Annessa

*pah!* that just made me almost spit up my gingerale...hilarious image!! lmao!

not to mention that it is very difficult to find a location with an existing liquor license and the city is limiting the number of new establishments that weren't already licensed venues....in other words, Barbs would have to occupy a space that was already a bar unless the city decides to dish out more LLs

yaaaay ERIN! way to go! perhaps us CERB ladies can have car-wash to help you raise some dough (hehe jus kidding) ;-) xoxoxox

AMEN! ( and yes....pun intended!) Thanks for posting this, I have seen far too many groups with their outrageous opinions try and get involved with the sex-workers movement. Its groups like these who plug their ears to the facts and stand by their "educated views" (translation: opinions) regardless of what is laid before them (pun not intended, hehe). I have a firm belief that groups like these have no place in the end result of such a trial.

seeming as how my ex-agent seems to know anyway....I have the privilege of the talents of the same photographer that shoots the Cupids ladies.....he is a very talented man and plays a wonderful role in making all us SPs look our best under the limelight ;-)

back in the day I used to watch a lot of mixed races porn.....not for the fact that interracial couples got me off....but more or less because this one particular site (found out because my dad was horrible at erasing his search history...lol) had longer clips and more hardcore shots and closeups, with hawt and not greasy guys and girls lost in utter craziness (thanks dad!)...I'm a fan of the long anticipated cum-shot....dunno why....actually had a very strange obsession over fast-forwaring to the 'release' at one point. these days I seem to have a healthy supply of cerebral images in my mental "spank-bank" folder, that my computer downloads in my hard-drive folder are far more obsolete....or full of the longer clips vs. things I actually wanted to get me off.

makes complete sense Ariane, I was (believe it or not) engaged at one point in my life. it happened very quickly and we went through many trials and tribulations. but a really wise woman said to me at one point: "you grow together with who you are over decades....not years or even months... you share passion and lust and inspiration etc....but real love comes from growing together over time...seeing each other at their worst...seeing each others rotten faults and overcoming all of them...or not...yet learning to, slowly.. over time. Nothing happens over night but an initial spark" I dont so much see it as people pretending to be in love right away.....but rather people being overcome by that initial spark....sometimes when its so strong, you can't think of anything else.....and why would you? as thinking about it makes all your hairs stand on end. the trick is realizing reality and separating the business factor....many people say "never mix business and friendship". Which is very hard to do when "the business" IS friendship (or more). End to my rant is, everone who knows their place (including us ladies) will be less likely to se themselves up to be hurt in the long-run. /end rant) ;-)

lol...was about to say the same thing :-)

I am saying this is the reason why there are not too many female scientists, politicians or other man-dominated professions. Young women are kept busy just by trying to look pretty. What a shame. So many intelligent brains wasted that could have been used for something else, had we not this tremendous pressure on us. err.....I have to disagree with that but I have a feeling it came across wrong, lol. Looking pretty is not such a chore for some and most of us ladies do carry a lot of intelligence, degrees and talents on our shoulders. still...the appreciation for our efforts in beautifying ourselves and holding a worthwhile conversation and offering our time is always welcome :-)

agreed! a lot of my friends dont understand that our temporary boyfriends tend to treat us far better than real ones. I have one girlfriend that feels sorry that I dont allow myself to date or feels like I'm denying myself happiness. unfortunately I dont think she'll ever be able to understand how happy my job makes me no matter what I say, lol

Tonight I took a late outcall to a new client. he called around 11 asking for a 1:30 am call....normally I dont take late calls unless they're pre arranged. i finally arrive at the destination and when the door was opened I faced a 6'8" tall absolute dreamboat. as attractive as he was he was still humble about himself...even shy, so I made sure i showed him the time of his life. I never expected however that I would get the most attentive finger-treatment ever tho, I found myself squirting three times in the space of a half hour which I normally dont talk about but I have to say I'm quite amazed with myself (sorry if it sounds like I'm bragging! I'm just still in shock! lol) we went a half hour overtime and he asked me how much extra it was, I told him and when I left he gave me the proper donation along with a healthy tip. I think I sang to myself as I left his place. Tipped for coming hard and having three mind blowing orgasms one after the other?? how many other people in different professions can say they get the same type of fulfillment.....Geez I love my job!

wow thanks for the heads-up, mod. We certainly dont need these kind of bullies around.

why are some types of parsley and pubic hair alike? - - - you have to push them aside before you keep eating! eeeeeeeew! hehe

Sierra is awesome

I've wanted to seek out both.....do you think the average video store would have either? if so, what section does anyone have an inkling it would be in? I was debating checking out Elgin stret video in Ottawa...they have a lot of more obscure titles

amen! i gotta say that in re-reading some posts and talking to anita in PM i think a lot was jumped on on the subject of the word ownership....not dragging it on but I think that a great SP should also connect with a client in a intellectual intercourse type way aside from penetration, lol......and I think that a lot was lost in translation when she was trying to state the obvious that sex is involved. I feel bad for jumpin on her comments....obviously we all (SPs and clients) know what our profession entails, I just assumed by the comments that it was thought that because of sex being involved that we were deemed as items or property. now that i see that although improper terms were used at the start, that this is not what she meant. and that the "kidding ourselves" quote was more or less used to state that sex was involved when we all used the words intimacy or something like that. It is, but the bottom line is that so many wonderful and successful SPs on here are valued for more than the mechanical in-n-out (as Jerican said...the 30-min clients seeking a rushed experience can take on those girls, lol) but more for their conversation, social skills and lack of chewing gum like a cow while twirling their hair and chatting about Brittney Spears. (no offence to BSpears) Sorry for jumping too hard on the subject Anita (my opinionated self jumping the gun to be blamed, lol) we just all would like to be appreciated as professionals in our own trait.....we know what we're getting into as do most. But it is a sensitive subject among many clients and workers who do the best to keep everyone respected and on the green side of the fence :-) done talking about that part... in response to the original post: "why not? " ;-) hehe

lol not to worry ANita, i dont think you're the enemy :-) I just sent you a pretty neutral PM to clear things up.

...just not obligated to do anything she doesn't want to do or that strays out of her control, Anita. I hope we all have learned something today...oy Originally Posted by Annessa2009 why would an SP show up not wanting to be someone's lover? Youngstud: I've never imagined an SP/EP was my lover. temporary lover, companion, friend, muse, lovely respectful woman, ...they're all the same in my books, lets not pick on what each means to everyone :-)

Anita at the risk of getting into an argument I'm going to not and leave it at that you dont fully understand the SP or SP-client etiquette. And unfortunately have some stereotypes about us SPs and our clients that are very society driven. i can't blame you, but being a member on this boards I would expect more when you read comments by polite gentlmen...not power-hunters obviously services or service-types are communicated clearly between clients and SPs beforehand. why would an SP show up not wanting to be someone's lover? Most SPs get just as much pleasure out of their encounters as the men who pay for their time. if she does that and there has been no communication beforehand that she is an escort that functions solely on company and no intimacy, then she should have clearly noted that beforehand and if the client wishes to go elsewhere he will. if she doesn't clearly communicate beforehand, shes a crappy escort...plan and simple, misleading someone shouldnt happen. You're allowed to have your opinions Anita, but you also have to take what others who are more involved directly say with some belief. The MP and SP world are different I'll agree, but we have more control and dignity in common than I think you're willing to admit

I dont think it has to do at all with having power over a woman or having a woman be their property for the time spent. Its that kind of stereotype that many of us gals are trying to escape or protest in the sex-workers' rights movement. The stereotype that we are made to be objects or stripped of our dignity or control while on a call. True there are some men that believe that because they have thrown down X amount of bills that it gives them the power and ownership over a worker, but that does not end well and conflicts with what most of us ladies stand for. most level headed workers will not see these men again as repeat clients. returning to what I said before, talking about how we offer the "promise". the promise is strictly a connection,,,a promise that we will try our best to offer you everything you are looking for. but to clarify, it has to fit within our allowances and the request must be made with respect...and a mutual understanding that a good experience with us is a privilege....not a right

is this why my ears tend to ring after a great climax with lots of DFK? *worries* lol

I had an amazing night at Barbs tonight. got a hot and heavy and balanced duo dance between my best guy friend and me at once by one lady. The girl was cute professional and payed equal attention to both me and my buddy. whats even more hot is that she was enthralled with how comfortable me and my friend were during the experience...thus adding to her comfort level with us. I wont name names in case she doesn't want to be reviwed as taking on "couples" but anyone who wants more info can PM me

10years ago i was a baggy-jeaned, soother-sucking, fun-fur wearing, pill popping raver, running off to all night dance parties in toronto and Montreal wearing whistles on chains around my neck (for partying..not safety reasons, lol) breakdancing and going to afterparty after afterparty. no pictures needed........suffice to say I've come a long way since then, LOL!!

definitely an interesting perspective, Anita, from LMP. I for one was a big Mj fan....in my experience (and yes I had had much experience of close people to me being accused of Child molesting) no matter who you are or how much money you have it does not weigh the justice system in one way or another if the facts are black and white (no pun intended). You are either finally convicted for it being just or live with a bad rumor spread on your shoulders for the rest of your life without conviction......but even then the conviction doesn't matter because your reputation has been tainted. I'm neutral in the MJ cases. all I know is a man who's music I loved despite his occassional nutso-ness (its a word now!) died. if I passed on, I would hope that no one judged what they thought they knew (which was miniscule to everything else solid)....but rather appreciated all the good I had done in the time I was here. just my two cents sidenote: a local radio station was taking MJ requests all day today, which i thought was really cool.....i wish they played my fave "Liberian Girl" from the Bad album.....but I did hear the song "ben" today by him. I was in my car on the highway and I rolled up my windows, turned it up and had a rather focused moment on a song I had almost forgotten yet loved from before I was born.....I think everyone should give the song a listen on youtube and remember the good in him as opposed to flinging out the bad during sad times http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8gh06zLZ4v0

I cannot comment on the original poster because I dont know him, but I have seen many attractive men celebrities and confident and sensual men... their reasons always vary and some have been mentioned above, the greatest I feel being nsa encounters (almost the biggest reason why I do what I do!! and love it)...but another reason that I feel should be addressed is discretion: being a celebrity or being newly divorced in a small and gossipy neighborhood may as well be the same boat going up similar rivers....you need what you need....but you dont need the bad luck of the minimal degrees of separtaion to perhaps bring your weekend flings to center stage. High figures have told me they would rather hire a girl for private time than have his and some sweet and too-innocent-for-her-own good girl get their pictures snapped by blood-thirsty paparazzi casing drama among the public and their family and friends (who are probably doing the same but wont admit it). married or newly devorced are no different....they have their reputations...but they also have needs. Similarly there is the attractive charismatic man with the busy schedule....he focuses and loves his work to a point where there is simply no time to invest in courtship, 3 dates, and possibly no guarantee......many work-a-holics I see are happier that they are not devoting half their lives sitting in singles bars and neglecting their professional values just to get that intimacy that so many spend all their energy day-in and day out trying to find..... they can settle their needs privately and in turn live day to day being better (and more perma-smiled) people...we have served our jobs well when us SPs feel we have given what no late-night booty call could have ever offered or drunk easy girl at the singles bar would have given up for free (along with what she may be carrying or the puke-mess in your bathroom you may have to clean up later at your place) ;-) the best part about us....is the *promise*. Us ladies that take our jobs seriously if you are gentleman enough, are here to be everything you want and more from the moment you open the door to our welcoming smile....to the point that we brush the sweat off your forehead.