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John, I agree with Maverick. Using the city you are in (Ottawa) look under both the recommendations and the ladies ads. Find one who shows the looks but perhaps more importantly, the personality that you think you will have a good time with. When I first joined I took a few weeks just reading various posts and getting to know who I might connect with before contacting anyone. It proved quite valuable and I still do that today when visiting a new city. This site has a variety of ladies. But something I find the all have in common is their professionalism. Although I hear your circumstances and concerns...you'll be pleasantly surprised how respectfully these ladies will respond. Best of luck and enjoy! Cub

To Isa who finds a way to keep her principles and integrity intact and still help those in need. Oh and likes Cubs too! Hehe XO Cub

Ok, I'm feeling really hurt today. None of the ladies have picked any of these. Sad Cub (Haha) Yogi Corduroy Bear Pooh

Hmm, good thread. I agree and I would likely put Italian, French, Spanish near the top. I also think Aussi needs to be in the mix and would give a nod to German as well. One other observation is that I think close...but I would place ladies on a slightly different scale than gents. I think if you had guys voting on ladies and ladies on gents you might come up with some minor differences. Cub

Pam Grier. Ok, dating myself a little. Laurie Partridge Agent 99 or Marcia Brady

One of the earliest ladies I met on a trip to Winnipeg was Auralie. We had such a great connection which was rooted in my admiration for her. She was so naturally pretty, smart, and confident....she just had it all together. I can almost be certain she is productive and happy in whatever she is doing. Cub

Wow always showing us the way! Congrats!

I don't think I'm specifically attracted to any one race. Certainly not Asian ladies. I've seen quite a few SPs and only one was 100% Asian that I know of. And the experience was Ok, but wouldn't repeat and had nothing to do with race. I'm probably less attracted to a race and more to a particular unique look as well as confidence, personality and the connection we create. If those things come together in an Asian, Russian, French, or Latin woman...than I'm likely intrigued. Cub

Well this is my 2nd recommendation of this lovely lady but reflects more than 2 visits. Hehe. I recently had the opportunity to be in the company of this sexy woman and in reflection I'm struck by our story. Yes story. In the time I've gotten to know Isa our relationship has deepened. This is actually quite easy with her as she is so engaging and just draws you in. And in reflecting back on our past couple of encounters I've come to realize that they aren't individual 'appointments'. We are in fact creating a story together. Our first meetings as anticipated brought great exploration and intrigue. Those early times had much excitement and almost fast paced. Then in getting to know her more our conversation and playtime became much more intimate. In recent weeks we've taken turns hosting each other. I truly think we just like being with each other. Or at least that is how she makes me feel. Our time now is much more relaxed, slow and deep. She is an extremely sexy and classy woman - so I'll keep details between us. Recent meetings have provided the opportunity for us to get to know much more about each other. Which honestly only makes me wonder what's in future chapters. I do know that she has me intrigued and we've already discussed what might be next. I can't wait for the next opportunity to write another chapter with this lady. If you see her once you probably feel lucky - if you get to know her more, you'll be blessed. XOXO Isa! Cub

I've done a couple different things big and small. Variation is good and if you have a special relationship then I think anything from you will be well appreciated. If you have ideas of something that links to you, her or the two of you, then I think that's nice too. Lots of time to plan and sounds like you know this lady so expect whatever will be a hit. I walk thru the usual; jewellery, books/music, clothes/fashion, lingerie, practical home gifts, etc.. I know I've given gift cards and although not a personal touch I think it was well received and allowed the lady to truly get what she needed. If you do give something like a gift card compliment it with something small but personal. I find a bunch of little gifts are good too. A gift basket of a bunch of little things that reflect each of you. Anyway, clearly I'm in the giving mood and rambling but, there are some suggestions. Best of luck. Cub

After 2 years in this hobby of seeing SPs I was always intrigued about the experience of being in the company of a Massage Provider. To be honest once I decided I wanted to try this, the who was easy. You see I've been a long time admirer of Sensual Erin. I don't think she ever knew but I was probably like many men who just looked up to the way she presented herself in posts on CERB. Strong and confident women are an amazing turn on for me and I saw that in Erin early. Many months ago she accepted my friend request which I had to offer after following her expressions. But when the time came to actually meet her, well lets just say it was planned for a night that just worked out well for both of us. :wink: In the lead up to our meeting our communications became more flirtatious which only raised my excitement. When we met I felt like a school boy in the presence of a princess. I was so fond of her already that I just wanted to get to know her more. And she was even more engaging than I imagined. Our conversation was rich and she had me in her palms even before she laid a hand on me. We sipped wine and I felt myself falling deeply into her trance. It didn't help matters that she has a beautiful face, soft eyes, and the greatest voice and laugh. Just as I was floating away she suggested we get undressed. Ok, I'm awake. Wow what an amazing body this lady has. It didn't take long for me to relax again as her hands worked their way across my body. I closed my eyes and kept thinking...oh this feels good! It wasn't a good week for me but in those moments I had forgotten all my worries. Trying to anticipate her touch and then feel her body against mine...I could have stayed for hours. When time to roll over I was...well quite relaxed. But that didn't last long. Her massage is therapeutic and at just the right moments sensual. Her hands brushed against me as I was becoming slowly more and more aroused. The build up was slow and erotic. Why did I wait so long? I have no idea. And Erin? Well as I said I thought she was an amazing woman before we met. Now I think she is a Sensual Goddess. I'm more than an admirer. XOXO Cub

Feeling like you've maybe healed a wound you never should have created in the first place.

I think my seasonal sex mood can vary but always has a place. Cubs seasonal moods; Spring Time for walking in the rain, playing in dirt, good exercise. Morning sex is great in spring as it gets the day going quickly as are afternoon quick sessions. Summer Things get hotter. We stay up later cause its lighter outside. Smell of campfires and being in the mountains. Getting sweaty comes quick. We have to sleep with little on and maybe just a satin sheet as a cover. Showers together can be a fun way to cool down and heat up. Fall We're starting to put things away and close up. Its time for nice walks thru changing colours and holding hands is a must. Romance is slow, maybe over a long dinner and great conversation. Kissing gets softer and deeper. Couple massages feel great. Winter The time to stay close and cuddle. This is when us bears hibernate and can climb under a thick and soft quilt. Fireplaces and sitting in front of the TV for hours or reading a book all play out - as long as close together. We like going out to play in the winter but, quickly retreat to warmth of each other. Everything is good, as long as we are wrapped around each other. A bear for all seasons!

Women in ties are very sexy. And based on this belief have an outstanding date with a CERB lady where my part is tie tying lessons...and her part, well let's just say I'm ready to learn. Cub Posted via Mobile Device

Great question and timing for me. I personally struggle with the feelings developed for the amazing women I've met. I've learned that seeing a lady in this industry is much more than sex. I know we all know that and for many of us it can be a struggle. I guess I could try and contain my feelings but frankly that wouldn't be me and I would be restraining something I really want and need. I've re-learned over the past few years what truly caring feels like. It took a long time for me to regain that and I don't want to lose it again. So to your question - ABSOLUTELY I could date and fall in love with a woman in the industry. I'm a pretty accepting person and don't judge people on their past. And certainly some of the best people I've met - are in the business. I am more about 'who you are as a woman today - and what are your dreams for the future that I might be a part of'. Now the truth and downside is that I'm not sure I could handle it going forward. I'm a bit of a traditionalist and love the feeling of being deeply in love and dedicated to one person. So if it ever happened it would have to come with me stop seeing escorts/MPs and her stop working in thhe industry. This would certainly require long and open conversations as I would hate to see jealousy or resentment surface by either partner down the road. My heartfelt views. Cub Posted via Mobile Device

I'm with many of the other that it doesn't really matter to me but will echo the view that whatever makes a woman more confident. Confidence is so sexy! Just one other thought is that I don't mind seeing the natural tanning of a woman. That is go with your life and the seasons. Maybe after a winter holiday or in mid-summer she is more tanned than when I might see her in Jan. I think that is neat. Change with the seasons. Haha Cub Posted via Mobile Device

Having to leave a place and people you really don't want to. You are already badly missed! Big and sad bear hugs. Cub Posted via Mobile Device

And I was all dressed up for the party! JK. Happy Birthday! Cub

The smell of Subway every morning when I walk by there on the way to work. Don't mind Subway...just that place has a special and no so sweet smell at 8:00 am.

Agree with what Emily shared. I travel freuqently. For me domestic is fine it is flights to Asia that can kill. In N. America if talking a 2-4 hour difference another suggestion, if practical, is start adjusting a day or 2 before you travel. When we go to day light savings we have that hour. If travelling try and adjust the same way. E to W, maybe stay up a little later and try sleeping in an hour longer. That starts the body adjusting before you've arrived. Happy travels. Cub Posted via Mobile Device

Emily congratulations to your brave move. Up-routing can be un-settling but as you so greatly put it...is an opportunity to remember fondly one chapter in our lives...while the excitement of a new beginning. Everything I've come to learn of you tells me you're a confident and passionate woman who will embrace this time. For those of us who perhaps should have your bravery I am a little envious and look up to you. I've travelled to Atlantic Canada a few times and find the landscape amazing and the people warm and inviting. Hmm, hope you don't mind the parallel, but that could describe you. Sure you'll find an enjoyable new home. All the best! XOXO Cub

Allowing my body to fall into the hands of someone special and losing myself. Still have the a daziness hangover. OMG!

I really don't have a strong preference of outcall vs. incall but mine is more determined by my hobbying pattern. I generally play when I'm travelling which means I'm in a downtown hotel. I also don't usually have a vehicle or know my way around the cities I'm in. So it usually is an Outcall to my hotel. But I have done Incalls and sometimes when I'm in a city and seeing a touring lady. Recently had the experience that as it got to determining who was hosting it was simply a matter of who's room? We had both been staying at the same hotel. We picked my room as I had a more stocked fridge, better view, and bigger bed. Although not sure in the end any of that mattered. Cub

Hmm Nicolette not sure if totally you're Mr. Right but we've got some common ground. I'll try your place if you'll try mine. A few days in Santa Monica and then up to Vancouver Island near Tofino at the Wickaninnish Inn. Best couples place I know. PS, I like morning legs inter-twined too. Cub

I love the morning waking up next to someone special. I think the main reason is that 1 is usually at a different state of awareness. A nice slow and sensual wake up is great. For example if I'm awake first I might simply place a soft touch to the thigh/pelvic area. A light kiss on the back of the neck. A firm massage/rub as her body comes to life. If she awakes prior to me I love feeling her body snuggle in behind me. The feel of her hand working down my side and then to the front of my chest and sliding down my body. Best way to wake up that I know. Ok, time to go get her up! Hehe.