize that I am not disagreeing (not encouraging an opposite argument than the OP!) but just hinting that certain aspects should be not highlighted as whats to be expected.....some gents may feel lesser if they dont get that kind of treatment dispite all their efforts....and who knows, that SP may not even offer discounts to ANYone, yanno? hopefully this clears things up again?

would have been nice to make this meeting but sadly duty called and given some recent bumping of heads (in the non sexual way) it was probably for the best. hope everyone had a blast. looking forward to the next one :-)

agreed buggernot, although I will admit that i consider myself somewhat "high end". so I wiped some tears after your post....*sad face* :-( (I jest, lol... ;-))

totally understandable SNS, HOWEVER, I'm just putting it out there that anything your SP is willing to grant you between the two of you should remain private. note that while no monetary value was mentioned in your post, its not a good idea to suggest that good behavior or a high-valued first visit may eventually bring a client a deal. (not saying that was your intention in your posts but it may be interpreted as that to some who are less experienced than you. your posts are valued on here and I'm not disagreeing with your opinion, just making sure no one misinterprets it) true, agreements might happen on the rare occasion, but that is up to the SP's and client's personal relationship. As an SP, when I feel that if a client that I have made exceptions for is referencing an agreement (be it general or specific to a value or any girl they have seen) as a status statement or is potentially voicing that good behaviour brings about discounts, I tend to politely retract the agreement, point out that I have offered them a deal, but I have to be fair to everyone.....generally I never hear back from them after that (not sure whether its a pride issue or the fact that they didnt want to go back to paying what everyone else is paying) All I was saying before is that suggesting that proper investment may or will eventually bring about SPs who give you deals, based on your experience, is not a good motivation to promote good behavior or time/$$ investment. when all is said and done, stellar behavior will leave your lady with a general sense of mutual respect....and the excitement to see you again for a repeat booking. Anything else a client is allotted should be a bonus....not to be one of the results of proper etiquette. proper etiquette results in an SP accepting a repeat booking from you. I'm not saying that a client will never get more, all I'm saying is if you're one of the clients that does, know that SPs usually consider that a somewhat private contract based on a relationship of trust and comfort. Both Trust and comfort tend to fade when a client mentions a deal he has received...even if he doesn't openly name the SP or the percentage he was discounted. (once again, not saying that you initially meant that SNS, just putting it out there that agrements should be kept in private and not encouraged as expectations or results with every lady. Think about the guys who are doing everything right but eventuall may get bitter because they never get a deal dispite thir greatest efforts.......thats the only thing I'm trying to difuse here)

initial calls should definitely be at least 1.5 -2 hours long....unless you want to get down and dirty (after talking about the weather for 5 mins) asap...if your lady is ok with that, then thats cool....we're not here to judge That being said, a certain member on here (who has taken a step back as mod pointed out) once said in a thread that he usually books 30 mins on an appointment with a new girl to "see if there is any chemistry". He also was a fan of posting $40 CL BJ ads....nuff said What SPs and members alike that have brought this up with me wonder: how much chemistry can ANYONE judge by a first-meeting 30 min session???? My opinion: (and no, not because I want or need longer bookings [i have a 1-hour min])A more lengthy introductory session spells out that you're willing to give actual "chemistry" a chance....and are not just looking for your physical release or judging a girl's robotic sexual capabilities. For many wonderful quality men on this board, it matters to them that they connect properly with a lady before getting intimate. It makes things easier for the SP as well....and may even make your appointment one for the books if she is putty in your hands! If you have done all your research as a hobbiest about a girl, realize that your first time with that lady could potentially be an (amazing) investment. First impressions may sometimes be misleading, but sometimes they are your best friend if you are there for the same reasons as your SP is accepting On that note, stellar behaviour is almost always rewarded. (if not, as some keep it simple, dont sweat it guys) sexnonstop mentioned being with ladies who 'cut him a break".......thats awesome, SNS, but remember the Canadian famous saying here on CERB: YMMV (your milage may vary). I have a couple regulars that i cut breaks to every now and then when its an over-night scenario or an out of town trip or someone that I have enough info on to trust after a long time (not deciding factors for entitlement....but just personal reasons for taking into account the relationship and trust)...generally I have seen them on MANY accounts tho Generally speaking, as SPs we always put our fixed prices first (we have to treat everyone equally at first, its only fair). If certain ladies you see "cut you a deal", SNS, know that its in her best interest that you keep that to yourself. I'm not saying you're flaunting by any means....but respect the pressure that the ladies have to deal with when members think they know who was giving a deal to 'sexnonstop' and ask a girl why they dont receive the same treatment. A proper attitude will always attract a repeat appointment especially if accompanied by a smile and an initial investment in an initial first-meeting. If, after a proper first, second, third (etc etc) meeting you are granted special treatment ( discount) due to an obvious amazing chemistry, that agreement should remain between the two of you and not the public. example; I had a great (no awesome!) friendship with a client, I absolutely loved spending time with him. I went to see him in Kingston and only charged him for 1 overnight even tho I was there for 2.........I later got an email from his self-proclaimed "best friend" in Etobicoke (GTA) asking for the same deal because he'd show me an even better time and take me to a concert in Toronto the night of. I had never met him. As much as it broke my heart to burn my bridge with the initial client, He had broken my trust and bragged about the deal I gave him and gave his friend my contact. If you have been given a dollar-relieving acceptance given a worker's firm restrictions...be them donations or actions etc...appreciate that you have been given a very special and private gift. spilling that agreement in public is a bit of a breech of that entitlement, even if you dont name the worker.......people these days make too many assumptions. its always a good idea to avoid situations like that before you have to clarify yourself yanno?