Winnipegcub

Additional Comments: and necks are so Kissable too.

We've seen alot of threads about 'regulars' and building up chemistry in this hobby. I declare my guilt and fall into this group. This means that this past week I celebrated 2 years in this hobby from seeing my first lady. And I've been fortunate to see her many times over the past 2 years. This relationship will always be special and surprisingly has grown progessively over time. I continue to get excited every time I am going to see her. I have learned alot about her over this time and the respect and admiration just keeps growing. So knowing the date we first met, remembering the date, and seeing her on a frequent basis - is it fair to call it an Anniversary? Well we did and celebrated in a special way. So my question for Gents and Ladies. Do you have someone you see regular that you feel like you have an Anniversary date? Do you celebrate it? Or do you think the notion of anniversary, shouldn't apply to hobbying? For the record - I'm all for it! Cub

Ok, I get another post. Love this thread. My first pick was soft and sweet Ariel. For my second pick I'm going to the other extreme. Mystique from X-Men.

Soleil, I am so sorry to hear about your circumstance. I haven't been fortunate to meet you but you strike me as a very together lady and have such a positive attitude. That certainly helps during tough times. Yeh maybe this happened for a reason and your future situation will become better than what you had. Heart goes out with big bear hugs for you! XOXO Cub

The Ultimate Sweet Redhead

First Way to Go Malika! I too am just over 2 yrs here as well. I probably was more active in posting a few months back. Some of the 'drama' recently and frankly disrepctful posts turn me off and as in life...on CERB I too just take the higher ground and try and stay out of it. But I think those highs and lows can be expected. I am sensing we're on a more positive trend now. Regardless CERB remains a great tool for me to find women I value and respect and who can bring something positive into my life. I have also communicated thru posts/chat with some guys who I've found I share a common bond with. As long as that stays...so will I. Cub

I love a tie on a woman. It can look so classy and sexy. But I also like when done not to look masculin but show a formal, confident, feminine look. I've also been lucky to have a CERB lady work thru my closet putting on shirts, ties and suite coats. Was quite the fashion show. I gotta go shopping before her next visit. Hehe Cub

Chemistry is Everything! But for me it happens in two stages. 1. With certain ladies I've built up a chemistry simply by their ads and the way they present themselves in posts. I've gotten pretty good at identifying the kind of lady I might like relative to the kind of man I am. A chemistry quickly gets formed between us and this process is so exciting. As others have said it is often this initial chemistry that draws me in vs looks, menu, etc... If we click and seem to 'like' each other than the other parts will often take of themselves. 2. With a very few I've gained a very deep connection. This is absolutely based on chemistry from our initial interactions added to the time we spend together. I highly value this and cherish that it is rare. I can like alot of people and get along with most but I think most of us only deeply connect with a select few. Again when this happens - its all because of chemistry. Very Fortunate Cub

Wow 1000! The more amazing part isn't even what you've already provided but how much more we are going to benefit from what is to come. What you have to offer is interesting, touching and thoughtful. Thankyou. Cub

I like Erin cause she has left me really wanting to meet her...for so many reasons. Cub

For me this is one where practicality doesn't align with nature. I would say naturally I'm probably in a more heightened state in the mornings. However, practically it is rare that life aligns in such a way so I am generally participating during my night/evenings. Oh yeh, was this one early time. Hmm! Cub

Congratulations to SamanthaEvans and WrinkledinTime for their win. The bizarre process this year should in no way take away from the great contributions of these two members for our community. In fact, perhaps now more than ever we need good Ambassadors to guide us as we move forward and I expect we have two such positive spirits. For those who recognized me for my modest contributions I am truly touched. I humbly get more out of CERB than I put in and am so grateful for what you've all brought me. Thanks. Cub

Kyra, I'm not from the area. (Western boy) Have been to Halifax a couple times. But a few years back took 2 weeks to see rural areas. Went to Lunenburg, Peggy's Cove, PEI, Cape Breton. I loved them all. Such beautiful country, great food (yeh seafood), and good people. I would do it again in a heartbeat. I think every Canadian needs to see that part of the country at least once. Cub

I believe in the sleek walk of a woman. I believe in single malt scotch and a good cigar. I believe in Alberta beef cooked just right over a slow grill. I believe in the power of the subtle including a look and light touch. I believe in life on other planets. I believe a woman's best quality is her confidence. I believe in thankyou. I believe in orgasms that make you grab onto whatever you can. I believe in growing my list of what I believe in vs losing faith. Cub

OMG, thanks for sharing this Angela. I was sick by this story and so many of these just don't turn out well. Another reason to share a tear today but this time for relief and happiness. Cub

This is such an unfortunate and disturbingly frequent story. As others have shared we have seen for years the abuse of alcohol (and other things) among young people. I certainly had my risky experiences. Regrettably I expect these stories will continue. I generally lean to the right of issues and believe highly in individual accountability. We all have choices and for our wrongs we can always find ways to place ourselves in the 'victim' roles. We see a great deal of this in our court systems which drives me crazy. But I've also learned that society does have a role to play to try and minimize people from doing stupid things, even to themselves. These situations are complex in terms of responsibility as shown by the varying views but it also demonstrates that we are passionate to try and find solutions. I do hold servers (whether bars, friends, families) accountable for aiding those who are clearly beyond the point of consumption with more alcohol. At least then with 2 individuals who have choices to make you would hope that 1 of them would be wise. Finally, I feel for the students family and friends. Any life lost is sad, but when it's our youth, who have so much ahead of them, we all suffer. Cub

Ah, get over here for a big bear hug. Congrats Erin. I love reading all your posts. XOXO Cub

...would catch him..

At 437 posts I'm right behind you. What a great place to be! (Bear chasing Fox) Cub

Rassilon, I'm not sure if I'm one of "the guys" as you describe but let me share my opinion. Actually I've only been on this site for slightly longer than you but here is what I've learned. I say what I want to say and when I want to say it. (Within the rules) I'm never influenced by what more senior or active members say. I did have to learn and get comfortable with posting and then creating threads. But when it comes to recommendations - if I had an enjoyable experience than I post one. It doesn't matter if it is a lady well reviewed here or someone new. In cases if I see someone frequently then I might do a composite recommendation highlighting a series of meetings. As a reader of recommendations and as others have said I take it all with a grain of salt. And I would never take one recommendation in isolation and make any decision based on that. So your post will become part of the story which describes this lady. I've never posted a recommendation without sharing my text with the lady before...but I wouldn't ask the question the way you did: "if you still want me to write one". I think thats put an unfair onus on her. If you want to post, don't be misdirected by your opinion of your reputation on here. Just keep being positive and respectful and your reputation will follow. Then when we see your post of a great time with this lady we'll think that much more credible. I hope helpful. My thoughts. Cub

Happy Birthday my CERB friend. Hope this day is just a little more special than all the rest. Cub

I think I've always been a pretty respectful guy but CERB has taught me to truly cherish women. I probably lost some of that admiration but the calibre of ladies on here has opened my eyes. Now I look at all women in a very different and positive way. It is so heartening to love women again. Cub Posted via Mobile Device

I think it is pretty hard to specifically define a couple words on a page as soliciting or playful. It really depends on the 'relationship' between the 2 people and the context. If someone is saying 'come see me' on numerous hobby pages with no existing interaction than thats surely soliciting. But I prefer to edge on the more liberated side. After all lets not forget what this sight is about. I get tickled when a lady I might have had a small initial interaction with (even me viewing her page) posts a message. It doesn't mean I need to respond. And some ladies who I know do post random messages on my page. Some can just say 'hi' and I get that warm feeling. However, the original thread is not about posts on guest pages. It is about the loss of visiter information. Understanding and supporting the reason for its removal...I look forward to the optionality of its return. Cub

We've all gotten a little smarter by your insights and contributions to this board. Thankyou! Cub