Andee

Lyla members should contact you by private message here so you know it’s them. If you’re okay with that. Unfortunately it’s becoming increasing harder to tell a “real” cell number from a texting app number.

Sorry to say but because so many “legit” providers have trouble working in Fort Mac or Grande Prairie, they’re less inclined to try more than once. And even if they did, they would certainly want prebookings with deposits.

JoeBleu you are new obviously shill post

Please although well intentioned, this hardly helps in this situation. To the OP - if you message me and tell me what city your friend is in, I’ll refer you people who can advocate for her.

I agree! If you provide the service and they take the money back, they are negating the contract so that is sexual assault, because you never agreed to service them for free. Just like if they were to remove the condom or ejaculate where you did not consent to. This is very real and would be legally binding. Also pressuring a lady to offer unsafe services is coercion. I was not intending on hijacking this thread, but what you said is very important.

Wow I’m so sorry this happened to you. In over 25 years of working as a provider, I only encountered this once but it was me who Offered him his money back so he would leave because he was high on coke and being paranoid and it made me very uncomfortable. I was not willing to go through with the appointment. I would say in your situation probably best to hand the money back rather than it escalate to an ugly outcome.

My mother had the book the Happy Hooker and I would sneak a peek a few pages at a time and found it intriguing at age 10. Never dreamed I would become a provider but when I did my first call, I was literally “ hooked”. Even when I take breaks from working, I am still very active in advocating for sex worker rights and educating anyone who asks or cares to listen on the issues we face and the conflation between human trafficking and consensual sex work as real work. Even as as plus 50 provider I still hold my own. No expiry date on this lass.

You should probably try posting in the Nova Scotia escort discussion forum. oops I see that you did.

Not to hijack this thread but This reminds me of the guy who kept asking every so many months if any ladies in Ottawa were natural - unshaven. Of those of us who responded, none of us ever saw him. Not to say this is the same scenario but it does make us wonder how serious someone is.

Since it’s a non physical contact medium, perhaps it has reduced stigma in some ways but increased stigma in other ways - that it’s very accessible as some would describe as a quick cash grab not understanding that in order to retain fans, one must be continually adding content. From the feedback I’ve heard from clients, there are very few who can maintain the momentum and allure. Because it’s not my bag, I won’t criticize anyone who has given it a shot especially recently during covid. But knowing a very well established provider who has literally taken years to build a loyal and consistent following, it’s Not as easy as it seems to cultivate a steady stream of income.

There are many clients I know who refer to themselves as hobbyists who are not as you describe and vice versa. But thanks for your perspective. Personally I prefer repeat clients but if I only see someone once and the experience is positive, I am cool with that.

I don’t care what you want to be called as long as you respect my boundaries and booking protocol.

Unfortunately there are many ads that are not For legitimate providers which some hobbyists may not realize are scams until it’s too late.

You are right. I know Independent ladies who tried to work there and were run out of town. Unless you’re allied with the local so called agencies running the town, you can’t make it and their ads are hit and miss for the real thing. I worked there in 1994 but it was a different scene.

I know a couple of providers in Ontario who allow this but they retain ownership over the content if it’s to be posted online due to legal model release requirements and any profits to be made.

I was referred to CERB many moons again by a well established provider.

I never give my apartment number out until I see who at my building entrance. Even then it’s not guaranteed they Will actually make it to my door but more often than not they will but it’s still the unfortunate risk I take which is not pleasant.

@andeegoodheart

I cut off a good friend who was working comfortably from home collecting her paycheque chastise me and other providers I know for working knowing we had no Other source of income. The most hurtful thing was her saying if I got covid, I deserved it. Yet she never turned down my generosity in the past that was a result of income made from being a provider.

You can’t get people’s personal information like plates from an address unless you stake out the place and observe vehicles parked there nor can you obtain an address from a plate - at least not in Ontario.

Could pool party refer to shooting a game of pool. Ie indulging in party favours?

Have you considered using a dental dam?

Really disrespectful question.

For what it’s worth, to pay for ads on leolist using crypto currency, you still have to give them your legal name and ID.