fortunateone

Cute kitty pics. I think that if the type of pic is not already on the site or ad, then don't bother asking. IMO, you sound like a picture collector rather than a legitimate client and such requests would more likely be treated this way. Also, I think the majority of sps see themselves as more than one particular body part, and are promoting themselves as a complete package -- complete as in personality, looks, services, rates, etc. To know that a potential clients final decision will be based on the presence or absence of a shot of only one particular piece of the pie may not get the results you are looking for. You could potentially be alienating the very best sps in this way.

At the worst, drunk clients are unpredictable and potentially dangerous. He should have been turned away, or in this case, you should have left shortly after arrival. At the least, drunk clients are incapable of performing sexually, leading to frustration and possible anger on their part. At best, they will overextend their welcome trying to get off. At worst, they will insist upon bb services because they just "know" that they will be able to cum then. If you choose to stay with a drunk client, for whatever reasons, do not hesitate to leave when things do go sideways. Don't hesitate to keep the full donation either. It is still your time, you were prepared to stay and do your best, he blew it. If he seems drunk but only maudlin rather than dangerous and you decide to stay, just be a friendly ear, offer a massage, and a hj rather than attempting to do fs. It most likely won't work anyway, insist on silence because no doubt he will want to talk on and on about how "if only you did...." it would work for sure. If the hj doesn't work then so be it. He has had a nice massage and a friendly conversation. The fact is, drinking before, or during appts should NEVER be encouraged. Don't make a habit of bringing a bottle of wine, or accepting a glass of anything. Tell them you don't drink if you have to. It seems like a nice gesture, but honestly flowers are a better gift. If you think you need a drink to get in the mood, then the sp is doing something wrong lol. GHB doesn't care how carefully you screen your clients, they are strangers and should be treated with caution first and foremost. Some people like to use poppers, e, or ghb for personal use. Some clients have actually put ghb or similar on the condom or themselves before the sp goes in for a bj. Never underestimate how careful you can be with just a little common sense. There is no need to reinvent the wheel, here. All these topics have been discussed by both sides in many ways at many different times. When you decide to go into this industry full force, in would serve you well to study what those who have gone before you have to say lol.

Emails rely on the receiver reading them, it is never a good way to confirm or set up an appt, IMO. Nothing can replace a good reliable booking policy, for both sides: You can email to setup a time (I don't recommend it, but if the sp insists on email only contact, you are kind of stuck with it), email 24 hrs ahead to confirm day and time, and expect a reply from her (altho, frankly it is she who should be emailing the client, if she does not then it is up to you). Call the day of the appt to confirm time. If you don't reach her, leave a message. If you don't hear back from her, call again and hopefully you will. Many sps don't return messages because they can't guarantee they are calling at a convenient time lol. If you haven't talked to her by phone within 2hrs of the time, leave her a message email and or phone and cancel the appt. I don't think you should waste your time on someone who cannot respond to your confirming appts. I think a lot of traveling sps stick to their schedules; they rely on them to make their trip worthwhile and really suffer by no-shows. But a local sp who has no good reason to pass up a prebooked appt who won't confirm with you by a phone call is not at all professional. It is also a mistake to rely on emails, there seems to be less chance of true commitment on both sides. A voice conversation is much simpler to confirm appt details, and usually can be over in 5 minutes. Countless emailing can take days, and in the end requires them to have email access wherever they are, and to be reading their emails at least every hour. Most businesses don't run their day to day biz this way, so it clearly doesn't make sense to only be available thru email.