Mikeyboy

Agreed. Although most men who like the idea of roleplay involving a girl school outfit or cheerleader uniform are not peophiles and are not interested in harming other people. It is likely more of a nostalgia for their own youth, along with the thrill of the impropriety of being with someone who actually is younger than them. (as is often the case in these relationships). These are very common roleplay activities and to condemn them would be to condemn many of the photos right here on cerb. I have seen many sp's advertise with pics in school girl outfits and I think its fair to say that it is not their intention to promote petophilia or to cause harm to others.

It should also be pointed out that this type of roleplay fantacy is often more about pushing the limits of what is considered taboo. Sex acts in public places where you may get caught can also fall into this category. For some it is going against "normality" that is the turn on. Remember that they are chosing to act out these fantacies in a manner that involves only concenting adults. That being said, I agree with everyone here in that if you don't feel comfortable with any situation, don't do it. Your comfort is what is important here.

That could work too! ;-)

Pretty much play it by ear, but I like to start by exploring her body all over. Caressing, kissing, touching. Usually progresses to DATY, which is one of my favourite activities. I could stay there a long time if she seems to be enjoying it. After that, I let the moment take us. Some ladies will guide you, some will want to know your preferences. It's all good to me. As long as we are both having fun. I usually put off intercourse as long as I can, as it is the suspense and anticipation that builds that makes it that much hotter for me. Life is a journey not a destination. Is it getting warm in here?

I think I understand the question as my personality sometimes changes depending on who I am with and the situation that I am in. I don't believe that this is "acting" however, as humans are complex. We are many different people throughout our lives, depending on the situation. Work me is far different from home me. When I'm out drinking with the boys, I'm a different person than I am around my SO (and most women for that matter). The language gets courser and often the conversation does too. My SO often points out that she doesn't care for the person I am around certain friends, particularly ones that I grew up with. (Ironic since I am reverting more to the person I was when I met her many years ago). Cerb me is yet another "personality", that has aspects of all of the other me's thrown in. I think that it is unfair to classify this as acting. It is just the nature of being human. Our personalities evolve and change with time, situation, and with the other personalities we interact with. I don't think that there is anything inherently dishonest in this. It is just who we are. Just a few thoughts from my CERB personality. ;)

I guess I'm a May Porn star. I can work with that delusion. ;)

I don't often bother looking at other guys accounts, but there are times when I do as a means of checking on someones credibility. If I see a reco on a previously unreviewed lady, and I don't recognize the poster, I like to know that they have a bit of a post history before I give too much weight to their reco. If they are brand new, it could be a shill account of some sort invented simply to promote that lady.

I would also like to add my praises to the chorus regarding Danielle. I saw her about a month ago for the second time, and I have enjoyed myself immensely both times. She is sexy, fit, and attractive with legs to die for. (As her pics will attest to) She is also skillful and seems to enjoy her work. She is easy to talk to and will put you at ease. I will definitely repeat (again). Thanks for another great time Danielle, and my apologies for taking so long with my reco.

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I do this for the chance to have some non-committal fun. I think attachment is more of a mind set. I don't get attached emotionally, because that isn't the point of all this. (My life is far too complicated as it is.) I have met some great ladies, some of whom I now consider to be friends. I know deep down that this is their profession, and that their emotions rarely go far beyond that of client/sp, which allows this great fantasy to carry on. I do sometimes repeat with ladies I have had an enjoyable time with, but I also like to experience new ladies when they catch my eye. I don't think that most of the ladies would expect differently, any more than I would expect for them not to see other clients. It is the nature of the industry. I do however know what you mean when it comes to the referrals. I sometimes feel disrespectful asking a lady to recommend me to someone else. After all, this is their livelihood and potential income. I know that many see the big picture and that it is a good safety precaution, but I often wonder if some are offended. I'm sure it is a touchy subject for some.

Absolutely! Couldn't agree more. Stunningly beautiful.

Wow. This is a fascinating thread. I have to say that I'm kind of surprised that some girls feel this way about their vaginas. You ladies own one of the most powerful forces in the universe. It has the power to make strong men turn to jello at the mere suggestion of a chance to see, smell our perhaps even taste it. Ours is not to question it's appearance, (that would be like questioning ones own god), but to bow down in appreciation of any willingness you may have to let us share it with you. To all of the ladies who have graced me with even the briefest if visits with your wonderful vaginas, thank you. You have honored me.

Wow! 7000! Congrats Cato and keep up the good work. Your efforts are greatly appreciated. Mikey

Welcome Kandice and Peregrine too. I hope you enjoy this community as much as I do. Mikey

I picked passionate too. I find sex is best when you get totally lost in the moment out of shear unbridled passion. I don't think that it has to be mutually exclusive from the other items in the list however, but the passion is the most important part in my mind.

Congrats Phaedrus on 3500 thought provoking posts. Keep up the good work!

Probably a result of my age group, but Christopher Reeves will always be superman in my mind.

Again, another opinion from a non sp, but I agree whole heartedly. It is entirely up to her what information she wants to divulge to her parents. You may need to deflect, but if they keep pushing, simply tell them to talk to her. Keep your promise. It's her decision to share or not with whomever she likes. Just my thoughts.

Thank you Emma. Mikeyb.... er.... a ..... MikeyMan? ;) Additional Comments: Mikey Man. I like it. Sounds like a super hero!

rg. So very sorry to hear this. I know he's been ill for some time but I also know that that doesn't prepare you for the devastation that an event like this can bring. My thoughts and wishes to you and your family my friend. Stay strong.

So sorry to hear this nj. I know how devastating it is to lose a parent. I know that words can't do justice to the magnitude of the emotions involved, but know you have friends who are thinking about you and who care. All my best thoughts to you and your family.

I know you said not to comment, but I couldn't resist. It has to be number two. (I love bisexual chicks ;-) )

This is a great question, and one that I too have struggled with. In most everyday situations when I meet someone that I am trying to get better aquainted with, I ask about family, friends, where they are from, what they do, where they went to school, what they studied, etc etc. Normally these are pretty innocent questions, but in the context of an SP /client relationship, they are likely too personal. I know that most sp's like to keep their private life quite separate from their working life, so I often struggle with ice breakers and small talk. (And it does feel cliche talking about the weather.) I often come off as more intraverted than I normally am as a result. I start overthinking everything I am about to say to see if it is appropriate. There have been some good suggestions here though for conversation starters. Thanks again for asking the question, and to all who have responded.

And may I add... It is an experience not to me missed! ;) Keep doing what you are comfortable with. You offer top notch services and those who move on over this one issue are missing out. Mikey

Congrats on 500 Miquelon. Great posts. Keep them coming.