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"It's okay. No one's watching."

I am familiar with the place you refer to. However as I recall, back in the day it was proper etiquette to tip the lady if you were satisfied with the service. So, in effect you should have paid more than the door fee. Today, the informal and ambiguous "tip" seems to have mostly been replaced with a menu and set price list for options. Although I do know some ladies (mostly independents) that still follow the practice of discretionary tipping - give what you feel is appropriate.

Hmmm. As usual, threads dealing with semantics here are both interesting and complex. Primarily because context and perspective are important. What is acceptable to one person for a particular scenario may not be acceptable to a different person, or to either person for a different situation, etc. Where some words are concerned, generalization is not possible. Sarah makes some important points, which I agree with and have made before. We have to stop taking words so literally and without consideration of the context. Context includes who said it, why they said it, and who is the intended receiver. Sarah describes mainly one-on-one situations where she is the receiver (honest, no pun intended). She says it's okay to use all manner of colourful labels for her, as long as she knows you, and your words are meant to have positive connotations. One-on-one and perhaps with a less extensive vocabulary, this is probably true for most people here. However, I think Cristy in her original post, is describing a somewhat different scenario - one that concerns the use of labels by the media or general public. Unfortunately, in that broader scenario there are many receivers; so there may be many different interpretations and reactions to the use of certain labels. While it is not always clear what meaning the originator intended, that is precisely what we, as receivers, must focus on - not the labels. I doubt any service provider would feel any better about an article or comment where someone described "courtesans" and "hired-companions" as the scourge or underbelly of society. Coversely, I would expect an overall positive reaction to an article advocating safety for "prostitutes" or defending a prostitute's right to earn a living. It's the message that's important, not the individual words used and on their own.

I like my towel tied to open at the side - Roman style - so I flash a little leg, feel uninhibited and agile, and have that nice smooth flat-front finish look, so popular in men's fashion today. :icon_razz:

It's a bit more of a hike than most Ottawa people will think of when you say "Hull", so that could be a deterrent for some. But I've traveled much further in Gatineau for a lady's company, so I have no problem with seeing you at your proposed location (being from west-end Ottawa helps too).

I'm partial to the cheeky look. But a little more coverage (sort of) works for me too!

What discussion? Certainly not the discussion the OP had intended when he started the thread. Had the thread not been jumped on to express a few hang-ups over the B-word, we probably would have seen 25-30 happy hobbyists highlighting 30-35 of their favorite ladies (yes, B-word notwithstanding, some would likely name more than one). And what would have been wrong with that??

I agree, but question why action wasn't directed at the OP, who was clearly out of line. Censorship over discipline? I personally had no issue with the original post, but for the reasons you cited, still felt it was going to cause a stir.

Me too! The left one feels better and is more responsive. (ping!!) ;) ;) Left or right? Could be the making of another thread.

I like my nipples kissed, licked, or gently sucked and nibbled. Biting or hard sucking not so much. I especially like it when a lady initiates because then I think she's attracted to them or it's something she enjoys doing. If she ignores my nipples, then I will usually play with them when receiving oral to heighten the whole body sensation. If I'm lucky, she'll get the hint. A warm wet mouth is best!

Oh, I think I could learn a lot from you! According to my calculations, the rules allow a theoretical minimum of 6, which means there's only one thing you haven't done from the list. Just curious, what would that be?

22. Among this crowd that makes me feel like a prude in need of redemption. :icon_smile: BTW, is there a statute of limitations on these sex acts? When I take SP encounters out of the equation, most of my points are subtracted because of things I did more than ten years ago. :o

The name of the studio was given in this post from a recent "memory lane" thread: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showpost.php?p=352091 I found the address and contact information using yellowpages.ca .

Of course everyone has choices and no one should be expected to do something they find unpleasant. However, as I stated earlier these are changing times for the norms of pubic grooming. Only a handful of years ago, there was no real thought given to male grooming down there. It just wasn't done by regular guys. Today, we see here that the topic will induce a lively discussion and potentially determine the "mileage" a client can expect. This is new territory and we will have to adjust to it; perhaps having to get used to disclosing our grooming habits before an SP will agree to full service or a porn star experience, etc. I hope it doesn't come to that, but in matters of pubic hair, the times they are a-changin'. As for me - I'm old-school - haven't suffered any pubic-induced trauma, so I'll happily munch on whatever hairstyle my fair lady is serving. I suppose part of the reason I am this way is because I come from a day when variety was naturally offered - by the texture, colour, density and shape of her God-given pubic frock. I never encountered anything less than a full or lightly trimmed rug for the first 15 years of my dining experience. I have nothing but fond memories of each and every one. In the recent 15 years I've had to get accustomed to the idea that less is more. And I have. In some ways, I see today's women offering even greater variety - from all natural to fully shaven. And I'm loving it! So for me today, I'm receptive to all manner of grooming styles. Just like the hair on her head, make-up on her face, and clothes on her body, the pubic style she wears on the day we meet is her choice. I respect her choice and don't usually have problems enjoying it. In our hairless future, I hope enough ladies will still be around having a similar attitude and allow us guys the opportunity to offer up whatever hairstyle we feel like wearing on any given day.

I agree 100%. Seems silly. As a client, I never thought I would be turned down for the way my curlies were coiffed!

This seems like a reasonable suggestion, assuming that is, the lady you hope to see will entertain such detailed questions about her services. This recent thread suggests that is not always the case. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=92588 These are interesting times for sure. Clearly we are in a state of transition vis-à-vis preferred norms for male body hair, not unlike what we saw happen to women beginning about 35 years ago. First it was a bit of general bush pruning, then shaving only around the vulva and closer cropping of the pubes, and finally birthday baldness. Based on the female experience, are men heading down the same grooming path to hairlessness? Twelve years ago, when I was toying with the idea of doing a little manscaping, I asked SPs about their preferences for male grooming. Without exception, the answer I got was that a little overall trimming (taming!) was nice, but fully shaven was unmanly... unless I was a porn star. Today, more and more, I am getting the feeling that shaved balls and cropped pubes are becoming the accepted and expected norm. Can a new form of sexy male pattern baldness be far off?

And clean house like "Hazel". :icon_razz:

You might be surprised at how little skill it actually takes to give someone a pleasant massage experience. Take your queue from what you like when receiving a massage (before the happy-ending part, lol). Generally speaking everyone enjoys their back and shoulders rubbed, as well as the backs of their legs, calves, and buttocks (although the bum requires a little more finesse to maintain decorum). Use a bit of oil (but not too much) to create a glide and use big hands to give long, slow, firm (not hard) strokes (push up and slide down usually works well). Use of a large hand not only feels good (women do seem to like the feel of a man's hands on their body), but it's also safer. Without proper training, never apply direct pointed pressure to the spine or neck because this can hurt and could cause serious injury. If you stick to these basics and relax, I'm sure you'll both enjoy the experience. At least that's been my experience (I have a lot of repeat clients ;) ).

I agree with rick. Step back and take a break from the board for a bit. At 1000+ posts in about 18 months, I'd say you are fully immersed in cerb. Sometimes it's a matter of perspective and being too involved in something (anything) can limit your perspective. Give yourself a chance to focus on other things for a while and you may see "life" on this board differently when you return.