Unfortunately I've never had any luck with any of the ladies at Ralph's. If anyone has any suggestions on which dancers may be approachable I'd like to know. Most at Ralph's are friendly enough, but so far no luck. There are a number that I would love to know better. Since I've had luck at the old Load and Lighthouse, and in Montreal and Toronto, I'm hoping it's not me. I enjoy seeing a dancer on stage and being with her later, so I too am hoping someone can suggest a dancer. If not I'll keep trying.