MandalayBay

I thought it would be interesting and informative to create a thread listing advice that SPs could give gentlemen who hire service providers. This would be somewhat of a "don't do" list, if you may. Here are things that clients have done that have turned me off and made becoming sexually aroused difficult. I'd love to hear from other SPs and hear their advice for gentlemen who hire SPs. MANDALAY'S "DO NOT DO" LIST * I despise aggressive, strong bear hugs. Although you may be excited to see me, do not grab me and give me a strong bear hug. Bear hugs are painful and I can't breath when a man is doing this. It also sometimes feels like my ribs are going to break. Gentleness and tenderness is more of a turn on. Lifting me off the floor in a tight, painful bear hug hurts and is a major turn off for me. * Do not grab my head, man-handle it and force it towards the body part you want me to touch. Words work just as well and physically attempting to force my head somewhere really turns me off. * Shoving your tongue down my throat is also a huge turn off. The tongue is meant to tease, not to make the other person gag. Here is the best article on kissing I've ever read: http://www.ehow.com/how_4678193_kiss-like-porn-star.html * This is topic that I thought would be common sense and wouldn't have to mention, but must be brought up because there are a few men that need to be taught this (not many, but some). When having a shower, one must always use soap on both their genital and armpit areas. Cleanliness is particularly important for me and armpit/genital body odor is a sure way to turn me off. Please make sure every inch of your body has been soaped and rinsed at least once. * Please do not put cologne or any type of fragrance on your genital areas. If it accidentally gets in my mouth, it tastes awful and reminds me of having my mouth washed out with soap when I was a child. LOL * The clitoris has thousands of nerve endings. Biting it and being rough hurts and gentleness is preferred (in my case).

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CoachG ... I have a major girl crush on Emma and want her to come to Winnipeg too. Emma ... come to Winnipeg! The red carpet will be rolled out if you come here sweetie! It truly doesn't get any better than SPUTY (who said he'd come back to Winnipeg just to see you) and COACHG is so fucking hot he'll knock your socks off. I'm counting down the minutes to when I can see both these men again. If I could have the opportunity to hang out with an SP like Emma who seems as beautiful inside and she is outside ... I would be in SP Heaven!

I CANNOT wait to see you again! The pleasure was truly mine!

Hee Hee ... if there was a section where SPs could write reviews on the gentlemen they see, I'd definitely write about SPUTY!

You also have to be very selective in the music you put on the Ipod or MP3 player. It can't be too romantic/loving as I believe there would be nothing worse than accidentally playing a gentleman's wedding song during your session. That would NOT be good. Music like that of Inigma, Enya and Delerium are a good start. Men have told me it adds an ambiance that elevates their senses in addition to visual and touch.

Ummmm ... never onced burped ... never once fartted ... large, beautiful penis ... no hideous deformities ... handsome face ... he's a gem and a very humble one at that!

Sputy is one of the most amazing men on the planet. It truly was my pleasure to have the opportunity to spend time with him. Ladies ... if this gentleman ever expresses interest in seeing you ... you should truly feel honoured. He is a true gentleman, a hopeless romantic and one in a million. I am a better person for knowing him!

Tee Hee! That's too funny, Angel. If the American had any idea I am doing what I am doing as a result of him leaving me the money after our "loving, passionate weekend", I think he would have a heart attack and die. He is the most wholesome man in all of America and thought he was doing me a once-in-a-lifetime favour. If he only knew!

I even went so far as investing in a high-end portable sound system ... and spent 12 hours researching and downloading the most erotic, sexually stimulating music ever written. Playing this music adds a sexy mood that makes for an unforgettable passionate evening!

Perhaps I'm not 100% heterosexual ... as I thought I was. I have a girl crush on Emma. :oops:

SPUTY & GORGEOUS EMMA ... That would be my ultimate fantasy! Emma - I consider myself heterosexual, but I believe you are breathtakingly beautiful and would love to meet you on one day.

Thanks Sputy. *blush*

I got into the industry after spending a weekend with a well-to-do American gentleman without any talk or thought of payment (or even my becoming an escort). He and I met on a "dating" website that had nothing to do with paying for sex in any capacity. Had somebody told me a couple months ago I would be escorting, I would have guffawed. Throughout the weekend, the American and I had a wonderful, romantic, erotic, beautiful time together. He had to leave the hotel before I did (for reasons related to his business) and I didn't need to leave the hotel for another couple hours after he left. He told me he would leave cab fare on the end table. We had a passionate kiss and embrace before he left, and I crawled on the bed to watch TV for a while. About 1/2 hour later, I looked over at the end table and he had left me $1,000 U.S. My first thought was "holy crap!" Escorting has allowed me to pay off bills and do things that would take me years to save up for doing my "non sexy" daytime business. The American gentleman still calls and emails in an attempt to get together again. I've told him I met another man ... which is partially true. I have met many other men. :twisted:

I find it offensive when asked for a discount because I offer my clients the full erotic experience without cutting corners on my end. I have put so much thought and so much money into making sure the experience I offer is unforgettable, that I feel insulted when asked for a discount. For my sessions, I always show up with: A very good bottle of wine (not just the cheapest bottle I can find) Expensive chocolates (Lindt by Lindor) or other high quality brands A fruit tray with a delicious creamy dip A selection of expensive perfumes for clients to choose for me to wear Thousands of dollars worth of sexy lingerie to select from A full, portable sound system with erotic music I've spent hours putting together All of my clients pay full rate and some even top it up with a tip in addition to my rates. If you want a hamburger, go to McDonalds. If you want a high quality steak, go to 529 Wellington restaurant in Winnipeg. One wouldn't dare show up at 529 Wellington and ask for one of their steaks for $5 because that's what McDonald's charges. The most insane request I ever received was a man who emailed me and asked if I would give him a discount because his penis was 12 inches long. I laughed out loud and thought to myself that I if his claim was true, I should charge more for an 12-inch penis because it would probably split my body in half and give me a painful kidney infection afterwards. LOL

In my opinion, the brain is the sexiest organ on a man. Some physically plain men have become so incredibly sexy to me because of their confidence, intelligence and creativity. On the other hand, some physically gorgeous men have become unattractive to me because of their lack of confidence, intelligence and creativity.

I LOVE LOVE LOVE going down on a man as well. There is something about it that really gets my juices flowing. If I'm not super horny and in the mood when I first begin a session, it immediately changes after about 30 seconds of tasting his cock in my mouth.

What is the sexiest thing a SP/Hobbiest has ever done to/for you? For me there are two: 1) The first is a gentleman/lover went down on me in a way I had never experienced before. He was so gentle and light with his tongue, used his breath to tease me, kissed my thighs and teased me until I was begging to cum. Such prolonged teasing resulted in the most intense orgasm I have ever had in my life. Maybe it was him. Maybe it was me and my libido at the moment. Maybe it was a combination of the two. But I have NEVER experienced an orgasm like that in my entire life. I tremble just thinking about it and can't wait to experience his tongue again. 2) Another incredibly sexy thing was when a gentleman/lover took me for dinner to celebrate our "three-day" anniversary. I was completely surprised when he presented me with three, long-stem red roses (each symbolizing each day we have known each other), a joke gift (which is between the two of us), a beautiful diamond bracelet and a card with a beautiful letter handwritten in it. His treating me like a princess and spoiling me really got my juices flowing and we had an incredibly passionate evening together afterwards. I'm curious to hear about the sexiest experiences other men and women have experienced. p.s. Both gentlemen gave me verbal permission to write about my experiences with them ... so no need for any lectures on discretion. LOL

Why isn't there the answer "no?"

I am new as well and here are a few things I've learned. a) Craig's List advertising generally attracts the lowest of the low (not always, but generally). Advertising on the Escorts Canada website has brought my business to a new level. I pay approximately $50 per month for my ad and since I manage/design/update my own website the hits are incredible. Before Escorts Canada and advertising on Kijiji and Craig's List, I was averaging 15 to 30 hits per day. Escorts Canada brings me hundreds of hits daily and I don't even have a very large ad on there. b) Read the book "Sex Secrets of Escorts - Tips from a Pro" by Veronica Monet. It is not written to lure women into the industry and more towards regular women looking to understand men. It has taught me so much and was the second best investment I have made since advertising on Escorts Canada. c) Be weary of women pretending to be your friend and wanting to "guide you and teach you the ropes." I made this mistake once and this person has gone straight for my throat. Don't trust other women until you really know them. d) Be very careful what you post on any escort forums. Even having the best intentions can lead to controversy and attacks. I'm sure you felt shocked by the seemingly negative reaction to your innocent question. You can imagine how hostile things can get if you make a mistake. I have learned this the hard way. There is a reason why many escorts don't post very much on forums and I understand this by learning the hard way. CERB is the friendliest one I've been on so far.

If you ever come here, please let me know. I'd love to treat you to a nice dinner and show you around the city. Are you originally from out East?

I very much enjoyed reading this post and the tenacity that mod has! Kudos to you!

I would like to develop a list of service providers willing to teach me and "my lovers" about various fetishes and sexual activities. To promote my three-hour time package, I suggest on my website a variety of different activities my lovers and could partake in. I am going to add a section where at the gentleman's extra expense, we could perhaps go to a service provider that is an expert in a particular fetish or sexual activity he is curious about. If there are SPs who specialize in any of the following activities, please privately message me with the fetish/sexual activity and what your rate per hour to teach us about it would be. I would ensure cash is paid to you immediately upon your arrival (or our arrival to your location). Some topics that men have inquired about are: a) Domination and Submission b) Foot Fetishes c) Female Ejaculation d) Anal (Although I don't participate in, perhaps there is a service provider willing to teach about the topic and perhaps participate while I watch the two of you. Your fee would need to incorporate whatever you ar comfortable with.) d) Tantric Sex e) Sexual Massage Thanks

I Eraser. I am a mature SP (at a whopping 34 years old ... LOL) and actually prefer men between the ages 40 to 65. In fact, I rarely agree to see gentlemen under the age of 40. If you contact me privately, I will send you a link to my website. xoxo Mandalay