MandalayBay

As a service provider, I am also thankful to what each gentlemen teaches me. With every new client I meet, I become a better person and a more knowledgeable, adventurous escort. I can't imagine what several years of experience would bring. LOL The ladies who have been doing this a while must be absolutely INCREDIBLE!

These look fascinating. Thanks for sharing. Any other good movies/documentaries about the industry?

That is so nauseating that my heart goes out to gentlemen who have experienced this. Yuck!

Love it........!!!

To unwind, I enjoy the following activities: Spending time with my children (my absolute favourite thing!) Sleeping (after working late nights so often) Reading (lately reading a lot of sex books to improve my services) Visiting my significant other in TO and/or having phone sex with him when we can't be together Believe it or not, seeing certain clients feels like down time and is relaxing and 1000% enjoyable (something I'd do to treat myself anyways) Chatting on CERB (alleviates the loneliness I sometimes feel and I love the ladies on here, who are complete dolls) Shopping................!!!

It happens on rare occasions to SPs too. I wish all gentlemen (not just 95% of them) knew how much nicer it would be if they always showered beforehand (making sure to lather and rinse all body parts at least twice). Clean Armits ... rectum ... genitals (pulling back the skin and cleaning well if you're uncircumcized) and brushing your teeth makes our job so much more enjoyable. I can't speak for everyone, but I will do SOOOO MUCH MORE with a clean, fresh-smelling man than I will one that is not. As the acroynym goes, YMMV (your mileage may vary).

And when a SP is treated well and genuinely likes her client as a person, there is nothing she won't do for him.

Tee Hee ... I'll never tell. I was actually surprised at how good taking this kind of "virginity" felt for me. Many nerve endings in this incredible location. I'm so glad SPUTY introducted me to the concept. Thanks honey!

You took my virginity that day and I will never been the same!

You would make an amazing politician Sputy! I could be your campaign manager and perhaps the other SPs and I could create a political burma shave (standing on the street, cheering, waving and hold signs to vote for SPUTY) in bikinis. This could actually work! SPUTY for prime minister!

This is a great post. I love my clients as well, but nothing makes me more uncomfortable when someone asks me to do a non-paid activity outside our client/sp relationship. If I want to befriend a client outside our working relationship (i.e. talking on the phone, instant messaging, doing activities as friends) I will make the first move. Having a client make the first move in trying to do this puts me in a very uncomfortable situation. As much as I enjoy the company of my clients, I am also a mother ... a small business owner (outside this industry) ... run a household ... a committed daughter/sibling ... a volunteer ... a good citizen. I can only do so much and only have so much time in the day.

Hi Emma, I have very different opinions about trade ... I absolutely love it! I have a specific page on my website called "Trade" where I list the items and services I'm willing to trade my services for. Here's what I've been able to obtain so far: * 2008 Vehicle (The deal is complex, but a portion of it will be paid on ongoing trade and the rest I will pay to him in cash payments towards full ownership of the vehicle with legal contracts in place protecting both of us.) * New Stove I am in the midst of negotiating having renovation work done on my place. It's very important to have legal contracts done up to protect both parties. I personally love trade ... but it's not for everyone.

Thanks for all the kind words. Reflecting back, the tears were not for him. They were out of anger for allowing myself to tolerate the BS for so long until I was ready to explode. I have mentally prepared myself for how I will respond the next time this happens. I will firmly say "If I have to say no one more time, I will leave." If he asks again, I will grab my cell phone and make a call to a "protector" and leave. The gentleman did respond by email today and did accept my message for what I wanted him to. Here are his words and the fact that I have given him a shock makes my time worthwhile in writing my letter to him. Dear Mandalay, I know you asked me not to respond but I am. What a way to wake up this morning. I'm looking straight into the horror of my actions, my life. You have shaken me to the core...and I thank you for that. What kind of a person am I to do those things, to you, to my family, to me. It's time for some very serious self reflection. Please accept my apology. You are an amazing person and I'm fortunate to have met you because you have helped me. Please know that you have affected me in a great way and whenever I see myself moving towards that behaviour, I will remember this email, remember your words of encouragement, and I will do the right thing. Thank you.

For the first time in this new career (just one month), I have had a very bad experience. So much, in fact, I had to take hours out of my day to let this client know how much his behaviour affected me on a personal level and with the hopes of making sure his mistakes with me would never be repeated with another service provider. Hi XXXXX, I thought I would take the time to write you an in-depth explanation as to why I can never see you again. I'm not sure you recall everything that happened XXXXXXXX night because you had much alcohol to drink, but a part of why I am writing is also as a therapeutic exercise to myself. Although I didn't show how upset I was (to my regret), I cried as I drove home after seeing you. On my website, I have a very clearly written list of rules/etiquette that you reassured me you had read beforehand in full. I'm not sure if you fully recall, but last night you broke and/or attempted to break 7 of these rules/etiquette that were listed on my website. http://www.mandalaybaylover.com/Etiquette.html The most upsetting rule to me personally was to ask me to have sex with you without a condom. I know you are a husband/father and would never intentionally do anything to jeopardize your family's health and well-being ... but what you requested of me (having sex without a condom) is the worst possible faux pas you could have with an escort and the worst thing you could do to your family. I realize you had much alcohol to drink, but that request could have resulted in you bringing home a deadly STD that could have killed your wife - the mother of your children - and devastated your entire family and life. My words are harsh, I know, but need to be spoken. I was honoured that you opened up to me and showed me photographs of your beautiful wife and adorable children. I also feel you need to be reminded of the possible exposure/devastation you could have brought to the ones you love. I am a very responsible escort and care very deeply about my own health and also your own. If I may kindly ask you to do some reflection on your actions while under the influence of alcohol please do so, if only for the well-being of your beautiful family. As you pleaded and begged with me to have sex without a condom, I kept seeing your beautiful wife's face in my head as well as the adorable faces of your children. I also saw my own children's faces as well as the gentleman who is the love of my life. No amount of money is worth risking the health and the future of the people I love most dearly. No amount of physical pleasure/release is worth your own family's health and well-being. I know you are a good man deep down inside. Please do not accept these words with anger and take a moment to re-read and realize that I am writing these words out of kindness and a personal need to pass along an important message to you. Please be careful and if alcohol takes you to a place where you are unable to make responsible decisions (such as having sex without a condom), perhaps it is time to re-evaluate the importance of alcohol to your life. There is no need to respond, apologize or say anything other than accepting my words without anger or judgement. I am not a perfect person and most women in my position would simply never call you again. I hope you can appreciate my courage and concern in taking the time to write this very difficult letter to you. Warmly, Mandalay

Hi Cara, Welcome to CERB. In my opinion, this is the best forum as the moderator is terrific and doesn't tolerate bullshit, drama or bullying. The group is very welcoming and you will be hooked on CERB in no time. It is fun to go into chat and turn on your web cam for the gentleman. Also be sure to check out the nominated posts as they are filled with incredible information. Mandalay

I'm in Winnipeg and was told that there wouldn't be the demand for my services because my rates are a little high and I offer more of a courtesan service. Most of my clientele are gentlemen travelling to Winnipeg on business. I am very happy with my experience in Winnipeg. From what I've seen, if I travelled to Ottawa, I would make a ton of money. There seems to be a big demand out there too.

I would do Tom Beringer for free ... I love his sexy eyes and lips ... Yummy! His sexy face just screams "Jump on top and fuck me!"

We are going to relive it soon, darling. I can't wait! BTW ... do you recognize yourself in my original post?

You have a great point YoungStud, but it would be fun (if he so desires) to spend a few minutes watching pornography while laying in bed together playing, touching and enjoying each other. If he has a foot fetish, I will try to ensure I have porn about that. If he likes watching women squirt (which I haven't done yet, but sure am having fun trying to do) then I would provide videos of that. It's another way of making foreplay fun. Some men may want it. Others may not. But it adds extra value to my service, so why not offer it. What I mean by that is that I am probably not going to go bantering into a hotel room or house of a new client with my expensive audio system and 17-inch laptop computer. Doing so may put me at risk for being robbed, so I would probably leave the laptop in my trunk at first until I feel safe and like I'm not putting myself in danger by showing up with so much expensive equipment on me.

I just thought of one other "Do Not Do" piece of advice for gentlemen. Please do not tell me about your financial limitations and try to coerce me into agreeing to discount my rates for you because you're special. If you can't afford my rates, you shouldn't be contacting me in the first place. You wouldn't show up at a fancy restaurant and bellyache about how hungry you are and why you are entitled to their high-end cuisine ... but should only pay the price of a McDonald's burger. Please don't do that to service providers. It is very insulting, makes us uncomfortable and in my case will result in my never seeing you again. I have invested thousands of dollars into providing my lovers with items that make your time with me a memorable experience. i.e. perfumes, sexy lingerie, stereo sound system, quality wine, chocolate, fresh fruit etc. I am even about to introduce the service of arriving with a 17-inch screen laptop computer filled with erotic porn to suit the needs of every man's desire.

Those links to write ups were a little sad to read. She sounds so angry and bitter. (I mean no disrespect to her as everyone has different experiences and should not be judged as all feelings should be respected.) I hope this doesn't come across as weird, but I look at my clients as men I am in relationships with. I love hearing about their thoughts and feelings. I also don't mind sharing personal things about myself after trust has built up. If there comes a time when I am as angry as the woman who wrote that link, I will probably walk away from the industry.

Okay ... we need to get a more men to intrigue Emma to come to Winnipeg. Not sure how many appointments she needs to have set to make a visit worthwhile, but we can create a wishlist. If you're in MB and want to see Emma, mention it here. It if the list is long enough, maybe she'll finally come! LOL

Yes Emma! Come to Winnipeg. Please!

Antlerman ... it would be a pleasure to meet you. You also seem like a very nice person. I ask potential lovers to fill out an application to be my lover on my website. http://www.escortmandalay.com I will then contact you to arrange a meeting. Coachg ... can't wait to see you again!

I love getting recommendations as it helps me to attract more good clients who treat me well and make my work an absolute pleasure!