Mikeyboy

What? Ladies sometimes fib a bit about their age in this industry? Unbelievable!!!! ;)

dare to indulge

Happy Birthday Notch! Hope you enjoy it.

All the best of the holiday season to all of my friends in Lylaland. Whether we have met in person or not, I am thankful for the many friends I have made here over the years. You are all amazing. Cheers to you all. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

mmmmmm......whipped cream

and more rum

mixed mostly with

Pasta Arabiatta (and a nice Chianti.)

Emily has been well reviewed here: https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=E&t=77714

Happy Birthday! Hope it's a great one.

Was in the Massachusetts many years ago with a lady friend. Passed a restaurant called 'The Clam Box'. Might have been the mood but I started laughing hysterically. She couldn't understad why. She had never heard either of those words used in that particular context. Not sure how. I actually had to explain to her why I found it so funny. ;)

I certainly didn't intend to belittle that end of it in any way, and I'm very sorry if it came off that way. I understand the implications as well as any. (Even more than many.) I was merely stating my own choice of the only available options as I see them. I often find when you break things down into a list of the only available options, the choice becomes clearer. As with most crossroads in life, most of the options have a negative side. It's up to each of us to decide which road is best for us, and which we can or can not live with. Again, my best wishes backrubman. I hope you find some happiness again.

I'm really sorry to hear about your situation. There are not always easy answers. The way I see it, you have four options. (Forgive me. I'm a list guy, but it is often helpful in clarifying things). 1. Celibacy: Not the most attractive solution to most of us, but a real option that many embrace and come to terms with. It has been said that it can even be liberating once you accept it. 2. The girlfriend. You have already dismissed this as an option as someone might get hurt (a real possibility) although there are those out there who might be ok with the situation if you were honest and upfront about it. That would be key. Finding them could be tricky. Keeping the 'right' amount of emotional distance could be even more so. 3. The hook up. Limit yourself to one night stand type situatons where there is no further expectation. Sadly not my strength but you may be better at it than me. ;) This may be an option, especially if you do go on frequent business trips. There are many websites geared toward this type of thing as well. 4. The sp. You have stated both moral oposition to breaking the law, as well as being concerned about the ramificatons of getting caught. Understandable of course. The morality of the hobby however, has not changed since a bunch of staunch conservitives decided to legislate the outdated values of their religious campaign contributors. I do however thoroughly understand (and worry about) the consequences of getting caught. It would be devistating for most of us. The good news is that you were fortunate enough to start this hobby in a safer time. You likely have a list of ladies that you know through experience to be safe, reliable and trustworthy. You don't have to venture into the unknown and take risks seeing someone new if you don't want to. None of the options are ideal of course. Number four seems the most reasonable to me, provided you do what you can to mitigate any risk. That is me however. Only you can decide which road you choose in the end. Good luck.

Wow 9000! Congratulations on the milestone.

I think you hit the nail on the head. Now that my oldest child is 21, it feels wrong even looking in that age group. Plus, many of us are looking for experiences that are beyond just the physical. I have found that with maturity often comes an ability and a desire to communicate and make a connection. A generalization I know, and as such there are always exceptions but it is often the case in my experience. Often the younger ones are there to do a job and have little interest in anything beyond.

Congrats nsguy! Way to go.

There is also the point that you would be inadvertently advertising for her to those who might be seeking such a service. Just my initial thoughts on it.

Congratulations on this milestone. Keep up the posting! Mikey

Happy Cerbiversary Cato! You have contributed greatly to this site over the past 8 years. Here's to many more!

Happy Birthday JoyfulC! All the best to you.

Are you speaking hypothetically or is this a real sitation? It seems like some extreme caution is needed here. I can't really give advice without knowing the specifics of what is being asked of you, but something does seem a little fishy to me. The odd behavior of the phone number being added to the phone seems a little premeditated to me. I am cautious by nature, but it has always served me well. While I'm all for helping out a friend in need, don't let yourself get played. This is someone you have met only once. Some people are naturally good at getting people to let their guard down and have made careers out of it. Use your upper head on this one.

I'm a man of science. Conclusions are only valid if the results are repeatable. I'd say this requires futher study. ;)

Wow. What words could I add to these glowing recommendations? Sensual..... exotic.... attentive.... playful..... enthusiastic..... explorative..... experimental...... exciting..... skilled.... fun? Yeah those words are a good start. I had a wonderful time finally meeting with Midnite. (After years of shamelessly flirting with her. ;) ) She made it very memorable. Glad to have finally met the person behind the thoughtful, meaningful posts. Thank you for a memorable afternoon. You are amazing.

Happy Birthday brothercharles! All the best to you.

There was a recco on her here: https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=242928 Anyone else?