Mikeyboy

Photo searches are your best friend in this hobby. It will save you tons of money from scams and bait and switches. It's a shame though. Photo's are hot!. Ironic that the ad is called "No disappointments!!" when clearly that is what they are selling. Thanks for the sleuth work guys. Keep up the good work.

The bottom line is that we are dealing with people. Not a profile that have a set, predictable pattern of behavior. That means that it is really hard to read the situation for those who don't know her. You know her better than we do so you know if this behavior is completely out of the ordinary or not. Unfortunately though, as good as you know her, you likely only know the parts of her life she chooses to share with the clients she likes. There are many perfectly reasonable explanations as to why she is out of touch. That likely won't help the uneasy feeling you have though. I lost touch with a lady I had seen repeatedly over a long period of time several years back. I know she was having problems in her life at the time. (An ex found out about her line of work and was causing a lot problems in regards to her children). She stopped advertising and eventually dropped out of site. I figure she chose to leave the industry for the sake of her family, but I really don't know how she made out. I can't help but worry about her but I couldn't really investigate any further. (I don't even know her real name.) You can't help but feel connected when you have shared the kind of intimacy we do, but you have to be a realist about the relationship. I guess my point is that we have to accept that due to the nature of the secrecy in this industry that we are only a small part of their life, and that part can change quickly. In all likelihood, she will reply shortly and with a perfectly good reason for being out of touch. She may not though, and you have to be prepared to be OK with that too. It doesn't necessarily mean that anything is wrong, just that her situation has changed. Good luck. Mikey

some toys, whipped cream and a saddle

I think that technology, and in particular social media has simply changed the way people approach communication. We are in the IM, PM, FB Message era. Calling and emailing are old school technologies. They are too formal and therefore too much work. Web sites are one-way communications, which is becoming as antiquated as reading a newspaper ad. If someone wants info, they ask. They don't go find it. I see this in my own world, as I administer some facebook pages for some other businesses. 24 hours a day, there are questions like "What time is X location open until?" (Let me go to their website, look it up and answer you). "Does Y location have product Z in stock?" (Let me call them and ask them. I'll let you know.) Messaging is an informal conversation that doesn't require the niceties of email or calls. It's instant and to the point. It's communication at it's simplest. I don't think that this is limited to the new generation either, although they are usually the driving force that shape new technologies. There is one other motivation that may factor into it in regards to this industry though. Many may simply be trying to open up a conversation, as opposed to looking for info that is already available. This may mean that they are tire kickers, but it also may mean that they are simply inexperienced at "the opening", leaving it to you to establish a rapport. I would never take this approach myself as I have 8 years of experience reading threads like this that tell me I shouldn't. ;) Many do not have that advantage.

looked him in the eyes and declaired

Actually he did say that "she has not been ready at the appointed time once in my experience but... " And then went on to talk about how this time she made him feel particularly bad about this last session. I wasn't trying to come off as abrupt as I likely did. (at least it would seem I did from casey's description of me anyway ;) .) That really isn't who I am. I wasn't saying 1 strike and you're out. This just sounds like more of a pattern to me. Instead of feeling great about the amazing session he had, he feels like she couldn't be bothered to give him the time of day once again. (My interpretation of the original post admittedly.) There are lots of ladies who will.

Personally, I'm glad if my recco's help others, weather they have contributed or not. I just don't believe that we always have to get something in return in order to help others. We are here to share information. Not trade it. I know I have had a lot of amazing experiences that I likely would have missed if not for the kind contributions of others. I am grateful for that. I'm happy to return the favour when I have something to share. Hopefully those who do read them will one day appreciate it enough to share their own experiences. Maybe not. Either way, I'm fine with that. There is another point that nobody has made: From a business perspective, lurkers are still measurable traffic for the site, which in turn helps the site sell ads, which in turn generates revenue, which in turn keeps the site that we all enjoy so much afloat. So even if they are not directly contributing, they are all contributing just by coming here.

No offence taken. That's what civil discussions are about. I understand that everone has good days and bad days. This sounds a bit more like a pattern if I understand correctly. I just meant that once you start feeling like you have to 'work on the relationship', then it's time to move on. That isn't why I'm here. I get enough of that at home ;)

Honestly, I can't say I agree with this. Respectfully, you don't owe her anything. The only commitment you have made to each other is for the duration of the hour or more of her time you have purchased. The whole point of this hobby is pleasure. If you are not 100% enjoying your engagements for whatever reason, then why go back? The fact that it is causing you this much stress is a sign that it isn't working for you. It simply shouldn't feel that way. If you aren't walking away from each session feeling like you are on top of the world, then why stay? Try some other ladies. You may find one that gives you the fulfilling experience you are looking for, without the stress of wondering where you stand with her. Just my thoughts on the subject.

I just thought you were drunk when you posted ;) Lol

Congrats Prufrock!

Happy birthday!

Great season. Almost caught up. Just watched episode 12 last night. That episode was a bit slow. Rick and Michonne on their zombie killing holiday with very little in the way of plot development. I was just hoping to see where things are going. Otherwise loving it.

If it looks too good to be true, then it probably is. ;)

Middle face pic is definitely stolen. Hits all over the place.

Sorry to hear about your experience. The great thing about this site is that you get to use the experience of all of the other hobbiests to help dig through the BS. If you only rely on sites like BP, it can be very hard to sort out who is legit and who is not. (If you use chrome, right click on any photo and do a google search for the image. If it pops up all over the world, then they are stolen photos. That's my step 1) As far as your particular area, I know of only one provider, but I would very highly recommend her. Jocelyn Ardenne: https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/member.php?u=35208 She is in Truro and is both beautiful and sensual. You won't regret the visit. Quite highly regarded on this site too. Hope this helps. Welcome to Lyla.

Since face pics are not in any way required to be successful in this business, (or even commonly used) why steal someone elses for simple privacy reasons? If you don't want to show your face, then don't. It's intentional deception. Although if there happens to be a shy sp in Halifax who looks exactly like Kathleen Eggleton, let me know ;) I won't hold my breath though.

Saw her last year. Seeing her again tomorrow if that tells you anything! Can't wait ;)

Possible.... but not likely (Although I admire your faith in humanity ;) ) Certainly not normally the case with stolen pics. Reasons normally range from intentional deception (Hey, you're already there, many will stay in spite of it not being even close to the person in the pic) to outright scam/dangerous situation. No interest on my part in finding out where the lie falls on that scale.

The "Search this Forum" button is at the top right corner of any forum section. Searching her name yielded many previous conversations: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/search.php?searchid=5724094 Hope this helps

It's getting 'shilly' in here! ;) Hasn't stopped them from using the 'recco' in the ad though.

All the best spud 271! Enjoy your day.

I think it's a great idea. ;) I like the idea of it as an "intro" or an add-on to the intimate encounter. It can be very sexy and set the mood for what is to come.

I just noticed that Cato is within a stones throw of his 10 000th post! I wanted to be the first to congratulate him on this amazing achievement. Congratulations Cato! Well done. Looking forward to the next 10 000!

From what I understand, they are more of a group of ladies who work together than an agency in a tradtional sense. Some of them have been reviewed quite highly here if you search specific names.