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It would be nice to find a local Asian SP that is Canadian-born. I find my conversations with women from the above-mentioned agencies are limited and makes things a little awkward if you're looking for something more than just getting off. I know that Annessa is the go-to half-Asian SP in the Ottawa area, and she's fantastic.

Annessa is definitely my all-time favourite SP. I could actually relax and be myself around her, have a real conversation, and enjoy every moment of our time together. It was a very sensual experience through and through, and definitely helped my non-hobbiest sex life in that I discovered certain things about myself and how to please my future partners. Annessa was a great influence on me, and I miss spending time with her. I think she is still in the area, but I have not seen her in 3-4 years now :(

Definitely hope that my partner (SP, GF, whomever) is turned on. Last SP I was with jumped my guns and didn't give me a chance to have DATY, kissing, or even nipple play...finally got around to digits near the end of our session and she was completely dry. She also used lube to fit me in. Such a turn off :/ Usually I do my best to finish my partner off at least 2-3 times before moving on to my needs :P

Everything causes cancer, and we're all going to die anyway, so just enjoy life while you can instead of living in fear of everything! I enjoy eating va-jay-jay too much to give it up. Wet, delicious, female juices *drools*

I'd probably forget to buy something specifically for the event, so I'd grab a huge bag of condoms, some lube, and a bottle of absinthe (yeah...I'd be that guy)

A part of the experience when I'm with a real girlfriend is making it known to my roommates and/or neighbours (depending on living situation at the time) that I'm getting laid. Most girls like to make a lot of noise and make it known that they're having a "good time". So I always feel disappointed when I have to either kick everyone out of the house, rent a hotel room (student here), or go to an incall because I have no power over roommates. Apparently it's a taboo to be with an escort when others are around, according to escorts, but it's all cool if the woman you're banging isn't an escort. It kind of ruins the GFE for me if I can't get laid in my own bed, but I can understand the reasons for this taboo and why a woman would feel uncomfortable in a house with one or more strangers that might say "Hi" or smile at her, in the unlikely case that they're not in their rooms. Seriously though, I do understand and respect all escorts' views on this subject. As to the topic at hand, I've had an escort over for an outcall on one occasion and had absolutely zero issues. After that it was all hotel/motel rooms and incalls. EDIT: Not to say that being completely alone with a woman ruins the intimacy, just the convenience. Oddly I never met with an escort for the two years that I lived on my own, so it's my loss.

This. I struggle with even a 30min appointment, what could possibly get done in 15min? Take off coat, shoes, and clothes; shower; then put clothes, coat, and shoes back on? I can see this as maybe a cuddle only session or a "break-a-wrist" fapathon, but it doesn't seem like it would be a relaxing time...in fact I would leave while incredibly horny and unsatisfied.

Welcome to the hobby! If you have any questions, don't be afraid to ask, we're a nice bunch ;)

I would kind of hope that ladies that offer this service are listed here, so that the rest of us can avoid them. I would certainly not want to be putting my genitals anywhere near someone with HIV or any STI/STD, even with a condom and hazmat suit on. Not that having condom-less sex with many strange men means you automatically get loads of crazy genitals-falling-off related diseases...but the risk does go up considerably and I think us hobbyists should be made aware of what we're putting ourselves into. Not saying ladies should document their bodily functions, but just say that they do/do not offer this service. Obviously there's the risk of us gents having whacky warts or worse, but I would hope that most of us would be honest about these things (both with ourselves and potential sexual partners) and either seek treatment, aim for less risky forms of sexual contact, or avoid sexual contact altogether. We're all educated adults, quite aware of potential risks, and choose to either "do it" or not. That said, a little notice that you're offering this service will help us choose whether or not we want to be at greater risk. EDIT: I think I just said the same thing four times in four paragraphs. Oops.

Downtown preferred, close to transit is a plus for me.

Freshly pounded va-jj. Also cheesecake and those store-bought vanilla ice cream drumsticks.

My actual girlfriend never gave me bbbj, and I've never been a huge fan of bj's in general...I get more pleasure from a hj or penetration. Never came from a bj before so I could care less if such a service is not provided or uses a condom (safer for both parties). That said, DATY is a favourite of mine ;)

Thanks for the comments, very true about having to work out my personal feelings first. As for calculating things out, it was an exaggeration/joke. If I had to pay an SP for the equivalent amount of sexy time as was in my last relationship (even on a monthly or weekly basis) I would be in the poor house.

This...for me. Dunno about women :icon_wink: If there is great chemistry between my partner and I, along with a lot of foreplay/teasing leading up to all out sex, my orgasm is a lot more intense. I'm definitely not the type to say that all of a male's orgasms are the same, I think that notion is just ridiculous. My partner's enthusiasm greatly plays into my level of orgasm. For example, if she's clearly faking it (as soon as I penetrate her, she starts moaning like I've just brought Thor's Hammer of Love down on her vagina) I'll quickly get turned off and if I even end up cumming it will be rather lackluster; however, if she's actually into it or fakes it really really well, my orgasm will probably be off the scale. As for the intensity of the orgasm itself...the best ones are when you nearly black out, see stars, and get hit with an intense and prolonged burst of euphoria as if you were slowly sinking down onto a million of the softest pillows (or breasts?) that you've ever felt. I have been known to swear on occasion (during orgasm...and also when banging my toe on something hard...but that's a little off-topic) and sometimes I'll even beg for a merciful release from the torture of those near-orgasm moments. For me it really comes down to mindless intimacy, if you can't keep your hands off of each other and you're more focused on making your partner cum than you are about making yourself cum, then chances are the orgasm will blow your socks off (if you're still wearing them).

Breakfast at Ikea and a box of .38 Special...interesting morning indeed.

Is it possible to quit the hobby? Yes. I quit for 3 years because I was in a serious relationship, and will again if I ever get into another one. I don't cheat, and only hobby when I'm single. Hobbying is convenient and costs about the same amount as dating, only you get the prize right away and don't have to wait. Quitting forever? Possible, but I like to feel a warm, naked, body against mine...so whether it's a relationship or hobbying I'm never giving up women. It's nice to know that someone to warm your bed and cock is only a phone call away, when you're feeling horny or lonely (or both). But I try not to confuse hobbying with a real relationship, it's a beautiful mirage that leaves your wallet weeping and unless your buddies are very laid back...it's not something you can talk about with them. It's not something you have to work at, it's something you have to work for, like any luxury. The lack of effort involved makes it seem to easy, not something worth doing at all. I'm just getting back into the hobby, and my first experience was underwhelming. While the SP performed magnificently, my head just wasn't in the game and the experience suffered because of it. If my next experience is the same, I'll probably take a longer break...it just doesn't seem do it for me anymore. :(

Got down & dirty in a classroom at Carleton late at night with my gf at the time. Everything was going great until the janitor came by and started jiggling the doorknobs trying to get in. We hid under the prof's desk and kept at it.

I had a wonderful time with Bella this afternoon. The west end location suited me well as I was in the area, comfortable and relaxed environment. There was a little bit of a language barrier, but we made do with "sign language" haha. This was my first time back to hobbying in over two years...so I was a little nervous and awkward at first but things got a lot more relaxing once the clothes came off! Bella certainly matched the photos, if not exceeded them in beauty. Lovely tattoos (which are covered in the photos). Cute little spinner body. One of the best, if not the best, bbbj ever. YMMV on dfk/lfk/etc. I take full responsibility for the awkwardness, Bella was perfect in every way. ALLD has my recommendation, great service. Will be seeing Bella again...once I exercise a bit more (I'm so out of shape :p ).

Now I feel awkward being the last person to post in this thread...quick! Someone cover me up! ;-)

Definitely gets the nerves going when I meet a girl for the first time, performance is always on the mind, and my looks...what will she think of my body? Will she laugh? Will she feel awkward when she realizes how old I am (I usually say beforehand)? All these questions and more will stream through my head, my heart pounding as I walk up to the door to meet a girl for the first time, and everything usually calms down once we start chatting and "getting to know each other". But sometimes it doesn't, I'm incredibly anxious about a certain performance quirk of mine, think the opposite of minute-man, so even during the 'deed' I'm shy and trying hard to concentrate. I think after a long term relationship (done and done) I've become a lot more confident and overcome my anxiety issue a lot. Although even now, recently single and interested in returning to hobbying, I'm worried about contacting SP's from 2 years ago because they probably won't remember me. So the rapport that I had built up with them has probably been lost, and I'll have to start from scratch. The butterflies in stomach is there, even just browsing through ads of cerb. Finding a connection is key to any relationship, especially hobbying, if there is no chemistry then the time spent together will just be mediocre and no one will really have a good time. But when you find someone you can connect with, feel comfortable talking to, feel comfortable laying naked in front of, the relationship in the bedroom will most likely be a lot more satisfactory for both parties. I, for one, will always be nervous about meeting new people. :icon_eek:

I was busy all weekend :( Maybe next year!

Don't let her watch The Hangover Part 2, lol.

Anyone know if they will be allowing photography? I know that past events have allowed it (except in the Dungeon). EDIT: Nevermind, looks like cameras are welcome :)

**SPOILERS BELOW** That was a rough, but amazing ending to an amazing show. That said, I couldn't stop giggling at the face Ben was making during the emotional breakup between him and Hannah/Belle...the pouty lips and the sad puppy dog eyes. I didn't find I was as emotionally hit by the ending as I should have been, I'm normally the guy who balls his eyes out at a sad ending in a romance/drama show. The last episode tied up most of the loose ends, which was nice, and while I do wish there was more...it's nice to have a proper ending to the series.

I noticed an advertisement for the first episode of Season 4...and I did a double take. What about season 3!? Just started watching the third season tonight, and I absolutely love it :) EDIT: Just finished Season 3, it was very enjoyable, quirky, and filled with lots of humor. I fell in love with the characters yet again, and giggled the entire time (minus the serious drama parts, obviously). Definitely recommend this series to anyone who hasn't watched it before, I'm going to watch the first episode of season 4 now...can't wait for the rest! Also, having an entire season of Secret Diaries at my fingertips while trying to study is a very bad idea!