Mikeyboy

Looks like you just need to pm them here for details.

Granted. You are now made of chocolate. I wish to be king of the world!

Granted. You are frozen in carbonite forever. I wish for a magic wand

Ouch! Not what I meant at all! Granted. But your unicorn is an asshole! I wish I we're 16 again!

Granted. You are also 90. I wish for super strength!

I wish for that too! ;)

Granted: All men: sex, sex, sex, sex, sex, sex, more sex. All women: hmmm... I wonder what he's thinking? (Kidding if course lol) I wish for world peace!

Granted! (I assume you meant someone to PLAY doctor with right? ;) ) I wish for my own tropical island

Granted. But there is a 10-year wait list. I wish for X-ray vision

Granted. But you have to spend three rest of your life in Paris Hilton's purse. I wish I could turn invisible

Granted. I wish for $10 million!

Granted. Landing is reaaaally going to hurt though. I wish for a harem of beautiful women.

Black Peanut Butter and Jelly Sandwich. Doesn't really flow does it?

I've said my piece and I hope you gents have a good weekend. My one piece of advice to leave you with is to go easy on the newbies. If we want this site to thrive (and I believe we all do) we need them. Make the site as welcoming as we can.

I'm normally a "not rock the boat" kind of guy. (It's now beer 3 on Friday night when I tend to speak more honestly if you will indulge me). I just know that there are many out there who have tried this site once and moved on due to the scolding they got from their first post. I've heard the grumblings. Asking about an SP on a discussion board may not be how you "do your research" but for the uninitiated, that is actually what they are doing by asking the question. They are hoping that more experienced people will share their knowledge. They are then scolded for not doing their research before doing so instead of being pointed in the right direction. All I'm saying is help them or don't. There's no reason to try to make them feel small for asking a question. And yes, there are many situations when the questions are not appropriate. I just don't see her asking if anyone has any information on spacific SP on a website dedicated to discussing that very thing is inappropriate.

Honestly, I believe in Live and Let Live. If you want to do the research for them and post it, great. If you don't, then that's fine too. Sometimes I'm in a mood to be helpful and show them an ad is fake. Sometimes I don't bother because it's so obvious. In those cases I don't bother replying at all. I do find that there is a lot of hostility and negativity towards new posters lately though. I believe it's to the detriment of the site to be scolding new posters who ask questions even if the answer should be obvious. This is after all a recommendation and discussion board. We shouldn't be trying to shut down every conversation. Just my 2 cents (if it's worth that ;) )

I'm not sure the question of who is at fault is relevant. I certainly understand why gents would get skittish in this situation given the fact that it is them who is breaking the law under our current model. There is a lot at stake for them. I wouldn't blame them for turning around. That said, the polite thing to do is to still offer some compensation for her lost time. It isn't her fault either and the time is still gone regardless of what justification or who is to blame.

Ask and ye shall receive @Barney 😉 https://www.leolist.cc/personals/female-escorts/nova-scotia/halifax_incalls_only_dartmouth_hotel_ivona_fox_morning_specials-6533667?source=list

There is also a recco here from a few years back:

I get the impression that when she is advertising, she is available. Otherwise she likely is not. I could be wrong but that seems to be the case with her. I'd wait until there is an ad up. She is definitely worth checking out though when she does post some availability. (And that's not just the young Zelda fan in me talking lol).

Sounds like OF have done a 180 on the decision to drop porn: https://variety.com/2021/digital/news/onlyfans-drops-porn-ban-sexually-explicit-policy-1235048705/amp/?__twitter_impression=true&fbclid=IwAR3MMoqasWpF5L-B9IZwdp9Gv0Gg5af6SJ7O3PkEl9hHg8eyJGreKfh0M-g Claiming they have secured new agreements with the banks. I'm sure they have already done a huge amount of damage to their business as most of their content providers have been moving to other platforms.

Absolutely. Generally we Canadians are so polite that we rarely tell people directly what we are thinking. We imply it, but we rarely say it for fear of being percieved as rude. That's particularly problematic for people on the spectrum, although it also often leads to miscommunications and misunderstandings for us "neurotypicals" as well. We would all be better off if we could learn to be a bit more direct. Politely of course 😉

Also not an expert in the field, although I have in a previous life worked with youth who were on the spectrum. There are so many different ways and degrees in which it can present itself that it is really hard to generalize. I've met some who would be considered high functioning (Asperger's) that it is really hard to tell. Generally though, a lack of being able to interpret what most of us consider obvious social cues is a very common trait. For example, the person may talk about something of interest to them to the point of borderline obsession, without even noticing that the other person in the "conversation" is not enjoying it and possibly even trying to exit. For the most part, the best way to interact with people on the spectrum is to be direct and specific about your expectations. Tell them the expectation outright and remind them if necessary. Don't hint at it as we are so used to doing. For example, tell them you've enjoyed hearing about this topic, but I would like to end the conversation now. It has been my experience that they prefer to know exactly what is expected of them. Again, these are some of my own personal experiences and generalizing is always impossible. This lack of subtlety would definitely make it difficult for many to participate in this industry in so many ways. That said, if an sp ever has a client who identifies themselves as being on the spectrum, my advice would be the same as above. Be specific about your expectations. For example, if the appointment time has ended and they are still talking away, don't be afraid to interrupt and politely tell them it is time to leave. Subtle suggestions or implications may not even be noticed. I would also be interested to hear as well if there are any sps or clients that are on the spectrum and what strategies they might use to navigate the industry and to overcome communication barriers.