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Girl next door/casual look. Tight jeans and a tank top (or nice top). Of course I'm open to the usual sexy outfits on occasion, I just don't get off on fancy dresses and tons of makeup...it makes the situation seem more fake than it already is.

-Hopping off 40 minutes into a 60 minute session, showering alone, and leaving me in an unsatisfactory position. :lol: -Bad/sarcastic comments about the tip I leave. -Talking about her ridiculous S-Shaped vibrating, spinning, deforming dildo...right in the middle of our time together (okay, that was funny). -"You only have 5 minutes left, but keep going." -"What's wrong?" -"Are you okay?" Those last two are the worst, I'm never trying to be vocal during sex ever again :-D

I'm going to quit this group. :( Maybe I'll come back when I'm a bit more mature and can actually make it to social events. Cheers, and thanks for being supportive ;)

I have 2 seasons of the show, started watching it a couple months ago...great show. IMDB says that there is a 3rd season, but not sure if that's just a rumor. I'm addicted to British Television and culture lol, made two trips to England in 2009. Unfortunately I ran out of cash before I could book my first escort (Staying in one of the biggest suites at the Hilton will do that to your wallet).

I had taken CPR and First Aid courses, but haven't got around to renewing them after they expired last year. Does anyone know if it's illegal to provide CPR/First Aid to someone that is unconscious/in distress (convulsions, choking, etc.) if you don't have valid/current CPR/First Aid training? Not that that would stop me in a life/death situation, but just wondering. I know this isn't the US, so I shouldn't expect to be sued for breaking someone's ribs giving them CPR but saving their life. Also, if you're staying in a hotel, does anyone know if 911 will contact the front desk and alert them to the situation? Employees in the hotel usually have CPR/First Aid training, definitely a first aid kit, and maybe a defib. unit.

I read the ad in its entirety, and if the SP has a website available I will try to read the entire thing. I'm very selective, and will sometimes spend hours :oops: looking over photos, reviews, and information about the SP from her profile, advert, or website. I know a lot of people older than myself tend to skim through text, and assume they get all the points made. They may get the gist of what the advert is saying, but will miss key points such as rates, general location, age restrictions, height, body type, etc. Formatting an ad with the key points in bold or colored text, or in a larger font, will draw attention to them. Keep it short and simple.

Well, I know what I'll be looking for next time I'm in Quebec. ;-)

If I'm with a new SP, I usually ask up front what the rules are. I've been with some girls that have said "no kissing", so I don't try to push them to do something they don't want to do. The experience in that case is satisfactory, but it does seem like it's missing something. I've also been with an SP (no longer working), who said straight up "no kissing", but once things started to get heated she whispered in my ear "do you want to kiss me?" "kiss me" and so forth, it was incredibly passionate and one of the best times of my life. I've been with an SP that surprised the hell out of me when she planted a huge kiss on me as soon as I stepped in the door, caught me off guard, but I knew what was on the menu :lol: I would say it is an essential part of the process, without it, it seems like something is missing...it still feels good to get your rocks off, but things become so much more invigorating and passionate with the addition of kissing. I can understand fully the reasons why an SP would not be comfortable with kissing a client, but this is a "Girlfriend Experience" and if your girlfriend isn't kissing you, it wouldn't make sense for her to sleep with you either. In my opinion anyway.

I've never experienced this before, but I definitely would go to a club that allows this...or ignores this. I would think the club would have to be in Quebec, or any area that doesn't have monitored champagne rooms otherwise they'd get busted really quickly... From what I've seen of Hull/Gatineau clubs, their champagne rooms are far away from prying eyes, no bouncers anywhere near the rooms, and the rooms are more or less blocked off completely (aside from lacking a door). I would think whatever happens in there and how far it goes is up to the dancer and your wallet. I would also be interested to know if there is a list of clubs that do this on a somewhat regular basis, I'm sure it's up to the dancers that work in the clubs, so even having a list of dancers to look out for when at certain clubs would be helpful to the community :)

I think I'll try to find him a job, his standards for one aren't super high, the most he wants is a full-time job...he's been applying to coffee shops and hardware stores...supposedly. Also I don't feel like I've been jumped on, more so that people are just voicing their concerns, most of which I've already thought of, and everyone has helped further enforce the negative aspects of what I was originally trying to do. I appreciate the responses.

I've looked for jobs for him, as have his other friends. I haven't gone as far as handing in his resumes for him, more so just getting him out of bed and out the door. The original idea which could be good for him is that he would think he was "hot stuff" and that girl's were interested in him. But telling him the truth would basically be like him ordering pizza because he's too lazy to get groceries (that's a metaphor, I'm not saying escorts are pizza, only that he would objectify women), if he knows that sex is on speed dial it would just be even more detrimental to his situation. As for his sex drive, he's been on this medication for years, and has had a girlfriend in that time...with apparently a healthy dose of horizontal tango. As has been made apparent, the cons outweigh the pros of actually doing this for him. Thanks to everyone for the response. Perhaps I should try something else... /thread

He's the only one that knows about my hobbying, and he has said he would be interested in it as well...but simply can't afford it. At the moment, I'm leaning towards this being a bad idea and probably won't go through with it. I asked him today what kind of women he preferred, and told him that I need to get him laid, but didn't mention anything specific. He basically droned on about how unlikely it would be for any woman to sleep with him. Also he's clarified that he likes chubby women, or average, not super skinny. Although I'm sure he'd jump at the chance to sleep with any woman. I'll try to subtly/hypothetically say something about paying an SP to spend time with him, see what his reaction is, if positive, I would be more comfortable doing this for him. @buggernot: he's on anti-depressants, and claims that they make him have no sex drive and sleep 12-16 hours a day :-? He's been "trying" to get a job since last April. I've ignored the situation most of the time I've lived with him, but lately his being somewhat proud of sleeping 18 hours straight and skirting (not doing) his chores regularly has taken a toll on both myself and my other roommate.

I've heard KY and Durex strawberry (?) flavoured lubricant are the best...this coming from my female roommate making me do a smell and touch test (on my hands) between Durex and WET flavoured lubricants. Durex wins, it's much smoother and doesn't wear out as quickly. No I didn't taste my roommates' lube, and this is a different roommate than in my other thread...:lol:

Trojan Magnums and Durex Performax for sex personally, and whatever the SP has for hobbying. I find the Trojan Magnums are more comfortable for me, being a bit wider than average, but they're so goddamn expensive I only use them on special occasions...lol. The Durex Performax aren't the best, they're tight and yet somehow fall off easily...plus they have some sort of numbing agent in them (probably should have read description before I bought them in bulk) so you can't feel the condom falling off or tearing. If you're looking for a good condom to use as an SP for CBJ, I find that most SP's use Lifestyles flavoured condoms...

Good point.

I'm usually in chat just to chat. Not really intending to set up anything with an SP...not to say that I haven't before. With chat, I usually sign on...see a long list of people with the Away icon next to their name, and check the time of the last response...and it's usually 30-60 minutes old. So I just sign on and sign off. But if there is a conversation going on, I try to join in. I don't know any Cerbians personally, but that doesn't stop me from trying to get to know them online. :wink:

I was thinking this would be a one time thing, leave him with no way to contact her...telling him the truth would kind of negate the point of the situation I was trying to make. But I get what you're saying...it's a bad idea. :sad:

EDIT: I've decided NOT to go through with the original plan, but instead will try to help my roommate get a job, get some help and get back on his feet...if he'll let me help. I appreciate the responses, but no further posts or PM's are needed to further enforce the negative aspects of the original plan. Cheers . Andrew Okay, so I want to do something nice for my roommate, and have an SP spend some "special time" with him in February. He's been out of the game for 2 years now, and it's starting to get to him. He's depressed, sleeps a lot, has no job, no school, it's a wonder to everyone how he can afford to pay rent. I think if he gets rid of his "blue balls" so to speak, it will be good for him, and he might feel a little bit happier about his life and actually try to get a job or try to find a girlfriend. Basically, I would pay you for your time, introduce you to my roommate as a friend of mine (from school or something), and then say I have to go out and do something, leaving the two of you to get to know each other a bit more intimately. If there are any SP's out there that would be comfortable with an outcall for someone other than the person who is paying for your time, please send me a PM. I'd be very open to increasing your normal rates as this is a special case. Also send me a PM for further details or questions. Just a heads up, he hates "spinners", he's a bigger guy and likes women who can handle him (apparently). Please don't flame me, I realize there are possible negative consequences to what I'm doing, but I'm just trying to do something nice for my friend. Again, if interested. PM me. Cheers, Andrew P.S. Mods, if this is in the wrong spot, please move it to the proper spot. Cheers!

I've been flattered to have been hit on by so many gay guys, and it is nice to know that if I ever did swing that way, there would be plenty of options. I've even been close to taking part in MMF (non-SP), but then backed out when I realized it wasn't a straight/heterosexual MMF. I love pussy too much...I just couldn't do it. My ass is exit only.

My Resolutions and results so far: Gain Weight - Well, I'm not losing weight...and I seem to be developing some fatty tissue around my waist. Stop Biting Fingernails - I was able to open a banana without using a knife, I'm so proud of that. Work out - Feel the pain! Feel the burn! Feel the GAIN! My arms feel like lead weights, and this time it isn't from masturbating too much. Get a Girlfriend (a not crazy gf, crazy didn't work last time, I doubt it will work this time) - Nothing yet...but I am meeting lots of new women, and going out with them quite frequently.

You could always just ask. You don't have to sugar coat it when it comes to your health and safety.

I should probably hit up Barb's this week, haven't been in ages...even though I'm within walking distance. Would be a big step for me to go there by myself, but what the hell, why not. :lol:

I haven't received any weird warts on my tongue so I assume it's safe... Before you go down, observe the area, if there are any weird bumps, warts, or discolorations (basically anything that doesn't look normal), maybe just use your fingers instead of your tongue.

Er...haven't seen her since August, but at the time, Jayne Davis was trimmed but not shaved. I quite enjoyed it, cute and doesn't go "foof" into your face and wasn't around the tasty bits.

At least once a month, most in a month was 4.