Andee

Getting back to some CERB ladies.... (with her permission) Ottawa's own Chantal

Wow, I didn't realize. Now if only those rep points came with $ amount attached to them..ha ha. Seriously though, thank you everyone for helping me come this far!

Happy Birthday Castle. May your day be one long nightmare consisting of sick things!!! (you have to be an Alice Cooper fan to "get it").

Having the opportunity to not only visit Nova Scotia, but also stopping off in PEI and New Brunswick to enjoy some real down home hospitality from other cerb members who are making this a reality. You know who you are!!

Addicted? Let's see here. My name is Angela and I'm a CERB addict. We admitted we were powerless over CERB, that our lives had become unmanageable. Nah, can't be. Hey Sophia, let's put on another pot of coffee. It's going to be a looooonnng meeting.

The smaller the place, the more likely the girl will be recognized as a local and the problem becomes where to advertise and just how many clients is she going to attract. The only small places I knew where that worked were northern oil towns in Alberta and B.C. where there was an influx of workers staying in motels on their times off so there was always a turn-over of guys and thus new clients. Places like Peace River, Grande Prairie, Dawson Creek and Fort St. John had more motels than some small cities I've been to. Brockville is a beautiful spot and I would live there in a New York minute, but I doubt it would be lucrative in the long run to be an SP there (even a younger one). I have made the trip there for out-calls a few times over the past 10years. But what I find now is most don't want to fork out the travel fee. However when a lady has to take 2 or more hours of her time to travel, she does need to be compensated for it, otherwise there's no point in doing it.

I personally don't find the comment about Yogi's to be funny. I have met a few young men from Petawawa and believe me according to them there would be a demand. The problem first of all where to advertise without being too much on the radar and where to work out without drawing attention. If the army boys start lining up, I can assure you word will spread very quickly but it also has a way of getting back to the wives and I can assure you a lynch mob of army wives and church people would not be pleasant. And then if the Base Commanding Officer gets wind of it... Or so I've been told :icon_confused:

I offer BBBJ and in 15 years have never caught anything. I rinse with full strength listerine after every blow job and do not allow CIM. Perhaps I am taking a risk, but since BBBJ is at my discretion, if anything looks or smells funky down there, I don't chance it. Also, there are gents who prefer CBJ, and I always ask first which they prefer. I never assume all guys want BBBJ, because many don't. The one thing I do not permit is digits because you can contract low grade (fungal etc.) infections from dirty hands and not everyone washes their hands properly. I know one lady who insists her clients use latex gloves if they want to finger her and I understand her logic totally. No offense to any ladies who only offer CBJ or those any who have posted on this thread, but I have had my fair share of judgment being passed on me by other ladies because I do offer BBBJ and I think it's a bit hypocritical. I believe if you're going to call yourself totally safe, then you would also not allow kissing, digits or DATY without a dental dam and I do know ladies who only offer CBJ who do allow some or all of those things. I believe we need to respect each others limits with judgment or or criticism. Just as many cannot understand why I offer BBBJ, I have cannot fathom anyone offerring BBFS, but there are those who do and I do not believe they are comparable.

Realizing and being oh so grateful that there are some very solid Maritimer cerb members who have been going above the call of duty to make sure my trip down east to Halifax will be worry-free. You know who you are!

Yup, that will do it, if Silverado doesn't fall for it first.

Wow 20, people! That is an excellent response rate for a first time social. I can't wait!

I like Lee because he thinks he's an introvert even though he's an extrovert but doesn't know it.

Lee Richards finally showed me a picture of himself as a Manitoba Lobster.

Waking up with a one side of my throat sore and not being able to swallow. So I couldn't work today.

Miss Jaded: it's back on - read all about it: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=91730&highlight=Revisited

It will be fun to see old faces again and meet new ones! I have a feeling this get-together will be a blast!

I don't think you could go wrong with checking out the ladies affiliated with The Proper Harlot. http://www.theproperharlot.com/

I can understand where you're coming from. I was talking more if you are planning to go out for social time and then meet back to the room for playtime. I normally would not meet someone for social time only who I have not previously met or communicated with at length to find out whether I trust them not to discuss anything inappropriate. Most of the guys who have wanted to meet me in a public place for social time are guys looking for free coffee dates, so I have to admit I have not had a lot of experience in that social time only dates. I think it all comes down to common sense, but for someone who is a relatively new SP, I think the advice I gave was sensible. I made most of my mistakes in the first 2 years of escorting and some of them were because I cut corners by meeting in a public place.

Great thread! Not to be voice of gloom, but whenever you plan to play with food, be cognizant of any food allergies the other person(s) may have. There is one SP I know who is highly allergice to coconut or anything that contains it. And guys, NEVER EVER put any food items inside a woman's vagina. For example, fruit or anything with sugar does not mesh with our flora very well and is sure to set off a raging yeast infection. Play with food, but play it safe! :bigclap:

Wow, unbelievable that people didn't catch on that they were just joking around. Next thing you know, people will think that Fat Bastards is a real agency.

You know you're old when your grandparents still had a working outhouse out back of their house.

I like Tokan. If I was a muppet, I'd want to do Beeker, big time. Meep, Meep!

Thanks once again to everyone - I had a great two days celebrating!

When I started escorting in 1995, outcalls were the norm. Just to add to what Samantha Evans already said, it's best to only go to private residences or hotels where you can verify your client. What I mean by that is that you do not accept appointments based on a cell phone only. You need them to provide a landline number to ensure they are really where they are. It's hard to imagine, but it does happen, where "Joe" from Winnipeg is visiting Ottawa and wants an outcall and calls you from his cell and wants you to meet him at his hotel at 10:00 pm. That's nice except, how do you really know "Joe" is in your city. Hotel: Tell the client you need his name, the hotel address and phone number and room number. Tell him that in order to confirm the booking, you need to call the hotel and and ask for that person and make sure he is really in that room. If he balks at this for "privacy reasons", assure him that you are only using this information to verify and that he is paying for discretion. If he tries to circumvent your booking procedure, then don't bother. If he can't honour your wishes before the appointment, then don't expect him to do so in the bedroom. If he says he'll be checking in later, tell him you cannot be on your way until he verifies he is in the room. It's also best to let the client know when you are on your way and to adhere to a timely schedule. The minimum requirement for an out-call in Ottawa is usually one hour. If he's booking for hours later, it's good to call, because I have called clients back to tell them I'm on my way and they don't answer. I never set foot out the door until I know they are in their room and expecting me. Also NEVER agree to meet a client in a public place, e.g. the lobby or a restaurant. If he wants to take you out, then insist that you must meet him at his hotel room (or home) in order to meet and take care of business so to speak so that you are doing this in private. Residences: This is tricky because many people these days only have a cell phone, but in order to have some measure of security, you should insist on them giving you their landline telephone number and have them call you from it. You can consult sites like canada.411 to verify their name and address. If they don't have a landline telephone, you risk being given a fake address. Which is why these days, I do very few outcalls to private residences. The only exception I make is if the client tells me he is within a 10 minute drive from me and then I will take the chance and most often (9 times out of 10 the booking is legit, but the first time you take a driver to call and the guy doesn't answer or the address is fake and you have to fork over $40 or more, believe me, you won't do it again). Whatever happens, don't allow yourself to be manipulated. No exceptions. When we start cutting corners is when safety is compromised. I may not know "everything" but I have learned over the years that when I have deviated from this, that's when I have had problems. It's not worth risking your time and safety by letting someone dictate to you how it's going to be because they can't meet your requirements.