Ava Foxx

Very interesting topic. I will say this; there ARE men out there who will accept their SO's choice to be an SP. They are very accepting and very open to dating, and then falling in love with, an SP. These men will fully support a woman who has chosen a career as an SP. They will ask how "work" was and if you had a bad day, they will offer support and encouragement. They will tell you that they are proud of you for making a difference in someone's life (applies in the cases of the gentlemen who are lonely or who are in sexless marriages and need to feel desired). They see the business from both sides...the men's side and the SP's side. They also see the business from the "business" aspect and the personal aspect AND they are okay with the fact that you make personal connections and bond with certain gentlemen. They are secure and feel no jealousy (even if you want them to at times...just a little bit ;)). They will never bring it up or use it against if you have an argument and they will never call you derogatory names that can, and are, used in this business. The life you share together will be as "normal" as if you weren't an SP. They are not "doormats", pimps or perverts. Just open minded and accepting and they will treat you like a princess and cherish you for the treasure that you are. I could go on and on, but I think you all get my point :). These men are special in their own right. They are not easy to find, but TRUST ME there are men out there who will accept, support (in every aspect) and LOVE a woman who chooses a career as an SP. I know there is. BTW, there is NOTHING wrong with a man not accepting a woman's choice to be an SP. I'm just saying there are men who do accept it :).

My 2 favourites are: http://www.fastpasstv.com/ and http://www.movie-forumz.org/index.php If those 2 don't interest you, you can find MANY other sites here: http://www.ovguide.com/

Guess that answers my question! I personally want a football team...

Oh good...I thought I was the only one that was unsure. Susie, do tell! Did you write the article??? CERB minds want to know!

They phone their mailman? Is it limited to Canada Post mail carriers or do places like UPS and FedEx get calls too? LOLOLOL! I'm SO sorry...I had to...

Thanks! Was just curious :). I've never seen a w4w in the Erotic Services section of Montreal CL. Now I have to go check...lol :D.

Just to clarify, are you talking about ads in the Erotic Services section or ads in the Casual Encounters section?

Do you know how often I get told I look like Belladonna??? Not my body obviously, but my face. There's a swingers club here in Montreal that I love going to and there's always someone who'll stop me and tell me I look like her :-P.

I often find that when this happens with some of the gentlemen that I see, it's usually due to the fact that they are "overthinking" the whole situation. I agree with what almost everyone else said...just relax and go with it! By the way, your description of going at it high school style...fast and hard...turned me on. Sometimes, I love it when a guy "uses" (for lack of a better word) me like that just to cum. I find it so hot! It's so raw and animalistic!

Thank you so much WU! It was like some sort of instinct kicked in (FINALLY! lol) and I no longer felt like I had to be polite or careful so as to not hurt his feelings so I told him straight out that I would not hesitate to charge him.

Congrats Erin!!! You go girl!!!

You have NO idea. I only gave a brief summary of the type of text messages he sent. He definitely has issues. I am so glad that I moved to a different apartment shortly after that incident. I hated that he knew where I lived :(. Thanks for the nomination! xoxoxoxo You're my first ;) heehee :D

I have been VERY, VERY fortunate and have only had something like this happen to me with one client (normally I do not use the term "client" when referring to my gentleman callers, but this guy doesn't deserve to be called a gentleman...as is the case with Rachelle's "Fred" ;)). I saw him 3 times in total. The first time he came over, he failed to mention that he only wanted a 30 minute rendezvous (incidentally, I no longer offer 30 minute rendezvous'). Well, he ended up staying for 2 hours and only paid me for 30 minutes. I should also mention that at the time I was offering a promotional rate so I did not even receive my usual rate. I blamed myself for not asking how long he wanted to set the rendezvous for, at the time of the booking. I was still fairly new to the business and not 100% confident in myself and how to handle these types of situations, so I considered it a learning experience. A few weeks later he booked another rendezvous. I begrudgingly agreed to see him...once again, this is where being new to the business plays a role in my poor decision. I felt like I "had" to see whoever wanted to book with me. This time I made sure to ask how long he wanted to see me for. He said 30 minutes. Well, he ended up trying to stay longer but I told him that I had another rendezvous to prepare for and that I was pressed for time. He handed me the donation and went on his way. I counted it after he left and realized that he had paid me the discounted promotional rate which had expired a couple of weeks earlier. So this time, he shorted me by $20. Again, being naive and having little confidence in myself and my rights, I blamed myself for not informing him that the promotion was over and I let it slide. For the next little while I avoided him. I told him that I was unavailable or already booked when he would try to book a rendezvous. I finally caved and decided to see him again. He had been rather nice in his emails and believe it or not, I actually felt guilty for avoiding him. I was SO naive :(. This time he wanted to see me for an hour. He showed up with 3 bottles of beer which was very nice but I guess he figured that because he brought me a "gift", he was entitled to more of my time. 3 hours later, I'm all but shoving him out the door. I know, I know...I have no one to blame for myself for letting him stay well past the time that was agreed upon to begin with. Once again, he hands me the donation and foolishly I wait until he has left to count it. You can imagine my disgust when I discovered that he had only given me $50!!! But wait...it gets better!!! He then texts me and tells me that he has a confession! He proceeds to tell me, vis text, that he is the person who had been FLAMING me on another review board (turns out he had a crush on me and I guess he thought that flaming me would hurt my business and possibly get me to stop working in the business altogether...who knows...)!!! Now, I'm pissed!!! I texted him back telling him that what he did was horrible AND I point out to him that he owed me a substantial amount of money. That's when he started getting belligerent. He told me that he had been very generous with me (WHAT???) and that he now saw me for who I truly was (his words). He called me greedy and he referred to me as a woman of ill repute (again his exact words). He told me that he had been planning to ask me out but changed his mind because he deserved better than me. I told him that I would have not accepted his invitation in the first place. He then proceeded to tell me that all SPs are greedy and dishonest and he had obviously been "looking for love in all the wrong places" (yes, his exact words once again). He sent me about 50 text messages that night. He went from being apologetic, then to being angry, then to being rude, then to threatening me and then back to being apologetic. I repeatedly told him that he was to never contact me again but the text messages just kept coming. I ignored him and he finally gave up for the night. The next day, a few more texts came in as well as a few emails. I ignored them at first but then finally had to tell him that I would file a complaint against him for harassment. Thankfully, that put an end to it. I think that's when I began to realize that if I was going to make it in this business I was going to have to stand up for myself and my rights and I've been doing pretty well ever since! In retrospect it was a small price to pay for a very valuable lesson :D.

I'd say almost all of it is enhanced.

Hey...last time I checked we were tied at #37!!! Someone's been busy!!! I'll catch up...got some down time now...hurt my back :( By the way...CONGRATS on #100!!! :-P

In all honesty, I wish I could greet all my gentlemen callers in an outfit like this. It makes me feel sexy :). But I understand that different people have different tastes and I try to accomodate them to the best of my (limited wardrobe...lol) abililty :).

I have to say, some of the findings you've all made are pretty gross. Dirty underwear, dentures, towel with a BROWN stain *gagging*. Felt a little nauseous as I was reading through...lol.

WOW! DEEPLY disturbing!!!

Emma...I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you *hugs*

You DO have a GREAT ass!!! Great body all around :-D.

You just totally jogged my memory on finding weed! I was once doing a spring cleaning of my apartment and I found a bag of weed! I never touch the stuff, therefore I knew it wasn't mine, so I gave it to a friend. However, had I known Erin back then (only know her from the board :wink:)...lol...I would have given it to her! By the way the friend I gave it to was the guy that runs the corner store. *He lets me buy beer after 11pm* :lol:

AWESOME! So umm...was it one of my early films? LOL! Kidding!

What did you do with the phone? By the way, I've been meaning to tell you something Samantha...I love your posts and I really have a lot of respect for you. I look up to you :-). Kisses!

I came across these threads on a forum for frequent flyers. It's about what people have found in their hotel rooms. The first thread is R-rated stuff that's been found and the second thread is just about other stuff that people have found. http://www.flyertalk.com/forum/travelbuzz/473858-why-do-so-many-people-hide-adult-oriented-magazines-behind-drawers-hotel-rooms.html or http://www.flyertalk.com/forum/marriott-rewards/509534-strange-things-found-when-checking-room.html I found it very amusing. I'd love to hear some input from the members of CERB about their hotel room findings! Happy hunting!

Awwww...I didn't mean to pull you out of your sex haze :(. And by the way Mr. "AttilaTheHun", since when do you call me "AvaFoxx"??? LOL! Just Ava please...lol! You know I'm teasin' ya ;). xoxoxox