Andee

Congratulations, Mrrnice2 on the new addition to you family!

Happy Birthday MN2 - always a pleasure to read your posts. Hope you day was great!

Brand new eyeglasses with invisible progressive lenses. I can see up close now without having to take them off. Yay!

Dang, another good one bites the dust. Thanks for the personally guide tour of St. John's and your pleasant company when I visited (and my friend's car broke was out of commisison). Stay happy and healthy!

Okay, you may not be able to be clear on those other sites about how much for what, but because you do offer BJ only, then for you it's not a problem when asked. I assume you tell them you have different packages so to speak and ask them what they are looking for? When someone enquiries about my services, I reiterate what is in the ad, because I have had texts "what do you look like", so I don't assume they memorized what's there. Even without asking, I quote my fee just to make sure they are clear, so they know pretty much up front. It's when they try to bargain afterwards, that is annoying. And those one liner texts that come in asking "how much for just a bj" where I have to say "I charge for time, not specific services, so it's $X for hh, hr, etc.". It's just because it's not a level playing field out there, that some guys assume that because some ladies offer "only service" that we all do. It's the reality we have to live with, but it can be frustrating nonetheless for those of us who don't who have the bad apples who try to push it. That was the point I was making.

She needs to contact BP from the email address she uses to post ads with links to her previous ads to prove that she is real Sweet Shay and the imposter will be banned. Has someone made her aware of this? Talk about taking bait and switch to next level....

There is nothing wrong with charging extra for services not normally considered GFE (eg.g. Greek), but being upfront about it, is the key. And since you for example, do specify that that service s extra, then you are letting them know upfront that for your time it is X$ and if they want Greek, they have to tip you x$ on top of that. No surprises. I think the point Rebecca was making is when guys expect to pay less for what "they" consider outside the realm of a FS escort. Even if the guy just wants to come for a HJ, my rate is the same but if I establish a relationship with him, I may allow him to visit me at the rate I charge when I run specials, but that is me offering it, not him demanding it. Now some SPs do advertise BJ only rates, which is their peragative. But for those of us who don't give a break on that, it is annoying when we are asked "how much for a BJ only" when we don't advertise separate rates. It's like they see other girls doing it and "assume" that we will too. I gave up being annoyed about it a long time ago because sometimes I do believe they some really don't know the etiquette, whereas for others, it's a game to see if they can break us. Especially when they ask not once, but time and time again thinking somehow if they ask long and hard enough, we'll give in. This is not a criticism of anyone, but things were sure simpler in the "old days" when we quoted a certain $ amount based on time and services were never discussed. But no use dwelling on that though. Everyone is entitled to advertise the way they want. But I do cut certain guys slack in not going loco on them for asking because especially for a newbie, navigating the ads out there must be a nightmare at times. I am polite and assertive, but I don't continue to engage. We have to remind ourselves that we are professionals and if we have to spend an extra minute explaining it to them, so be it. I have ended up with some good clients who "got it", came and saw me for my regular rate for just a BJ and everything was fine. It's the WOTs, tire-kickers and repeat texters, callers who don't respect what we tell them the first time, who are problem, really.

Wow, talk about business suicide.

Not every provider runs her business the same. That's why if you desire certain services, it's best to clarify with the lady when you book, if it's on the menu for the price quoted. If she upsells you, then you decide if you want to go. If she agrees, and then renegs at the appointment, then that's a different story.

You were not misunderstood. I believe you did not care for replies you were getting because I read your original post before you edited it and removed the part where you basically likened a warm and genuine woman to someone who would be willing to stay in touch with you and you wondered why majority of sps don 't do that. There are lots of sps who are genuine and caring out there but doesnt mean all of them would care to stay in touch afterwards for reasons echoed by other posters on this thread.

If going for option 2, doesn't hurt to ask if she is willing to do massage, but be prepared to pay her normal fee even if it's "just a bj" you expect as your happy ending. There are some SPs who offer massage ony services as well with different pricing, but they are usually explicit about what ending they provide - and if someone wants more, they need to respect her normal FS rate. To make things clear, I simply say I can offer an erotic rub-down as part of the experience, but don't claim to be a masseuse per se, but the rate is the same. If it's an MA they are seeking, I refer them to other ladies who I know are more adept in that department. I have been offered to do massage with manual ending for a lower price, but that's not my forte, so I'd rather pass because I am an SP, not an MA. And trying to negotiate my rate for whatever reason is a deal breaker for me. PERIOD!

Hell on Heels - Pistol Annies

I nominate Ottawa's one and only Cleo Catra who is coming up to retirement. So if you haven't seen this kitty yet, better scurry and catch her before she's gone.

I offer this type of encounter. I love telling guys what to do and dirty talking. Watching a guy jerk off is a turn on for me too! If you like mature ladies, I am your gal.

Gas for my bike.

In the "old days" before the internet when there were only print ads and the yellow pages, we never advertised anything or spoke about anything explicit. The most we did was give our physical stats (height, measurements, hair colour, etc) and the rate based on time. Guys knew the drill then and rarely did anyone get out of line on the phone. As frustrating as it may be right now, Sophia, the guys will learn adapt and read between the lines.

Fading Gigolo - Written By and Starring John Turturro with Woody Allen, and Sharon Stone - superb acting!

Last week, I watched that one too, about the Hospice Program at Angola Prison in Louisiana. It was very well done. Watched the original 1969 True Grit movie with John Wayne and Glen Campbell. I prefer the 2010 remake with Jeff Bridges and Matt Damon. The original was too "sanitized", lol.

Crotchless panties. Regular chicken wings or breaded?

Oldboy starring Josh Brolin A good old fashioned psychological thriller with a 'I never saw that coming' ending.

Canadiens! NFL or CFL?

Rum boxer shorts or briefs?

Just another example of fear mongering and people trying to start shit just because.... I can say truthfully I don't know of any reputable sex workers who would care or dare to do this. Rubbish, as far as I am concerned.

In my experience, double bagging has always resulted in breakage, so I wouldn't recommend it. Just saying....

Congratulations, Emily. Great milestone.