Annessa

dont let one or two SP opinions on satisfaction ruin your take on future appointments Apex. I'm sorry you are upset and that people are giving you sh*t. I like your threads and they're a great read and I think its great people are being open about their opinions with being open about opinions however it does open certain gates to make other people voice theirs as well on the subject of mutual satisfaction or one sided satisfaction: I've always had the opinion that a call will go so much smoother and naturally if both people are having a good time. HOWEVER just because the SP isnt having the time of her life doesn't mean the client should feel any worse for choosing her in the first place. (I tried to find a proper way to say this but I couldn't so I'm just gonna spit it out...-->) the SPs in my opinion dont need to be satisfied, if the client is paying and respecting restrictions and limitations he should get what he paid for and thats my two cents...hopefully no one jumps on me too hard for that

for the right price I'll rub them *nicely* in your face *snicker*

well seeming as how I've had a pair since puberty....i would hope so! LOL

lol...interesting because the topic started out with talk of trying on undergarments and comparing condom use etc...I used to work at a lingerie store.....I'm quite experienced with giving people "fittings" but, sadly....of the bra-type ;-)

petting the pearl (in the oyster) ;-)

thats truly sad :-(

I have two phones...one personal/family use and one for work. once I get to my call I turn the work-phone off. I do this in front of a new client and I inform them that the phone in my purse that I leave on is for emergencies and is the number my driver has for my safety call should I not arrive at our meeting point once the call is over. I check my answering machine on my work-phone once my call is over. I remember my work phone going off coz i forgot to turn it off in a call once and I was just mortified because the person calling kepts calling over and over...never gonna let that happen again! lol

not just two condoms, silly....two *types* (so a few of each) If I was a condom sales person I would definitely be guilty of using too much of my own product ;-)

true however, i would expect that if you have an "unusual size" that if you know you are going to be dancing in the rain ahead of time or at least an hour before, to make a trip to the drug-store and bring your "specialized" umbrella..know what I mean? I bring 2 brands with me but I have always had no problems with Lifestyles sensitive, no rips etc...and the size is usually decent. if your member is strangely large or small or you prefer a certain brand and wont go in protected if we dont have it or guilt the SP should she not be so accommodating as to have your personal brand/size....sorry man, you're not going in without :-) and you're not getting your money back condom use is everyone's responsibility....not solely our's. To be clear however, a proper SP should never show up without, BUT dont expect us to show up with a suitcase of every brand. seriously! ps. E.D. man...if you mean un-prepared as not having a condom that suits you (and not just not having one at all...eek!), you can avoid that by letting the SP know your request ahead of time....expecting variety is not cool...we're not mind-readers (or penis-readers) lol

I understand that having children living at home surfing for adult material is not proper but his attack on "good girls ? cheerleaders, honor students and college graduates" (mainly the college graduates) posting their services on ("honourable") CL as something the parent should get involved in, is absurd. CL is a site that, yes is honourable....however, if it was in any way afraid of being less honourable, wouldn't have the section under services labeled "erotic" granted, Dr. Phil is preaching from different rules, mainly those that follow under the American ones, which as I've noticed, don't follow the same rules as us in Canada Keep in mind, I understand what hes saying about parents keeping an eye on what their children search on their computers and post.....but if we're of the consenting age, and of the age to work in this industry....don't guilt the parents. One of the reasons i absolutely disagree with Dr. Phil is if something "wrong" happens with the "children" its the parent's fault for not noticing right away. That to me is wrong if they are of age

had to light a late night smoke before writing this post. who the hell do these people think they are???? it REALLY pains me to think that people like this are getting grants for their "research" only to give their "informed results" as twisted views of their own opinions. I had a similar conversation with a close guy friend when he found out I was working. he immediately felt sorry for me said things like" "if you had a man treating you with respect, you wouldnt be doing this!" "Why would a girl like you who has the means to be doing anything else be degrading yourself to all those perverts???" i told him (in less polite words) to 'go away' people think that if we actually like our jobs that we need therapy.....and that we're being used by macho men to fulfill their dirty sexist power needs what about male-escorts? do you think that the ripped male SP is looked upon or pitied in the same light as that? I'm infuriated that the hotlines and SVU officers etc that have cared and helped people like us without judgment or empowerment have been the first that organizations like CLAP will frown upon....they tell us our rights of the criminal code...keep us informed and give us the power to do what it is we do without shame CLAP (which if they really cared about their message would offer their lectures in english AND french...especially if they were hosting it on Bank street and not over the bridge) seems just out to force their opinions without listening. I'm happy I didnt show up to this today because I have a very short fuse this evening....but next time, let me know Erin and I will be there telling these idiots (IN FRENCH) that they can "sucer mon trou du cul" xo Annessa

Ack! I slept all day by accident so I didnt make it, LOL totally frustrated tho more because I was interested in going.......can't take my frustrated self on you tonight, monk, as I'm fully booked, but maybe this weekend? hehehe On a more serious note did anyone go? I'm interested to hear what the tone of this gathering was

Embassy West on Carling & Kirkwood has been known to have rooms from $89 (changes sometimes weekly however, but is posted outside the building on a sign)... some of their newer renovated rooms are very nice....the building has been somewhat under slow construction however for several years someone mentioned Days Inn? I'm not sure if Ottawa has one (haven't checked) but I've stayed in a Days Inn in toronto before for a day-rate and it was more than reasonable...I think $60-something plus taxes from noon till 10pm....worth looking into if theres on in Ottawa or closeby ....and then theres always incalls :-)

i just remembered something that made me laugh from last week... when I told a hobbiest calling my line my hourly donation he said (exact words)..... "hmmmm...yikes, umm..do you have anything cheaper?" I'm not even sure what thats supposed to mean, LOL LOL LOL!!! I should have told him he could have a whole 30 mins of 'dinner at the Y' for $200 ;-) hehe

i just remembered something that made me laugh from last week... when I told a hobbiest calling my line my hourly donation he said (exact words)..... "hmmmm...yikes, umm..do you have anything cheaper?" I'm not even sure what thats supposed to mean, LOL LOL LOL!!! I should have told him he could have a whole 30 mins of 'dinner at the Y' for $200 ;-) hehe

1. "is that picture really you that you have on your website/ad?" 2. "I know you said this fell into your 'restrictions" but what would it cost ME extra to do that...since we seem to be getting along so well?" 3. So where do you usually hang out when you go out on the town? 4. "why is a pretty and intelligent girl doing what you're doing...you're so much better than this" (seriously you think we're victims to your demands and the industry....NEVER ask this while thinking its a compliment, guys. NEVER!) 5. " i want to be your ONLY call tonight for 'obvious reasons'...and I'd only like to book you for only an hour... I hope thats ok?" 6. "how is 'business'?...you must be busy these days eh?"/ "how many more calls do you have tonight"/ "how many have you had before me?" 7. on a lighter note: ......"can I have MSOG and can I book you for 15 mins?" hehe as for the subject on clients providing a name...I ask for a name, why? to know who I'm addressing. I tell my clients who dont want to give a name (at all) that its for their own benefit..... should knock on the wrong apartment door, it would be terrible if someone else got the call they were supposed to get ;-) usually I have a name provided pretty easily that way...real or not, my driver knows where I'm going and I never service motels or any other hotels that dont take credit card or valid ID

1. "is that picture really you that you have on your website/ad?" 2. "I know you said this fell into your 'restrictions" but what would it cost ME extra to do that...since we seem to be getting along so well?" 3. So where do you usually hang out when you go out on the town? 4. "why is a pretty and intelligent girl doing what you're doing...you're so much better than this" (seriously you think we're victims to your demands and the industry....NEVER ask this while thinking its a compliment, guys. NEVER!) 5. " i want to be your ONLY call tonight for 'obvious reasons'...and I'd only like to book you for only an hour... I hope thats ok?" 6. "how is 'business'?...you must be busy these days eh?"/ "how many more calls do you have tonight"/ "how many have you had before me?" 7. on a lighter note: ......"can I have MSOG and can I book you for 15 mins?" hehe as for the subject on clients providing a name...I ask for a name, why? to know who I'm addressing. I tell my clients who dont want to give a name (at all) that its for their own benefit..... should knock on the wrong apartment door, it would be terrible if someone else got the call they were supposed to get ;-) usually I have a name provided pretty easily that way...real or not, my driver knows where I'm going and I never service motels or any other hotels that dont take credit card or valid ID

OMG sorry!...meant to say "I support the ides of NOT exploiting children/illegal imgrants" (*inserts foot in mouth*)

this is a tough call for me because frankly I'd really like to show up and show these so-called experts that all of us have a choice in what we do and are not always victims of society or terrible upbringing....I have a degree, and still dabble in my field when I feel my beckoning call, dont have an addiction...maybe a child to support however. but no one is holding a gun to my head. however the above quote by erin (who by the way i want to go to this thing with you with!! msg me) identifying why the brou-ha-ha (as the french say, meaning "nonesense") over consenting early-teens being labelled as victims......this is a very touchy subject....some of us lose our virginitys at 12....some not until age 25....who do you think has more responsibility over their actions and knows why they are doing what they are doing when thay are doing it? I support the idea of exploiting children and perhaps some illegal imigrants (by the way...I have to say the coment about the asian girls on CL seeming forced etc....know your facts before you assume...there are every sort of race out there that turns a man on....the russians, asians and whoever else have the sexy heavy accents...whether they're playing it up for the client and writing in broken english on their decsciption doesn't always mean they are naiive...in fact I know far too many girls that do this on purpose) ..howerver i would like to attend this to make sure that the child and imigrant exploitation and what we do is not melted into the same pot....this may turn into a scream-fest...but hopefully the right awareness is generated because of it...and all parties listen and respect all opinions. I for one am willing to listen.....but will have a hard time keeping my mouth shut should any of us be misrepresented ps...I'm fluently bilingual ;-) xo Annessa

*blush* why thank you, spud ;-)

Hi everyone! Thanks for all the great comments! *blows kisses to you all*

hehe...with a hint of je ne sais quoi? *pinches fingers together and kisses them* muah! I love you ottawa boys...less talking...more walking :-)

Ack! tell me about it. the multiple accounts is a good idea as I post mid-day these days to just get "in there"...and not in a hot way, lol Theres so much of the class that gets buried under the fakes and the tacky adds. My clients and I almost make a sport of which makes you scream "false" I used to post once every few days and I'd be alright....maybe I should take a polaroid and black out my eyes instead of using modeling shots. (and yes that was sarcastic) :-(

even more strange when it has her working girl name on it, LOL "Mommy, who is Annessa? are you stealing $250 from her???" UNMARKED envelopes!!! its leaves a hell of a lot less explaining for us to do should someone catch a glance of it later in our purse... Great info Mod! I personally always never take money from a hand just to be safe rather than sorry but having all this spelled out as plainly as day is oh so helpful. Some things really are black and white. Thank you for abolishing the grey xoxo