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Erin, I have no objections to a cancellation fee just not sure how practically it could work. Chances are if I no show - I'm not likely to want to pay a monetary penalty. I'll just not communicate with the lady. If you tried to get $ in advance I'm sure it is possible but does add practical problems and not as easy as handing the lady a donation at time of meeting. I think 'blacklist' of some kind is likely the easiest but if this isn't working to curb the problem than I guess other measures are needed. Incidently, I have NEVER been a 'no show' but late by a couple hours when a flight was delayed. But had the ability to text the lady with updates. And I have been 'no showed' on 3 times by different ladies. My recourse - well I guess they are 'blacklisted' as I wouldn't call them again. Easy to say...but respect both ways goes a long way and can lead to lots of admiration and good times. Cub Posted via Mobile Device

That isn't cool on many levels. Saying; 'she asked me not to get into too many details', kinda sells her out. That is a cheap thing to say. Although I can see why this person would say it because they are more than prepared to share details and invite it later. So it is clear that if this is what they want to do then they have to find someone to blame for not doing it originally...which is the lady. Seems quite manipulative. I personally avoid all that. Every reco I've done I have first asked the lady if she is OK with one. Then I send her the text to comment on, change, etc... Then I post. Ever since I started in this hobby that just seems like the respectful thing to do. Cub

Having your favourite lady friend over for a popcorn/movie night and then having the cable go out. Now what do we do? Hehe. (Modern version of running out of gas) Bad Cub! Posted via Mobile Device

Boarding a plane out of Regina. Just kidding. Posted via Mobile Device

Re-connecting with someone special on CERB in just a small 'chat' way and realizing how special some initial meetings can be.

I grew up in a larger family of 6 kids. A tradition I remember which has somewhat been lost was the Christmas Board Game. Mom/Dad would always have 1 gift under the tree for the '*' Family from Santa. It was the annual board game. After late breakfast it would eventually come out and a healthy competition would unfold for the afternoon. Good games like Stock Ticker were only 'paused' during dinner and then continued late into the night. Wow, many years ago. Cub Posted via Mobile Device

Carley, you are such a treasure and I will always cherish our interactions. You have brought so much to the CERB community and those who have had the pleasure of meeting you. I feel so fortunate to have been in your company. I wish you all the best in whatever you choose. XOXO Cub

Getting abit of a surprise PM from someone special saying just the right things when you really needed to hear it. Thanks.

Thanks guys but this bear was hoping for more something like this; Still accepting any interests (from ladies). Hehe XOXO Cub

Jessica, is very close to the market and HIGHLY recommended by me and others. I miss that classy and sensual lady. Search recommendations for more details. Cub

Wishing all my CERB friends an enjoyable Christmas Social. A great time to be together with friends. And here is hoping that one of the lovely ladies will meet this distant cub under the virtual mistletoe. Enjoy everybody! Cub

With today being Grey Cub, I thought I would ask if anyone has a specific ritual that goes along with a Big Game. It could be Grey Cub, Super Bowl, Stanley Cup, World Cup, etc... Do you associate any of these big sporting events with a particular tradition? The tradition could be someone you're with, a place you go, a meal, or special activity. For me Grey Cup has always been a day of beer and chili. Just sits on the stove for a couple hours and have a couple bowls through the game. The other was the World Juniors Hockey Championship. Always watched the tournament with my father. He passed a few years back but, don't think I'll ever watch it without thinking of his presence. What's your tradition? Cub

Congrats Carley. I think everyone wants to celebrate so lets head over to you know who's and party like we did last time. Hehe. Cubbie

For me certainly starts with the snow on the ground. Then starting up the wood burning fireplace as well as the smell in the neighbourhood. Watching Christmas lights getting turned on a little more house by house. (Mine this weekend going up). Then the Christmas Tree. And EggNog in the fridge. Oh...guess I'm past the first sign. Hehe

Well it is rare that this Western guy would ever have the chance to meet up with some East Coast ladies. But Carley Chase has been one that I have hoped to see for some time. The distance between us made it highly unlikely. However, Carley and I have been CERB friends for some time and we've had a great and flirtatous banter going for some time. Then OMG, we both ended up in Ottawa recently. I didn't hesitate. As our day got closer the chatter between us raised to a new level. The day before it was time to confirm final details. As it turned out we had been in the same hotel. So I hosted and Carley arrived right on time. She is the perfect and pretty girl next door. Her beautiful pictures are exactly the girl you'll get but, what you miss is her exciting personality. When Carley enters the room it just lights up. She has so much positive energy I could just feel it. Conversation came easy but it didn't take long for us to be touching each other and slowly begin kissing. Carley is a great kisser. As we moved to the bedroom I think I found myself staring at her undress before me. She has a beautiful body. Our time together was filled with relaxation of each combined with heightened stages of arousal. Carley is a very sensual woman who I would pamper anyday. Great personality, dynamite looks, killer body, and great lover! Oh Yeh we're better friends now! XOXO Cub

You will always be both an Angel and a Starr but with a new beginning it is right to take a new name. And Penelope sounds great! Welcome Penelope and hope to meet you. XOXO Cub

An Angels wings can hold us up...but always know 2 big bear paws have your back. We miss you and want you back...but hell with what we want...continue to take care of yourself first! XOXO Cub

Taking my new puppy for a walk through the woods and winter snow then coming home to sit by the fire.

I must first say that I am ALWAYS clean and fresh at the beginning of my appointments. However, depending on how some sessions have gone it can get sweaty for one or both of us. I also like longer times together so I think this can play into it. Taking our time but at the same time being extremely physical with each other can result in a little body glow. I must say it is best when both are in relatively the same state. And of course dry cloths/towels are always near by...or a quick rinse in the shower. Cleaning up together, getting dried off, and freshening up can all be part of the fun too. Some of the best closing conversations can be me sitting on the side of the tub or closed toilet seat, while she is freshening up before leaving. Hehe. Cub

I've been here for just over 2 yrs. I don't think alot has changed on CERB. It was the first site along with EC that I actually found when I began looking into this. And I am so glad I did. I have then found both agency and independent sites but as a 'community' keep coming back to CERB. It seems to fill a bigger need. A place to find and meet some amazing women as well as meet some like minded gents. I do remember a 'blip' of new ladies/members a few months back when another site disappeared. I must say I also noticed a change in tone at that time. However, as every community does - the bar stayed high and those who join either learn the 'culture' here or leave. And it is that culture that makes this place different. What is it? IMHO, it is a community of respect for all who are here and that puts the ladies in a valued position. Cub

I've only experienced it once but it was a nice option and although we didn't need it...it did add to the session. A little related but was in a post on 'nice Incall locations'. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=58555 Cub

I luv this thread. So from relatively recent personal experiences; I'm never too old to; - build a snow fort - eat cotton candy - learn how to bring a woman to orgasm - have a pillow fight - cry when I hurt - colour - start taking care of my body - hide under the blankets with a flashlight - admire people Cub

Having my ATF Cerb lady surprise me in an amazing way with her kindness. Sometimes people do things that just astound us with their understanding, caring and generosity. And in particular when we really don't deserve it. So humbled and grateful Cub. XO

I like Angela...cause she keeps Little Bear cozy and warm. :icon_wink: Hehe XOXO Cub

It is a fine balance between being concerned/caring for someone and imposing on their private time/life. But I certainly can understand where you are coming from. I assume you've had good and active communications and know the methods she prefers (email, PM, phone). It is fair to simply ask 'how are you doing?' Another suggestion which you must be very careful with is a shared acquaintance. If you know of someone who is still active you can in a VERY RESPECTFUL way ask her friend. But you have to respect whatever view the friend takes...and likely can be to tell you nothing. Finally, I find ladies do just move on and often can be without good-byes. All you can do is hope they are well, remember the great times you had and move on. Cub