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Since this thread was bumped, I would also like to add Carrie Moon, who is 50 and from the Niagara Region who often travels to the Toronto area. In fact she happens to be in Durham Region (Ajax) today.

It's not racism. It's personal preference for WHATEVER reason. This topic has been discussed before on cerb, most notably: http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=181140&highlight=blacks I am in no way speaking for everyone, but I have met some SPs who are will not see black clients, tell me the reason for doing so is their past/present boyfriends or handlers were black men and they don't see clients of the same race they date. I knew an Sp who was of another ethnicity who would not see clients of that ethnic group because she did not want to run into anyone she might know from her community. Sps provide an intimate service and are when it comes to our bodies, it's our rules. And we shouldn't have to explain ourselves to anyone.

Happy Cerb-a-versary, Lady Sophia!

My cold is getting WORSE, not better. So wanted to spend some time with someone visiting from out of town, but doesn't look like that's going to happen.

I agree. Sometimes I just want to have sex for the pure enjoyment of having it, no strings attached. Believe it or not, sometimes when I get the urge, I can't seem to hook up, lol.

I think it may be a cultural thing. I believe there may be women who would consider this as an option, but it's frowned upon in the North America as a rule. I have female friends who have expressed to me they would consider it, but they don't have the courage to take the plunge. In large cities like New York for example, male escorts for females are more popular. This may be perhaps because there are more female executives and rich women who may be more likely to be seeking no strings attached encounters where they don't have the time or inclination to use dating sites or pick men up. Also male escorts are much more popular in Europe where people are less uptight about sex. Whenever a male asks me for advice about become a male escort, I tell them that unless they are willing to service men, to forget about.

Turkey stuffing!

What do you mean by BS? Remember the OP is quoting a former courtesan who is speaking from her position on the subject of being a "whore" and I think has kept it pretty positive and upbeat. We are all well aware of negative connotations and stereotypes out there, and if this was a list being compiled by someone other than a provider, or a provider who wanted to dwell on the negative, I'm sure it would read much different. I think it's refreshing and remember it's not about the client here, it's about the provider. A celebration of being a "whore" or whatever label we choose to call ourselves.

I really do believe that most Sps do not want to come across as bitchy or lecturing clients, but sometimes it may appear so because we get frustrated with certain things. Fortunately the good ones do make up for the bad ones and in my case the so-called bad ones are in the minority. But I honestly believe that clear and concise communication is the key. In my experience when things have gone off the rails it's because something ended up getting lost via text, pm or email. This is why I personally prefer a voice call before confirming any appointment to make perfectly clear that all questions have been answered and protocol has been covered. I am not in any way criticizing any other providers' screening, but for me, there is no final confirmation unless I have spoken to them first. This has saved me (and would-be clients) valuable time. I have to remember, I may not be a good fit for that person, and if so, I tell them, and if they feel the same and tell me so, I try and not take it personally. In fact, I will gladly refer a client to another lady I feel may suit his preferences better, if he communicates in a clear, direct and polite manner. I do not pretend to speak for all providers, but I believe that most of us would like a potential client to review what's stated in our ad or site before contacting us, follow our protocol and be polite. Period! And ladies, to respond in a timely manner. Speaking for myself, remember, if you call, leave a vm or text me and I don't respond right away, and it's several hours, or day passes before I can get back to you, I will probably not respond unless you make it clear that I can. This is because I have no way of knowing whether you're still free to receive our text or call without compromising your privacy.

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Premium gas at regular gas prices because they ran out of regular gas. Sweet deal those with a big gas tank. (My motorcycle took $10).

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I only keep track of no shows and guys I don't wish to see or repeat with (for whatever reason). For me, it's like the old saying "no news, is good news". On the topic of outing clients, any SP willing to "out" a client publicly especially for political purposes would not only be outing herself but basically would be committing business suicide and to what end? Not like there's a "prize" at the end for doing so. As for ladies who keep detailed lists of their clients, I am sure they are not going to admit that on a general forum. Just saying.... Not directing to this to the OP, but some clients have to relax. We appreciate your business but you are not that important that most of us are dreaming up ways to fuck with your life.

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Guys who write down a bunch of phone numbers and then call me and ask who they're are calling. Real way to make a girl feel special, NOT!!

To the OP: I think you got your point across succinctly. However, to add to it - it's to stress that if/when the lady accepts your booking request, that you follow her protocol to securing/confirming the appointment. For example, in my case, I do not finalize any bookings by text or email. The client MUST call me from an unblocked number I can call back if necessary. Part of my screening to hear the person's voice and chit chat a bit as intuition plays a big part in whether I want to see them. I give them a general idea of where I am located. Then I will ask that they confirm at least a half hour before the scheduled time so I know they are on their way. Then I will direct them to a designated place to park. When they get there, they need to call for the street address. I will be moving away from answering explicit requests by text or email as I do not want any text message or email trails out there. I have no problem discussing things by phone because it's doubtful LE is going to wiretap my phone. I think people need to relax a bit and wait and see how things are going to pan out with the new bill. In-calls were technically illegal and even agencies were offering them and the police have basically overlooked that for years unless there were problems. So why all of a sudden would they be listening in to two people's private conversations. I am not concerned that much will change. I am quite adept to change and have no problem adapting to whatever I need to do to keep myself and my clients safe.

Please get rid of your gum before you attempt to kiss or go down on me. And in the garbage please, not stuck to my table.

Happy Birthday, Jolie! Hope your day is special.

You might want to try Lexy Grace to see if she still offers this service. Since you are looking for web-cam, does, it necessarily need to be local ladies? If not, you may want to check out these cerb ladies who offer web-cam services. Carrie Moon LuxeMulvari Bianca Jaguar

Trying to fall back to sleep after waking up from a weird position where now my neck is sore.

Not many days left to ride my motorcycle and not enough money saved yet to buy a used car. I guess I'll be buying a bus pass for November, lol. Tentatively had a 1998 Sunfire (good condition) lined up through a gent I know who was willing to take some in cash and barter the rest with me for a reasonable price. But it turns out the car is still in his ex-wife's name, so he can't transfer it to me and there would be too many questions at this point if he asked her to even if he said I was buying it. He said I could drive it until we are "square" and he'd figure something out, and I said no way, that that was a disaster waiting to happen. Could you imagine an SP driving a client's ex-wife's car that is registered and I assumed insured in her name. Yikes!

Not exactly clear about what you are asking so I'll cover off some points. If you give a lady a deposit, and then you don't show or comply with her cancellation policy, then you should not expect a refund. If you give a lady a deposit, and then she does not show or has to cancel the appointment, she should either offer to make it up to you for another time, and if it's not possible, refund you the money. If she no shows and does not have the courtesy to contact you to correct the situation you could post in the warnings section since you have been a member for awhile, but best to run it past mod first. Most ladies I know who require deposits are travelling ladies who depend on a certain amount of bookings to make visiting a certain city worthwhile. Others may require deposits or pre-payment for other reasons (special requests, client cancelled before with short notice, etc.) If you don't give a lady a deposit, and she cancels for whatever reason, she is under no obligation to give you any kind of compensation. She has the right to cancel. If it's literally last minute that she bails, or for some reason she is unreachable and kept client waiting etc., most reputable ladies will offer to make it up to the client in some way (e.g. discount, extra time, whatever) on a future visit. I once had to turn a client away who was 3 minutes away because my dishwasher at the time was old and started to flood because the drain thingy had something stuck in it. Then there are the scams where they want you send them a deposit to verify you're over 18 or not a cop or some nonsense like that. Bottom line though is, never send a deposit to a lady who has not established herself as being reputable. And in answer to your question, this is not the place to name names.

If you are in compliance with the lady's requirements and do not overstep boundaries (asking too many personal questions, sharing too many personal stories with her where she might not feel comfortable, insisting on off-the-clock extended conversing/texting or email, trying to stay over-time or enticing her to stay over time or meet off the clock for free, etc.) there is no reason why you should feel you are taking advantage of her. If you are getting a certain level of intimacy and other stimulation met through the time you spend with an SP without any unrealistic expectations, then I'd say you have a good arrangement. If you feel you are not totally satisfied and crave more, then you might be putting unrealistic expectations on the client/SP relationship. I understand some men do not want to pursue a dating relationship because for whatever reason they don't want the commitment that goes along with it. But you can't expect an SP no matter how gracious she is or how well you connect and get along with her, to give you access to her personal life, or her heart so to speak. Just because we are being paid does not mean we are there just for the money, but I would never want a client to think or expect it may develop into anything more. In some instances, a client and SP may click in the romance department and end up together as a couple, but it's not realistic for a client to see SPs hoping that will happen for him. I am not suggesting that is what you are doing, I'm just putting it out there, that if you think you are taking advantage of someone, ask yourself what you are doing that is perhaps making you feel guilty. I suggest you do a self-check, and if necessary, ask a provider you have been with who you trust who has the maturity to be honest and ask them if there is anything they have observed in your approach or behaviour that might be off putting. Little things that might not seem like such a big deal can something make others feel uncomfortable. Doesn't mean it can't be corrected.

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