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Reading the updates (time shown 1:30pm to 2:30 pm approx) and thought something really eventful was about to happen, but then it turned around and so it won't happen. Oh well. Elissa finally wakes up and decides she wants to actually play the game, and she still manages to go one step too far, or maybe the other HGs are just really that stupid, because they turned it all around in a way that did not match what i was reading her saying. Some people will have to figure it all out for themselves, which will be pretty obvious after the next eviction week. Oh, look, everyone else is gone and McCranda is still here, F3, and guess what, neither of them are choosing me to go next to them as F2. huh, I wish someone had told me that weeks ago...........

This literally made me cringe. And I have a feeling it probably does your SO as well? Someone who can only tolerate a gentle touch is going to be wary if not outright reluctant to have someone who is too forceful touch them again, after giving one or two warnings, they will probably just back away from having them touched at all. I usually recommend guys who are too rough that if they start soft, they can never go wrong. If a lady wants or can take more, they will say something. I also think male nipples do not have the same intensity of sensation as female ones, so keep that in mind when you start trying to turn the dials. To me there is nothing worse than the combination of someone not only pulling but also twisting at the same time. *shudder* So, my answer to the questions is softly softly and if in doubt, softer. and no teeth. First thing I say to everyone, you can touch but not bite. And i promise not to bite your most sensitive body part too.

I always just say Thank You. It is nice to hear, but I have in the back of my mind something a friend said about me that she appreciated I didn't respond with a fake modesty or denial kind of reply. Doing that tends to look like fishing for more compliments, just saying thank you shows appreciating the comment, and nothing wrong with that. Also saying thank you doesn't mean you necessarily agree with the compliment, lol, and that you have a big ego. You'll find you get compliments for the very things about you that bother you, or that you'd like to keep hidden. Funny but true.

I think he was saying that members should go and visit sp profiles to view their albums rather than posting more pics in more picture threads. I don't think he was saying sp photos should be in the picture threads :) Maybe there is a little used subforum that all the picture threads (all 21 I see lol), can be moved to and new ones, (ack! more????!!!) can go there instead. I am not sure where, just a thought that wouldn't require creating anything. Or merge them all into one thread, make that a sticky and no new just for pics threads can be created, all go to the one place, and the rules for picture posting laid out.

I thought Elissa missed a big opportunity by using the Veto on herself when she could have used it on Helen. For one thing, she keeps saying she wants out, and she could have gone to jury, gotten her yoga mat (who knew that you have to have a yoga mat to do yoga properly???!!! Everyone should tell the people who have been doing it for hundreds of years or even prior to 2002 who've been struggling along valiently doing it without a mat!!!!) That would have been a big move, then what would everyone have done with themselves lol. Plus by that time, Helen might have clued in they were out to get her, because she'd see them vote out Elissa and realize they were all lying to her. duh. I think she almost had GM and Aaryn, before she cried that Elissa wanted to not go to jury, and therefore "when' (not if) Helen is final 2, she won't have Elissa's vote. Um, someone who assumes they are getting there, when there are still 7 other houseguests, becomes someone who all 7 now want out the door lol Today Elissa is saying to Helen, you can't trust Andy, and Helen still won't listen. I guess she won't listen on Thursday when the vote is in. Andy originally was going to give Helen one vote, when it was E and H on the block, but now that E can give Helen a vote, I am not sure he will risk what GM might do with her vote. I think it will only take 3 to keep helen, and truthfully the only way GM is going to progress in the game is if Aaryn had put up say Amanda or McC as a pawn, and she, spencer, and Elissa all voted him out and kept Helen. voting out helen means for sure they won't have the numbers to get out McCranda. it also means when the Jury HGs compete to come back to the game, now their return isn't going to impact the game much. if Amanda was the pawn and voted out, and competed to return, there is little chance she would win any competition to get back into the house, so she'd be out and someone with an axe to grind about Andy, Aaryn, and McC alone would be in. That would be an interesting game, and far too late now to make that happen. If they do vote out Spencer, there is a really good chance he will win the back-in-the-game comp because he shows he is actually pretty good at the challenges. He might be pissed, but only at Elissa and GM, and Helen as well, and if he gets HOH, or even just voting, is likely to vote

Me too. I like a shout box that is for public chit chat, not so much the last minute or update advertising.

I am wondering if she is more responding to ambition and pursuit of interest more than intelligence. It doesn't always take a high IQ to do well in school, but it does take drive, ambition and interest to keep doing it long enough to get some letters after your name. She may also be attracted to high school drop outs who are highly successful entrepreneurs. The point is more that she likes a guy who has interests and ambitions beyond beer and hockey, and is working on achieving those goals. I test well on IQ tests, but lack the ambition to stay in university to the PHd point, but also lacked the desire to write papers, do research, make the reports look the way people want them to look. Sometimes creative people also have trouble focusing on these kinds of things as well, not that they can't do it, more that they don't want to do it, and would rather spend their time doing other things.

It's always flattering to have someone give you a compliment. I might avoid the 'you look hot' type of comment tho, find a way to say the same thing without it sounding like a come on :) Hello, i hope you don't mind me saying this, but you look really great. You take care of yourself, and it really shows. :) and go on your way. Try to avoid chasing after him down the street to get his attention ;)

Well i guess it will be no surprise to see helen and Elissa go up. And Helen had better pray she wins the Veto, because if Elissa does, there is absolutely no one other than her that will be voted out. And i guess she will figure out next Thursday that mcCrae and Andy made a fake alliance with her lol. What will be interesting is what would happen after the 4 evicted guests get a chance to return to the house, and Helen is the one returning knowing what she will then know about M and A and Amanda. :) otherwise at this point, I don't care if anyone wins, there is no one left in the house that I feel strongly about, except maybe I can get behind Andy winning. But while I used to want McCrae to win, he's been doing pretty much nothing other than hide behind Amanda, and while he may spend time disagreeing with what she's been saying and doing, it really hasn't hurt her game at all, but for him, to not make any moves or win anything, those things are not helping him at all, considering he is basically still there because Amanda is a bigger target, and no one is targetting her or at least no one has been successful to try. Helen will regret the day she chose to get out Judd, Candice, Jessie and Howard, over Amanda and Mcrae, for sure. Can't believe a BB fan wouldn't see that.

I have a clock in the room that is rarely at the correct time, but is sufficient to measure how much time has passed. But the least obtrusive way i have for 'measuring' time is using pre recorded music. Then i know the songs that come up at half way and the final 3 or so, and if someone is getting close to the end, the music does shut off before the actual half hour. The clock then allows me to monitor an extra 5 minutes or so but not more than that before things really do have to wrap up. I think it is an ideal way to be aware of the time without being accused of being a clock watcher. But also i think that we do need to be aware of the time, not for the guys who are not expecting more for free, but for the guys who are trying to work around the limits they set up when they paid for a time. it is easy to argue 'well, it was 1pm when i got here and now it is only 1:30" when you know it was really 12;50, but it is hard to argue with "well, the music ended, so time to wrap things up'. It is either still playing or not, but it only lasts a specific amount of time, and when it is done, that specific amount of time has passed.

I would agree content would have to be reported first so admin knows about problem posts, but at that point then they are 100% responsible for dealing with it immediately. Because there is no legislation that compels them to do this, sites that are run by those with an immature mentality or lack of knowledge of even basic laws will continue to allow defamatory or criminal posts stay up. And at that point, i think that it is fair to allow someone to charge both the poster and the site itself for actual crimes against the person who reports it to LE or seeks legal assistance. And probably as sps who are subject to being discussed on sites that are often run by immature and legally ignorant people, that would be why i have this particular POV. IF sites were run responsibly, like cerb, then defamatory posts would not be allowed to stay up in the first place (after being reported), and that is really the way it should be. Newpapers don't report stories without fact checking, because they know they can be legally responsible for any false information in a story written by one of their reporters. It isn't just the writer of the story held responsible, but the entire publication, and that is exactly how forums and internet sites need to be handled.

It's a difficult thing, because frankly I think that websites need to be held criminally responsible for the content users post on it, but alot of that has to do with the fact that I was a victim of a defamatory post by another sp last year. Attempts to get it removed and/or locked were ignored by the site admin, until a complete investigation by a team was done, and proven to be falsified. The problem with this is that the thread should have been removed as soon as it appeared because it failed to provide any evidence to back it up. And this is something that is common on different sites for sps as well as other types of sites all the time, but maybe especially relevant to mention regarding sps. If the site admin allows derogatory remarks, the poster needs to back up the claims with real evidence, or the posts need to be deleted, and possibly returned if the evidence is provided. otherwise people can and do say anything they please, without repercussions. Just as often the real victim is silenced, or comments removed. So i do have a real hard time with people who want to defend the right to post whatever they want to, even though obviously i don't want this to include the right to shut down legitimate advertisers just because once in a while someone who is underage also posts an advertisement. There were about 100 underage sps found through a nationwide sting action in the US recently. After all that work, thru the cooperation of bp, they were successful to find that many. 100 is a very very small fraction of all the ads placed on that or any other site in a day across the US, certainly not enough to justify shutting down the entire section imo. Maybe these legal experts should spend more time on legalizing prostitution in the US so that then instead of targeting all sps advertising, they can focus on just the obvious underagers. Because during that sting, what they don't want to mention, is that a LOT of over 18s sps and clients got caught and charged as well.

Before you get overly flamed for this, you should know that sps sending out solicitation type pms and messages etc is against the site rules. Sps place ads, and respond to direct communication. which means it is entirely up to you to read the ads/websites, recommendations and initiate communication yourself. We are not here to audition for a casting calls lol and it is unfortunate to mention that you may actually get some messages due to this thread but the sps you probably should be seeing are the ones who will not contact you and now not want to see you due to having to come up with some kind of over the top performance to impress you, and no one really likes that.

I don't like diets that eliminate entire food groups. I had good success with Weight Watchers many years ago, and have heard the same feedback from others. It teaches you how to eat and encourages choosing items from all types of food, usually I think now you have these little points cards, so you pick items until you get to your day's totals. so you can eat your favourites, but they might cost you a lot of points. eventually you get used to eating a healthy diet, in moderate amounts at regular intervals. The main thing is that there isn't any of that 'going back" to what you normally eat, because all along you are eating what you like to eat anyway. the easiest way to lose weight and maintain it is to just change one thing, and add one healthy thing. So if you drink 2 beers at the end of the day, cut back to one. If you eat fast food 5 times a week, cut back to 2 times a week or choose the healthier FF options. then you add one thing,, like in the time that you were drinking that extra beer, now you are going to walk around the block after you return home, and before you go inside. or you will start drinking 8 glasses of water a day. or take the stairs, or do crunches while watching tv, etc etc. WW also has prepared meals and treats available if you don't want to take the time to prepare stuff. :)

Judd's biggest crime from what i could see is that people believe he was MVP for the past 3 weeks, after they realized that Howard wasn't that one week. the other possible reason is he chose not to take the Veto that time and jessie was able to keep it and use it on herself, not exactly the wishes of the house. the fact that America has been MvP doesn't seem to be a popular assumption at all, and it doesn't help that Amanda ends up being put there and seems flabbergasted that anyone would do that, especially America. i have never seen a group of people that clueless about being on live feeds and After Dark, and the majority of them are BB fans and should know better. reading all the stuff from BB14, i don't think i ever saw anyone do anything like these people are doing. it doesn't help that half of them seem to be medicated for psychological reasons lol. of all the people to backdoor, they chose Judd, and failed yet again to make a real big move. i doubt very much had they kept judd and back doored amanda that mcrae would be sorry, he'd soon have realized that what he forecasted would happen happened, amanda did it to herself. The looks on everyone's face, including Candice's really was priceless when julie told them the next evictions will be going to jury. I think everyone is pretty worried about it now, all things considered, but why again they didn't get rid of amanda now escapes me I think that by the time there are 4-5 in jury, one of them will get a chance to return to the house. That would be following the usual process. One thing they should have is a coup d'etat and an extra veto like they did last year. not sure if they will or not, because they have a lot of people and a lot of things going on, but those are about the only way to get the HGs to start actually playing the game rather than making everyone follow one or two's decisions.

I guess what the houseguests don't know is coming up. CBS announced that the next evicted houseguests (since it is DE and two are going out on Thursday) will be the first in the jury house. So all that planning and evil behind the scenes, well, 'surprise' lol Candice will be there, if voted out, and whoever is after her, and right now they are planning and plotting who is next because they do not want Candice and the next evictee to be in jury. Oh my

i think one of the best pieces of advice i can give is to follow the advice you now have access to. I can't tell you the number of times I've read someone posting that he's new to it, he's read the reviews, he's read sps posts, and then he posts his first review (on a review site) and it is clear that none of that reading made a bit of difference. He managed to find the one out of every 100 ads that was B&S, scammer, fake ad, fake promises, and flakey, and now he's taking the time to post about it. just don't be that guy and you should be fine. Choosing an sp that is right for you, a good match for you and your level of experience and newness is the difference between an oh, what did I just do and oh, wow, let me tell you what an awesome time I just experienced!!

re:DE it would have been awesome had they decided this was the time to evict Amanda, because the 2nd eviction could have been just anyone else, it would have been ideal. Everyone keeps saying oh it's not the time to vote against the house, but who is the 'house' really. Even Elissa is questioning why people who weren't going to ever go against her personally are gone from the game. Some of them are going to wake up and realize the only ones left are the ones who want them out, and everyone who would have voted with them are gone. GM, Amanda, Aaryn, etc are still carrying on. Aaryn just the other day is in HOH watching the monitors saying (when she sees Candice on the screen): Get into the kitchen Aunt Jemima and make me some pancakes" and not even 24 hours later denies she says or has ever said anything racist. makes me sick also that BB decided the unitard would be Clowny, Aaryns clown doll, because they had to know Candice had a one in 5 chance she'd be wearing it as a POV prize. i don't know if helen knows or thinks it doesn't matter that others are looking to put her and elissa up together, she thinks they'd vote out Elissa, but they discuss that helen would be the one to get out. Elissa is actually making connections to others, while many are seeing that Aaryn followed directions from Helen during HOH, and GM followed to win McManda's directions for nominees, so these two are not laying low, they are getting to be known for making others do what they want done. That usually puts a target on a back. Should the guests vote Amanda out this time around, they'd be keeping two players in there who would definitely vote out helen, McManda (either or both) and then see who's left behind to actually play their own games. What no one seems to realize is what Andy is up to, they can't figure out why they discuss something about anyone, and next thing you know that person knows what they were saying lol. I usually only watch the AD after Thursdays eviction, to see who won HOH if it is a long challenge, then Friday/Saturday to see who got nominated, including MVP and results of the POV. I watch the actual shows to see the challenges since they don't show up on AD, :)

I think the most important thing that YOU can do is NOTHING, and that you remember that this is something that SHE is doing, not you. Keep yourself and your urges and your fantasy and your expectations completely off the table, and let her do everything, or nothing, whatever happens happens. If you do not back off completely and allow her to make all the moves, other that the obvious ready or not, then you probably won't get a second chance. For one thing, it is she who should be reading the tips and the how tos, to a certain extent you can as well so you don't make any obvious errors, in action or judgment, but send her this link first. MOST of what women need for good sex is to have their minds on board, so it is pretty important that she be thinking about this for many days before she actually does it. http://www.glamour.com/sex-love-life/blogs/smitten/2010/10/anal-sex-a-beginners-guide.html Also i do not see this anywhere, but she needs to also prepare her body from the inside out, like light meals, lots of water, etc etc. She will probably be embarrassed by the aftermath of anal, so making sure there is as little as possible inside there is important. if it is too messy, she isn't going to be impressed by all the cleanup afterwards and again will be a deterrant to a 2nd attempt. If you are successful and it does happen as planned, don't try to do it again the same day or even the next. if she is sore, tender or uncomfortable, she won't be impressed by the idea of going again right away. If at any time she says she hates it, wants to stop or doesn't want to do it ever again, you have to be OK with that.

They ran a reality show about that place on HBO, you can probably find episodes online. Very illuminating lol. There are some indys in Vegas, but you do have to get properly screened (it is probably easier for Canadians to set up appts with escorts there if you can prove you are Canadian lol) There is an escort on another site, i've seen her posts, and she seems like a great choice. http://www.jaydalee.com When you visit her site you will see links to reviews. Those links will take you to review sites that should give you some more vegas choices. I've seen her posting on the forum on that other site, and imo, if you like cerb ladies, you will also like her. And her rates are far lower than 1300/hr ;)

Yes, i'm off of team McManda, and onto judd i think although i think that is mostly because he seems to be everyone's target now lol. All they really need to do to switch things around again, is to get the 3rd nominee to be from the group of 4, and keep candice and jessie, and the problem always is with that kind of idea is that 2 of the potential voters are not available to actually switch things around, so things do not get switched, like this time with Aaryn as HOH doing what helen told her to do. if amanda was #3 and let's face it, she or Aaryn will be since america is MVP again, there wouldn't be enough people to vote her out because jessie is on the block, candice is on the block and GM is HOH and can;t vote, and amanda basically just bullied and threatened jessie just before the noms, and spencer before the votes on thursday, and no one really wants to be her target if she doesn't end up voted out, and she won't be with the people who can vote, they are going to do candice or jessie, and the only way for those 2 to save themselves is win veto for themselves. what that might do is put up a pawn who is unable to vote, so that it may be possible to have more amanda votes, but still risky. ON the other hand, double eviction night, now if they knew that going into the vote, you bet they would vote out amanda for sure, take that opportunity in other words, to get her out and still have a chance to get a 2nd one out right behind her, someone like mcrae

I just think that most sites get regional, whether it is planned that way or not. I've visited a couple of newer sites when they first popped up, because the did a lot of heavy advertising across the country. When i went back to them a year or so later, because the ads did nothing for me, I found that without exception 90% of all reviews and ads were from one single area, and 10% leftover from the mass ad campaign lol For some reason that seems to be the way it is.

The sp cristy refers to (from the other site) is from Bangkok, which you might find of interest. And her preference went beyond just not preferring to spend time with black men, but also EI and sometimes even just someone very tanned lol. I think her preference also excluded people from her own country. In that country, the sps typically are spending a great deal of time with their clients, much more than some of our half hour or hour, so it would be very important to them who they are spending time with as attraction would be hard to feign over a 6 hour period I imagine.

You have to also keep in mind that it isn't always racism for an sp to say they won't see a particular race. Some sps from certain cultures won't see clients from the same race out of concern they might be meeting up with a family friend, or worse. Some sps are dating/married to someone of a race, so again it could be someone related to their SO or ex-SO So the sp could indeed love that race, but just not want to open the door to their cousin's ex SO and the easiest way to avoid that is to put it right in their ad..