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Why do I not feel bad about this?
bewlayb replied to mister_crufty's topic in Ottawa Discussion - Escorts
Actually, not. Sad. -
Why do I not feel bad about this?
bewlayb replied to mister_crufty's topic in Ottawa Discussion - Escorts
You talk about sex and money, yet the statement above suggests you are getting more than just sexual satisfaction from your encounters. Emotional support perhaps? Don't you find this at all worrisome given the way you've characterized your marriage (as just a sex void)? Aren't you concerned you'll find something else missing from your relationship that you didn't even realize wasn't there? And what of your wife? Shouldn't she be a part of your journey of self-discovery, especially when it may affect her relationship too? Or maybe she is! Does she know about your new hobby? I'm not trying to be a sh!t disturber. I'm genuinely interested in knowing how you're dealing with these potentially deeper issues (given your circumstances). Maybe I can learn something. ;) I don't believe it's as simple as you make it out to be... basically surrogate sex for an otherwise happily married man. Especially not if you are going it alone. -
Why do I not feel bad about this?
bewlayb replied to mister_crufty's topic in Ottawa Discussion - Escorts
I find the premise of this thread a bit confusing (misleading?). You pose the "philosophical" question "Why do I not feel bad about this?", and then you proceed to write almost exclusively about the monetary aspects of hobbying. At first, based on your marital situation, I thought you were covertly seeking guidance on dealing with your guilt or hobbiest remorse. I mean, my first thought when someone voluntarily announces how they feel ("not bad"), is to believe the opposite is actually true (as in "I am not a crook!" Yes, you are!). I don't have a problem with that. I know where you're coming from and if I can help, I will. But I get confused by your fixation with money. Read just about any of your responses and there's some reference to money (costs, affordability, value versus, etc). If this is your primary concern, then perhaps ask a more direct question. What is the real question you are asking us? Are you trying to determine why you don't ( ;) ;) ) feel guilty hobbying, when you think you really should? Or, are you simply trying to justify the economics of the hobby for yourself? Perhaps a better philosophical question would be "How would I cope with my situation if I couldn't afford to hobby?" -
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Oral Lovers: New Social Group!
bewlayb replied to Sweet Emily J's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
EmJ, please do me too!! -
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Yup. That's how I remember the term coming into play. Yup again. In both cases, intimacy (the non-sexual kind) is the primary distinction from the historically more clinical service approach. An observation: It seems we were on the right track with this thread initially. The original poster started a topic specifically asking about a GFE massage (in the massage section, no less). Seven posts in, he expressed his satisfaction with the sensual-oriented massage descriptions given. Suddenly we find ourselves in the midst of a pedantic debate over correct GFE usage; and worse, pundits awaken to remind us that it's actually full service providers who have the exclusive licensing rights to use the term. I don't get it. Why is this so important? And why is it even relevant to this thread, which for all intents and purposes could have ended happily and on-topic 31 posts ago?
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While there are many providers who advertise a GFE - whether massage or full service - the only sessions I can honestly say I ever remember as such are the ones with characteristics as described above. There is something immersive and emotive about the best of these sessions. Leaving them, I feel fulfilled, but also lightheaded and dreamy, as though I was under a spell of some sort.
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Not your typical vocabulary thread.
bewlayb replied to lookingforfunxxx's topic in Ottawa Discussion - Escorts
Facefucking is my term for it too. It works both ways. In this case, she's fucking your face. And you're loving it. -
Bigdawg, looks like you have to find a way to get her into bed. Context is everthing, you know. :icon_wink: