Mikeyboy

Welcome to Lyla, Isa :)

Happy birthday! Enjoy your day

Happy birthday Cowboy Kenny! All the best to you.

A healthy dose of scepticism and paranoia are always a good thing in this hobby. ;) That doesn't mean that there aren't great ladies out there. Do your homework, find recommendations and do your image searches. Coming to this site is a great place to start.

Just because you don't currently need your right to privacy doesn't mean you should give it away so easily....

BLE ĺists her as being here until the 13th. http://ble-list.com/index.php?page=schedule

When we clicked "accept" on the Facebook aps, we all agreed to this. We gave them the right to spy on us in order to bundle us and sell us to their advertisers. It's amazing how easily we as a society have signed away all of our rights to privacy.

Not sure if she is traveling to halifax as often as she used to. I've been watching ;) I've read that she is exploring other endevours lately. I hope that she treats us with a visit soon. Definitely worth the visit if she does. She is a special person. Beautiful and sensual. I very much enjoyed spending time with her. Fingers crossed. :)

Yes. But it also doesn' t mean that she is even a she, let alone an actual escort. Fake pic is all the info I need. (I'm betting there is a required etransfer involved in order to secure the date. Just a hunch. ;) )

Some good advice here, although I'm not sure I agree with suggesting the "real girl route" as the only option. I don't think that there is anything wrong with choosing this direction. Admittedly it isn't for everyone, but there is a lot of pressure on young guys to loose the v status. This can create a lot of nervousness and anxiousness around the whole idea. It can make dating awkward, as most ladies you meet in there 20's have more experience in this department, which can be embarrassing for some guys. Sometimes just 'getting it over with' in a controlled setting can be just the thing they need to move on to healthy relationships. Not speaking for the op of course, just saying that I can see how this may be the right option for some people. My first would have been a lot less awkward and clumsy had I done it this way ;) I agree wholeheartedly about choosing an independent lady. This site is ideal, as most ladies you can chat with a bit with through the pm system in order to decide if it is the right fit for both of you. Be honest about everything. Your v status, any nervousness you might have, etc. Many ladies here would be more than willing to show you the ropes. (A figure of speech, you don't have to use ropes ;) ) You still want to make sure you find the right lady to make this memorable. Good luck

I'm more of an "afternoon delight" kind of guy myself. Works with my schedule. I can take a break from work and then carry on with my day, with a bit more skip in my step ;)

I agree. I'm not sure if there shouldn't be a thread in the warning section about her. (Mods might have to weigh in on that one.) Weather or not a cancellation fee should have been offered aside, threats like that should not be tolerated. Especially off of 1 cancellation. (Not a no show, a cancellation!) It's people like this who make life difficult for other ladies. No wonder you get so many blocked calls and texts aps! One little hiccup and you publish my phone number?

She is the only one that is in the wrong here in my opinion. I do believe in compensating a lady when you have truly inconvenienced her and possibly cost her some income due to the loss of other appointments. If you had booked days in advance and then cancelled with only a few hours notice for example. This is clearly not the case here. It often takes several points of contact to solidify a date and time that works for both parties. You called her back 2 minutes after booking. (and likely would have re-booked with her if she had handled it differently). At that point, you only owed her the courtesy of a letting her know asap that you couldn't make it. You did that. I understand that these ladies have to put up with a lot of BS out there, with fake bookings, no-shows, tire kickers and any number of other time wasters. I can also appreciate how frustrated they must get by it. But to immediately lump you into that category after having to cancel 2 minutes after booking is just crazy. If you were the guy she assumed you were here, you wouldn't have bothered calling her back. Her crime was far more serious in my mind. Anonymity on both parties the cornerstone of this industry. The fact that her first thought was to betray that, or even to threaten to betray that on the slightest hunch that you may have intentionally wasted 2 minutes of her time tells me she is dangerous and should be avoided by everyone.

I had the extreme pleasure of meeting this beautiful lady yesterday afternoon. It was on the recommendation of some friends here whose opinions I have grown to trust. Even though I was told to expect for her to be quite attractive, I was still taken aback by how beautiful she truly is. Hypnotizing deep blue eyes, long blond hair, and a dimpled smile that will melt you. She seems to like to smile a lot as well. There is almost a sweet innocence in her look that only adds to her beauty. Her personality seems to match her appearance as well. (Maybe with slightly less innocence ;) ). She is friendly, upbeat and fairly easy to talk to. I thoroughly enjoyed my brief time with her and am very much looking forward to seeing her again. Yes, she has a very active and friendly dog. If you're not a dog person this may be an issue, but she's really quite adorable. Thank you Savannah for the wonderful afternoon.

I'm not a doctor (although I do play one in bars ;) ) but the reasearch I did myself suggested that this is a less dangerous practice than other forms of activities for the most common sti's. The reason? stomach acid is an extremly hostile environment to most invasive bacteria and viruses. The simple suggestion I read for increasing your safety is: "Swallow or spit, just don't let it sit." (I didn't write that horrible rhyme but you get the point.) Some listerine afterwords can't hurt eather, but maybe I'm kidding myself on that one. Less dangerous does not however equal safe. There is no such thing as a 100% safe form of sexual contact no matter what precautions you take. We all have to mitigate our own risks. Factors that would increase the risk with this activity would be if you have some sort of sore or open wound in your mouth. I've also read suggestions for not flossing immediately prior for the same reasons. (Small cuts in the gums). There is also a new buzz on the role HPV may play in some forms of throat cancer, which was brought into the spotlight by Michael Douglas after he got cancer. He bacame quite vocal trying to create awareness on this subject and the possible relation to oral sex. Lots of food for thought. Again we all need to make our own decisions here based on our own levels of comfort. As far as answering the op's first question goes, this activity is often one of the items that is implied when advertising "GFE" encounters. It isn't a guarentee as it is a subjective term that means different things to different providers, but it is far more likely to be on the menu in these cases. Sometimes it's included, sometimes it is an addition. It's a good place to start anyway if that is your interest. If the ad reads "safe play only" however, or something to that effect, then she is likely saying she does not partake. Hope this helps.

All that was said here is true. The photos are real. (Yes really! They are!) She is tall, slim, and beautiful, with incredibly long and amazing legs. (Have I ever mentioned I love tall ladies? ;) ) The apartment was clean and easy to find. Parking wasn't an issue. She likes to dance and show off her amazing body. And the placement of the mirror....... Wow! :) I will definitely repeat.

Bp is full of etransfer scammers now. Use your upper head on this one. If an unknown lady asks for an etransfer up front, move on. It is almost certainly a scam.

Yes you absolutely can. Best to post in the warnings section of the area she is touring in for maximum impact. Sorry this has happened to you. Good luck.

Happy belated Jafo. Hope you had a great one.

Patio. Sunshine. Beer. Life is good. ;)

Good eye. Image search didn't turn up anything for me. There is one image on that site that is also in her profile here. Not 100 % damning evidence but certainly raises questions. Anyone else have any intel?

She seems to be a member here: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/member.php?u=122961 Couldn't find any recco's yet but she looks spectacular. ;) Let me know if you find anything out.

Any reasonably safe ways to hobby South of the boarder these days? Spending a week in Minnisota on business on my own. Not sure if it is worth the risk when I don't know the ins and outs though. Anyone have any suggestions? Are agencies a thing?

I don't think it makes you an idiot because you "fell for it". The truth is that even if you were suspicious of her motives at that point, there really wasn't much you could have done about it, short of threatening her or attempting to physically restrain her. Not a road you want to go down. We are always at risk of this particular scam as it is always cash upfront. If she decides to leave, there's not much you can do about it. The trick is finding a lady who's name and reputaion are likely worth more to her than the one envelope. Best of luck next time Taffer.

I have only endulged in a threesome once. I treated myself as a birthday present a few years back. It was kind of a bucket list thing. I enjoyed it far more than I even thought I would. I knew it would be fun, but I didn't quite realize it could be as much fun as it was. Sadly I have been blessed with only the one penis so the logistics didn't even make a lot of sense beforehand. ;) The interactive nature and the chemistry between the two ladies made it amazing though. I'm really glad that I tried it, and will likely try it again. Maybe another birthday treat at some point. That being said, I tend to prefer the one-on-one dynamic. It can be far more intimate between two people. I enjoy this so much that it's hard to improve apon. I guess that is why I haven't gone back to yet.