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I don't think there is harm in asking a potential provider what her boundaries or options are as long as you do so in a courteous and respectful way. It is better to be a little awkward at this stage in the process as opposed to encountering an awkward situation during an encounter.

I would suggest you browse the recommendations for your local area and find a provider you are interested in and just send her a message or email to talk. Get to know her a bit online and if there is some sort of connection or comfort level there, maybe plan a social encounter to ease your way into it, rather than just starting in the bedroom. Also, the media likes to sensationalize issues like STIs, the rates are actually quite low and the effectiveness of safe play (e.g. condoms & dental dams) makes it a very safe environment if you want it to be. In addition, from what I have read, SPs get tested a lot more often than average women do. Lastly, remember that these women are professional and many on this website are very good at what they do. They have a lot of experience with shy or anxious guys and you might be surprised at how relaxed they can make you.

If you try to stop a snowball from rolling down a hill 5 seconds after it is let go, it is easy. If you try to stop a snowball from rollin down a hill an hour after it is let go, it is impossible. That's the situation here. Politics, economics, societal expectations, western culture, etc. has all developed to such a point that it is impossible to tweak something here or tweak something there to create a significantly better version of today's society.

I'm not commenting on this video in particular, but in general I feel that people who have to deal with the public are forced to deal with assholes and idiots very often and it's very hard to keep your cool. There are so many idiots who ride busses and make the experience worse for everyone else I wish there were more bus drivers who had the power to do something about it.

I prefer independent because I feel it is more low-key and more like meeting with a girlfriend.

I like strip poker or other card games, although it usually works better in a group.

I want to build an awesome & inspiring workout playlist for myself and I am curious what music you all listen to in order to get pumped up & ready to sweat. A few of mine right now: Power - Kanye West Stronger - Kanye West Taking Care of Business - BTO Gonna Fly Now - Bill Conti/Rocky Soundtrack Eye of the Tiger - Survivor You're The Best - Joe Esposito Live to Win - Paul Stanley William Tell Overture - Rossini

My mustache can grow to a decent size but it takes a while to come in and is dirty-blonde colored, so its not as strong as I would like. I am planning on growing it out this month, and based on how my school schedule works out I might keep the stache through to at least January. After about 5 or 6 weeks I have to start trimming it t keep the hairs from going into my mouth.

I prefer a non-conspicuous location, though this is not always possible. I always get nervous when I have to use a buzzer to get into an apartment complex, but I understand the reasons they are there. I do not mind if it is a residence or an "office," as long as the provider is comfortable and effective operating from there, and being in a nicer part of town is nice too.

There is also a difference between a full bush and a trimmed/maintained one (applies to men and women). I generally prefer shaved, but I do think it is cool when a woman has groomed their pubic hair into a shape (triangle, landing strip, etc.). I also agree with roaming that it is practical having less hair around on both genders.

That's a good question, I really don't know. I suppose it's a combination of in-school education, talks with my friends, reading and researching online, watching (lots of) pornography, and personal experience. I've always been very respectful of women and I have a shy personality, which I feel contribute to my sexual preferences (relatively vanilla, slow, sensual, kissing & touching, with de-emphasis on penetrative sex and no interest in aggression). That said, I can definitely see where the media, not just pornography can mislead people. In most tv shows and movies, men are positioned as dominant over women in their relationships and in the bedrooms, and the camera usually frames sex as a way of pleasing a man. I saw a good documentary about censorship in film, and the film review board was much harsher in rating films which depicted female pleasure rather than "normal" male pleasure. This also reminds me of the documentary on the g-spot I watched a few weeks ago on TV, which talked about how men were against the clitoral orgasm because it signified women's sexual pleasure was not derived entirely from penetrative sex, which was an idea that belongs in the time of Freud, not today. Long story short, it's a very interesting conversation topic, and I really do think it's a lifelong process that incorporates multiple facets of our lives.

I'm very submissive in intimate situations (and real life too but that's a whole other issue) so I just let the MA/MP do what she does. Asking for anything specific would stress me out so much to cancel out the benefit of what I ask for. Besides, it's hard not to have fun when a beautiful nude and oiled woman is touching you all over.

I do not see someone unless I expect to have a great time! Depending on what is offered and the personality of the provider, I expect different things, but always high quality.

I just trim my whole pube area relatively short on a regular basis, even if I'm not planning on exposing myself to anyone any time soon. I just don't like to visually see a big bush down there, and sometimes the long hair would get in the way of jerking off, or get caught in my underwear, and large amounts of hair tend to hold the smell of sweat (I trim my armpits as well) more. I would like to try shaving my scrotum some time, but when I think about doing it I can't imagine how it would actually work logistically.

When it is an enjoyable massage experience (like when you see Megan), then I find myself entirely in the moment (anyone whose mind wanders during a bodyslide is crazy!), but when the massage is not as enjoyable it is a little harder to stay focused. I might be the exception though as non-intercourse sexual activity is my preferred form of physical intimacy.

I think it might be a good idea, if you are comfortable with it, to offer different attitudes, like "dominant, take-charge in bed" or "shy & cute, let you make the first move." Personally I would like that option when visiting an sp so I could ask her to take control of the encounter without sounding awkward talking about it.

I am very uncomfortable around children until they get smart enough to have conversations about adult subjects. Maybe as I age I will connect more with children, or maybe it will require me to have my own children to get that connection.

That last picture is just WOW.

As a child of the 1990s, Pierce Brosnan is my favorite Bond as the action-heavy style of his films appeal to me more than the slower style of the Connery Films (although I accept that From Russia With Love is much more exciting than Dr. No). That said, my favorite film is Goldeneye (one of my top3 action movies of all time) and my least favorite would be any film with Roger Moore in it. I liked Connery's Bond as well though, and I think Timothy Dalton is criminally underrated.

I used to think it was a very funny show for the first few seasons but I think it has been getting progressively worse and worse. I stopped watching a couple of seasons ago because of that, it never offended me though, my sense of humor is also quite offensive & morbid, but I try not to actually offend people irl.

On a related matter, does anyone have treatment advice for a cold sore?

My question is why do you have a hair stylist, instead of a hair cutter?

Can't believe I didn't know this group existed until now!

I would stay in university the rest of my life, never work a job, travel nationally & internationally every summer, and spend some time with all the lovely ladies I've wanted to meet on cerb :) And buy my parents a nice new house.