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Ladies, I am just curious about what expense claims you are permited to make. I am going to list what I think is legit, but I am NOT a tax expert and I could be wrong, so please correct me. - advertising - special outfits - condoms and lube - hotel rooms - if you see clients in your home/apartment, then some portion of the rent/mortgage as well as utilities - toys - wine/beer if you offer it - professional photo services I am sure I missed other expenses, ... just add to the list people.

The Crowne Plaza is right downtown. Close to the transit way. The rooms have CD players, so you can bring your own tunes. I have gone there at 11:00 PM with no problems.

I had to look this word up. To everybody else, like myself, who does not know the definition, it means: to offer or kill as a sacrifice. This is most disturbing. Bella thanks for bring this to my attention. I can not imagine how a woman could end up in the state of mind, where one's sense of worth has been so eroded that this is all that is left in life.

Cato, When you started this post, Cameron and Sabrina came to mind. These woman are just amazing and remarkable people. Amanda, was someone I always wanted to meet, but circumstances kept getting in the way. Thanks for posting a great topic.

Right on Cato. I often feel the same way regarding the women in this community.

This seems very easy to me. Just have the SP read the reco before you post it. Anything she wants added or removed can easily be negotiated. And as a bonus you can even relive the experience.

This guy betrays the trust she gave him. Now he is torturing her with his blog. He is a huge ___________________________________! . . . . . . . . (project your own derogatory terms here)

Quite simply, trust them like any other professional. Just like going to a restaurant, you trust the chef to do the job.

This is what the CERB community is all about. Helping each other out and looking out for each other. An excellant example of the right spirit. Kudos to all these ladies.

Dabbler, In my previous post I should have said that I think this is a good idea. I can see myself participating in one of these events. I enjoy the social side of the hobby. There are some great people in this community that I would want to spend some time with.

Hey Dabbler, I would suggest that you chose a definite date, time and place, and ask members to post that they will attend. I find your initial propsal is just too general.

Peachy/Val Glad to hear you are going part time. Being able to book an evening with you would be awesome.

Please don't do it. There have been times when I slip a recommendation into the lady's advertising thread. I like to do this because it is quick and easy to just add a sentence or two. I have also pointed out mistakes with links and what the correct link is. I also think it adds something to have a little dialog going on.

There are some ass holes that do this kind of shit on purpose. I do not understand their motivation but for sure they are out there just wanting to harass the ladies. A no show is the worst, I would like to think that it is a rare event in the Cerb community.

Bethany, I like how you broke your rule and ran with your heart. Sometimes you should break the rule, you had no idea how it would end up, so why not take the chance. It is sad that your trust in the former client ended up being betrayed. I hope to see you in July, when you return.

I am a dragon. But I am a laid back dragon, that doesn't smoke.

Bella, From what you say and how you say it, it sounds like the dancing is a liberating experience for you and us guys are just along for the ride.

Thanks for the insight Annessa. You are a true professional.

I like to have no expectations. But I always seem to enjoy my self either way.

I think this gets into agencies versus independants. I have never used an agency, but I suspect it would be less of an occurance for those and more common for the independants because things happen in their day to day lives that need their attention. I can accept that, it is part of the independant's world. So for me, I like to book in advance and then on the day of confirm with a text an hour or 2 before the appointment. I think this is pretty much the standard routine. The question for me is how much of a commitment is made with the initial booking? Because when the text confirmation is not answered/ignored does that mean you were stood up? Does that mean you are not owed an explanation at the very least? Would an apology be expecting too much? I would really like to hear from the independant ladies on this.

Cindy, Without a second thought it is David Sanborn's "Pearls" released in 1995. He is a jazz sax player and I would describe the music as sensuous. The tempos are laid back but he manages to work in lots of notes. It always adds to the mood. We have yet to meet my dear, but when we do I will bring this CD along with me.

Cigarette smoke can be a huge turn off. I don't always think to ask about it, as it is "normal" to not experience. Perhaps it is too much to expect the providers to have a warning that they smoke. I much prefer that they are smoking hot and not just smoking.

Check out Peachy. She is a great SP.

Guys, Brace yourselves for the photo coming up posted by cato.

Saw Erica today. She gave me a great haircut, and then we went upstairs. I booked an hour and had a most enjoyable time. Erica has lots of personality and enjoys what she does. I will definitly be seeing Erica again and again. She is unique and a gem.