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Also not an expert in the field, although I have in a previous life worked with youth who were on the spectrum. There are so many different ways and degrees in which it can present itself that it is really hard to generalize. I've met some who would be considered high functioning (Asperger's) that it is really hard to tell. Generally though, a lack of being able to interpret what most of us consider obvious social cues is a very common trait. For example, the person may talk about something of interest to them to the point of borderline obsession, without even noticing that the other person in the "conversation" is not enjoying it and possibly even trying to exit. For the most part, the best way to interact with people on the spectrum is to be direct and specific about your expectations. Tell them the expectation outright and remind them if necessary. Don't hint at it as we are so used to doing. For example, tell them you've enjoyed hearing about this topic, but I would like to end the conversation now. It has been my experience that they prefer to know exactly what is expected of them. Again, these are some of my own personal experiences and generalizing is always impossible. This lack of subtlety would definitely make it difficult for many to participate in this industry in so many ways. That said, if an sp ever has a client who identifies themselves as being on the spectrum, my advice would be the same as above. Be specific about your expectations. For example, if the appointment time has ended and they are still talking away, don't be afraid to interrupt and politely tell them it is time to leave. Subtle suggestions or implications may not even be noticed. I would also be interested to hear as well if there are any sps or clients that are on the spectrum and what strategies they might use to navigate the industry and to overcome communication barriers.

I do see both sides of it. There are so many "deposit scammers" out there that I can understand why some guys run from deposits as fast as they can. I hear it all the time. On the other side of it though, if it were my business, I'd absolutely consider requiring deposits. Time is their product and if it is wasted, they lose it forever. Just remember that there is a huge difference between booking an unknown from LL, and booking with an established lady. You don't need to develop hard and fast rules that apply to both situations. The bottom line is that if she has invested years developing a reputation that is her livelihood, then she is not going to risk that over a $50-$100 deposit. Would you risk your career and reputation over 50 bucks? I would not. It just wouldn't make any financial sense. That said, if you can't find any other information on her (verified of not), then I'd move on. The challenge on our end is being willing to spend a little bit of time doing research to be able to tell the difference. In most cases it is obvious.

OK now I'm curious lol 😉

Here's an ad from her from BC from June. Has some images with positive reccos in them in the photos. Seems legit. I'd be interested in hearing more as well. She has intriguing "assets" 😉 https://sumosear.ch/images/webpage/last-chance-hh-100specialsweet-tight-treat/38763179

I didn't get any hits on the photos after a quick search. Doesn't mean they are real but they aren't obvious fakes.

Looks like they are back to touring here again though. http://yourfrenchlady.com/fw-event-taxonomy-slug/maritimes/

Very informative. Another intriguing interview. Thank you

Not personally but I believe she used to go by Remy. There are some posts here that refer to her.

Love this! 1st dose down. A little disappointed that metal things don't stick to me though! Talk about a superpower! 😉 Anxiously awaiting #2.

I think it's really hard to generalize on what guys prefer. I had a disagreement recently with a friend of mine who doesn't like tattoos on a lady. I personally find them sexy as hell. For every guy who is put off by them, there is another who is turned on by them. Go with what makes you feel best about yourself, because at the end of the day, nothing is sexier on a lady than confidence! (at least in my humble opinion ;)

@MelanieRose for being such a sweetheart :)

She is also on twitter. https://twitter.com/carpenter_hot Have not yet had the pleasure but have heard good things. Incredible looking body.

Also if you use Chrome as your browser (and are on a PC), then you can simply right click on any image and select "search google for image". Super easy and seems fairly reliable.

An interesting read from what sounds like a very interesting person. Thank you for the insights.

Another well done interview. Thank you @Ava Maria Love for highlighting this important topic and thank you @lydiahardwood for helping to keep this site a civil and enjoyable place to be.

I only used the word "private" in the context of the fact that it is a business. Not a government organization. (Opposite of public). Not quite sure what you meant by your rant but my only point was that the owners of this site can do whatever they choose to because they own it. Nobody has a right to be here.

It was Sarah Connor (Linda Hamilton) in Terminator 2 that started my appreciation for stronger more muscular women. (Yes I'm dating myself lol) She was tough and damn she was hot!! It was a real departure from my previous ideas of beauty. Great interview. Thanks for sharing @conquistador

It's already been said but cold calling ladies from ll without doing any research is a crap shoot at best. Stick with ladies that can be verified as being real. Sites like this one are useful for that. (If several of the established posters have had a good experience, then it's a pretty safe bet.) Also look for things like having a web sites, a social media presence, etc in addition to recommendations. That said, most of the established ladies will avoid text apps like the plague. Like you, they need to verify that you are real, and establish comfort in their own safety. It's give and take. That's why I like to see ladies with an established reputation. You can trust them with your details. Their reputation and business depends on it. They are professionals. I wouldn't worry too much about having given them your details in this case. My guess is they saw the text app and decided to mess with you for trying it. Better luck next time and welcome to Lyla.

Enjoyable interview. I admire your perspectives on this subject and wish they were more common. Thank you

What rules did they break? Irrelevant. Lyla is a privately owned site and can ban or allow whoever they choose to for whatever reason they decide. (Even if the reason is simply for being creepy.) Does the mentioned page have a right to exist? That's between them and Facebook. Do they have a right advertise directly to the clients here, even though they are going against everything that this site has ever stood for? No. No they do not. Not if the mods don't want them here. Plain and simple.

@Mandyxxo Happy valentine's day to you beautiful lady!

Happy Valentines @East Coast Kimmy! You are truly beautiful!

@SarahAlexxx You are unbelievably sexy! It's been far too long.

@MelanieRose you are a special person. I wish you all the best for Valentines day. (and every day!)

As always @Phaedrus, I have enjoyed reading your perspectives on this complex issue. Very insightful.