Annessa

although I'm very flattered, thats just my little belly stretched. its actually quite soft and cushy....but I'm sure there are ab muscles under there somewhere, hehe

after the initial "my prices are firm" I have received objections from new clients saying things such as: "but $100 is all I have!!" (if u only have $100 to you name, should u be hiring an escort?.....hm) "seriously.....do you want to make money or not?" (to which i answer "I already do, thank you" *click*) I totally agree with Cat, that after a polite no....if the envelope is pushed, prepare to get the not so nice side of us....or be told why we dont bend our rules (for the more patient girls out there)...or just plain be hung up on. if we were a kiosk in Bali, you could barter....but even those kiosks selling cheap souvenirs start at high prices...only difference is we dont raise our prices because we're taking clients for a tourist fool.....those are just our prices. and just because you walk away does not mean we are going to call after you to come back with a lower price. ;) (sorry....travelers metaphor. lol)

Buggernot that post was gold, made me giggle. seriously tho I cant remember who said it but a few months ago some SP or Member said it best when they said something to the like of "you wouldnt go into a 5 star restaurant, order the best meal and then groan to the waiter that you were so hungry or that you ate like this all the time so you were entitled to a mcdonalds pricing" you wouldnt walk into Holt Renfrew bring the 7K Prada suit to the cash and say "how about I throw you $50 and a coffee? coz damn...I'd look good in this suit eh? dont you agree?" you'd get booted from the store, lol set prices are set prices :)

here here! young, good looking, well endowed.....we treat all our clients the same...but more-so we treat all clients who aren't out for a deal right away the same. dont worry hunny, I think all us SPs can relate to the frustration of new clients asking for a deal.....its been known to frustrate me to the point of clicking the cellphone shut when the proposition even arises...hoping it will teach a lesson, ugh. dont catch me on a bad day, gents! it makes me feel like a meanie after! lol I think I mentioned it before but I had one client who I hadn't seen yet hint at a discount because he just got married and he really broke the bank with it. I'm sorry but I had to chuckle at the irony.

awww...its funny tho, I always find it a cute gesture when a client brings me food....what can I say? Im a lady whos ruled by her stomach, hehe plus if he had supersized it you never know....he may have been overcompensating for other things that werent supersized...hehe...just kidding!

yeeeeehaw! new site looks awesome. (cowboy-)Hats off to you, my friend! :)

funny, I was just talking about this with one of my regulars. I once had an outcall to a hotel-room that I had hosted incalls from the week before...it was the exact same room on the exact same floor at the Marriott....I did a double take when I entered the room, lol

different interpretation on "your milage may vary" is like saying "different results in a [results may vary]-test. there should be no interpretation on who does what or who will get what depending on who they see...bottom line is, its who you ARE, seeking interpretation on a saying on cerb that basically says you can't interpret it (just accept that you may get certain services based on yourself) is kinda like seeking deeper meaning where you're not brave enough to travel dont over-analyze YMMV. Explore and be brave enough to discover your milage for yourself, rather than try to interpret something that basically says "you may interpret it differently" trust me, you will go in circles. xo

I've received perfume, flowers, chocolate etc perfume is very hit and miss and should probably not be given to an SP unless you have an idea that she wears something similar, otherwise she may end up with a perfume that really isn't her style. I've been lucky that in all three cases its been something that I liked and one client even went through the trouble of finding out what perfume I wore and buying me a big bottle of it...which was really nice because it wasn't a cheap brand and I was almost out of my bottle. chocolates are fun but not everyone has a huge sweet-tooth. I dont and only really like dark chocolate in small amounts, probably one of the reasons I never really eat dessert, lol One couple I went to see always sent me home with their home-made bakings, spanikopita and cheese pastries and oranges even! I Thought the gesture was really cute...like they were packing me a lunch everytime I left that would last me a few days and was delicious and home-made :) Lastly I saw one client recently who sealed the donation in a card with a letter in it that was riddled with compliments...very simple but a truly wonderful addition to our date. I thought the notion was so sweet because it was straight from the heart, and thats something no material item can replace

I have attended with one of my best guy friends to Barbarellas. Every time we go together we see Sierra, very beautiful open gal and a total sweetheart

I had an outcall once with a client in his late 40s. he was very new to the hobby and insisted on using his own brand of condoms which he supplied. he had some trouble putting on the condom at one point and after a rather mundane session of FS where he didn't even finish he pulled out only to realize the condom was ripped. His reaction will always be burned in my head. he started freaking out and hugging a pillow on the bed. rocking back and forth and begging me to promise him I was clean....while swearing to himself saying "shit! shit! what were you thinking, you idiot!!" I told him my ritual of often testing and if he wanted to feel sure about my claims, he was a few blocks away from the clinic and to go in the morning. This was the guys who said "I'll never go to one of those places again! do you know how it feels when they put that swab up your...your....member??" I said "fine then go to your trusted family doctor". he said " HELL NO!! He'll tell my wife!!" he was almost crying at this point I got dressed and took my money and left him rocking like a child in his hotel room....I tried to comfort him, but in the end I realized I'm nobody's therapist. I had never been so insulted in my life. I'm an SP so therefore I'm a STi-carrying threat?? In the end, every client is responsible for their own health. I got myself tested the next day. I doubt he did. He tried to call me afterwards ( about a week later) and it took a lot out of me not to answer the phone.

its funny tho....on the flipside I've had a coupke clients I've seen get overly vocal and complimentary towards me....when my spidey sense knew it was feigned. reason being I'm not a spinner by any means, have a nice amount of meat on my bum, but they would go out of their way to state "oh yeah! look at that tight little ass!" and then would come the comments about my "glorious rack"...I'm sorry, I'm a 36/A, 34/B.....often I had wondered if they had memorized too many porn movies and that it was what they thought they were supposed to say....or that because of some kinda stereotype of workers in general that we needed to have our egos fed? needless to say these clients never called again, but I didnt loose any sleep over it, however being on *that* side of the fence it puts better into perspective that you dont need to find something to say just because. on cerb we say "say something nice or dome say anything at all" in a session its of the utmost importance (both ways) to say something nice but only if you can stand behind it truthfully.

wish I could make it. I have a client taking me to see KISS that day in Montreal. have one for me, folks :)

ugh, the idea that all SPs are actresses kinda irks me. I really do enjoy what I do and only give out compliments where they are deserved. I would never want to be accused of bullshitting a client or being fake. we are here to make you fellas feel wonderful....but blowing smoke up anyones rear is simply a waste of their (and our) time.

oh I thought we were sharing karaoke vids! lol.... man....me= geek, waaaaay more now, lol

karaoke yaaaaay. this is me, no face, just black coz I put the cam behind my purse on the stage (me=geek, lol)

this is too funny...I had the same drama when my kid recently agot his hair cut and was itching his newly buzzed "do" at school.....one of the teachers mentioned head lice and I quickly got him checked with the school nurse...nothing but I explained he just had a haircut.....then one of the parents reamed me out one day while picking him up saying there was a rumour my kid had lice between the children and the woman pointed a finger at me and my son....who was just itchy! lol This was right around the time I got my "call" from an infected client (despite me being negative)...there are many who will finger-point and try to imagine where it came from instead of going through the motions regularily and not only when symptoms arise even then I kinda laughed, they're KIDS! and turns out this other kid didnt even HAVE head lice but was just allergic to a new shampoo! lol sorry had to share my story as this is exactly what I thought about when that mother accused my son of giving her daughter head-lice. so many people are so quick to jump to conclusions, what they should be doing is protecting themselves and their loved ones by doing proper checks...whether it be for head-lice...or STDs, we are all responsible for our own bodies (in the case of the 8-year-old, the parents are, but you know what I mean)

wow wow wow even tho you say that is your last comment SA (as you do many times) I predict further commentary after this post. Once again you are dismissing the opinions of those who are actually partaking in said acts instead of perhaps realizing that you could learn from those experiences as opposed to your own secont hand knowledge....its ok, just a bit of a pattern....remember, its called open discussion for a reason?: lets first off dismiss the fables of what group sex entails.... Q. domination? or being told what to do or ordered what to do by all participating males??? A. absolutely not! every female participant lays out her restrictions, services and ground rules prior...those who aren't looking for those services go elsewhere. And every male participating waits for the lady to take the lead in the actions....no one orders anyone around like a football coach or they'd not be invited to the next event Q. Group sex entails greek? A. Not if the girl doesn't offer it normally, there are many ways to please men, not simply by penetration in "various holes" Q. The lady must have fantasies of this or only be turned on by these acts to engage in them and not be a classy lady (someone mentioned the word "slut" before?) if so... A. some ladies engage because they are simply curious about a controlled event like this....maybe in the end they decide its not for them. But my dad said once "try everything once...maybe twice if you think you like it and it doesnt kill you, but it shouldnt define you if you were simply inriqued" ...-- now...all this stuff about being under the influence. I know what you're referring to and who you're sticking up for and I dont think that the influence of being under psychological meds for other reasons besides what you think to be her helpless vice to dealing with sex-work (if she didnt want to do it, she wouldnt) is making her any less able to make their own decisions....also I dont think she'd like you to put that out there so best to leave that alone.....drugs, alcohol and being taken advantage of are far from what this group is about. No one is forced to do anytyhing under the influence in that group. All that being said, I am proud saying that I've been to a couple events now, have been fully in control, Have been overly respected in terms of my limitations, have had laughs and chats with everyone participating prior and after as like any other call I've been on...I dont travel to the greek islands, love myself at the end of the day with a huge smile on my face. At The end of the day I can also firmly post my schedule and include the word "CLASSY" without haste. I will also add, I do very well for myself as a low-volume SP, this is my only source of income yet I am extremely well off even if I dont accept group sex events....and I have a child to provide for too, SA, but it doesnt mean that any client should pity or judge me more than my degree-carrying, self-sufficient self should deserve. To assume that we only do what we do for the money is putting us all in the "victim" category....something that many members here know that I dont stand for. "Shes a student, shes a young mother, ...those men must be taking advantage of her and her financial troubles!".........common now have a little more respect for the ladies. When someone tried to tell me that I dont know what I'm getting into or that I'm being brainwashed into something, it makes me loose total respect for them. In the end, your lady of choice will thank you for respecting her decisions and respecting that she is a big girl, capable of making her own choices in life Those who want to turn my smile or other's into a frown or shame can take a hike :)

brush and floss but do not floss right before our date, as this may cause bleeding gums which translate to open receptors etc..not very safe. kissing for me is HUGE. I love to kiss and have received great recos on my abilities...so for me, if I'm not able to use this skill during foreplay I feel like my client is missing out on the full experience. Kissing during foreplay also is a big turn on for me and helps me warm up for the rest of the session's actions. Not everyone can jump right into it all the time

despite being female but a frequenter of a couple strip bars on occasion, I'm interested to hear what this means as well. I remember going to hull when I was 18 with some older gents and from what I heard you were not allowed to touch the girls AT ALL...like you could get a slap in the face for it yanno? or a gal could get fired etc. This year I've received dances with my best guy friend and felt like the biggest noob when the milage was venturing into everything but the bare grabbing of genitalia or sex itself. I would wonder....are we going to get kicked out? are we going to get this girl fired?? perhaps some dancers on the board could shed some light?

flying cars, lol....sigh having documentation of a good checkup is no sure fire way to prove you're clean. As YS said it unfortunately all comes down to trust....and taking precautions. I have had clients come to me asking if they can receive bareback service if I show them their papers proving that they're clean. It never flies and I sometimes feel like shaking these individuals and telling them that they are taking huge risks and putting others at risk by being so misinformed. That and how do I know what activities they've engaged in since getting tested?

i completely agree. and really everyone its a day out of your month to and get tested. to me thats nothing compared to the time it takes to trace back your sexual history and the anguish of having to admit to someone you may have given them an STD. I talk openly about going to get tested and all my non hobbiest/SP friends all have the most ridiculous excuses not to go... "I always have to wait all day at that clinic...I cant book that kinda time off work" "That penile swab/cold instrument opening my canal hurts...I hate getting it done" "last time I went I bumped into someone I knew, it was so embarrassing" and so on... seriously its one day out of your life and the above excuses always seem pretty dumb when compared to the phrase" so you'd rather potentially have an STD?"

as long as you can provide them with their contacts (email, phone number) so that the escort can be contacted it does not matter if the name you know (most likely her working name) matches their real name that they have to then later provide. heck they dont even care if you're an escort....as long as you follow through and go get tested, so no need to make up any excuse as to why the name isn't correct, health Canada wont question you or your lady

if its the same gal, shes at Barbs every evening except sundays and mondays according to our last convo about a month ago

answer to question...YES. if we as an SP want to sleep through the night after that, that is. I have never been faced with this situation but I know i would feel morally responsible for keeping this info from someone...especially if they run the risk of ruining their lives, their family's lives etc. I had a client contact me this year that after going for his quarterly check-up had been tested positive for an STi. I was contacted by the health clinic and had to come in by law and provide all my info and get treatment right away (which consisted of a couple of pills) despite, after testing that day, being told my preliminaries came back negative. to be absolutely sure however, the clinic said I was to not have any sexual contact for a week. I pulled my ads and took the week off while other partners of his went on the preliminary results and went back to work. I know myself that I would not have been able to sleep at night if there was even the slightest chance that I could pass on something that preliminaries didnt catch......fortunately I was clean after all was said and done. I have friends outside work who dont know what I do and raise an eyebrow to frequent visits to the clinic...."didnt you just go a couple months ago?". I had a recent fling who said he hadn't been tested in THREE YEARS!...needless to say, that didnt last long. if you're having sex with anyone, you should go.....because if something happens, how on earth are you going to retrace your steps?? getting tested often is key as an SP and hobbiest. Being honest is sometimes hard but in a day and age where you can be sued for omiting such information to a partner, its always better safe than sorry