Winnipegcub

My direct answer is that I prefer natural. However, a woman of confidence is pretty damn sexy so if that is what helps then I'm all for it. Cub

For those who have seen these amazing legs you'll recognize them immediately as belonging to one of the most amazing CERB ladies. Isabella Gia is not only blessed with what you see but one of the nicest people in our community. Posted with permission. Cub

Well kind of a sculpture. But it was last year when I went to Cambodia and seeing the temples of Angkor Wat and people of Siem Reap. This poster art piece captures it well. Today I take nothing for granted and live my life much fuller. Cub

In no particular order; - shower sex (wet and naked is just such a turn on and as common as it might be for most...I'm still a virgin) - the classy pick-up (ok, I must admit that some of this was in my mind and some comes from the writings of a special CERB lady. The idea of me sitting at the bar in a high end hotel having a scotch. In walks the classy looking lady. She sits close enough we can make eye contact but not too close. Ok I'm living it in my mind again...you get the rest) - the get-away (Being away for a couple days with a particular special lady I've connected with. The idea of just being able to spend more natural time together) - and I do very much have a dream to meet a few special CERB ladies but our travel plans just haven't aligned. Soon I hope. Hmm now I have goals. Anyone wanna help me achieve them? JK Cub.

The relationship you describe starts and should end between 2 people. No need and frankly destructuve to bring a 3rd person into this (SP or not). IMHO Cub Posted via Mobile Device

I will be honest that it wasn't something I naturally found attractive on a woman. In the past couple of years meeting a few ladies who have them I certainly have become more informed and learned to be not so judgemental. Now I do find some body art can be very attractive on both men and women. I'm still not an 'outright' fan so that means having 50plus % covered I still don't find attractive. I do really love natural skin! So for me now the best is a nice combination. Places of natural skin complimented by a few tasteful pieces that are done well and mean something to the lady. I also must say it is a little like lingerie. Sometimes a woman will be dressed in a way that you just get a glimpse. And then you wonder what is under those clothes. Finding a nice piece of body art can be very erotic. IMHO. Cub

Agree with many of these ideas. In particular let your personality show thru. As for specifics I like variety. This includes perhaps inside and outside shots, close ups but also full body, various levels of dress. I enjoy classy women so seeing someone in a little black dress or business outfit shows that combination of classy and sexy I seek. Hope the suggestions help. Cub Posted via Mobile Device

Agree with mmad it is always good to try all methods of connection the lady has provided. It also depends how much you like things planned/organized or how willing you are to just start calling, PMing, at the last minute. For me I like to be organized and get frustrated when ladies advertise and yet aren't responsive to when you try and contact them. I posted a similar thread recently; http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=54042 In short, I've learned to try and connect early and if no response, move on quickly. If we don't connect then I take that as it wasn't meant. Best of luck. Cub

I like Alexandra-Sky because although we've yet to meet...a shared friend has told me she's very sexy and beautiful and we'ld have quite a connection. Blush Blush...telling her in this public thread. XO

Angel, like you I find I can turn to music. It can both help me with my thoughts and also pick me up. As well, as others have said, being around very close friends or family can help. Shopping or a self-gift although probably wrong can lift up spirits and confidence as long as within financial means. And finally just time. Although early in the process of being hurt sometimes just being alone and having a good cry helps move to the next stage of healing. This bear has lots of hugs and caring thoughts sent your way to help. XOXO Cub

How about the perfectly roasted marshmellow over a campfire. Ok with graham wafers and chocolate too.

I like Roamingguy because he is a guys guy! Straight forward, respectful and stand-up. Cub

I REALLY LIKE Isa because she is the triple threat! Physically Beautiful, Big Heart, and Smart Mind. Mmm Cub

Samantha, I have no doubt your presence would be valued by your former client and friend. I think it is also special how even with the strong feelings you have you will consider the appropriateness and maintain your professionalism and discretion. I too have established what I think are closer than provider/client relations and would feel special to have that person at such an event. XO Cub

-That first sip of a cold beer on a hot day. -The perfect golf swing and "oh my did I hit that?" -Watching a lightning storm. -Looking down the hill at virgin powder. -The smell of a pine forest.

Samantha, I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you so much for sharing your private story. It is clear you would have meant a great deal to him. I know that these kind of relationships are highly valued by both parties. XO Cub

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Hi Erin, first I wasn't able to add any more rep points for you but believe I understand what you're expressing and you have my support. I have purposely not responded to this thread till now as found it was going off in a different direction. I have read your original post about 8 times making sure I understood what was being shared. I think some of the differing views are valid IMHO but again need to be taken in context of this site and our community. I do understand that this is an adult site and the activities it is supporting so find it hard that it wouldn't have any related vocabulary. I too have learned language and acronyms I never knew 2 years ago. I am OK with it challenging some of my own beliefs and getting me a little outside my comfort zone because that is how I expand. For example, I have not participated in anal sex but do enjoy the threads that appropriately address this subject. I've learned alot from them. Yes I could google it but I trust (with my own filter) what I do read on CERB so for that appreciate it a great deal. I find CERB to be a very 'respectful' site. I have accounts on 2 other **RB sites and rarely go there. I've made one post (recommendation) (after the ladies approval) and got beat up by some members for not being explicit enough. However, the other important element is to remember that words like respect are always viewed from the receiving side. I can think or try and be respectful but it doesn't frankly matter my opinion, it is how it is received. This is human behaviour and how we evolve, learn understanding, compassion, and tolerance. I will continue to participate on this board and try from my current understanding to always be respectful. But thankfully I too am always learning so if I've ever offended anyone with my behaviour and language I apologize. But I wouldn't want to see things change here either. Cub

I like Elizabeth with a name and look of royalty!

We've all made mistakes in life and I'm sure this won't be the most dramatic. But highly respect anyone who knows and steps up when they did wrong. XOXO Cub

Oh Yeh! This Alberta Boy should not have forgotten that. Thanks RG.

Some random experiences got me thinking about what perfect two things just go so well together. What I was thinking of; - White Wine and Chocolate - A Woman's Skin and Lotion - A Baby and Laughter What are some of your best combinations?

Its all business and balance. I've been so impressed by the business sense of many of the ladies in this industry. Not that I should have doubted I was just ignorant. I see many of them strategically select cities they will visit and I see them adjust their plans based on client demand. I too am a frequent traveller and am grateful that in some cities our paths have crossed. I think other ladies either establish a local client base or may have family obligations that keep them at home. For those travelling lots...glad to share a glass of wine in the hotel lounge and then a nice cozy evening to make lonely nights disappear. Cub.

Happy Birthday Nathalie!

Just to help clarify a little. Yes she has 2 identities with different names and posts with 1 name as a Female Escort and then a different name under the Transexual section. Actually I've found her with 3 different names advertising recently. I will be honest and actually both aspects turned me away from booking. I respect everybodies view and in my mind if she is now a woman...she is a woman. But knowing her history, I'm just not ready to book. And the two identity, well I guess in her case it probably is necessary to be able to advertise seperately so I get that. I question myself on this one and appreciate everyones views. Thanks.