Andee

If you go back and re-read the article, they are not suggesting "all women", are being forced to work by pimps - they are concerned about "underage girls" being forced to work by pimps. To quote the article: "Bell said police will be taking a more proactive approach to stopping the exploitation of young girls online, but he wouldn’t say how for fear of giving away investigative techniques." CL has its problems for sure and CERB is a better bet for legitimacy, but what you said is not accurate. It is always wise to be cautious, but to jump to the conclusion that they will be targetting CERB as well is a bit of a stretch. With cut-backs, limited manpower and resources, I think the cops have enough work cut out for them investigating CL alone, that they don't need to be looking for things that aren't there, here on CERB. Don't want to This is how panic, hysteria, fear-mongering, and urban folklore gets started. Thank you for wanting to protect us ladies, but I for one am just fine (even advertising on CL...I'm not a pimp, I'm not underage and I'm not a scammer, so I have nothing to worry about with regards to the scope of their investigation).

What do you mean, "are her pics accurate"? Having known her for 8 years and seen her naked, dressed and in-between, I can assure you that what you see is what you'll get. And those boobies are all natural!

Carrie Moon and Amber Moon appeared together in the adult flick "Dazed and Comfused". Although I have not met her personally, I believe she advertises on Escorts-canada.

If I am asked why I don't do Greek, I tell them the truth. I don't care for it and I am not going to do something I don't like just for money. Plain and simple. I don't knock girls who do...I am kind of wish sometimes I did like it...that would open up more possibilities. Oh well...

It's great when hobbyiests plan ahead, pre-book (and actually show up). But on a lighter note, (I never had the guts to ask this before)...how do you know you're going to be horny on that day around that time? Could it be men are always horny? Or that they can become horny with the right "anticipation". What do you think Antlerman?

I agree with Erin. Sometimes I can look at a guy who I find physically attractive and he turns out to be a dud (in personality or the bedroom). Some of my best lovers have been men I would not have looked at twice if I passed them them on street... So you just never know.... For myself, it's not something I really think about, but I would say that for the most part, the clients I find most attractive are the ones I "click" with on different levels. I have had some really interesting conversations, and been pleasantly surprised by some guys who possess certain skills. As harsh as it might sound, my question is, "what does it really matter whether we're attracted to our clients". It might make our job easier, but hey, it's the client dime..... Unless you're a total loser with really bad hygiene or manners or behaviour, I'm not going to turn you away.

I don't say this to clients because there would be no point... but have said the same thing to male friends who have asked me to do anal with them with them telling me that it it's done right it can be very pleasurable and I probably didn't like it cuz the guy didn't know what he was doing..blah blah blah...(if I had a dime for every time I heard that...) I shut that down by saying, I will let me do it to me for as long as I can do it to them with a dildo the same size as when they are hard. Haven't had any takers so far. I remember a former teacher of mine once said, "don't ask anyone to do something you wouldn't do yourself". Just ask. The answer is either "yes" or "no" or "it depends". (Some SPs I know will consider the guys who are on the small side so still worth asking if not clear on their menu).

My favourites are over the thigh leather boots laced up the side or back with a heel that's just high enough to make them still "walkable".

Carrie Moon, an SP friend of mine who also does porn is camera-friendly. I suggest pm'ing her directly for more information.

I agree with Erin. What's the harm in asking? Since I personally do not offer it, I would prefer to be asked just in case that is something the client wants absolutely so we don't waste each others time.

I have the opportunity to go to Timmins next week for two days. A friend of mine who live there tells me he knows of no independent escorts or agencies in towns there and suggested I could probably combine business with pleasure. Since there is no listing for Timmins here on CERB and not even a CL list for the area (closest is Sudbury), just wondering if anyone knows what the scene might be in that area.

I think the MOD pretty well summed it up already. As for me, my services are clearly outlined on my site. I am also pretty open about answering questions and clarifying things if the person does not come across vulgar or overly explicit. The only two things that I do not care for are anal and deep digits (uncomfortable and potential to get scratched). Other than that, I am pretty easy to get along with. But like the MOD said if your hygiene is not up to par, you are probably not going to get the same service I would extend someone else. As for what can you do if the services are not what you expected...live and learn. Sounds to me like you may have had a bad experience. If you're truly confident you conducted yourself accordingly, perhaps you had the wrong match of SP. I believe the recommendations on CERB are probably a better bet than, say nothing.

Happy Birthday, Christine. This is your day. Enjoy yourself!:bowdown:

When I went to University (Ryerson), I was 24 years old. That was back in the 80's before cell phones, i-pods and laptops. Even then, I was surprised at how poorly the other, younger students' writing and spelling was. As someone who has worked many years as as transcriber and administrative assistant, it is unbelievable the quality (or lack of quality) of work coming out of some young people. Just as you complain about your co-students, I have a similar pet peeve with younger co-workers, many of who regard administrative or clerical work as demeaning or not a real career. They are just using it as a springboard to something else. The only reason why they even got the job was mostly because they either had university or are considered "bilingual" (but don't get me started on that one). I don't know know if we can blame it on on-line chatting, phone texting or what, but you're right Erin, young people, as a rule cannot spell and many times their attitude is like, "the world owes me a living". Depending on spell-check to bail you out doesn't work if you you don't know the difference between your and you're. I have received e-mails from executive assistants who work for deputy ministers who have written "your welcome". I cringe when I read teenage nieces' postings on facebook. Most of the time I can't decipher their "code". I'm either getting old or something is terribly wrong out there. Do teachers not care anymore or what? Good luck with your studies Erin. I'm sure you'll ace your courses.

Her panties "always go missing"...hmmm...I've had maybe 2 pairs disappear over the years. Maybe they go hang out with the missing socks or something..

What scares me the most is not people talking on their phones, is people texting and hands-free will not solve that problem.

Thanks, Cato. I think she is smokin' hot. Can you do me one more? Kate Winslet.

I've gone to outcalls to the same rooms, but that's been mostly at smaller motels.

How about Julianne Moore? Sorry, but don't seem to be able to attach photos. Can someone help me out.

As much as this seems like a setback, I figure, let them have their say because hopefully intelligence will prevail and the powers that be will recognize morality has no role in this decision. An SP friend of mine had her neighbour call the cops on her because even though legally she was not breaking the law, the neighbour's belief that what she was doing was wrong should have been good enough. Fortunately the cops told the neighbour they were in the business of enforcing the law, not morality. P.S. The only reason why the neighbour knew what she was doing was because her son became obsessed with my friend and started following her around and figured it out, that's all.

Thanks Dummpy...I guess people are posting these new comments in the wrong post. I thought maybe I wasn't reading something right but now that I've seen the other post, I'm all straight (not really).

I was not implying you were. It just got me thinking about guys with big dicks who go around bragging about it, assuming that's what all women like. I actually had a guy e-mail me looking for a freebie because he was so well endowed.

I am surprised by the number of men I meet in my personal life as opposed to work, in my age range (40 to 50) who were perhaps in one or two relationships in the last 20 years who have never wore a condom and find it strange that I insist, not only to keep myself safe but them as well considering what I do for a living. I hear stories about these men picking up women in bars or dating sites and never practicing safe sex. With all the education and information today about STDs and Aids, it makes me wonder why they think they are immune. As far as clients go, I also find I have more mature clients who prefer hand jobs or BBBJ to intercourse because they either don't like condoms or have never used them and don't want to. When I was a teenager, and in my early 20s, the only thing we had to worry about were STDs that could be treated with penicillian and then herpes came along and AIDS after that. It makes me shudder to think the numbers of middle-aged people who are putting themselves at risk unnecessarily. I find younger people are conscientious about using condoms. As as SP, I rarely have a younger client in their 20s ask for BBBJ. I believe it is older people who are taking the risks, not younger people (except for perhaps teenagers).

Isn't September 10th long past? Or am I missing something here?

Perhaps you should update your post to reflect the fact that you are looking for hobbyiests, not SPs, that you already have a girl lined up. If I had have known that, I would not have pm'ed you.