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I am also considered to be too nice by others. My supervisor has told me so. Said that I spent too much time trying to help others. Then some months later asked me to cancel a day off so that he could go golfing! Yes I am a sap. I am often the one that people call when they need help or money or someone that will listen without judging and they know that I will not ask for a favour in return. I am still very old fashion and polite saying please and thank you, holding doors open, letting women into elevators before me, of course in todays society what does it get me? Nothing. People don't say thank you, they slam doors in your face and more men then women pile into elevators like people owe them the curtasy. Unfortunatly we live in a society where manners have been lost. It is all about "me, myself and I, and to hell with everyone else, get out of my way, I am important!" I am a nice guy and that will never change. But some things have been modified. At work (federal government) I no longer give the benefit of the doubt. A person has to prove themselves to me before I will trust them and the higher thier position the stronger it applies. Burn me once and you are crossed off my books. There are no second chances. In my personal life it is a bit of a different story. I forgive easily though I never forget. And yes I will still be there for them if they need me. I associate this with my low self esteem, "If they need me they will like me!" Can people be too nice? In my opinion YES! Nice guys finnish last. Sorry for the rant. A quote from Norm on Cheers "It's a dog eat dog world out there and i'm wearing Milkbone underwear!"

So from what I can see both Ontario and Quebec provinces have banned the sale of herbacides. They are still available in the US in New York State. I was in Ogdensburg this morning and went to see at Lowes and they had lots in stock. When I got to the counter the cashier was very nice and asked me if I was Canadian and planned on bringing them over the border to which I repplied YES! She told me it was illegal to bring those products into Canada and that they often get people bringing them right back because they were refused at the border. Just thought I would let everyone know.

This is the most amazing, beautiful, sublime, absolutly perfect picture! :bowdown:

I agree with so much that has already been said but I also wanted to add something. When it comes to online dating people look at a picture and think they see the whole person. A picture is a one dimensional image of a split second of a person. Some pictures you can look at and memorize the features and when you meet the person you are unable to recognize them because the three dimensional person "The whole package" in front of you looks totaly different then what we had imagined. The real person in front of you is not just an image that we have altered in our minds to help persuade or desuade us from an imaginary future. I hope this makes sense. :icon_question: Sometimes I have trouble understanding my own thoughts!

Well I have had both good and bad surprises happen to me. In almost 25 years of hobbying a lot can happen. First the good. When I am back home seeing family I sometimes stop in at a local agency that does incalls. I do not have a regular girl there so I just ask for short and petit and show up for my appointment. Well on this one day I am greated by a beautiful brunet in her 30s and I get very excited! We chat for a bit and start to get comfortable with each other and she asks me what service I wanted. I say GFE and she says yes. Then I say "I also would like.... forget it you would not offer this". She asked what it was I wanted so I told her "Greek but I understand that it is not for everyone. She looked at me straight in the eyes and said "I have never tried it but I am willing to give a try if you like and we will see what happens!" We had a fantastic afternoon and great pleasure was had by both! Now the bad. Last year I saw an SP that was traveling through Ottawa. In her ad she mentioned that she was also offering duos with a friend. Since she was the one I really wanted to see and spend all my with I booked and hour with her. I showed up at her hotel room and imidiatly went to freashen up then we got comfortable on the pullout couch. I assumed that since she was there for the week she was keeping the bedroom as her private space. Well things progressed and as I was performing DATY I hear a door and someone walking behind me and I can see my girl looking a bit upset and stairing behind me. I turned to see this new girl walk over and sit beside me putting her hand on my back and said "Hey baby would you like a duo?" I politly declined saying I wanted to concentrate on pleasuring her friend. She got up and went back into the room. Even though we had to start from scratch we built up the passion again and moved things along. We were in a very comfortable position with me on top when I heard the bedroom door open again. The girl walked passed us and headed the door, opened it and looked out into the hall then waved towards the room and a guy walked out followed by a third SP. They walked right past us less then 8 feet away and he left with the two girls going back into the bedroom. Now that was a mood killer! I am an easy going guy so eventhough it killed the passion between us I did not loose my need for gratification so I continued on but now it was all about my satisfaction. When I was leaving I told her that seemed like a nice person and the service she offered was great but that she needed to get her own room and perhaps reconsider her buisness arrangments. I know this is a very bizzare story but it is all true! As strange as things may get, it will make a great story!:icon_lol:

As I was reading the thread I kept saying to myself that I have shaved my SO but I have never had it done to me and would never have anyone do it, then I read "Slurp" and suddenly remembered having a young lady shave my balls, well a small patch anyway. Nothing erotic about that experience and no I would not be interested in trying it!

I thought the ban on those products was only the city of Ottawa and not the whole provice of Ontario. As for getting it across the bridge I hope that you are refering to the bridge that crosses to the US because you will not find it in Gatineau because the province of Quebec has banned those products. Of course all the stores like Canadian Tire and Home Depot are advertising the New Eco Friendly produces but who knows if they really work. Does anyone know if they can get it in small town Ontario like Perth or Hawkesbury? I say your best bet is a trip to Ogdensburg and get the real stuff!

It is not so cut and dry for me. I do prefer small and natural but I have had the pleasure of playing with a great variety. I have to agree with Gentelman11, It's all about the sensitive nipples! My ex-wife could orgasm just from pinching, licking and chewing on her nipples! And no her breasts were not small, 34E and all natural, very firm and pointing to the sky. Whew I am getting flashbacks!:icon_biggrin: I have been with girls that had small implants as part of reconstruction and if it was'nt for the scars they looked natural. One who had a breast reduction and the scars looked much the same as the reconstruction. Some all natural extra small to extra large and fake medium to large. I guess I am in agreement with Cathy it is whatever the lady is comfortable with. No one here could say it any better then Rodney Carrington :body1:

As others have already said, it is more then just one thing but to start with I personally need pictures. I also need a referance point for the picture and that would be the Lady's hieght. I do not need to know her weight as 160 lb for one Lady can be equal to 130 lb on anouther. As for breast size well a C cup is not always a C cup, there can be a significant differance depending if she is a 32C or a 38C. Also at times I may be looking for a DD and other times I prefer an A, it depends on my mood. Personality is always very important but I always start, in order, with height, looks, references and personality. It may sound shallow but this is a fantasy fullfillment and we are all looking for something and someone special for our own individual needs. Finding the right combination is not as difficult as one might think. With the diversity of beautiful Ladies here on CERB I can always find a match to my perticular needs.

Happy Birthday Cupcake! Wishing you a great day and a fantastic year.

Thanks for the video! I have never really known what I live for as far as why I exist and what is my purpose in life. It was after my seperation and losing everything material that I started riding motorcycles and found that to be my great escape, my adventure and I agree with everything that Reddog01 said ( I went to Sturgis in 04, you will have a great time!). Last week a friend sent me this video. I hope some of you find it as insperational as I did. http://www.wimp.com/watchingthis

When I am not masturbating it is all about motorcycling! Riding is the best stress relief for me. I will even ride my motorcycle in the rain! It gets me out of the house, away from work and away from Ottawa. During the winter I work on the bike with my good buddy to prepare for the coming season. Walks in the woods and watching movies.

Everyone has their own reality that they have to contend with, living expenses and bills, family, kids, planning for the future versus their income and preferences on how to spend their disposable cash. From what I have been reading in this thread people have been using generalizations as I myself do most of the time. I do try to remind myself that everyone of us is unique and things are not always as they appear. One of the generalizations that I have a problem with is that older men have more disposable income and are willing to pay more. It is not true for everyone. I stay below the $300 mark not by choice but rather by necessity. In doing so I may miss out on a wonderful experience with a great lady but I also believe that the same lady is missing out on a great and respectful experience with me! I am also certain that there are some older men who can afford the higher premiums who are also jerks. A higher premium does not guarantee a quality client. In my experience higher prices does not guarantee a higher quality of service and the saying "you get what you pay for" does not always hold true. For me it has always been about personalities and attitude. Either I "click" with an SP or I don't. I have had some incredible experience with a $100 lady that some men would have been ready to pay $500 for or more, the same way that I have paid $300 and felt ripped off. There are great SP's at every price range just like their are bad clients at every price range. Age and money does not make you a gentleman. As for girls who charge less "degrading themselves" I believe if a girl feels degraded it is because she has a problem with how she feels about herself and what she is doing no matter the price. I do not consider myself cheep, always looking for a bargain and I never negotiate a girls prices, I simply play within my means. I hope that I did not offend anyone and I certainly was not pointing any fingers or trying to make anyone feel targeted.

Hot Wheels and Tonka trucks. The Tonka trucks were a gift from the older boys who lived across the road. They were metal and very beat up but they were new to me and so much fun. A few years ago they went to my nephew.

Movies: Bullitt, Giant, Bound, Crash by David Cronenberg, My name is nobody. TV: All in the family, Wild Wild West, Get smart, Mash, Barney Miller, Magnum P.I.

I love a woman's personal aroma! Some have a muskier scent then others but generally it is always erotic. I have found that it is true that SP's do not smell as strong as non SP's and that it varies during the month for every woman. The only time I have ever been turned off was with an SO after spending the day at the beach swimming in the Atlantic ocean and we had also managed a "quickie" while swimming neck deep in the ocean. After a nice bath all was good again. I guess it was a combination of the sea water and my swimmers! With an SP I once noticed a faint unpleasant odour when daty after some full service but that was caused by the condoms. Some brands have a very unpleasant odour!

On that trip the best diners I found were in Louisiana, Texas and Georgia! But I was just looking for great roads and amazing views and for that California is hard to beat!

Funny, my first bike was an 83 Shadow 750. Loved that bike! +1 on the course! Best money ever spent. Get good riding gear, it could save your life and certainly your skin, I know from experience! As far as a new/used bike, there is nothing really bad on the market today since the year 2000, so make a list of the things you want in a bike and what kind of riding you want to do then do some reading, go to the ride days at the dealers and test ride friends bikes. I also accompanied a buddy to dealerships and asked to test ride some used bikes they had so he could compare, it helped him makeup his mind and he bought one. I have been riding since 1995 with approx 200,000 km of seat time. I spend my summers riding and my vacations riding to new places near and far! Have fun and be safe!

The best gift that someone got me was for my 30th birthday, tickets to the Toronto Indy race weekend which included garage passes to meet the drivers! The best gift I got myself, I have been buying my own birthday and Christmas gifts for over 15 years, was for my 40th bithday. A year off work and 9 months traveling around North America on my motorcycle. The best thing I have done in my life!

The jingle that comes to mind is from the viagra commercial that is now playing on the radio. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mFGpI8bfep0 and from my youth the one that is always first to pop into my head is a Coke commercial.

Sheryl Crow - Steve McQueen

In my 20's when I started hobbying and I was dating I did not consider it at all. Sometimes I did all three in the same day. In my 30's avoided it on the same day prior to a date. Now in my 40's I try to avoid masturbation for 48 hours or more to highten my sensitivity. I also no longer try for msog within an hour. Geting older sucks! :(

I was around 6 and we were living in the states. We would visit family in Quebec a few times a year and my dad would pick up some french newspapers to read most of them the crime newspapers like Photo Police. A short time after one such trip I saw the papers at the bottom of the pile of regular newspapers and started loking through them only to discover the central page had photos of nude women and stories from readers. It was not only me first exposure to erotica but also my catalyst to learn to read french! Shortly after that, maybe when I was 8, my best frind Bobby found his fathers stash of Playboys that we had fun looking at. I had forgotten some details about that time in my life until when I was in my 30's my sisters' friend told me that Bobby, who I had not seen since I was 12, was gay. The memories came back in a flash. At that time Bobby had also found his mothers stash of Playgirl magazine and the many hours we spent together in his parents room I was looking at the Playboys and he was looking at the Playgirls.:icon_biggrin: The innocence of youth! Good times!

This is the story of the girl that got away, or rather the girl I pushed away. Every time I listen to this song I relive the relationship and it chokes me up. I was listening to it now and before I realized it I felt tears flowing.

Here are a few that show my age! My favorite- http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XZWEEm6xZvU second favorite- And from high school, the line that really got me "she makes me cream my jeans when she comes my way"! When I finally realized that the singer was a woman and gay it gave the song a whole new dimension!