Annessa

I'm only going to add a short two cents to this thread, I'm not taking part in the poll because I think its encouraging another statistic of "oh look, x amount of girls are offerring x service" and "only x are offering this" so the lower amount of girls who arent offering x service should catch up to those that are. potatoe, potatah-toe....lets live and let live. if you want a specific service, ask for it like a gentleman, if the lady doesnt offer it (and if thats a real deal breaker for you...tisk) then dont see her but getting us all to make a new statistic based on a poll about what the new Cerb.ca supposed "norm" is? Depending on the outcome, its not helping anyone (psst!..mainly us!) and...well....bah I'm not even gonna finish that cuz i think you know where I'm going with this....

now dont you get any ideas for me now Old Dog!! --snicker--

in reaction to the original post where any girl with a camera and lingerie and an internet connection thinks she can be an SP, I also hear a lot of girls say things like "hmmm I could do that, I love sex" to me thats sorta like saying "I like pizza, i think I have what it takes to open a Pizzeria" just beacuse you are comfortable serving or consuming what you're selling doesnt mean you have the slightest clue on what it takes to run that business, advertise that business, and help it flourish. And I like to remind clients that the "sex part" is only about 10% of what our job entails. you could be great in bed, but have terrible business skills, poor people skills and an unwillingness to learn from your or others' mistakes that in the end could ruin your business.

count me in too! :)

speaking as someone who had a shaved head under a wig for ten years and used to pass it off as 'extensions" i will say that hair (whether big or sleek or sprayed or dyed etc)...is all up to the eye of the beholder...but also more importantly a mere accessory to the lady that dons it. how many times have you seen a woman from behind whos hair was gorgeous, long and wavy....then she turned around and was butt ugly and then said to yourself "gah!" its not the hair...but the lady underneath or the face to sport that crazy style that makes it work. I will say that as a model i got waaay more work with a shaved head because I had the face that supported it. I loved it. many clients have scowled at the fact that since growing my hair back I've decided to put a red and blonde streak in the front of my hair and rock a bit of a pompadour aside from my pony-tail...they say "i wish you wouldn't do that to your hair (and motion to the colour and hair-spray) and these were regulars of mine I'd had for over a year!.."it was so much nicer and classy when it was natural" and all I can think without saying is "oh you're right...because i was totally thinking of YOUR opinion when I decided to express my inner style" {note the sarcasm}...I'm still the same classy gal...a red and bleached blonde streak and some hairspray isnt going to change that :) Some ladies work very hard to make themselves look nice for their work. but if a hairstyle turns ppl off so much that they cannot see the woman behind it (whether bald or done up), I dunno....perhaps this is just a skin-deep (or hair-deep) hobby to them.

there are three really great shows coming up I thought I'd share. the first is on Valentine's day at Babylon heroes and Villains featuring Bourbon & Spice burlesque and many other numbers: http://www.facebook.com/events/495998363777031/ the next one and my personal favorite is the Sin sisters Va-va-voom post Valentine's day show at Rainbow...this one promises three full sets of acts all night of Burlesque so come get the most bang for your buck (not literally though) on Saturday: http://www.facebook.com/events/60107...ref=ts&fref=ts the next one is on Sunday and this is actually a burlesque and BRUNCH show from noon-3pm...brunch buffet will be served upstairs at maxwells lounge on Elgin. perfect for those who cant make the later shows: http://www.facebook.com/events/47614...ref=ts&fref=ts

how exactly do you find the booths "not very private?" theres a wall from floor to ceiling in-between each stall and a curtain in front of the hallway that connects the pool-room etc. everyone thinks you can see in from the pool-room but you'd pretty much have to be right against the curtain peeking inbetween if you wanted to see anything from the lit area. ?

whos going to spank me for my birthday? hehehehe..think I can get at least 31?

I'm actually getting really excited too! I'll even be able to come out much earlier this time rather than my usual after 9pm drop in so I'll be able to catch some of the people I've missed in the past! --does happy-dance-- :)

for the couple of members that are new to this and whos eyes are opened by what is legal or not, here is a great link to familiar yourself with...which might even change soon if they lift the ban on incalls. Canada is pretty much the opposite of the states....outcalls legal yet incalls or brothels illegal in canada...I've had to lecture friends of mine many a time and reference this link when they thought they were running around being friends with a "criminal" (ie. me) according to US television standards http://laws-lois.justice.gc.ca/eng/acts/C-46/section-212.html

nothing shameful the Silver Dollar. I dance there at least once a week. Its under new management and he seems to be keeping the place and the girls in check. as for the layout its probably still the same ol dark small club that it used to be (not sure when you were late there so i can't really judge) but some new gems still do dance there as well as some of the regular girls who are peaches...i only work during the day so it hard for me to comment about nights and weekends though. I do know however that its harder to find lots of girls on evenings or weekends at that club as business is rather slow there it seems on the weekends. perhaps be a little more specific as to who youre looking for as still dancing there and maybe some of us can help

i agree with Winnipeg cub on this one..........and will add that I love making out and consider it the "whistle wetter" in more than one way....if you know what I mean ;)

I'll be there! and its two days before my birthday! ;)

this year I've set my quit-smoking date to January 2nd..i figure quitting smoking in the winter will be easier than my summer attempts. I'm also going to try and make more time for my friends that I dont see as often. when you focus too much on work and slowly see your circle of friends closing in smaller and smaller to those you only bump into when out its time to go out of one's way to actually follow though on those "we should hang out sometime" promises :)

i literally did an out-loud giggle-snort to one, lol

two more sleeps till the Sin Sisters X-mas burlesque show at Zaphods! Friday doors open at 8pm and the show goes from 9-11pm. This is probably gonna be one of the best local X-mas burlesque shows ever..with variety acts, Vaudeville and of course some very sexy Burlesque! tickets are 10$ at the door.

I too am baffled as (as mentioned before) the guardian is pretty reputable for info.....hmmm....

aw thanks everyone....for those that know me, you know I've been a little more scarce on the board these days post-wise so it might take me a little while to get to the next 2000, haha....either way its nice to know theres some people paying attention, lol ;)

ouh yes! thats right up there with drivers who you let in to the lane before you and dont give "the wave" ...i always sarcastically say "you're welcome!". sometimes being separated by glass is a good thing, lol

i discovered that I'm a bit OCD when it comes to my windshield being clear...much so that when I'm driving as a passenger with someone else and they let it rain to the point of so many dropplets being on their windshield I actually kinda get nervous and kindly poke at them saying "umm...ya gonna use your wipers?" i know..I'm weird, lol (and its not my biggest pet peeve..but its one of em) oh...and people who stand on escalators blocking those walking ...its not a ride!

1. a spontaneous first kiss from a new lover (you know, that moment just after you could cut the sexual tension with a knife?) 2. eyes that smile (know what i mean?) 3. a man in a fitted suit 4. a man who out of that fitted suit is adorned with some tasteful tattoos (--swoon--) 5. too much pino grigio wine ;-)

ugh....its annoying enough that some guys think we think of them for their wallets....its even more hurtful to think that some guys will just define a lady by "money well spent" or not....and not as a person. Sorry your customer didnt get the hint...No means no. no matter what dollar-sign is attached. :(

unless we take a southern vacation! (which i plan to try and do this winter)...hmmm..tan lines or none? --ponders-- ;)

hehe...yes a good point Cat! i think i mentioned once in another thread that on of the things that makes us uncomfy is if (instead of slipping into the room silently) saying in a loud, attention-attracting voice hi..."I'm kinda new to this but I`m so relieved you look like your pictures!" ;)

its all semantics really.... re: the original post....I like to dress business casual or like i would on a dressy evening out with friends. as said before there are sexy types of jeans, which when paired with the right high leather boot or high heel and pretty top can look just as flattering. I'm also a fan of wearing nice tight dress-pants in the winter and a blazer overtop of a sexy cleavage top....of course with a nice warm winter-jacket overtop. when i worked in Toronto and my driver would drive me around he would point out the girls who worked for such and such agency who were arriving at hotels looking like they were dressed for prom...it totally drew attention and I'd say "really?" I personally don't like getting requests for short skirts in the winter-time....unless the customer is okay with me bringing a skirt to change into if its that important ...but then again i find that clothing changes take up valuable time that a customer could spend undressing me in the first place ;)