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i don't do anything online, but i am a big fan of the Galaxy/Stingray radio channels on cable. All music all the time, no ads, no news, nothing but music and about 30 different styles to choose from. that is going all day, i don't watch any real TV until late at night :)

Maybe the issue could be resolved by making that kind of date arrangement, but you meet at her incall location. Maybe the problem isn't doing this kind of session, but that you are trying to get her to meet, discuss, & be paid out in public. (which has always been & still is more illegal) Just make the arrangements, meet at her location, & you both go out together to dinner, casino, whatever after the payment has been dealt with.

This is the first petition i have seen, if there are others maybe post them here. https://www.change.org/p/attorney-general-maura-healy-stop-trying-to-attack-backpage-and-other-adult-platforms?recruiter=338990075&utm_source=share_petition&utm_medium=copylink&sharecordion_display=control

I'm quoting you not for any particular reason but just because this: sometimes sps get ripped off by their regulars simply because they switch to allow post payment, and that is what that bad element actually look for. at what point does the sp relax her policy, he wonders, and if you are there reliably paying after the session, it can actually influence that sp into relaxing that standard practice for any repeaters. so at some point, her new habit of doing that is going to cost her. If you truly have no intention of not paying her, i cannot think of any single reason for her to have to prove she trusts you. I can imagine a lot of worry and concern going thru her mind during the entire encounter that at the end even you will say that you forgot your wallet. I can't imagine anyone really wanted to put any sp that they do want to repeat with thru that worry. Pay up front, first visit or fiftieth, do not let her think it is OK to accept post payment from anyone. give her that consideration, and trust, and show her that it is not ok, no matter how many visits any of her clients have with her, she must always always get paid first. no one should have to prove they trust by changing their standard policy, if standard as we know is prepayment, then prepayment it is. all the time every time.

I would recheck the ad and make sure the info is not already there. If it is, some sps get annoyed to have a question asked that is already answered. Once you confirm it is not anywhere in the ad, then of course ask. Depending on the sp you may or may not also be able to ask or will receive services info. if you do not receive that info, don't push for it, if she is one who will not (due to recent law changes) then she will stop communication with you if you press for it. also, important is does she accept texts, or does the ad say phone call only, email only, no texts? another thing to check first lol

You may think you are joking, but you are not far off at all. I encounter the abolitionists on comments in articles and on twitter, and at some point, I would say at least 50% of them eventually come up with the 'if sps didn't exist, then men wouldn't cheat, and sps are breaking up families" rant and rampage. they will start out all 'save the 5 year olds from a life of sex slavery' (actual age used by Joy Smith, btw, in a recent letter to the editor of a newspaper, but some (not all, i will be fair) will eventually drift down (this is when the argument is that consenting adults make up the bulk of sex work) to how all those consenting adult sex workers obviously are trying to steal their husbands (that's you) and break up the families. it starts with this kind of comment and this to this oh, and of course, taxes rears up as well. so basically it isn't about saving anyone, it is about stopping men from access to adult consensual sex workers who make too much money and don't pay taxes, and therefore, cannot be controlled by patriarchy.

if these posts are going up on ad sites, like cl or bp, you need to contact support and report it to them directly thru their abuse @ or support @ flagging is pointless, it has limited results. You need to use the appropriate report abuse forms and make your case, even if a flagged ad gets pulled, you need the actual account holder blocked It has to be dealt with and these sites, even if it doesn't seem like it, will support you. they have firm rules about defamation comments, harassment, and also copyright infringement if the person is also posting copies of your ad or pics. You can successfully get them blocked from using the site the way they are currently using it. If they are an sp relying on the site for their own advertising, it may result in them not being able to use the site again. that's their karma In the case of any of the things listed above, you can't ignore this. ignoring tells them that they are getting away with it, it will not stop them. that is why good/great moderation on review sites is crucial, when a site has no mods like cerb mod, defamation is allowed, encouraged, and there is no recourse for the victim. most sites tho have at least minimal knowledge of cyber laws and don't put their sites at risk of lawsuits, or LE scrutiny. but first you need to report it, and support your report with evidence. countering posts with your own comments on the issue is also vitally important, exactly the same way you did her today you have to do on any site where you see this happening to you. people are being arrested and charged all the time for online extortion, harassment, bullying and defamation. but the first step is that the victim reported them. LE can't stop this until you start that.

2 or 3 people i know who did get this playsafe card have used it successfully in the last couple of days. I am planning to get one as soon as the bp ads are no longer free. for the time being, I plan to not pay, of course. :)

A large latte brought this morning by a regular who has been working out of town, and came back for the weekend. it is my favourite thing.

bodyrub section, also under adult services, is cheaper, less used, and unnecessary to post too many ads. vancouver's is half the price of escort, for example, plus doing a sponser ad costs less than any single ad. if you do a lot of massage, maybe use the free ad they have now to try? at the time this article was announcing that visa didn't process bp ads any more, i was innocently paying for bp ads using my visa, and continued to do that until the 5th when ads became free. so visa saying they weren't doing it anymore, i guess they just meant any more than usual lol

i think now they make sure they are not contacting ads that specify over 21, and with web sites and professionals. that was their mistake before that the sps of that type are not afraid to react, and react loudly. now they have become more stealthy, actually looking thru the ads for actual red flags, is my guess, anyone easily intimidated, or who may not have ads elsewhere and so won't say anything to anyone. it is revealing that in the first NS they 'interviewed" (aka accosted) 330 sps, but the most recent one they used 90 LE from over 20 cities to interview (aka accost) just under 125 different women. there is nothing in the OP article indicating that even one single person was found and charged with trafficking, or that anyone was 'rescued' and yet, you see the headline is implying that.

http://reason.com/blog/2015/07/07/backpagecom-stops-fees-for-adult-ads

china sizing is different, i believe that their Cs are our Bs, due to the body types tend to be smaller to start with than western ones?

just don't provide the address until an hour before the appt time, max, when the guy is confirming the appt. Just setting up any appt in advance, at a certain point, is just tire kicking. If they also get your address, and they are pranking you, they've won the jackpot. new clients don't get my actual address until they are 5-10 minutes away from my front door. and they don't get an actual appt time until they are ready to come over, usually within an hour of arrival. they are free to contact me by email to suggest days and times, etc, but not for details or booking. and never ever do i put my address in writing. if you are doing email booking and getting to the address stage and time/day as well, then there is a step that is being missed i think if they are no showing at that point. some think making an appt with a day/time is actually 'booked' when in fact the client doesn't actually know if, on that day and around that time, he can actually get away. if you wait until the day and an hour or so, or morning of that day, to have him email again to confirm or better yet phone you, i think you have less risk of giving out your location to a no shower. you 99% eliminate it altogether if you do not give out your email until they are 10 minutes away at the nearby location you send them to in your 'location' email confirmation :) still, if they are emailing, or texting, they could still be sitting at home or office, still pranking. If you use a phone call, voice to voice, they tend not to play the same game.

i get fb emails in accounts where i do not have a fb account, so very random. I have never known any of the names, and much of the time their locations would not be in my vicinity. it is similar to the false positives, when you want to google search a name or number and all these links pop up as 'real', however if you click any of the links there is no info, no match, they are filling in a blank algorythm or some such thing with the name or number you enter in order to get your clicks

I am looking forward to seeing what she did with the part lol I watched The Duff, because the way the stupid cable company has set up the stupid VOD page makes it super easy to click the wrong thing at the wrong time, and end up renting something you wouldn't normally rent. However it was cute, even tho I am suspending my disbelief that this guy, who plays adult characters on a few different tv shows and tv movies, was 18. http://www.imdb.com/name/nm2064412/ (he is 27)

i did not know he was even part of that team. i also did not know they were going to do another SM, seriously, is it part 3 of 2.0 or is it part 1 of 3.0 version? i still don't know what was wrong with SM 1.0 Additional Comments: i think Trudeau announced 50/50 split, not sure how he plans to accomplish it. First you need willing candidates, then go from there.

fortunately, this is lyla, not the other type of place, where no one gets away with that, and mod has a zero tolerance for it as well. also unlike the other types of places, where the ones in charge tend to be the one most likely to behave this way, or encourage it in others? :) i don't dispute the last part tho, announcement of saying 'no longer interested' does occur.

i think it is safe to say that the match to a vancouver ad/site, the vancouver poster stole the real photo of someone else. 99% of these ads use fake pics, if you see a match to anywhere else, maybe that would be cause for concern, but always assume the matching there is that you have the real pic, and we do not lol

I recommend you watch American Odyssey from the beginning, and get an idea of woman on the front lines extra special dangers for being female, American and a soldier, in certain countries. in any case, there are probably fewer females in the military because they don't make it thru basic training, where they are, apparently, often sexually assaulted. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_assault_in_the_United_States_military http://ottawacitizen.com/news/politics/military-releases-report-on-sexual-assault-in-its-ranks http://www.ctvnews.ca/canada/one-in-13-female-canadian-soldiers-sexually-assaulted-but-number-may-be-higher-1.1961912 one of those links indicated a woman in the military was more likely to be assaulted by a fellow soldier than be killed in combat,

yeah, number one rule is know where you are going before you leave home (or wherever you happen to be). that includes the room number if you are being sent to a hotel. in the case of hotels, you do not set up appts via cel phones, they have to be confirmed guests which means they call from the hotel number, and/or you call them thru the front desk to the room there are no exceptions to this, as there are no exceptions to the safety call, the one you made before you left home giving a friend the exact location of this date, the time you arrive, the time you leave. no exceptions. there are some sps who wouldn't dream of agreeing to do an outcall without first getting references from him of other sps he has seen, contact the sps to verify he will not no show, no call to cancel or cancel with no notice. it is also a safety issue. if you do outcalls to a home, again you get all address info, if it is an apartment, you get suite number. you then use your computer to google the address to be sure it actually exists, and again, make that phone call. make a safety call as well when you arrive at destination, in view of the client. no exceptions, including and maybe especially for repeats. You will find this is more fun when you don't allow guys to push your limits or cost you $$ by fake booking, and being new that is definitely going to happen. don't put new in your ads, make sure you add 'new to the area', indicating you are an experienced provider. however, you show inexperience by not getting full address info and verifying room info with a phone call, these kinds of fakers really enjoy playing that game. just show before they contact you that you know what you are doing, and that they aren't going to be able to get away with it the way to get around your schedule limits, is you get appts confirmed within an hour of the time. just do shorter notice appts, so no one can prebook a set time that they don't follow thru on. they can only do this if they provide references, for example.

imo, this would almost always be an extra charge, and as mentioned, not everyone is going to do it or be able to do it. it is something that you will simply have to live without in the event you make an appt with someone and she is someone who chooses not to do it.

Glass ceilings is why i prefer being an sp. It is only less prevalent in occupations that are female dominated, and even then, some places find a way. Promotion and advancement i would say is still the exception, not the norm. If it didn't exist, then why, if we see ensemble casts on tv, or media interviewing people for any reason at all, they choose an uneven number of people to show, and the majority will be male. again, the exception will be a female storyline (Hot in Cleveland, 2 broke girls, etc) where we know going in it is a girl show, and probably less likely to deal with serious stuff, like crime or politics. so now i have pointed it out, go start counting lol.

i think it is completely in the hands of the MA, just as it would be for any independent sp, for them to come up with the actual rate. I assume if you go to an mp, that it is the mp itself that comes up with the rate. Don't guess or second guess, just as at the front desk or when booking. you don't want to just show up and assume she has time to extend, but you would call in advance, make sure you know the rate. if the mp only provides you the room rate fee, then ask what that rate is so that you have that covered. in a prior appt on the hour, then as the MA what she wants for 1.5 and for 2 hour. chances are she will look at it like 2 x one appt, it is one sog in one hour appt, you are looking for 2 sogs and 2 hours, here she would charge you 2 x her hour rate. makes it simple. if you said one sog for 2 hours, it still might be the same rate, because now she is doing actual massage for that length of time, which is quite physically tiring, so again, you are one person, but she is doing two appts, therefore 2 x her regular rate for the hour. tipping is up to you and nothing to do with the room rate, the ma rate, the session time at all. if you tip, you tip based on whatever you normally would think is a proper tip. if by 'tip' you are referring to the ma's actual session fee, then yes, tip x 2 because it is 2 sessions as far as she is concerned lol some places and some mas and some sps do discount the 2nd hour, some only discount the first extra half hour, but 2 hours is 2 x full hour price. more time with one person is not less demanding than less time with two people, therefore rates set according to what is actually happening, not to promote longer sessions by giving 20 or 50 off the additional hour. it is an hour she could spend with a full rate guest, for example. rates are not always cut and dry of course. maybe an ma takes a 2 hour appt at the end of her shift, so she gives a deeper discount on that extra hour.

i have a new pvr/digital box and it has opened up a lot more programming in VOD, stuff not available on the older model that's for sure. so i pick an HBO series, which usually means 6, 8, 13 episodes total, and binge watch them. I have seen Sensitive Skin (6 episodes), Doll & Em (6) and The Comeback (13 in 2005, followed by a 2nd comeback in 2014 (or 15, not sure)) the stars are all 40 something women, and the writing is 'film' ish, like well written, and film style presentation. both Doll & Em and The Comeback are more meant to be reality tv type shows, especially the Comeback which is supposed to be the raw unedited footage of filming a reality show about a former sit com star who gets a role on a new sit com, then in the 2nd part showing her 10 years later (literally) doing an HBO series about when she was doing that role in the new sit com lol in any case, seeing the show now makes me glad i never saw the original in 2005, because doing the binge watch had a really great flow from 2005 season one to 2015 season two.