Andee

I find that when I go with male friends. It's like the ladies don't want to approach men who are with other women. Because the lap dances are usually for me, I am the one who initiates the eye contact with the ladies when the time is right. It's great though, because we can sit there in peace when we want.

I did a double take there - I thought you wrote "orgasmic" cider.

I agree, Alexa. I overhead my 14 year old nephew talking with his friends about this and that being "gay". When I asked them what they meant by that, they didn't really have a good answer. They were actually kind of embarassed that this old 40s plus lady was quizzing them. So you can imagine how many young people get caught up in things they don't understand - geez, I'm still learning the ways of the world. But yes, you can imagine someone's window to world through is limited to the internet while sitting in "mommy and daddy's basement" It's not what I would call proper socialization and unfortunately that is how a lot of people are being socialized these days. I guess they are to be pitied more than to be censored. I have an aunt who asks why no one ever writes hand-written letters anymore. Good question.

When I worked downtown doing office work, I used to hear guys talking about girls hanging out at the Radisson Inn on Queen St) bar - but I have no idea if it was true or not, however I suspect it might be. I did work temp with a woman who went there to meet a friend after work, got stood up, and started talking with this businessman who was staying there form out of town. He bought her a drink, asked her to dinner, which she accepted. But she told me everything was nice until he started asking how much to take her back to his room. She said to me, "can you believe he mistook me for a prostitute?" I just snickered to myself and thought (lady, if only you knew what I do on the side). I felt like saying to her, "well isn't that better than him expecting something for free", but I held my tongue. But as ladies have stated here, I don't think we're out and about waiting to be picked up by guys. There are other ladies who do that and has been suggested, is a little too "illegal" for my taste.

Meg and Brooke: I knew there were a few other SPs in Orleans, but didn't realize you ladies were. Now I don't feel so lonely! Lots of variety for you, Mighty Mouse!

If you ever come to our Nation's Capital, you must contact my good friend, Chanel Reign.

This is a truly entertaining thread. I have always been fascinated by nipples - why some are small or large or stick out like cigar butts. I am in my 40s and still have pink nipples and have been told that it is rare to find a mature woman who still has "rosy reds" as they've been called. Could it be because of my fair colouring or the fact I didn't have children. To all you nipple connosieurs out there, I am just curious. Are brown nipples more the norm, or are there more pink ones out there I may not know about, especially from ladies 30 plus.

thought you preferred going buck assed naked...oh we're talking in public, I forgot.

What do you mean by east end? I am located in Chapel Hill in Orleans and I am generally available M-F, from 9 to 5.

I always say in my website, "at my discretion". If I don't like the look of something or someone, I bow out and if need be, I will be direct as to why not. I am not afraid to say it like it is if they "don't get it". For example, a guy game to see me who had rotten, broken teeth and he wanted DATY, and I politely told him that since he obviously had some dental issues, I could not permit that. He told me he a horse kicked him in the mouth when he was 12 years old and his parents couldn't afford the dental bills. As unfortunate story that it was, this many was well into his 40s and I figured getting his teeth fixed or removed and dentures or whatever was not a big priority for him in his life. As such, I was not about to endanger my health with his gum disease bacteria of whatever floating around in his mouth on my pussy. I still gave him good service. It's a delicate issue, but my health exceeds any client's request. Fortunately I get mostly well groomed, clean men visiting me - the ones who aren't lose out.

You always were a voyeur....or do I mean exhibitionist? Or both? If only that footbridge at Mooney's Bay could talk, eh?

I'd be up for that, for sure. In my experience, dancers are somewhat reluctant to approach gentlemen who are sitting with females. So if the lap dance (at least the initial one) is for the female and it's her waving the dancer over, it makes it much more comfortable for everyone.

I would agree.

When you come to visit, I'll take you on a wild ride over the Quebec side.

To answer your question, yes you're being silly. I think we've all been guilty of that at one time or another. At least you're putting yourself out there to ask the question. I am amazed at how many SPs don't even know what the law is. Like the MOD said, it's all been covered here many times before.

I haven't spoken to her in awhile. I'll ask her if she kept it. This was like 2 years ago or something...

A young SP I met told me that some guy e-mailed her claiming to be from CERB and told her that she could cut him a deal because that's what new girls are expected to do with board members and then she could get a good review out of it (this was before he met her). I suggested she ask him to pm her on CERB with for his handle - he made some excuse about privacy and then I reminded her that that didn't make any sense because if he was going to write a recommendation (not a review) what name was he going to use. There was no point in her reporting it to the MOD because we couldn't figure who he was or if he was really a CERB member at all. Has anyone else ever heard of this sort of thing happening?

Since I do mostly in-calls during the day, I don't offer alcohol, but occasionally a client will bring by a bottle of wine. I prefer not to drink unless it is my last or only appointment of the day on those rare occasions I am able to offer evening in-calls or I go to an out-call. Instead of Bud, may I suggest Coors Light. It's one beer that most will opt for if not choosing a premium beer. Bud = gas!

I tend to agree with what Buggernot posted. I didn't watch it, just checked the MTV live blog every once in awhile to see what was up. I always liked Jeff Bridges and was glad he finally won an oscar. I did not see Sandra Bullock's performance, so can't comment, but she was up against some real talent like Meryl Streep and Helen Mirron. As for best movie, typical Americans voting for a political-war thing...go figure, eh?

I know speech from the first Survivor....

In-calls or out-calls, cancellations are part of the game. I find them highly annoying, but for SPs who are travelling, it's even worse. I have been two minutes from someone's out-call location and they have called me back to cancel or you get there and they won't answer the door (I always verify addresses when doing out-calls), so it can happen. No shows are what gets me hot under the collar. I can't understand why these guys can't take 20 seconds to call and say they've changed their mind or can't make it. That is why I always say to them, "in order for me to remain discrete and not have to call your phone, can you please call if you can't make it so I don't have to call you". Most of the time, that works, but not always. On Saturday, I had a no show, my girlfriend had 2 no shows and another SP we talked to had a no show. I had the same thing happen to me when I visited Toronto in November. I had clients I had seen before when I lived there briefly 3 summers ago who were literally begging me to come, couldn't wait and then, poof, never confirmed when I was there. Luckily I was with another SP, otherwise I would have been in dire straits trying to pay for a hotel room and my expenses back to Ottawa. As for Ottawa being the "cancellation capital of Canada", that may be so, but I think it's just a matter of bad manners all around.

Where I come from, it was cocaine first and the alcohol as the chaser.

I don't know if I have noticed anyone doing that, but I agree, if people are doing it, that sucks. So, my question is, how do you "lock" or "close" a thread? Thanks.

I believe Bell Mobility is now offering this service as well - as I found out from listening to their announcements while on hold for 25 minutes the other day and not getting through. So I am switching to another carrier before month's end because their text messaging feature sucks. There are often 4 days that go by that I can't receive incoming texts because they're stuck on some server. I'll look into it later when I decide who to switch to (probably Telus) - but my number will remain the same.

Good one, Katedot!