Annessa

agreed. I plan on doing incalls (and have been doing them) at least once a week at hotels but that is only if I those interested confirm and not all but one or two cancel at the last minute leaving me with a suite to pay for I plan on doing incalls hopefully thursday, or friday overnight (check-in 3pm till noon the next day) if you are serious about making a booking ahead of time, PM me

oh humorous I agree, but making the book sounds like an angry woman's fantasy about serial killing her clients is def not how to sum up the book. There is a great sense of humor in the book where she is mostly in disbelief of some of the things men will pay for...particularly when she starts doing fetish shows....its a riot

y eah I left that out because I'm about 3/4 through the book and I dont read her having any carnal anger towards them at all, rather, more of a fascination with their strange needs. perhaps in the end that changes but I dont think it was accurate for the reviewer to almost sum up and sell this as some kind of client-bashing book :-)

I agree with estaman on those two topics. its funny, its almost like asking "what do you talk about on a first date to someone whos not very talkative?" obviously there needs to be some initial icebreakers...but in the end if her conversation skills aren't the best and it feels like you're pulling teeth for a convo (really something that she should be taking the lead in doing) it might be easier to find an SP or MP that has a better conversation repertoire rather that go through date after date of akwardness.

agreed you are a lucky man, lol...and whether she is just a friend, its still very important that she fels respected in the situation :-)

i had an ex that would read anything if it was left in the bathroom, hehe he read a cosmo of mine that I left in there once coz it was the only reading material available during his bathroom boredom, lol still.....good quote, Wrinkled :-)

I just rented a split room and kitchen suite recently at Les Suites in the market. While the location was convienient (especially for things to do while in-between calls) I found that the convienient location was the best part of it and the beds were very motel-ish in bedding. sheet, foam-blanket, then paper-thin comforter. the living rooms were nice, but the beds were very standard The balcony option was a plus however as my self and some of my clients are smokers but not everyone wants to smell the aftermath of stale cigarette smoke. also they do provilde you with proper utensils and glasses and plates in the kitchen as many hotels dont supply those and you have to call up for even a simple bottle opener The lobby and entry is definitely "no questions asked" to anyone upon arrival no matter what time regardless I still favour the delta

I disagree about the sexual aspect of the date not being approached prior. obviously no one wants to make it seem like their date has been pre arranged with rules etc and everyone wants to feel abiding to each other's needs, but being upfront about the sexual aspects of the date that are a go or a no-go will make everyone feel like their wishes are being respected by each other (the SOs between each other, and between the escort)....sometimes "going with the flow" can have VERY negative reprocussions for couples. obviously yes, try and dispurse the stereotypes....but I feel that proper comunication between all those involved will help your GF and you choose who is best for you for your first attempt :-) highlighting the decandence of being with an escort is a good idea, but its always important to add that the escor is only a highlight to your relationship with her, not something above nor beyond. Find a lady that suits HER best. a MMFF might be a good start tho

I have been long in the works of properly wording my new website and this is a point that I plan on clearly stating in my rules and regulations. I plan to make specific in wording that if a situaltion or location upon arrival raises red flags for an escort she has every right to back out...this is tricky to word to a client about said decision after the fact, but the right clients will respect your decision (most likely after going through the anger and annoyance of disagreeing) the ones who belittle you for your given right to see only those you feel safe seeing are not respectful clients. I will say tho that giving a proper and political and brief explanation to said client that you (the SP) no longer feel comfortable going on said call is definitely an explanation a client deserves.

my opinion about blogs is often they are harder to search out that a book. or good ones anyway....with a paperback, you can at least flip it over and get a feel for the entire novel....in my experience anyway. I've been linked to some amazing blogs... but theres a lot of sifting through the free-speech and negative venting that tends to happen in a journal-like way in most of them that isnt really what can be gained from the success of having a first-hand experience that is chock full of real life experience accompanied with a dose of information and (hopefully) dispersing of the stereotypes out there. some blogs are gems dont get me wrong, but I think in the many years of working, this ex-worker would rather face the termination of her escort career having succeeded in writing more that a flimsy free blog....at least thats the feeling I would have (I could be totally wrong!) :-) writing a book based on NON-fiction (as opposed to a lot of the fiction crap out there by writers just wanting to write a juicy, dramatic story based on nothing they know about or have only had 2nd hand info to...that are terrible) about the industry would be welcomed by many of us as a great accomplishment. Anyone can write a Blog....very few can put in the time, dedication and research to commit themselves to a novel.

i dont think its really what she needs to hear but the pre-communication beforehand between you and most importanly her and your potential escort. I think its amazing that this is her idea and shes intrigued by it, usually its the man's. I would allow her to have first hand email or even phone communication with the escort. Where both women ar not the hired member the women need to digg each other to let another person into their intimate dealings most times. The more comfortable she is with the escort and the more honest she is about primary ground-rules (which are always a starter she should think about before diving head first into it, and if she gives the go-ahead can be broken in a session if shes comfortable) then you and she will have the best experience. I tell many prospect couples I see that between them there is to be a very open communication of what they are comfortable seeing their SO doing to another person. Sometimes if people are not honest with their wishes it can end up being a very sticky situation. I have one couple I see where the woman doesn't like her SO kissing me passionately or even penetrating me. There is still a lot you can do in those situations tho! but its good to be honest and let her communicate privately with the escort as well so she feels like the choice is not made for her but as a compilation of both your comfort levels. Good luck in your search, and remember, its not about what you say to her, its about what you do....its about a group effort that will, in the end, make everything go easier :-)

so comfy I've had to call in for a late checkout each time... squishy duvets completely beat foamy blankets and paper-thin comforters ANY day....plus why have two pillows on a queen bed when Deta gives you FIVE :-) *wishes she was snuggled up in a Delta-bed tonight, lol*

well said, dont let a one time cancellation put you off about someone. wait to see if her behaviour is a pattern....although I have been in a situation recently where I have had to cut off someone because once I postponed and used another day he offered for me to see him, but from that point on it was bad timing on both our parts. he took it very personally and said "you probably dont even want to see me anymore" told me I was "blowing him off" ( and not in the good way) ....sometimes timing is terrible but if you let it get to you or have already Or there is a repeat patter with little explanation its probably best to move on to another lady....as no matter how much you prefer this one SP you'll have a certain resentment there...intamacy wont survive that environment, no matter how warranted your anger is....find someone who'll respect you enough to make it up to you

ouch! definitely someone to add to your do not see list :-( sorry that happened suggar

people who think that just because something is what they consider "common knowledge" that discretion is still not needed

people who gossip heavily seeming to almost get excited about it really turn me off. it makes me wonder what they're gonna say about me when I turn MY back. people who act one way in front of people and another way in private. can no one seriously be themselves these days?? people who ride with their dogs on their laps in their cars. ok, so let me get this straight...you're dog is like you baby right? well then put it in the darn back-seat before you crush the poor thing stopping short on an unexpected read light. its not cute, its stupid people who brag or people who ask you how much you make in a year. answer: none of your business.

unless we're talking about squirting,.......eeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwww!

haha yes! an SP-meet-n'-karaoke or even just something tame like coffee would be fun...would love to bounce ideas of some fellow workers :-)

wait till you hear from the horses mouth what happened, then you can see if you trust her answer but until then as many said here give her the benefit of the doubt. perhaps even after you hear her excuse give her the benefit of the dout...and let future dealings decide if this is a pattern and she's just not willing put in the same amount of effort as other SPs in Ottawa would probably gladly do. if you are too soured by the situation, give it time, perhaps try your chances with another worthy lady...but above all, dont swear off ottawa as being terrible for no shows, as ..well..shit happens sometimes (she should have called you tho) and if it wasn't indeed an emergency, there are plenty of other attentive and reliable ladies out there

OOOOOUUUHHHhhhhHHH! its a vicious pussy terrorist! (kinda sounds like an oxymoron, lol) Run awaaaaaaaayyyyyyy!!! Oooouuuuhhhh!!! its gonn get you!!! hehe, i like that spooky voice...it makes me giggle

OUUUUHHHHHHHhhhhhh! big brother is watching!! *makes sarcastic spooky story-telling face* OooooouuuUUUUhhhhhhHHH!!!! seriously tho, this guys a dork :roll:

wrinkled I think Ginger was a female and the other dog was a male, lol so that would be mFFF, haha......very cute video, I love how the weather lady cant hold it together through her segment, lol

this is just an idea but perhaps posting in the general discussions and open forums about the poly group with direct links YoungStud, might bring upon less bored and uninvolved and potentially harmful lurkers. something to think about. i know we want more members but it seems the right people founf out about this group through referral...perhaps protecting the ladies and members of the group by not posting the events in public might help that.....just saying. There have been more than a couple open and random mentionings and advertising plugs for the gals in here having poly events....what that has sseemed t bring upon, even other than Red's situation, are more idiots linking to this group cancelling apointments with girls based on their "gang bang" involvement guys....as much as I love this group you need to start thinking before you post outside of this group (or even in it) and start looking out for the ladies involved...as we have far much more to lose than you do. please respect that. TY

i totally agree with making the event notices (of any kind) for this group more private, since this is a public group, anyone can curiously linger which for some (as Red has unfortunately had to deal with) this can only add more fuel for judgemental folk. I'm sorry you couldnt come out because of someones bad comments red, I roo was looking forward to meeting another lady of the group. and to whoever wrote that stuff to Red, not cool man. Sex is supposed to be fun, not chocked full of drama. shame on you for ruining someone's fun :-(

count me in, miss :-)