Annessa

no need to get defensive :-) I wasn't coming down on ya Slurp or anything, from what it sounded about connie and the reviews I've seen its seemed she was a referral only as that term has been flung around a bit. no need to get testy over me just making sure that wasn't the case. *deep breath*

hehe my old license plate before I had to get it replated for my full ownership recently was BBJ and then 4 numbers and my initials are ATM ;-)

I have to apologize for the anger or suspicions I've expressed in this thread over the past couple days. i still stand by the points I'm making but I do feel I have been a bit too strong in implying them. I have been under a lot of stress setting up my new location this week and covering all my bases that reading about someone publicly outing a street address on these boards (yes yes even though it was advertised outside of the boards as such) kinda hit home for me. moving on appropriately now....

hopefully if Connie is a referral- only based gal you dont give too much info other than contact, Slurp. sorry, just making sure since I will be asking for referrals with my location and know this is a screening process between many gals who have locations. if I'm at all off in clarifying this, terribly sorry :-)

lol I'm my own boss too Pete! hehe I have to agree with seymour on this one....sometimes it is not always preference, but what their situation entails...incall and outcall often makes a HUGE difference too. I find on my side of things, that more men request incall from noon-3pm and more are looking for outcall after 8pm (if the situaltion suits them) or later. sometimes people dont prefer to work from 9-5 but that is their situation and reality.....I dont think a poll would be accurate asking what their preference would entail. heck if I was a hobbiest and could order the ladies when and if I wanted anytime, I would probably order them 24/7, lol....realistically everyone has to stick to their boundaries....not their preference. unless they want work raising an eyebrow to too many sick days, haha

if you're tastful about your wishes I'm sure any sp would be happy to clarify what shes comfortable with. the bad experience that some ladies have is if they are too allowing in the details they receive and are asked to respond in detail, sometimes I know I've gotten the dude who just calls or writes ans says :I'd really love to lick your ** is that ok...how about that? would that get you hot? do you like that?" or something of the sort......I would reply that that was fine with me in my newbie days and then realize that this person never booked....just liked the idea of someone reading his desires and responding. I almost feel like saying (and have when I've called someone on calling me on my work-phone like that repeatedly) to people like that "there are phone-lines for that yanno??? please dont waste my time! I am all for mapping out restrictions etc...but going too far into detail can raise tiny little red flags for us ladies reminding us of certain creepy men not in it for the experience itself. if you have to map out a play-by-play before going with the flow, you've planned this in your head waaaaay too much IMO....and putting it in our heads that if it doesn't go exactly according to your fantasy, you will be dissapointed. at that point I dont accept the date....even knowing that I will show him the time of his life and more. if you tell me how the entire date has to go before I see you (kinda similar to a football coach mapping out a play) I'm just not interested, thats all...and am allowed to be so.

I agree with the irony...and agree with the months that it takes for LE to look into things....which is why I looked into when the original poster joined the site and what his post history has been....I'm not entirely sure what bullmoose's motive is on this site after reading his several posts but heres the run-down: (ps.I could be completely off in my raised eyebrow here but stating in another post that he received the most wonderful "happy ending" and then asking for more locations or location/more info on a VIP escort party reeks of raid-material and really irks me....) 82 holland I went to 82 Holland the other day and had great time with a tiny Asian named Nicole, was not cheap but worth my time. Any other suggestions for Asian Massage????? Forum: Massage Discussion for Ottawa04-08-2009, 02:18 PM Best Massage Posted By bullmoose Massage I was looking the best happy ending massage in the downtown area, I work near Bank St so if anybody can help me out. I have seen lots on Bank St but have not gone in yet? Any Suggestion Forum: Massage Discussion for Ottawa 04-04-2009, 06:42 AM Best Massage Views: 3,002 Posted By bullmoose Best Massage I am looking for help, I am looking for the best massage in Ottawa. I work downtown so that would be the best location, any suggestions Forum: Massage Discussion for Ottawa 03-06-2009, 11:14 AM Best Downtown massage parlor Views: 2,210 Posted By bullmoose I went to Booth the other day and had a great... I went to Booth the other day and had a great time, will be back for sure:-P Forum: Courtesan / Escort Discussion for Ottawa 06-13-2008, 04:56 PM VIP Party next friday Views: 2,945 Posted By bullmoose send me the info send me the info ............-- he just seems to be asking for more info or more locations from other members and it really makes me raise an eyebrow. anyone else feel slightly unsettled by this? there are more than enough listings of massage recommendations on this site for Ottawa on the boards. and this member has been on here for aprox a year so shouldn't he be reading/searching where to look instead of making up new threads that seem to ask for info from CERB users instead of searching for the proper threads as a potential client? ...why the constant "any suggestions? any suggestions?" ? I have a very odd gut-feeling here. the posts start off with outing a street location (which is vague.."booth") to graduating to searching for the best downtown massage....then 4 days later to searching for the best "happy ending" massage parlor to flat out outing the address a couple weeks later (despite common knowledge) of 82 holland and asking for more locations? ..ironically 82 holand was shut down 24 hours after this post. am I to suspect that PMs to this member only aided in an affirmation to the bust? is your spidey-sense tingling? ...mine is on a side note, imagine someone being on the boards with you members...reading your posts and then saying "hey, you seem like a cool guy and we seem to like the same things....lets go for a beer"...you meet them and then they slap a pair of cuffs on you for aiding them in their research of where to get the best "happy ending" for a price. its not only the gals reputation thats at stake here. as for the thread staying up, now its more or less I believe to flag the establishment as being raided so others don't make the same mistake by following the ad. I think a lot of ladies and gents are still cringing despite the lack of discretion in the massage parlour's ads...however the title of the thread on here kinda goes back to the highschool way of thinking with gossip: just because its common knowledge doesn't mean everyone should still repeat the info on a very obvious board. two wrongs dont make a right....and those who divulge need to watch their step no matter what they say when they post on an ESCORT board.

I have to say I fully agree on this one. whenever I read a girls ad on here that says something like "I'm a sex-addict...cure me!" I want to cringe. its almost as tasteless as bragging that your dramatic best friend is "bi-polar" or "schizo" I've had friends in my lifetime who are each both and neither is a laughing matter. a very valid point and thank you for bringing this to everyone's attention, and while there are many levels to any psychological disease such as the ones I've mentioned or sexual addiction, I do believe that everyone should take special care in throwing terms like that out in conversation,

agreed. looking at the initial title of the thread (ie. the exact address) and the content of the subject...it still doesn't make sense to me other that to keep the thread going as a flagging of the busted girls involved) I still don't even see the purpose of the initial posting....perhaps you are new to "this" and that ok....we all start somewhere, but if you have enough people saying your thread posting and title are very opposite to beneficial..... just PM the mod and I'm sure someone will take on the duty of putting this thread in a certain flagging-type section why this hasn't happened is beyond me. it doesn't matter what was said on their ads, it doesn't matter what was said by the initial poster in terms of services or details...and the girls aren't the only ones who should be careful or need to worry.....guys, do us ladies all a favour and just use your common sense. Common Knowledge doesn't mean anything...just realize that you're the one speaking about such common knowldge and someone could as easily quote and seak out you as they could us.

I'm a little disturbed with this thread....not with the fact of the gals being arrested, but.... obviously the ladies got busted, which tends to happen with residential areas etc. but what makes my jaw drop even more is that anyone can browse these threads....perhaps even police ...so leading to my next point... perhaps outing the exact residential address of these gals on an escort site is.....i want to say "stupid" or "disrespectful to their trade or discretion"...but I can't seem to find a word worse enough to describe how ABSOLUTELY IDIOTIC a posting and title like that is on this site! are you a serious moron???? I for one would be hounding a mod to delete a thread posted about an incall location I had if I had one as a title....why the hell would you out these girl's address instead of just stating the fun you had with nicole etc or posting a recommendation in the proper spot??? yes it might have been posted with an address somewhere as a spa..I have no idea what the ads looked like....but for goodness sake use your common sense and use discretion when posting on an ESCORT board when dishing about your experience! it really doesn't matter what you say or how many details you provide...whether it was vague or ommits what services you received etc....the fact remains: this is an ESCORT board (hence the title dumbass) I'd rather someone know me as Annessa than "insert address" and its quite obvious you do not have the respect for these girls to think twice that 'Big Brother" might be watching out on these threads...furthermore you're asking for info on other massage places. if you're so happy with your experience, why look further? *raises eyebrow* seriously....are you a cop or something or just plain dumb...or both?? *never been so morally disgusted by a thread title or initial post* ( in closing (yes I realize this is a novel but...) I realize the thread probably stayed up to flag everyone about such places and the raiding and such but if these girls were on cerb to defend their privacy I would hope that they would be able to report such an act of stupidity and have that thread deleted) think about it this way guys...would you like an escort or sensual masseuse to post on an escort board that you were an awesome date and you pulled up in a BMW license plate# 5555555? something to think about

I'm sure it doesn't help my plea that i do have those and they're BOY-shorts, lol

"So is it okay to tell my familiy members that I'm actually in sex counselling as opposed to visiting escorts? " I thought about embellishing once as a job title (if I really HAD to explain my job to more judgmental people) to say I'm a "sexual lifestyle/relationship-prospering consultant". really its not far from the truth amongst etiquette filled married clients. there is either something lacking in their sex life that they can't even dream of asking their wife to do out of fear of being judged as bored or those who travel too much to work long and hard days away from those they love but to make the coin for those they love.....as long as my services make them go home happy, better lovers or overall less bitter due to lack of sexual tension resentment....then I have fulfilled my "consultation" duties ;-)

omigosh! I'm so embarassed! how did you get your hands on a picture of me before my sex-change and anti-aging treatment??!! ;-) hehe

don't change who you are for anything. I also wear wigs on occasion and extensions, HOWEVER, your agency should be be clear to customers about your style and looks before getting into an uncomfortable situation where clients walk out on you because of a very obvious trait. I myself have many tattoos....i can't show them in photos for privacy reasons but I always state that they are there should any anti-tattoo clients book and be displeased. from what it looks like, your avatar and pics show the true you, nothing to be ashamed of....there is a huge market for the men who have dreamed of being with a suicide girl or alternative and modern lady. be yourself, the rest will follow.......just make sure your agency has that ideal too. xo

it sounds all too unimpressive but I do keep a pocket swissAK in the hip of special panties if I'm to be tied....not for defense, only if I have to get out fast (ie. client has a medical emergency/fire etc) I never allow myself to be tied up in a situation where I cannot access my hip.

welcome to the boards Suri t! from experience I know two girls in the non-industry world named Suri.....the name is definitely not copy-written boys. heck I already know of another annessa on the boards (believe shes in toronto...can't remember) either way, there are as many types of working girls as there are names. I don't think one should be viewed as an impostor because they happen to favor the same exotic name my 2 cents. ....*kisses, Suri!*

this is not a case of asking for discounts or such with pics but I feel very uncomfortable when a new client books and sends me a picture of themselves to clarify what they look like (which is always welcome)....but then when they don't get a response right away asks "so what do you think?" even if their pictures are attractive I always feel put on the spot. I generally don't give out compliments until I meet the whole package...and by package I mean personality. a wholesome personality is worth more than an image to me and I generally avoid replying to a question like that until i meet the client. you can be tom cruise but if you don't add up to the class or respect I offer then a compliment based on what I feel to be shallow (which I'm far from) physical judgment is very difficult to take back. My most recent experience of this however: the clients picture did not do his personality or even physical image justice.....word of advice to the gents: just leave it up to the lady to be surprised with how attractive/charismatic you are. trying to send pics almost feels like you're trying to vouch for yourself......in this business, there is no need....so long as you are respectful to the ladies and your etiquette is stellar, you will always be rewarded as such......also keep in mind: every lady is different, we all have our types in the "real world dating life". I've had too many 25 year old wash-board stomachs asking "so would you date me normally? do you think I'm do-able?"....personally, my truly honest answer would be no. don't make us lie, I run a business and I will suit your needs no mater what u look like....in the years before i started working, I've never dated anyone under 35 (seriously) ...older men turn my crank....and 40 is the new 20 ;-) (epilogue: in the case I was speaking of of the recent gent who sent a pic....there definitely wasn't a need to vouch. if he ever dyes his salt and pepper hair I may have to stop seeing him...j/k)

I can do the submissive thing, love playing roles etc...just not into hairpulling when I have extensions in. i think I'm in need of a good spanking though.....I've been bad lately ;)

exactly. I always hate it when i client thinks I work 24/7. I get together for coffees with friends, spend time with family on a regular basis and (I know...its hard to believe but...drum roll....->) have some ME-time which might involve taking myself out to dinner or an appointment get my nails done/teeth whitened. if i say I'm busy until a certain time, its not always because I'm working until then and am free for more bookings I have said I've had an opening due to cancellations but I dont see many clients a day 1-4 max so if I have a cancellation and a client couldnt see me on a day when they asked for 3 o clock at the last minute and suddenly that space is open because thats the time you requested....well then I'm helping you out in my opinion....not labelling you as second best I dont consider it the same thing around when an SP is being lined up (rudely) as a second option. I had a potential client on here send me a message asking if its okay to call me if the girl he had in mind didnt show up or cancelled. i *might have said yes (business is bussiness) if he didnt do the next part: he proceeded to tell me a little bit about himself in a full length email that was copied and pasted from his message to the other SP....he even was aware of this as I just had to comment on the last phrase in the email that said "I'd just love to picture you riding me cowboy style, you sexy cury-haired latina!" disgruntled sigh..... :P

well when you put it like that... ;-) apology accepted, lol

lots of good suggestions in here, thanks everyone! I'll be taking a trip to Venus envy for a check-up on some suggested as i go there anyway but have rarely browsed the literature section as I always was just caught off guard by the Kama sutra literature, lol....that and I'm in need of some more bondage gear ;) as for secret diary of a callgirl...LOVE that show and the humour yet human aspects of Belle's life..i feel like a total newb now knowing it was based on books....I'm on the hunt now!

everyone says "why would guy fake it?....he can't" I say the same goes for proper SPs. I know myself, and I know it sometimes takes me a bit to climax. in that case however, I wont fake it, I will just say something to the liking of "I want you to get your's more than anything, babe." and turn my talents on him if I feel I'm eating too much of his proper paid time on MY orgasm. I never want to feel selfish. however I *have* had instances where I've been flipped on my back and got amazing DATY after stating the above and been told that my pleasure was their's and not to worry. main point however: I love my job and would never deny myself of it's perks (ie. a true awesome orgasm) why fake it when you could enjoy it also...hobbiests aren't stupid....seriously

a very good point and suggestion Tigerclaw, The men i view as gentlemen on this site will contact me to let them know they have written a recommendation and ask for feedback/ask if Iwould like anything edited that was to be kept private or might have been worded wrong. i really think this should be common practice if the hobbiest wishes to see the SP or MP again. I have seen far too many "reviews" posted in city sections as opposed to recommendations where it was pretty obvious the Sp did not approve nor give permission for said person to write it or the review was innacurate....been there, done that. furthurmore i always applaud when a client asks if its ok to write a review about our experience. As some ladies surprisingly dont always want one ,to keep their client list on the down low or for personal reasons. For me it almost falls into the category of dating someone and him saying "oh wow! I'll be totally tastefull, but can I tell my best friend how awesome you are because we just spent the best night together?"

mid-June is when my regular incall location will be ready

Thanks for the link! I might forward this to some of my clients who a re a little new to writing reviews or haven't because they don't know where to start :-) is it possible to nominate this as a sticky?