Andee

Since she's incarcerated at the moment, I doubt she will be answering the phone if it was her ad.

With all due respect, the OP does say later on down the thread that he would consider travelling to Ottawa. I am sure when MiaBella posted it, she did not mean any ill will towards your city.

I was born in Quebec and lived there until I was 16 years old, so I still have a soft spot for my province of birth. I identify as a Canadian, not a Quebecoise. I want Canada to remain as one country, but I understand why some Quebeckers want independence. But really, I do not believe Quebec could sustain itself as an independent nation from an economic point of view. Not to start a debate, but it seems to some that Quebec is like the kid who left home but still wants mom and dad to support them. If the kid can fly on his own, then I say go for it. As the birth rate in Quebec continues to decline, I am wondering if there will be enough people who identify as French Canadian to even sustain an independent nation in the future. The statistics speak for themselves. That's all I have to say about that.

Agree. There are many online resources available with a wealth of information where ladies can start. For ladies who contact me out of the blue, this is where I direct them to - my cache of useful links. I have learned some lessons along the way myself about being careful not to be construed as procuring. It's important for Sps to be educated and self-empowered and nutured and supported, not exploited by others with an agenda.

I was wondering who would be the first to ask that!

If you do come to Ottawa, you can always check out Chanel Reign as well. So many ladies to choose from...so little travel time...

All of the skills the ladies have described can prove invaluable in this business. But also, good old experience from the school of hard knocks is the only way to really learn the ropes so to speak. We are very fortunate now days to have online communities like CERB to share our experiences. When I first got into the business, it was agency out-calls and it seemed like "no-one" would tell you anything. I learned a lot of things by trial and error. Which is why now I am committed to mentoring or helping any SP (who is mature and committed to being the best they can be) who may ask for guidance.

Sara - go for it!

Correction to the rep point I gave you. If a lady does not kiss, she should not call herself a GFE. A safe GFE usually refers to a lady who does cbj instead of bbbj. Most GFE's allow DATY as well. GFE is more than just certain menu items, it's the whole experience of like you're with your girlfriend which is why there are different definitions of what it is. I am not sure why what using the word "True" before GFE means. I would say you need to person to define for you what they mean.

Thanks to all the folks who came out and made the party a success. I would also like to extend a special thanks to the following people who generously donated towards the door prizes and the ladies' gift bags and flowers. Jasmin (CMJ) Angie and Marc (Paradise Spa) Mistert Scribbles Kisser Deluxe Emb3750 Etasman Loneskater Shortcake Bethany (Sweetest Massage) Nicolette Vaughn Mutau Glad to hear everyone had a good time and look forward to future events.

Just to let everyone know, that Nicolette and I are offline as of 12:30 p.m. today, so we are unable to check our pm's. All paid and registered guests have been notified of the details of the event. Looking forward to seeing you all there.

Hey Vanessa - congratulations on reaching 500 posts. Keep 'em coming.

That's it Silverado - you have gone too far this time. It will be me administering the ruler to you, following by Mistress Nicki. You better have padding in those new dress pants of yours because you won't be able to sit down when we're done paddling your arse. On a more serious note, we still have a few spots open for ladies to attend the social. Contact either me or Nicki to find out the details. It is free for ladies to attend - drinks, appetizers, gift bags and draws for door prizes and a chance to get to meet some really nice people.

Why do some guys like to do it in their car? Because they're idiots! Seriously though, it's been my experience that the gents who request car dates are looking for a cheaper deal. When I used to be on the chat lines (for my personal life, not to solicit), I would get requests from guys "how much to do it my car". There may be a bit of a street mentality going on there and they think all SPs are open to that. I'm not really sure, because I never had a chance to meet and talk with them about it. It's illegal, and I wouldn't risk it.

Happy Birthday, Megan!

When I first started in the business, I was 35 years old and the agency I worked for, listed my age as 29 because they said no one would want to see a lady in her 30s. Since becoming an indie in 1998, I have trimmed 3-5 years off my age, but last year I decided I was going to go with my real age. I don't now if 50 is the magic number, but it certainly has helped increase my business if anything. I look at this way - in terms of competition, I have 5 ladies to compete with instead of 500 - lol. As the baby boomers age, I suspect my services will continue to be in demand. I have no intention of slowing down. As long as that phone keeps ringing, I'm staying in the game.

Congratulations on hitting the 2,000 mark! Keep 'em cumming (I mean coming).

As a mature provider at 50, I can tell you that most guys who come to see me are 35 and up, however I do yet the occasional visitor in his 20s who wants to try the older woman experience. My oldest client was in his late 70s, the youngest being 19.

Attention Ladies: For those of you who indicated you would like to attend the social, I will be sending you a pm on Wednesday to confirm your attendance. If there are any ladies who have not contacted Nicolette Vaughn or myself, and wish to attend, please let us know no later than Wednesday evening, May 4th. Looking forward to seeing you all on Thursday.

The Royal Wedding - the way it should have been....

If I am booked, then obviously I cannot answer my phone while I am with a client. In between calls, I do attempt to answer my phone, but I am not always able to. I always ask that callers leave a message indicating whether they they want me to call them back. If they are looking for same day, and I'm not available, I just tell them so, asking them to consider me for another time.

Same for me. I have had some very nice "younger" clients who very nice, but I tend not to encourage guys in their 20s too much, but the ones I do see are usually overly polite and respectful which I find very charming.

You're too funny. Meg: It would have to be Ann Margret in her youth for sure!!!!