Andee

I read the post you are referring to and she never said she would tell them what she "enjoys" during her encounter. Which is why it's always best to clarify what someone means rather than assuming. As for answering questions by voice call, I have no problem doing that to a certain extent. Besides, it is not illegal for us to discuss these things on the phone. Yes, guys shouldn't be doing this because it's technically soliciting sex for money. But that doesn't mean they still aren't going to and we need to come up with well prepared answers. It's going to take some time to "train" them on the new etiquette. I have been working in-call for years and was technically breaking the law, but no-one seemed to worry about that. Honestly I don't see much changing except the way I word my ads and answer written correspondence.

All the best to you.

White Rabbit by Jefferson Airplane

Guys who are bald can be utterly sexy. Guys with long hair if it's not unkempt can be a turn-on too.

Since dancers work in a public venue, discussing full service options is not permitted on cerb, so asking about it here is probably not going to garner you the responses you are looking for. I know a few dancers who also escort, but they are very adamant about clients not propositioning them in the club for for those services, but to discretely contact them according to their protocol (e.g. text) to set up an appointment to meet when they are available. It is no secret that there are probably some ladies who might agree to going for a quick ride from the club or hotel afterwards. But I would caution you to use your big head instead of your little one because the riskier the behaviour, the more likely you are to be ripped off.

By out-call, that would mean you are at a hotel and you want the lady to visit you there. Or did you want to meet her at her hotel? If you want to meet a lady at her hotel, Lady Sophia will be visiting Ottawa from Fredericton from Nov. 12-15 and she has excellent recos. Check her out: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=198773

It's snowing out - time to get the boots out:

:66189-iconsex-teaba:chug: :tongue: I am not a buffet. Someguy, I'm sure your intentions were honourable with starting this thread, but we are trying to move away from menu style advertising. What you are proposing would turn us into a smorgasbord. But nice try. As Sassie said "cute".

Probably not cool to call out another member but I am always wary of members who constantly asking about Sps from other sites but have no personal experiences to add. And why the 3 year absence? I was surprised to see some of his posts slipped by the mod's radar (asking for illegal and bbf services). If he is not willing to stick with reputable cerb ladies, then let him TOFTT.

I never said this topic shouldn't be discussed or agreement reached. I was just expressing MY OPINION just as you have stated yours. The reason I think it should be closed is because I have not seen anything "new" being discussed that hasn't already been brought up already here or in the other thread that was closed by mod because people were not checking their attitude at the door. The reason I did not unsubscribe is because I was actually hoping someone would bring up something new. Now this is the third post in a row on this thread that has absolutely nothing to do with the topic at hand. So I won't be replying anymore.

Curious how you think this would make a difference? No outcalls means just that.

I don't pretend to be a lawyer, but as been suggested on this board several times in many threads, stick to reputable providers and do not discuss sexual services in email, or text and you should be fine. No one knows for sure how LE will interpret and go about enforcing the new law(s), but you can bet that they will probably focus their attention on what's been described as "the low hanging fruit".

The OP is a relatively new member and I am sure she was not aware when she posted the thread, that the topic had been brought up before. So for that, I say cut her a bit of slack. That being said, I think we all need to remember that it doesn't matter what we say, some will read whatever they want into it. I agree, as said before, let this thread die already.

Woke up after having gone to sleep early last night. Just catching up on reading threads and wondering how I shall reword my ads now that Bill C-36 has passed.

I have to wait until I have no more flu/cold symptoms.

You would need to read the whole thread and there were references to another thread literally entitled "No Love For Black Men" which was closed by the Mod because it got so heated.

Enjoying some delicious home-made chicken soup I made that turned out better than expected. May as well fill up on it while I fight the last remaining bit of this flu or cold or whatever it is I had/have.

I can totally relate, RG. I had the flu for almost a week, had a 2 day reprieve and woke up yesterday stuffed up and coughing again. I feel better today, so at least it's not getting worse, so that's good.

You will never get consensus on a topic like this. It's like flogging a dead horse. Enough already. And please no comments about my analogy being akin to promoting animal cruetly.

Perhaps it's because they are only in town for a couple of days, and then remove the ads when they leave. Or, in some cases, the ads expire so are no longer found. Additional Comments: Also, you have ads that you have successfully renewed over time, that have for a long time exceeded the current maximum character count limit for BP ads. I'm not saying for sure, but that's why they may be taking them down because their system is catching them now. I don't know of any other ladies who have had ads removed unless they were flagged and they were advised of such.

Carrie Moon is just under 6 feet and even taller with her heels. She is in the Niagara Region but frequently goes to the Toronto area. I suggest you contact her directly as to her schedule, etc. http://www.carriemoon.com/

Let's not dance around the issue then. Maybe some of these ladies are racist, but I would dare to guess it's more like the "majority of these women" probably have husbands, boyfriends or handlers who are black and so that makes seeing other black men a no no. Period. And as a rule they tend to advertise on places like BP, which is why you will see so many of those types of ads.

Just like the other thread on this topic probably time to close this thread.

If it "hurts" to be in love or requires too much work, probably not meant to be. You're just starting out and have these many challenges, I'd say, not going to work in the long run. Just saying...

Sex addiction is often joked about, but definitely not a joke. If whatever you are doing (eating, gambling, drinking, drugging, having sex, or any kind of obsessive-compulsive behaviour) is making your life unmangeable, then you can be pretty sure you're an addict. I think for the most part, the majority of hobbiests and Sps are NOT sex addicts. I don't believe most people don't even understand what sexual addiction really is. Liking sex and partaking in it on regular basis (whatever that means) doesn't necessarily equal sex addiction. I had to cut client off in the past who I believed was a sex addict because I did not want to take advantage of their compulsion. I am talking about someone who I knew was only making $50K a year and wanting to see me 3 times a week with a family to support and would come up with desperate excuses to try and put our sessions on credit until pay day. Not fun. No offence to the OP, but I really don't want to comment further because I might get myself into trouble.