Andee

I have always thought of myself as a fairly good conversationalist. It is rare that I don't talk at least a little bit about something or other when I'm entertaining a client. Even if it's just commenting on the weather. I grew up on military bases across Canada, spent a few years at University, worked most of adult life doing office work for a variety of private and public sector organizations. I have lived in 4 provinces and I have travelled some and take an interest in what's happening globally. I have also worked on and off as an escort since 1995. I believe I can put just about anyone at ease. Some of my clients love spending part or in some rare instances even most of the appointment conversing, while others it's difficult to get one or two word answers out of them. I try not to "talk too much" in order to make sure we get down to the business at hand, but I believe it's great if I can strike a good balance. I'd like to hear both from SPs and hobbyiest alike - do you like to converse or just get down and dirty or a bit of both. How much is too much talk? When isn't it enough? Just want to stimulate some dialogue here.

Here's my take on it: Brackets are usually used in writing to indicate something that is "set apart" from the rest of sentence. It is usually meant to clarify something but if you removed what was within the brackets, it shouldn't adversely affect the original sentence. So when it comes to a phone number to put an area code in brackets would imply that it's optional. So that would be in places where you don't need to dial all 10 digits. The area code is included in brackets to clarify where the phone number is from. In Ottawa, because we use 10 digit dialing, it makes sense to use the dashes. Although if you used the brackets, people would still get the point because we're used to dialing all 10 digits now. But that's apparently the "old" way of writing phone numbers.

Good point. That's what I did.

Since it doesn't matter to me (really) either way, I changed the format in my signature. Being from the old school, I think it looks better. Trying to catch up in the new school, I realize for those who want to connect via the web, it's easier. I'll let you know if it increases business! I was wondering what was better though - (613) 315-2210 OR 613-315-2210 I would think with the area code being part of the actual phone number now days, leaving off the brackets and opting for a simple dash is more logical. What do you guys think?

That makes sense.

Booby Power is apparently stronger than risk of embarasment for most men. :boobies: :boobeyes: :boobies: :boobeyes: :boobies: :boobeyes: :boobies: :boobeyes: :boobies:

Since I don't own a BB, I didn't realize you could look at an ad and click on the number and it would dial. So do I understand this correctly that you can dial from the following, standard presentation of writing phone numbers? (613) 315-2210 Sorry to sound stupid, but what about the brackets around the area code and the dash the phone number? Someone enlighten please.

In my case, it was me calling him - it was my brother-in-law - I was looking for my sister - they were at the mall. But you raised a good point that some people might think it's shady to try and disguise your number. An SP I know who has a roommate who doesn't know what she does, has been disguising her phone number, but hasn't had any complaints about it. She likes to spell out her number six one three etc.. It just occurred to me that I think some people still believe they are not ALLOWED to post phone numbers in erotic ads and try to disguise them, even though it clearly posts that they can. I actually met someone a few years back who thought that. Makes you wonder if they look at other people's ads because if they did they'd know that's not true.

A wise SP once told me that we are selling the whole package - a fantasy if you will. If you believe the lady is enjoying herself and you are happy, then everybody is happy, right? And you're right. I have had clients come and see me who see other girls who have lower rates and higher rates. So I don't believe rates are a determining factor as much as some would like to believe.

I don't think the spaces in between look sloppy. But I agree other characters are strange and throw the eye off making it more difficult to detect what the real number is. Most people who call me personally know I'm an escort, so that's not the issue, so I see no reason to get two phones. After all, it's another expense I don't need.

I agree!. And you shouldn't have to explain yourself to anyone.

In my case, I just changed my phone number and have been writing my phone number as follows (with spaces). 613 - 3 1 5 - 2 2 1 0 I use the same number for personal use and just want to make sure it can't be googled. Had an 'incident' with my old number - in another thread you may recall I said my brother-in-law got into hot water at his work because my number appeared on his work cell phone and they accused him of using the company phone to solicit escorts.

You are definitely going to stir the pot with this one Wellie. I am wondering what your motivation is. I think you are full of it when you say "very young and very old command lower prices". Where did you come up with that? Since there is no "going" rate - we are not governed by some union rules or legislated rate guidelines, believe ladies set their rates according to what they believe the market will bear. Sometimes they are realistic in their thinking - other times they are way off and learn the lesson when their phone doesn't ring. Some ladies who charge low rates do so to get the volume, or they don't know any better to charge more. Often young girls getting into the business will reason that $80 or $100 is better than working at Timmies. This is especially true with some agencies who charge $180 for the hour and give the girl $90 and keep $90 for the fee and driver. Maybe some ladies do not believe they are attractive enough to charge more. Maybe some are financially strapped and are desperate for the money. Some have habits to support and will adjust their rates to suit their desperateness. Then there are some unattractive ladies who charge high prices and wonder why they don't get a lot of calls. Then there are some attractive ladies who charge a little less than they could be, because they're happy with that number, or want to maintain volume. Then there are some attractive ladies who charge very high rates, hoping to attract a more elite type clientele. The reasons and factors are varied - I believe there is no "right" or "wrong" answers. Yes, some cities, like Montreal, seem to operate on a lower rate structure, but you still have your $300 an hour SPs living there. Age and attractiveness usually are what we consider the driving forces. But I also believe, attitude level of service and other things dictate the bottom line of how popular an SP is going to be. I learned that when I got into the business and thought I was too chunky to be an SP and learned very quickly that there is something for everyone and if you're willing to provide good service, there will always be someone out there who will be willing to see you. :butt:

I try to ignore most commercials but the volume is usually set higher, which annoys me. But I really like is visiting my sister or my friend Carrie's because they both have PVR and can record their favorite shows ahead of time and then with a simple click of the remote fast forward through them. It's heaven, really!

[quote name='capitalman;121915 I think the best gift I should always bring no matter what is myself' date=' all clean and in a good mood, teeth brushed, flossed, shaved, clean clothes, well rested, etc. End of story.[/quote'] I wish all clients were like you!:69:

Christine - you are the Queen of the Liberator!

Carrie Moon is quite popular - she has appeared in some MILF-related porn as well. If you go to her CERB profile, you can link to her website. She is tall and very busty if you like 40G's.

You will find the guys here to be pretty cool, overall! In your downtime, there's lots to see and do around Ottawa.

Could it be if they're temporarily suspended (e.g. a month etc.), stuff stays, but if they're banned for good, they disappear. That's what I think it is. The MOD would know for sure.

Capitalman - I like his wicked sense of humour Antlerman - So I can get him away from that bottomless box of kleenex

I agree with Christine that the SP should honour the rate that is posted on the web-site. It's not the client's fault you didn't take 5 minutes to update your site. Asking for confirmation is fine with me. I find the guys who do ask "what's your rate" end up asking me other things which are on my site and it's obvious they just wrote down a bunch of phone numbers without remembering who's who. When the book and I ask them for how long, I always confirm the rate anyhow whether they ask or not.

I agree they may be looking for a cheaper rate. I hate it more when they ask an you tell me if you're having any specials today.

I agree with you.

I was going to say the exact same thing!