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I like it! I can see where that might add some fun and excitement to an encounter. Hmmm, I wonder what her kitty looks and feels like this time.

I don't know all the reasons for men completely shaving themselves - maybe it's a metrosexual thing - but shaved balls do feel awfully nice when handled by a lady. One reason I've heard for a guy shaving or trimming on top is to make himself appear bigger. At least that's the theory. I know it's no concern to you ladies, but for some guys...you know... it's all about size (perception). :icon_wink: As for completely unshaven women. I grew up when it was the norm. I don't particularly miss it, especially picking pubes out of my teeth afterwards. On the other, I'd never kick a lovely lady out of bed for not shaving. :icon_smile:

GiantJean is correct. I just saw this story on Global TV last week: Ontario Man Moves Across Canada to Save His Dog http://www.globaltoronto.com/personalities/Ontario+moves+across+Canada+save/4065912/story.html

Getting older helps. :razz: (Not really a joke. It does!) Premature was a big issue for me in my younger days. I researched a lot back then to understand the physiology and to find methods of control. I tried most things suggested in this thread. They can all help to some extent, but as described by nutty, getting to know your body and the phases you go through leading up to your orgasm is the most important thing. Recognizing the plateau is key. I always called it being "in the zone" because when you're there it seems as though you can stay there forever. You reach a heightened state of erection (hard (and fuller I think), yet de-sensitized... perfect for a porn star performance :motion:). For me to reach this state, I require a longer gentler climb to the top. A slow build up. That is, longer and less direct foreplay (sound familiar ladies :wink:). I've discovered that my body needs to acclimatize itself to sexually stimulation. Nutty was absolutely correct when he said we males tend to blow right past the plateau... usually not even realizing we passed it. In my experience, when you hit the hair-trigger point, you've gone too far. It is very difficult to recover from that point and fallback to the plateau. Not impossible, but usually with a low probability of success. Once you get to the sensation of the impending orgasm, you want it to continue, you want to complete (Why? Because your head knows it's going to feel soooo good. The little devil over your left shoulder says "You want it. Go for it!"). Masturbation is a great way for a guy to get to know his sexual wiring. Rather than whacking-off, you have to approach masturbation as an exercise in self-discovery and, dare I say, self-love. By doing so you will experience and enjoy not only the finish (which I assure you will be better, if not spectacular), but also the long journey to the end. However, even a self-ware man, one who is completely in control of his "own domain", can be easily thwarted by a partner's approach and techniques. For example, last year I saw an MPA who, despite giving a fantastic massage, approached the finish as a HJ marathon. She got me off in record time, achieving her goal before I even reached a full erection. For me, the orgasm was a non-event; I left feeling unfulfilled and disappointed. Now back to Annessa's original question. My advice: treat the guy like a woman. Take it slow. Don't focus only on his genitals. When you play with his penis, play with the whole thing... and don't forget his balls. Lots of teasing and soft-stroking/kissing of buttocks, inner thighs, stomach, nipples... (see, just like a woman) The longer the build-up, before "the final act", the longer the final act is likely to be. Learn the tell-tale signs of a man's climb to orgasm (see previous posts). One physiological change that I don't think was mentioned is the way a man's testicles rise as he approaches climax. As he gets more aroused his scrotum will tighten and his testicles will ascend. One technique I read once to deal with an impending ejaculation is to gently hold the testicles down by putting your thumb and forefinger around the scrotum just above the testicles. I don't recommend doing this. Personally it makes me squeamish (a mood killer even) and I think it could hurt the guy if not done properly. However, this point does illustrate the testicles as an important stimulation sign-post. Great thread Annessa. Thanks for starting it. Interesting to see that you ladies don't know everything about what makes us guys tick. :razz: Perhaps I should contribute myself to your ongoing research and practice (ooh baby, more of that, no less of that, yes, right there... oh yeah baby) lol.

:confused: I think you missed the point. I've edited the original post to remove the distracting reference (only mentioned once btw). lol

My interest in this topic is a little more, ahem, specific. I've thought about starting my own thread about it. I'm interested in the "souvenir" aspect of this and have often wondered whether any of the ladies are also interested in capturing a photo memento of their clients. As someone who appreciates the fine art of female genitalia, I would love to capture images of the pretty orchids I experience. Is this something the ladies would allow? No faces or body shots that might reveal their identity, just a simple intimate photo shared with me.

A brilliant acoustic cover of Outkast's Hey Ya by Matt Weddle (aka Obadiah Parker). I believe, first seen on America's Got Talent (not that I've ever watched it :oops:).

Nazareth doing This Flight Tonight (Joni Mitchell) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x_809EZ6bIA&feature=related Gotta get me a pair of those chick magnet blue aviators. Speaking of Joni Mitchell covers, let's not forget the best known: Woodstock by Crosby Stills Nash & Young. Rather than a link to the cover, how about we enjoy the beauty of the oft overlooked original.

...waiting... waiting... Okay, it's inevitable, but eventually someone here is going to ask for BBDATO. lol (but, not me ;-P)

I hope so. :shock:

My dad taught me this. The secret of the power nap is timing. Keep it short. Too long and you start entering deep sleep mode and that's when you get groggy. The perfect naps leaves you refreshed and not groggy at all. No more than 20 minutes is about right. When I started learning how, I set an alarm for 25 minutes. This gave me time to get comfy, relax and drift into a light sleep. When the alarm goes off, up you get. If you feel groggy, shorten it a couple of minutes next time. After awhile, you won't need the alarm. Meg, perfect timing, you're in luck. Psychology Today just posted a how-to guide for you. Check it out: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/minding-the-body/201006/ultimate-napping-how-guide And for those debating whether napping, coffee, or just more sleep at night is the best way to combat afternoon drowsiness. Science says the nap is your best defence. :D http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/sleep-newzzz/200907/nap-vs-caffeine-vs-more-nighttime-sleep

I don't think I have a bias towards one hair color or another. Hair color is not an attribute that I consciously make part of my search criteria. However, if you were to review my dating history, you would see a definite tendency towards relationships with brunettes. A blond will usually grab my attention first; but it seems, it's the brunette who will hold onto it longer. Although... lately, I'm noticing a very strong attraction towards raven haired beauties. Hmmmm... :?

I come from a family of seasonal allergy sufferers. Besides getting the full allergist's treatment (serum shots) they've also used most of the allergy products available over the years. For the past couple of seasons they've spoken very highly of Areius. Apparently, very effective with negligible side-effects. As for me, I suffer the most with my eyes and I prefer to just treat them directly with eye drops. The most effective I found is Opticrom (by Allergan). This was once prescribed to me by my doctor, but now it's available over the counter. Instant long-lasting relief. I have trouble with cats and dogs too, and it is also effective at counteracting the effects of their dander. Some people don't like the slight sting of the drop, but that quickly dissipates and is replaced by the euphoria of itch relief.

Most places I think prefer appointments. In my opinion, appointments work better because they are expecting you and you're not catching them at an awkward time (e.g. just when another client is leaving or entering) and there's less chance you'll waste a trip by being turned away (yes, even with an appointment, this happens very occasionally). Also, making an appointment can be just as spontaneous as walking in. Quite often when I get the urge, I go down my list of favorite MPs and find one able to accommodate me in the 20-30 minutes it takes me to drive there.

...not to mention cerb membership has grown significantly in that time, meaning lots of new sources for the information he seeks. I see no harm either.

Angela, The busy looking table with all the colors is the one to look at. All rows shaded green indicate channels that can probably be picked up by a set-top antenna. The first two columns tell you the channel call-sign and channel number respectively. I'll PM you with my interpretation of your results.