survived70s

Im on the road to XXXX... I recall a FS club just off the XXXX near XXXXXX... Anyone know if it is still open? Also, I have heard of another club off of the 40 on the north side... any ideas????

Not so sure that I agree with all of the advice... I too dated a dancer (well, more than one) and spent lots of time with her, her family, travelled together, kinda played house at a friend's condo on the weekends... oh yeah, I was and am still married...it was ok... All that I can say is enjoy the ride while it lasts and keep telling yourself and her that you are enjoying it and it does not bother you whenever it comes to an end... You may find that other dancers may want to fool around with you... and she probably doesn't want you with other dancers at the club... you have to try to not be a man whore... However, what saved me was my family taking priority over my affairs. It gave me a mental perspective to separate the two worlds. If you do not have other ties that rind you it may be trouble... What to do next? Invite her on a holiday (to a place that does not have a casino). Ask her if she wants to quit gambling and save her money...

Prostitution is not illegal. Communication in public about price is. In some cities in Canada, the police have advised that a room in a massage parlor is considered private. What I like about Clubs like Hilltop is that you could chill, have a drink, then decide which girl, you wanted to have entertain you... Would enjoy a club like this in the area...

Yes, i agree that we are very lucky in this city... In public, sex is kind of repressed and deep down inside, the men are horny motherfuckers dying to make out with the hot ladies in this city! There are a lot of men that travel here for work, not just the wealthy MPs, but reporters, government bureaucrats, businessmen, and travellers! Because of all of the consumers of sexual services, us guys are blessed with the hottest sexy service providers! I have not been consuming lately... Think that I am going to have to get me some!

Don't mean to gripe but... i dropped by Barbs in the afternoonm I finished something a little ahead of schedule... I was going to split, but one of the ladies convinced me... but by the end of the dance, panties were still on. So, I did what i rarely do - I stopped after 1 dance! Maybe I should post under peaves...

A few thoughts... You may want to ask her if she is interested in quitting gambling, getting out of the manic depressant cycles - ask her if she realizes that she will just "go back, Jack, do it again, wheels keep turning round and round" (Steely Dan). There are programs available. She does not need to hit rock bottom. Some people are lucky enough to have friends/family to help them clean up their act. if you are a kind of high roller kind of guy, ask/invite yourself with her, with the understanding of how the night will end with you and your friend together. 1,000 is what some escorts will charge for a night on the town. The gambling concillors advise against giving gamblers money, understandably so. If you want to step up to help yiou could agree to do stuff like buy her groceries, pay rent, negotiate bank and credit card issues, but not bankroll her gambling unless you have 10k and want to have a "wild ride" - but that is not for me - she could give you the time of your life, but, in the long term, it is very depressing... been there done that and burned the Tshirt! My 2 cents if you are an old guy (like me), make an offer and have a really really good time - you are in control and she may really have feelings (or not). Realize that it is just a short term thing and enjoy it for that! I would not let her turn me into her bank (without benifits)... Cheers

I understand the problems with gambling. It ruled my life for a while and almost ruined my life. I don't gamble any more - glad that it is over. There are organizations that can help people free themselves of the addiction. Highly recommend it. Had she been more coniving and not laid it out, you probably would have been sucked in... so much more honesty! There is no short supply of desperate people doing desperate things for money. Understand why a lot of gurls have developed a very thick skin and are hesitant to discuss their real lives and addictions that rule them... also, not everyone is messed up, thank God!

The zoo (plaza) is ok. Its been a while... Nothing like Montreal or Ottawam as everyone said... The city has been hasseling them for years. Its oficially no contact. My advice is catch a few drinks for a girl, then go for a few dances. Manager is lesbian, thats ok. She doesn't like the girls getting dirty. some girls can get wild, but don't want the other girls getting jealous. kinda funny that the best milage was tipping on the stage! Dunno why!

Was at my old home, the Playmate. Mo dropped by. I noticed a very attractive new hottie. She was constantly busy! Finally our eyes met as she was leaving the CR with a much older gent. We shared a drink and really nice leisure conversation. During the conversation, she mentioned that she prefferred older men. I was enthused as I am 51! She looks about 17, but, no worries, she is very legal! Suffice to say that the CR dances were super hot! She genuinely appreciates older guys! Her dark latino eyes are so hot! This gurl is incredible! I mentioned the site and she said it was ok to mention her name. Thanks Corrina, you were so nice!:-D Hope that she will have time for me on my next visit!

We all know that you should never, never, ever pay in advance. I did give an insanely hot beautiful dancer a little cash in advance, didn't work, never does. I blame myself for being that stupid when I look back at it. Its kind of a rule, if I get asked about that, my response is 'how dumb do you think I am"?

Wouldn't surprise me if she left the business. Wish her well whatever she does.

To start with, did you ever hear of the Michel brothers ? They were porn producers, one killed the other over a girl that they had both gotten involved with. He did his time and runs the club in San Francisco. They get adult porno stars and also features in adulkt magazines there. The place is a sexual smorgasbord ! 4 or 5 clubs in one. I highly recommend it if you get to cali - it is worth it, but it can get to be very expensive ! I was there a few years ago. One of the girls I was with was a feature in one of magizines that I just bought. It was quite the experience !

I also do not like the idea of mentioning specific clubs and/or individual dancers in case LE surveils this board, and other dancers could complain to management and/or civic officials and/or LE.. The ladies expect discretion.

Some of us have addictive personalities and must learn from past mistakes.... else suffer the fate to cysysfus (typo for sure) and keep rolloing the rock up the hill only to have to roll back... Doubtlessly, we are best to learn from other's mistakes - perhaps the term is judgemental and I should say life experiences... I learned to value future pleasure versus present pleasure and also factor in family needs. I had a lot of help from very kind wonderful people over the years. I never denied anything to my kids bacause I selffishly over endulged. I suppose that I always have to be sure that I don't get too carried away.

Not saying that it happens all the time. Early in the new year, it happened right under the freakin camera, it was crazy... I stuck up for her on another site, and had known her for years.... Discretion is the better part of valour and perhaps I have said too much. Regulars know what dancers are "open minded". Usually, when they take a guy to the CR, they do not come back for quite a while. BTW, I never experienced anything close to FS at the Den - I never really go there... The problem is other dancers - obviously they won't make any money...

Times are tough. I am a regular at too many places. Dancers know that I loyal to my hot gurls, and don't get jealous. I sincerely hope that gurls aren't as dirty with everyone else are they are with me.:p Yes, gurls with hot bodies can do crazy shit when they want your money and you start off polite, considerate, etc. I always always ask my lady if i can touch her here, kiss her there, etc but only after a few dances.... sometimes it ends up in FS, and nothing is hotter... I don't pressure, and I always prefer to buy drinks for the ladies as opposed to spending my life savings in the CR... But, if they really insist.... When the club is not busy, it is better for fun in the CR. FS can happen in pretty well any club. God, do I ever appreciate open minded sexy hot gurls that are cool enough to share their beautiful bodies !:-D

Biking along the Ottawa River, under Parliment Hill is fantastic. along the canal is OK when you avoid rush hour... The Ottawa Ex is free on opening day until noon (I think).

I have often wondered about this. I don't pay big money to gurls to sex me in a strip club, but it does happen. Once right under the camera. I know the owner and told the girl that I luv for the world to see what we were doing ! She laughed. FOr some reason, sex in the CR is the hottest. But, I have never asked a lady if she would want me telling the world about it on this site. I think that we all know what the ladies would say, don't we ? Also, if you blert on cerb, won't Ottawa's finest take note ? also, if the gurl becomes too popular, she may not be available to bang ur brains out ! Hopefully the gurls arent desperate for drug money, it could be a case of them trying to out do each other in spirit of competition to see which one is gonna make you come ! I have told some of the ladies about this site and invited them to join. Some may want to try being a service provider on a slow day... I used to get 3somes at the Eclipse in Regaud. The girls enjoyed it and gave me a break on the price. At some clubs like the Fax, you better read the sign about the costs. It is 25. for each gurl. Yes, usually they actually are girlfriends or are into each other - they will give you one hell of great show, but it will cost you !

Went to the mate at 8 Friday. More and more hotties kept streaming in, couldn't believe it ! The mate was my home away from home until I got into the hobby. I was there tonight and I have to tell you that there were lots of ladies there. It was incredible. As much as I do luv the ladies, I need to hold back or I could spend my life savings on the dancers and have no cash for the hobby ! But variety is the spice of life and some of the ladies do occasionally bring therr work home. The girls get to know "regulars". Discretion is the better part of valour. 'nuf said ! Mileage was decent, and man the ladies were great looking. Meena has the most incredible ass and German blonde Alexis was feeling hot and friendly too. I recommend tipping on the stage ! We do have to respect that some girls just want to dance and not sex every guy they meet, right ? When you go, buy the DJ a drink and he will play a request for you ! I miss Big Daddy though ! Everyone in LE is wasting their time chasing dancers in this club - they are legit.

It had been a while. I was at the Mate on Friday night and had a real good time. Lots of great looking, friendly ladies. All that I can say is that timing is everything. I just realized that later on in the month, there may be more dancers trying to make rent, or make monthly payments, etc. I probably would have stayed all night, but I was lucky enough to have a lady friend invite me over :) - probably saved me a lot of money !

I still go to SC, the girls at Barbs are fantastic - I met Caressa the other days... Financially, I cannot afford SC and SPs... Have met a few dancers that are also SPs and/or SPs that are former dancers. The SC scene is a lot better than it used to be...

I guess going a few years back, when clubs likely Vegas, started VIP sections, you had to buy a bottle of chaqmpaign to take a dancer into a private area. Things are a lot less expensive now !

Someting like this happened to me at another club, I got to talking to a very hot gurl about her gambling problem, didn't realize that she was charging me for the talking. After we actually had a few,dances, she told me I was at 8. I didn't get confrontational. I smiled and pleasantly explained that I am used to sexing for 200. We made a deal (more than usual) - she ended up dancing on my dick, we both were very happy ! Very, very hot. Boys in blue - this was not at Barbs, so don't raid the place !

I happened to be in the area, decided to catch a drink, I'm glad that I did. I ended up meeting a lot of very friendly ladies, they were very laid back, not husselling for dances, was late afternoon. The ladies seemed to appreciate sharing a drink with an older guy. Yes, the club is a little dark and not newly renovated. It is no Pigales, for sure. I used to like downstairs at the Chaudierre in my earlier days... To me, what makes the difference is the ladies, and, last night, it was great ! Friday was a hit. I left about 7:30.

SA, you definately are not alone. Alexa was very perceptive and it is important to understand the other side. I persued a relationship, became involved with her family, and it did feel a little akward if I got to think about it. (My family put up with it) The most uncomfortable moments was when her mother, my age or maybe a bit younger asked me about children - she wanted to be a grandmother some day. Actually, during the relationship, I realized how lucky and happy I was to be with her, and made a point of telling her that it didn't matter if she found a younger guy tomorrow, I was enjoying every day as if it were the last.. Don't think I intentionally used her, but we both knew it wouldn't last forever. As already pointed out, there are basic biological forces, but the media may also have a significant impact on your desires. At some point you may tire of going out with younger ladies and you may be best advised to keep in touch and stay friends with that 30 year old, if and when the time comes...