Mikeyboy

Don't stop bein' you brother! You mean a lot to this community. Good to see you back.

When seeing someone for the first time, I prefer fully dressed for starters. (A woman can be very sexy and seductive while still wearing clothes.) This way we can chat and get to know each other a bit before jumping into "it". (Besides, what if it's just some poor guy who knocked on the wrong door?....awkward ;) )

Great pics Andy!

Congrats Cato. Keep up the good work! Looking forward to reading the next 3000 posts!

A belated Happy Birthday Angel. Hope you had a great day darlin! :icon_wink:

This week?....140. (It's been a rough week!). Normally I would say 25ish (which is more than a decade shy of reality.) I've always looked young too which helps my delusions.

More summer time fun!

Just thinkin about summer time!

The name got me....nice pic Reddog. Very colourful!

Classic! :sm185: Sounds about right. Welcome back Cato. Glad to hear the holidays went well. Best wishes to everyone in the new year!

Happy New Year everyone!

Glad to see chivalry is not dead! ;)

Great advice Roaminguy (as always!)

The "catch 22" question....How to get references when you don't have any references to give! Many sp's require them, and it seems even more common for the travelling girls. I suspect that this is not only for safety reasons, but also to make sure that the hobbyist is actually someone who is likely to show up and not waste their valuable and limited time. Many of the local girls don't require this. Having a good reputation here and getting to know them a bit through cerb helps too. Hope this helps. Good luck ;)

Jennifer....no wait Adrienne...no wait Jennifer.....OK if I have to choose, I'll stick with Jennifer.

Did anyone make it down for this? Just wondering how it went. I wanted to go but couldn't make it work. Was it well attended?

Well said. Although many of us don't agree with the way the site was run, it concerns me that the government was able to put forth enough pressure to shut down this means of advertizing. I just hope that this victory doesn't encorage them to fing new targets. Be careful what you wish for. It's a slippery slope.

1. Does the anticipation to meet your SP cause performance anxiety? Honestly sometimes, yes. The nerves and anticipation are part of the rush I get from doing this. The way you (and your body) respond under these conditions is going to be different than that of being with someone you have know for a long time and are completely comfortable with. 2. Does the feeling get better or worse with time spent in the hobby? I don't get as nervous as I did the first couple of times, but it still gets my heart pounding from time to time. 3. Does the nervousness continue even though you've met with her more than once? Not as much. Part of the nerves come from the unknown. If it is someone I am seeing again, there must have been enough chemistry with this person to develop a degree of comfort. 4. Do you ever wonder if she is feeling the same way? I'm ashamed to say no. I've always assumed that being the "experienced professional", that it was second nature to her. Before I found this site, I knew very little about the sp's experiences. Most of my hobbying consisted of agencies from the yellow pages while travelling. Not much of a chance to "get to know" the sp other than the small chit chat before and after. Cerb has given me a bit more insight into sp's and how they are...well real people with real opinions on many things, and yes even nerves from time to time. It is a much more intense experience when you get to know the sp a bit before hand. 5. And does it make it easier for you if you knew she was just as nervous? Or would it make you more nerved up? Oddly, I think it would make it easier. We could spend some time putting each other at ease.

"Bad Santa! (but don't take the kids to this one!)

Your's still makes me laugh whenever I see it Whatsup! My avitar... Gibson Robot. It was simply the latest addition to my "guitar wish list" at the time I signed up. No longer top of the list, but still a fine looking guitar.

That is one happy looking feather!

Great review Cato. I guess you havn't yet "quenched your thirst" for red heads! Keep trying my friend...