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Due to intellectual rights expiring the following books have popped up and while I was never a huge fan of Austen's work...I may have to read these out of sheer curiosity. Pride and Prejudice and Zombies http://www.amazon.ca/Pride-Prejudice-Zombies-Classic-Ultraviolent/dp/1594743347 Mr. Darcy, Vampyre http://www.amazon.ca/Mr-Darcy-Vampyre-Amanda-Grange/dp/1402236972

Sigh...hopefully the moons align again and I can finally experience it first hand...double sigh.

As this thread was about agencies (I haven't really dealt with one), then became a dancing vs. escorting debate (not enough experience yet imo to give a viewpoint on the merits of each) I have no comment on either topic...but... I do want to talk about discussion and debates. In my mind a great discussion is centered around people with differing views expressing their thoughts and trying to explain why they believe their viewpoint is a valid one. I personally love a great debate, I consider myself fairly intelligent (who doesn't:lol:) and actually love being proven wrong in a worthwhile debate. Any time people can share ideas and thoughts everyone benefits. I don't believe someone telling you that you are wrong because they have first hand experiences is an attack, I think it is a valid discussion point and one you (or anyone for that matter) could benefit learning from. I may not know you SA, but I do believe you when you say you have made many connections with dancers and have had many heart to hearts with them. But I think if you compile all the notes from dancers, club workers and ex-dancers/ones with dancer friends in this thread and bear these in mind next time you visit your favorite clubs, you will probably notice some of the things they talk about. Just because you don't disrespect the women at clubs doesn't mean many others do, and do so in grotesque ways.

Hear, hear Dummpy! While I am not quite ready to move into a GB myself (haven't even experienced a duo yet, have to ease into things as they say;)) I have absolutely no judgment on others who do so. In fact the reason I am in the group is because the writeups and events sound like a blast (literally) and I may venture over there some day. Is anyone here naive enough to think that the person they see as a favorite does nothing else with others? Is she not allowed to spend her time in any way she chooses? When she sees you solo the next time is she any different because she engaged in something you don't want to try? To reinforce what dummpy said about some on CERB frowning on different types of recreation that others on CERB enjoy: 'people who live in glass houses should not throw stones' No one in the poly group forces anyone to read the threads, to attend an event or pass judgment on those who choose not to try, the group is there to try and facilitate new experiences...isn't that why people come to CERB...for experiences, whether they are simply or complex. At the end of all this the message should be that it's none of your business unless you want to attend, otherwise move on and leave others well enough alone.

It's funny when I was younger, much before I started 'hobbying' I tended to be attracted to tall thin girls as I am a tall thin guy, it is just what i looked for. I never thought in terms of 'spinner' or model style bodies, it was just what I looked for when I was approaching women. As I got older I started to look at tall, short, curvy, thin, small chest, large chest, etc...I never really labelled or thought of them as a type, just attractive women. In fact I never really saw the spinner term used widely till I joined CERB. Like mentioned before by coachg I look for experiences more then anything else, if I find someone intriguing and attractive then it does not matter if they are a 'spinner' or curvy...I just want to meet them. I love women, I love the feel of them, the taste of them, the look of them, the curves that all sizes have and will gladly meet and experience anyone who I find attractive. Oh and I can't even understand why someone would not write rec's even though they had a good time because the person is normally not their 'type'...it's just silly. Did you have a good time? Did you like the person? A rec on this board can mean a lot...so write it!! (with her permission of course).

Aces, jazy has a recommendation thread here: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=13876&highlight=jazy When (or if) you write one and add it to her thread don't just shout out 'see her now'(as mod mentioned) , it ends up sounding like you are her advertising firm or agent and that will only harm her reputation, not help it. Try to describe why you think she is one of the best on Ottawa...some rec writing tips here: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=11882&highlight=writing+tips A good series of recs can make a great impact on someone as many here look there before calling a new person...Jazy fortunately has many, many nice rec's already.

Very nice rec and I nearly spit out my coffee laughing when I read this...

The funniest part was that I showed up quite late (for good reason:twisted:) and outside on the patio was 4-5 (hot) women and a few sharp dressed men, I milled about them for a minute and actually asked a generic question...oops, not poly group members...yikes! Wandered inside and spotted one of the women I know from here. It was nice meeting a bunch of you for the limited time I was there...:-D

This is one of (if not the) best albums on CERB, the lovely Miss Chanel http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=782 Any of these pictures could also place her in the beautiful behinds and breasts threads as well...stunning!!

The easiest and best way is to hire a company to provide search engine optimization work, Google has a great page with some do's and dont's http://www.google.com/support/webmasters/bin/answer.py?hl=en&answer=35291 The other way is to do it yourself with keywords and other tricks as described here: http://www.webreference.com/promotion/seo/ Most search engines crawl for keywords, the more keywords on your site or in your code that describes your message (ie. victoria escort) the higher you are ranked. Classy Angels probably paid for search engine optimization work and they are ranked accordingly. I am not a web designer so I am not the best at the optimization thing, but the two articles can help you quite a bit, they also have some references to SEO companies you can hire to optimize your site to be ranked higher. Hope this helps a little....

Very nice rec Pete! Where do we find details on her? I am hoping you told her about CERB?

Yow! I love nipples that poke through like that!:bowdown:

Hear hear Charlotte! I do understand though, when I was REALLY new to the hobby I was a little taken aback by the cost, especially as I knew I would prefer longer sessions. But once I dived in and compared it to what I would pay to meet, wine and dine and then sleep with a potential fling/GF/mistress it really does make a hell of a lot more sense....especially if you have an SO. It all boils down to what you are looking for, most of us on CERB are looking for experiences, I can't think of any experience I have had that was inexpensive. I have white water rafted, mountain climbed, back woods hiked and any number of interesting things, all of which cost a lot in equipment, time and booking. I will honestly say a couple of hours with Charlotte, Emma or Miss Cloe (among others) equals or tops any of these experiences for pure intensity and enjoyment. You also should be wary of entering this world if you are on a tight budget...visit this thread: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=17 To see some of the scary stories of people going for great deals on CL. Some people are shaken down, others ran off, still others left with someone completely different (in a bad way) from what they were promised. I would stick with what Charlotte said and save up for that one great experience per x days/weeks/months. Trust me, the anticipation is amazing in the lead up to the encounter.

Kissing to me is essential to the experience, it is the first steps towards each other, the way you gauge your progression with someone and the start of the passion and intimacy. Without kissing it just devolves to a mechanical process imho. I make sure (as best I can) that anyone I see is OK with all types of kissing.

Well written account UrbanKid...I am fairly new to the hobby (March)but had success fairly quickly because I am an avid researcher and I am very patient when I choose to do something. I think my introduction to this hobby went so well because I started with Massage Providers. Joining CMJ (search for it on the board)was one of the best things I could have done because it brought me into this world in a way that wasn't as intimidating or nerve wracking. Heck all I had to do was lie on a table and let a woman spoil me. After a few visits with MP's I found myself wanting more intimacy and adventure so I approached a very feisty redhead on this board and had a great first experience in the SP world (thanks Red!). It all came down to getting in my head what I wanted from the experience and taking the time to communicate with the person I wanted to meet. I think you now know the best spot to look for details on amazing women and many of them are incredibly approachable via PM on this board or e-mail. As mentioned I would avoid CL till you are a bit more savvy (and potentially always as I do) and look at the announcements and recommendations section to validate your ideas on what you want. CERB is a community and we are pretty protective of the women on here, but if you dig deep and show respect there are great discussions, great members and above all amazing women you can encounter. Good luck in the future!

By God Emma you are always a Plan A+++ I never have a plan B, nor do I want one, I plan my encounters far in advance and know what I want...if it goes sideways (only happened once...for a good reason) I will wait for my next chance. If I really want to see X person (which is why I chose them) how could I have as pleasurable a time with another that just happens to be available. My expectation was for X and Y may not offer the same things or be the same body/look type. I dunno, I guess I have never felt that I have to have sex today or right now no matter what...I prefer the experience over the simple act. Currently I have 2 encounters set up this month (hopefully a third soon)and eagerly anticipate each one...if they fall through at the last minute, I will be disapointed, but will just go home and watch some porn methinks. As to what you do, it is a bummer, but put the planned money aside and move on, the best thing about hobbying in Ottawa is the sheer amount of amazing women we can encounter. I would still send an e-mail and give her a chance to let you know what happened, if it was an act of God or explainable reason I am sure she will make it up to you. If not visit the announcements section, then the recommendations section and try to contact another lovely and interesting woman for an encounter at a later time. I think especially because you are new at this you should make sure you do all you can to ensure you will enjoy yourself, pick someone that suits your fantasy and not just your immediate urge...if you do and it's mechanical or not what you were looking for, you may not want to try again as you were double burned.

you know Cherry this may be the exact reason....I know I tend to push in deeper at the moment of release...sure I am not alone in this, it seems to feel almost instinctive to me...maybe she was worried about that extra unintentional thrusting that could potentially hurt her.

I am interested in intimacy and passion so I always book some extra time and bring snacks or beverages so we can sit and Chat before we start anything. You are right (in my experiences) that you will probably have more connections with an SP as you are doing something a lot more intimate together as opposed to her doing most of the interaction when you are with an MP. If you are an introvert and have trouble starting or continuing conversations then you will probably have issues. Like LazeyGeorge mentioned think of the tactics you use in regular life. Is the MP from another city? ask about the city, is she very fashionable (before she disrobed :smile:) ask about the type of clothes she likes, does she have any tatoos, ask about those. Find a similarity and try to connect with that.....like Annessa said there will be some that are not great conversationalists or not interested in chatting, I would move on to another if that is really important to you. My most memorable experiences (with MP's and SP's) were the ones I could connect with as we chatted before we got more intimate, it costs a bit more to book the extra time, but it has always resulted in a more personal and intense experience....

It's funny, I was looking at this thread and thought...wow...I never call it anything weird or cute. Mr. Happy or Throbbing Python of Love has been used on occasion, but that is more because of Robin Williams standup routine! :lol: http://www.themadmusicarchive.com/song_details.aspx?SongID=29162

I contacted her the moment I saw her announcement yesterday! Very excited!:twisted: Now if only Suri would return to CMJ....

Cat, I have never met you but I imagine a LOT of people (myself included) are going to be excited to see you posting again. As I came up to speed on CERB when I joined earlier this year many, many of the best posts came from you...hope you are back?

When I saw Charlotte last she mentioned she would be back today for a short trip and if possible we could meet again that day. I booked very quickly and again counted down the days till she arrived. Charlotte is an amazing woman and very sexy, this time I wanted to spoil her a little so after we sat and chat for a bit I undressed her and had her lie down. I proceeded to give her a long sensual oil massage sprinkled with lots of light touching, kissing and licking. We both got kind of worked up as I was doing this and when I finished her massage she flipped over and we embraced into a passionate kiss. We proceeded to have an incredibly erotic afternoon together, lots of touching, lots of kissing, lots of different positions, and lots of orgasms. All of it was incredibly sensual and exciting. Something about this woman drives me crazy, her beauty? Her phenomenal body? The way she writhes in ecstasy? Her confidence? Her intelligence? All of it I think. Once we were spent we lay in bed naked together and I lightly traced the length of her body as we sipped wine and we just chatted with ease and familiarity. I could not stop looking at and touching her... Thank you again Charlotte for an amazing, passionate and sensual Friday afternoon! Oh and I can only think of one thing wrong with Charlotte...her taste in movies! ;-) (private joke)

:bowdown: I am a nipple fan and WOW these are amazing...Big_Dog you have to start telling us who they are!!!:smile:

But there are sooo many fun ways to make sure she lets you leave! I always make sure I give her many reasons! :twisted:

As you know Emma I never leave till you let me leave! I am in this for the intimacy, passion, interaction and fun...if things come to a head quickly I would fill the time with more foreplay (afterplay?), cuddling, kissing, or just naked conversation in bed....I have no idea why someone would leave before the time is up.