Annessa

errrr...AKA. Annessa!? lol.....i shudder at my old working name. haha haven't been advertised as such since mid 2008.

Emma is def a smoldering babe....if anything her eyes bring you in and trap you in all her visage pics. hawt

*sings in a very flamboyant tone* "dont you wish your boyfriend was...hot-like-ME?....dont CHA???"

there have been many days when I lay my head down for the evening with my head-wheels turning saying "geez I should write a book, this stuff is too good!" lol. I've often thought about writing an anonymous blog, but whos gonna read it unless you refer someone to it? (that might make the grace of being anonymous be obsolete. every time I feel alienated I pick up a refered book on the industry written in the first person by a working girl. reading those novels makes me feel like I'm comparing my experiences and if its written well (or truly by someone who really does know what they're talking about) I feel a sense of fulfilment and pride that if someones similar experiences were valid enough to make it to paperback for $24 a copy, then someone had to believe in their motions for their story. I support you fully in any literature you put out there. I am only going on 2 years of working in this industry but if you want any verbal mish-mash from this end, let me know and I'll be happy to contribute in any way i can

loves and kisses to you too my fellow 'great-set-of-pipes' dumpling, lol. *blush*

couldn't agree more. I posted in another thread not too long ago in the spring that those of us workers who take our jobs seriously usually double up on precations (flu shots, vitamins, cold FX) around those times but in the end its up to the client to also be honest that he may have to postpone due to the potential of them having come down with something. in my opinion SPs are te most careful with their health, sexually or non sexually. a week of work as we all know means a week of unpaid sick-time. We would rather be cautious then have to suffer the time off or dissapointing our beloved clients :-)

masturbation leads to the H1N1 virus?? sigh.....I'm doomed then hehe

I'll be able to attend a the social event and whatever happens after this evening. Looking forward to meeting some new faces :-)

research and proper communication between you and your lucky lady are always the most important. also, its very important for an SP to be politely upfront with you as well...there have been times when a client asks if hes taking too long to leave and I'm in no particular rush so I say, no take your time with shower etc.....however sometimes we have other obligations right after or (gasp! dare I say it.....) other clients and we need the proper time to prepare for everyone just as we have prepared for you to be fair :-) in those cases your SP should always be upfront about time in a polite manner

I'll have to see what I can do about thursday as I usually have to be home by around 5 but I'll see if I can work my babysitter magic ;-)

aw well thanks! I should get together with Carrie for karaoke...we both live in the same neighborhood, lol

also, sorry for missing lunch :-( I ended up sleeping in wayyy too late, lol. let me know when the next one is!

I'd like to get back in the saddle again as I had a blast last time. is anyone willing to organize an event for me?

I have always been very happy with the Delta Hotel. basic room with balcony is $140 on low seasons. and the beds are oh so comfy.....also Barbarellas is right across the street, hehe

a big one for me for incalls is RESPECT THE SPs DISCRETION when it comes to her location and her surroundings. once you walk in enter quickly and dont stand in the doorway saying something like "wow, you're hotter than your pictures" (even if its true) you never know who is passing by in the hall etc. enter quickly and close ythe door behind you, then you're free to do as you please. ;-) same applies when being walked to the door, when about to leave try not to discuss to heavily in detail her profession or your hobby....i rememebr in my old place you could hear an entire conversation from the hall if someone was talking outside.....its something that we always tend to forget until we realize how much we can hear others. so saying something like "I had a great time, I'll see you next week? same price?" might not go over well if heard from a nosy neighbor, lol

i'm free for lunch as well. keep us posted as to location.

I feel vaery honoured to be part of that list MB... may I also say I travel to toronto often and LOVE couples....sometimes the women more than men in the event of a threesome, *evil laugh* as for who I'm curious about I've always wondered about our dear mod and Cowboy Kenny....although I'm not sure if I'm CKs type judging from a few posts here and there.....still I'd love to prove first hand that my pics are real....not that its ever been disputed, ;-) one member who will remain nameless has always had my attention. We met in the bar of a hotel I was doing an incall day/night at. he had texted asking for the possibility of an appointment and then cancelled. while I was at the bar ordering take out dinner and having drinks we chatted up at the bar, I had no idea it was him but having 7 hours between calls was feeling very flirty and very attracted to this businessman. I even went as far as to give him my PERSONAL number...something I haven't found anyone worthy of in years. after prancing back to my room with my food I received a text on my WORK PHONE from the gent who had cancelled before saying that was him downstairs.....and that he was so blown away etc, but was so shy i invited him up to sip wine with me briefly and didn't see him for a long time......until I went to pick up my son from daycare and there he was...picking up his son, whom I recognized as a kiddo thats been there for a while (incase anyone thinks this guy is stalking). needless to say this is definitely a member that I need to see, i blame it on either fate or ottawa's ridiculously small degrees of separation. i respect his caution as hes new to this....but you bet your ass i dont pick up my son from daycare in my sweatpants anymore, lol

I loved seeing this episode....I've used the "some would think what I do is cheap" argument and its shut some people up good right away, lol as for the anticipation...i like to think of my life as a sex-worker as an adventure. very few people will be able to look back on this part of their lives and said they sometimes almost felt like a secret agent being sent out on a mission of pleasure every night! lol

ahh I see. sorry I didn't know those were the rules. and yes I agree Erin, I think its totally ridiculous that sex-workers can't donate blood because they have sex for money. Grasshopper I was not questioning his morals on the situation or how blood transfusions save lives. ...just to be clear

am I the first to be slightly offended that seeing SPs could render your blood unclean? It was very nice meeting you VM but I have to say that SPs probably practice safe sex more than the general public, get tested far more often than any usual gal or guy. I do understand the honour in not participating in the hobby for fear of contracting something you could pass on to your relative through a blood transfusion, I am definitely not offended about your choice, but slighly unsettled that you have the view that any of the classy ladies you've seen on the boards here, like the ones who have posted or myself would ever put you or your relative's blood in jeopardy.

for the most part I have to agree...but there were a few episodes where she showed attachment to some clients. I remember the episode where she lent her favorite regular a book then lost that regular to the new girl at the agency. then later it showed her reaction to the event with a friend where she tearfully said "i lent someone a book and I dont think I'm going to get it back"...but it wasn't entirely about just the book, lol

I have to agree with Charlotte's notion here. I a going to make a slight assumption that these ladies arne't waking out of bed to get ready only an hour before their call and doing their shopping at H&M, lol

usually its not the strategy of naming what we do as the problem, so much as the problem of having to keep most of it a secret from friends, lovers and family. I think many ladies can relate to the social struggles that come along with our profession That Belle goes through as well as the internal struggles of not exactly being able to share a "bad day at work" with just anybody.

teehee hee.....

I had a friend of mine recommend the show to me...at first I was really afraid to watch it because I was worried it would pay improper homage to us working girls but once I watched a couple episodes I was hooked. In my opinion they share many of the funny highlights and sometimes difficult times a callgirl faces with plain and not overdone real--life situations...and often a dose of comedy as well.....for example, the little Ally McBeal-like part where she has these little scenarios that happen in her head. she wonders how easy it would be if she could just tell her family and then imagines what the next family reunion would be like...instead of having to fake her chit chat about her imaginary job in her head she pictures her old and feeble grandmother asking "so whats a BBBJ?" or something like that...getting an answer and then saying "oh...well thats nice" with a big grin. Teh of course she snaps back to reality......its too funny.