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I don't have any real info, but is the dancer going to be expected to give extras? And if so, try to find an sp who is also a dancer, and then just comply with her own rules. The other thing to do is maybe consider having two not just one. Generally I would think that the idea of one sp/dancer alone with many guys should be something they say no to.

I imagine if she has been doing it a particular way for a while, she is probably doing it very infrequently. She may not even see herself as a pro. She may indeed have gotten enough interest that she has regulars and repeats, so she goes out only when she is in need of some income and there haven't been any regs for a while. But soliciting in bars is no different from standing on a corner and doing it that way. Maybe a bit safer in that you don't get into a car to have the conversation. What does concern me is that I am assuming that if she doesn't think of herself as a pro, she isn't setting up health boundaries and she is randomly accepting different rates, and probably from time to time ending up with a guy with no $$ in his pocket after the fact. I would suggest she sign up. If you want to help her to write an ad, that's fine, just get what she wants to say, edit it or reword it into English, then email it to her so she can copy and paste it into an ad she posts herself. You've seen sps. You know what they do to protect themselves, their personal information, their personal safety, ensuring they get paid first, and their sexual health as well. Take what you have learned by seeing sps to help her to come up with her own 'business plan' so to speak. What she will offer, what she will charge, when she will work, where she will advertise, appropriate ad style to ensure appropriate callers, how to not double book, what kind of confirmation when booking that is used that worked well for you, what stuff didn't work well for you as a client, and so on. There is a "new to this" section as well for a variety of topics.

You know what Ian Fleming says: By the 3rd post, it seemed she was asking for at least a suspension.

I watched the first 2 episodes of the show. As an observer, I would say that if they are trying to promote it as a positive and successful lifestyle, they are failing since neither of the two families seem to be OK with the side relationships lol In Devi's arrangement with another couple, it seems pretty obvious the other woman is there by coercion, not choice. Her husband seems dismissive of her having a much lower sex drive than he has, and that this arrangement is more to keep herself married than for her own sake. She knows he is really attracted to Devi, and seems to also become conveniently bisexual to keep Devi's attention off of her husband perhaps? May need to see a couple of more episodes.

I hate watch Real Housewives of Orange County. The lip injections, botox, boob jobs and hair extensions are wacky. With RHofVancouver, the only housewives show I watch. RHOV I watch for the scenary, and entrance into those fancy houses and condos :) In general, I like that they don't look so obviously fake as the California ones.

I remember a guy who was evicted by production for appearing threatening with a knife, and the reason why there aren't any real sharp knives allowed on the set any more. I was very glad Ian won, but I never realized how much he would win by. If Danielle hadn't made a point of voting for Dan (and watching it was clear she did NOT want to do it, but was doing it out of principle -- having said she would do something, she was making a point to him specifically) the vote would have been 7-0 against Dan. Considering his entire motivation for doing the show in the first place was to win again, this must have been a humbling experience to know that the first time he won 7-0, the 2nd time he lost 7-0 (essentially, if we know Danielle's vote would have been against him) If you checked on jokersupdates reports of the live feeds, you'd have known Tuesday night that Dan was planning to throw the final competition to Ian. He already knew Ian would choose him, and this way he figured he had a for sure vote (Danielle's) in the jury (because yes she is that dumb). In the backyard, at 2am Wednesday morning, he was timing his pre vote jury speech and not once did he do a version referring to Danielle, it was all about sitting next to Ian. When Danielle was listening to the 3rd comp scores on the questions and heard Dan miss the first one, she must have suspected something by that time. When he missed the next 2 as well, and Ian wasn't missing any of them, she would know for sure he was throwing it in order to get her evicted. I was only surprised by Jenn's vote. She seemed to like Dan's style, but surprisingly didn't vote for him. It could have been because of the answers to the Jury question, or Ian's speech, which was pretty good. I thought Britney would have voted for game play, but either way, Ian played a good game and her vote to him was cool. I thought in the end Ian actually performed better in the game as a whole. Dan made an arrogant and collosal error in judgment thinking that Ian was the best one to be beside. Considering that Danielle never made a move without him, she would be the 'floater' to sit beside, in spite of her comp wins. By the time he evicted Shane, the majority of the Jury would see that she wasn't playing she was being dragged as a human shield for Dan, and someone who could win comps for him. If he had sat beside Danielle, he could have used the whole "coach takes player to the end" argument. People would have respected that, and noted that Danielle was his puppet, not a player, and he might have gotten the votes. He also would have been able to promote his reality books with that win too. Britney would have voted for him, and there would be others who wouldn't have rewarded Danielle for being such a damn fool thru the show when it came to Dan's playing her. I'm glad he didn't win the 500,000. He shouldn't have even been there for the $50,000. He took that from legitimate players, imo. Ian was pissed to learn about the F2 with Danielle, but really, why didn't it occur to him that Dan had one with her? All it would have taken was the two of them to actually discuss it, plus even tho Danielle's information about Dan was scripted by Dan, in the After Dark, alot was true. If Ian had paid attention, he would have evicted Dan. And had he evicted Dan, that would have been a really important move as well, and put him very near the top of great players in the game. At the end tho, chalk him up to yet another one tricked by Dan to get Dan closer to what Dan wanted lol. Additional Comments: Big Brother Canada will be starting in February, 2013, I believe. So new topic for then ??

Great reply. I think you'll find that different ad sites are better in some cities, than others. Wherever you find the ads, it is always a good idea to ask questions and do some basic research before jumping in. If for no other reason than to make sure the person you contact is your best match for what you are looking for. BP has space limitations, so it is much harder to present an ad with sufficient information that someone can just look and decide. Also, it doesn't allow for site links, and pictures can be deleted or blocked so the advertiser has a lot of limits in how they can market themselves.

I don't trust them from what they did to me last week when I PVRed it as per the schedule (it was half an hour in progress when my recording started), so I am recording all of survivor (bleh) followed by BB I don't think the outcome will at all be surprising to anyone checking the live feed report on jokersupdates or watching the After Dark show nightly. The editing of the hourly show is, shall we say, interesting, but not always based in what is actually happening outside of the careful editing lol

I don't consider what you find on an actual medical source to be 'overblown'. You may, though, find that there are a lot of armchair experts who claim to have the 'right' information. Trust the medical source, the risks are not overblown, and no one will fault you for choosing safer sessions. I don't think you are asking about risk free, just risk reduction, which comes with hand washing, condom use, cbjs not bbbjs, etc. And for that you simply don't look at the use of the term GFE or safe GFE, but what is actually listed item by item (or ask), so you know what that particular provider is providing and choose from there.

I agree, and his biggest mistake will to not take her to the final 2. Against Ian, people have a shot to vote for Ian equal to Dan. Since Danielle is only Dan's puppet, she hasn't earned the top spot imo. And yet everything he is doing seems to be only to get her vote on jury, and that he'd be choosing Ian. In that he seems to be planning to throw the final competition to Ian, who will take Dan to the F2. Last night Dan spent a lot of time manipulating Danielle into telling him how much he has earned the right to be there, in fact having her talk herself into voting for him and almost looking forward to Ian choosing Dan to F2 and sending her off with zip. And yes, Ian quite clearly mentions faking a fall in the first comp to drop out before Danielle. So Dan managed to get both of them to throw it for him. For me at this point, I'd still prefer Dan left, but that ship has sailed long ago. Ian would be my choice to win. I have no respect for Danielle at this point.

I've only had by hours right beside my phone number for a week, but the difference is amazing. The value of auto repost is the cost, it can drop the per ad price in half, so I wasn't willing to give that up, but I still wanted viewers to understand I wasn't 24/7 lol. Challenging.

When I read "4" were needed, I assumed the OP was looking to (maybe) pay for 4 sp's trips down south and then profit off them working some kind of event down there. I can't think of any legit reason why one person would be asking for 4 sps for travel date. I also can't think of any reason why someone going there, (like for real, not like for fantasy lol), and can't figure out that he could hire sps on the spot without the flight and accomodation cost. Just my take.

I agree. This is the New to This? section. This topic is very section appropriate. It would have been great had the posters stuck with the theme in the OP, rather than worrying about it seeming negative, or affecting the sp's business lol. That would have been OK if brought up in the main discussion area, but here, it would be more helpful to the New client out there who is just starting out. Or maybe he has had a couple of appts with one sp, and needs a reality check on that giddy feeling he now has with someone he really doesn't know at all.

Your scenario 2 works because at the end he wants to win by saying he coached a winner. If he cuts Danielle, he can't use that to win the thing. He gets to also point out what a puppet she was, doing everything he told her at the cost of her own safety at the end. fwiw, Dan has already won the first part of the final HOH, by getting both Ian and Danielle to throw it to him. Of course, it is a replica of the HOH comp that he won in his season, so talking them into it might not have been that hard. Effectively he puts Ian and Danielle against each other, with the winner against him. but right now he gets to coast into the final challenge, unlike the other 2 who have to stress it out. Can he get Danielle to convince Ian to throw it? Who knows. Will Danielle grow a spine and cut Dan at the end? Is the point of Danielle winning over Ian so she can throw the final comp to Dan, who has "promised on his wife's life" to take her to the end? Can she be that stupid? Will flies in the house fly into her perpetually open mouth? Tune in on Sunday to find out lol.

Yes auto repost goes up in most cities, between midnight and one AM To counter that, I put my schedule right in the ad. When that didn't work, I now put my hours right beside the phone # in the ad :) That so far seems to be working.

This is actually true. If you google it there have been studies to compare sex workers and the general population, and the % rate is slightly lower in sex workers. Anyone half interested in this should be doing some research themselves, get tested then wait the standard month or two and get tested again. THEN go see sps if the desire is still there. I still find it very annoying if someone wants to do this, is paranoid about what they might catch, but doesn't check to find out if they have something that they might be spreading around

I think tonight's eviction episode is a done deal anyway, but the HOH and what happens after that will be the question. All of that will take on Thursday I guess. Tonight's episode was filmed secretly yesterday, so no After Dark feeds from last night it was all a repeat of the morning. The final 4, that will tell us I think what Ian is really thinking about Dan. I kind of hope he is the target of the other 3, because he wants to see Jury house, and have that experience as well. I think it is a bonus for him because I am not sure he would make it to final two the way things are stacked up right now, and I think doing that will ensure an America's choice for the 25,000 for him. Going out tomorrow will give the voting time to know he is out and eligible for it. Being the 3rd last out might not. My big objection to anyone taking Dan to the F2 is that with him winning anything, he is taking from someone who actually does need it. The other 3 are all financially stressed, compared to him, and he already won. I think it is a dick move for him to not try to lose and get evicted at this point, to be honest. On the other hand, other houseguests should have manned up and gotten rid of him before. It could have been Frank, Danielle, Shane and Ian at the final 4. That would have been a much more interesting showing in comps and votings. Dan has so many side alliances, it isn't actually very compelling to watch now that they've gone from 6 to 4 because he has all bases covered except what Shane will do. I would really like Shane in the F2. People think he isn't smart enough on the non physical challenges, and memory stuff, but there is very little that he hasn't met or beat others even in those comps. He knew the dates of events, he never seems to discuss or study this stuff. He knows a lot more than people give him credit for, and he is a super nice guy, and he wins comps. I wouldn't be surprised if Dan thinks Shane would get more votes than he would. I know Dan believes he will get more than Dani or Ian for sure. I would love to see Danielle win HOH now, put up Ian and Dan, and Shane win POV and not use it, and vote out Dan. Unfortunately, the way it is now, I can't see him voting out Dan when he also believes Ian should be the one to go. The only way the current final 4 could have dealt with Dan is Ian is HOH and puts up any 2 of the 3. Shane wins POV so isn't on the block. Dan and Danielle are up, and the only one Shane will ever vote to keep is Danielle, and voila. Too late for that tho.

Yes, the longer he is in the game the better. Tho, the morph Veto competition was won by Shane, and I was reading someone say that they noticed that Jenn, Ian and Dan studied the faces board intently, but not Shane. they didn't mention Danielle studying the houseguests pics either, but in AD she never did. She says she's the best at comps, but she sure isn't winning any. Ideal choice for Dan to drag to F2 if Jenn isn't around. How could you vote for Danielle who hasn't done anything more than Dan has at this point? Dan got Veto, did the big finesse, lured other guests to do his bidding, and got HOH as well. Danielle has won an HOH and I don't think she has any Vetos, and nothing since. Shane needs to use that Veto, he is acting like its a done deal. The only season he watched appears to be the one where someone did not use it on themselves, and got voted out lol. He won't make that mistake when he thinks that it doesn't matter who else is put up in his place, because he knows who he will vote for and so do they. Additional Comments: I won't be able to see these comps and video messages for another hour or so, but have heard about them on the After Dark. A while back I didn't mind if Ian got voted out early because I know he also wanted the Jury House experience, to get the whole feeling. But if it takes him getting to the end to win that prize, I am in. What I don't get about the coaches, like Dan, is that to get 2nd place is less than the 100,000 that he would get if Danielle had won. So the motive I see for him is to be a #1 winner twice, and the $$ that comes with that far more than 50,000. What I don't know for sure is the coaches got 20,000 to be on the show again, knowing that if the coaches stayed as coaches they would be there for the duration to win the 100,000 prize. So would he get the 20,000 plus 50,000 (or 500,000) if he gets that far? I am just wondering if that would be what is appealing to him at this point to be 2nd place, it would mean 70,000 which is a fairly nice payoff. He wrote a couple of books on how to be on reality TV, so I can see that being on the show would help promote those books as well. I think besides that I don't like previous winners winning again, and taking it from new houseguests, I don't like that he continues to make alliances and deals with everyone. I think part of the deal with BB is that you make a F2 or F4 deal with people, and you stick with it. At least that would be the benchmark I would respect in a player when it came to someone getting my vote. So if Dan and Shane were at the end, I would vote for Shane because he stuck to Danielle as a F2 deal this far. And she sure isn't sticking with him, sad to say. If she goes to jury and Shane is F2 I can bet she won't vote for him then either.

The problem today too is that the highest numbers of stds are found in the 14-20 year age group. They are doing as your nephew is doing, not using condoms, then they simply pass it around. Someone may only do bjs, but with chlamydia they've passed it to someone who has sex with another, and so on and so on. And they don't get tested, because that would be an admission to parents and the family doctor they are having sex. By the time he catches something that has uncomfortable symptoms, he might get a wake up call. The other wakeup call is pregnancy of course.

Danielle is annoying. And now she's viciously turned against Shane, who she is supposed to have had an alliance with for weeks. Danielle is what I call a mouth breather. Annoyng voice, and mouth always open, usually to stuff some more food into it. When she isn't whining, she's trying to fish for compliments or find out what someone said about her, or if someone likes her and what they said about it. In other words, if it isn't about her, she isn't that interested. At this point, I'd like to see Jenn and Ian at the end. I used to want Shane and Danielle, but too much AD on Danielle stalking Shane it became too much lol I also do not think Ian is playing Dan. I think he is all Ducks all the way, and won't figure it out until Dan finagles Shane out the door and he will have no option other than to notice that was Dan's goal all along. AND Ian unable to play for HOH is most likely to be the next target. Dan simply seems to be in it to win it. I don't really see any indication that he thinks that if he is final 2 that people will vote for the other person. Unless that other person is Jenn. Everyone else has one things, and made big moves. I want Shane to win POV very badly, because that is the only thing that will thwart that. Ian and Shane still won't realize what Dan was up to, but preventing Dan from saving Jenn is the main thing right now. I believe Ian would put Dan up to replace, unless as someone on jokers has mentioned, that Shane is stupid enough to not use the veto on himself ack

I'm just not liking the direction of all 4 of this member's posts. I'd suggest everyone take a peek at the posting history topics and comments, as the whole thing seems sketchy to me. April, looks for an sp for himself, and a few days later for he and his wife. June, looks for a male sp as a 'gift' for the wife. Sept, girlfriend looking to become an sp. Just saying.

It's going to be double eviction, a perfect time to target Dan but no one is going to do it, imo. Everyone thinks they are final 2 with him, and the only one I believe is with Danielle. I think that he believes taking his team to the final, well he isn't doing that to win 50,000 when he could have not hit re-set and earned 100,000. I think that anyone would vote him over Danielle at the end because she is gullible not game playing. Nothing she is doing is helping her personal game, only his. Nothing she is doing going along with his games is going to get her #1 at the end, only #2. He could take anyone else and he'd not win the 500,000, but her because she bought everything he was selling is going to lose votes for her big time. No one will be able to say she played better than he did, not if that happened. Poor Shane, I feel so sorry for him lol. Well, mostly because if he doesn't suck up to her big time from now on, she will put him up or vote him out because he isn't pandering to her ego. She mentions this guy, Trey, and on After Dark turns out they had like 2 dates, and she's ready to get married I think lol. In any case, one of the things I read basically said Trey had already moved on, and dating or in a relationship with someone else. She's a wackjob, if you ask me.

There are only a couple of reportable stds. Those would be stds with no cure that you have to disclose to future partners before intimacy. For chlamydia, that is not reportable and no one but you will know the results of the test. If you do not want to tell other partners, the clinic does provide a service where they will contact those people to get tested/treated. One thing to remember is that you might be carrying that std around for many years, nothing to do with your current situation. As with your girlfriend, she may have contracted it from a former SO before you met, had no symptoms, and passed it back to you. It is easy to treat. Within a week of antibiotics, you will be clear. If you know your diagnosis and do not advise your partner, then you will get it again until you tell them about it, and they get treated.

She looked super cute. But she always does, just short and tiny and shapely lol For those who do not have After Dark (or follow jokersupdates.com), look forward to a special show on Sunday. :)

Spam accounts do seem to be on the increase on two of the sites that I visit. One of the ad sites is getting not less than 2 dozen new accounts created daily where only a couple of weeks ago it was a couple per week. The other site the spam accounts are getting past the checkpoints and able to post multiple times. It must be a real challenge to keep up with. Site is also slow for me, tho this is the first time I've visited today, and it is later at night now.