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    Completely agree Angel. Best first dates are about getting to know each other...then follow up dates are great for shared exploration and adventure. But after a few, always good to go back and share the simple things. Ie make a 10th date feel like a 1st one again. Never a bad time for a nice summer hike and picnic.
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    Congrats Charlotte. Based in Alberta but a traveller like you, I enjoy reading your contributions. You are a great writer and very insightful. A true Canadian Treasure! Look forward to more. Cub
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    And....she's there! Way to go Isa for many great contributions. Cub
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    Well I get my name split and then varied; - Win - Winni - Cub - Cubbie or Cubby Hmm, certainly a trend. I don't have a real preference. But the Winni and Cubbie variations seem to sound better coming from the ladies.
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    Erin, I'm not that much more a CERB veteran than you and completely agree with your approach to establishing yourself. I did and continue to try and do the same in building a respected profile for those who I may be fortnate to meet. The difference I've learned; - CERB is more about the establishment of a community and it's members. - this is not the 'ad' section where you simply swing by and see 'who is on tonight'. If that seems like too much effort than both ladies/gents are probably using the wrong means. For those who invest just a little...the rewards are amazing! Cub
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    I think opportunities always exist, just need to do a little research and know whats around/available and might be of interest. I might try a summer festival arts/music and maybe add on a picnic in the country side. In winter again many things exist including; skiing, hiking. Other options can be more volunteer events like children's X-mas toy wrapping. For me the key is to find something that might interest her but still allow us lots of opportunity to build up a chemistry.
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    I absolutely respect the ladies choices and their absolute need to protect themselves and use caution. However, as clients we too have safety/security issues. Although rare, we have seen cases of clients being assaulted/robbed. As well many balance the need to protect their identity while at the same time participating in this great activity. I have been asked for my full/real name in past. Most times it doesn't become a requirement if the lady and I have talked and built up a rapport and/or I have solid references to provide. But I do recall in one case I was told that no other option existed to which I asked if I could then have the ladies full and real name. My thought was that if we are both being put at risk (and I'm not trying to say their equal), then we should both have full disclosure and trust. I explained my challenge in what I thought was a solid and balanced email. Of course the information was not provided to me. I did give my real first name and said I could make up any last name. But I felt it better to be honest and explain why I couldn't give my full name vs lie. The date did go ahead and was very nice. Both ladies and gents have their approaches and limits and I respect them all. We each have to do what we are comfortable with. Cub
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    Mistert, funny you should mention Port. I tried a sip many years back and thought I hated it and never tried it again until. A Fav SP brought me a bottle of Warre's Otima (10 years) and now we share one everytime we meet. Become quite a traditional and fond memory for me that I don't think I would share a sip with anyone else. Cub
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    Huge fan. Especially in winter. Depending on mood switch between Oban and Lagavulin 16. Cub
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    No problem RG! I think 2 guys like us may describe it differently but we can both agree and recognize when we see a jerk. Vanessa said it best; "Cerb gents would not pull that type of b.s. :icon_biggrin:" We are 2 such gents. Back to the thread: obviously Vanessa you rose to the opportunity and demonstrated the class you have. I have huge admiration for that. Its the actions one takes in challenging and difficult situations that determines their character. What a lady! :bigclap: Cub
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    RG, I was in NO WAY justifying what he did. "Vanessa, this in NO WAY supports what he said/did. I think the guy was disrepectful, classless, and an asshole." Simply trying to offer a perspective of what might have been going on in his head. But I think you missed that sentiment in my post. I hope others don't. However, if you do LET ME BE CLEAR. I IN NO WAY SUPPORT WHAT HE DID. At minimum, Vanessa I hope you understand the perspective I offered. Cub
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    Vanessa, this in NO WAY supports what he said/did. I think the guy was disrepectful, classless, and an asshole. However, I can imagine the physchology that would go thru a guys head when he sees someone so sexy and beautiful that he might have had sex with and certainly if sitting with some buddies/friend and having a beer. It is kinda that dumb ass proud (trophy) thing. By him doing that and associating himself with you, in his mind, he brings himself up to your level. Would have been best for him to just keep that thought in his little head, grin a little in remembering his time with you, and book you soon to recount the story and re-live the experience. Men can be idiots. But not all of us. Cub
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    And we're off to Barbs in search of? See above ;-)
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    Congrats Meg! Great milestone to pass but trust the best is still to come. Always value your contributions. Cub
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    Congrats buddy. You are one of those who make a positive contribution in so many ways. Keep it coming. Cub
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    Winnipegcub commented on Isabella Gia (Banned)'s gallery image in Converted Albums

    Very Hot. Got that summer look going already!
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    Nice post. I haven't yet had the pleasure of meeting Emily and only because of circumstances. However, have gotten to learn to admire her a lot from her insightful and intelligent posts. Now you've helped highlight what else makes this lady so special. I hope someday. Cub Posted via Mobile Device
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    I actually appreciate the way the current CERB system works. First I think it is important to remember the very personal nature of the meetings we have. Not all go great. Sometimes the chemistry just isn't there. So for me I then just wouldn't post a reco. Secondly, from the ladies standpoint a 'bad' date could mean a variety of things. I think it would be hard to define this and therefore if these are being posted in reference to a client and can see a variety of opinions. The system now allows me to provide a name of someone who I think is respected and that I'm pretty sure would feel we had a safe and good time. And then the ladies can share as much detail as they need in a relaxed and closed way. Finally, the current approach does a little more to respect privacy and discretion which is important for me. My view. Cub Posted via Mobile Device
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    Activities, events and acquaintances pass us in our life. But memories stay and become a part of us. Dorinda, I hope you've had some good ones as a part of this community and will go on to earn many more. Cub Posted via Mobile Device
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    Good subject. I have been one to use email (if rqstd by the lady) as a means of introducing myself and providing a little background. The responses have been very hit and miss. Some have gone into a black hole, some receive very brief responses and usually only answering one question "yes I'm available and my rate is...", while some have been very nice. Even with ladies I've met before the 'email connection' can be hit and miss. I try to take this as more the personality/business conduct of the individual rather than something specific towards me. I can also appreciate that the ladies receive many emails/PMs from guys which really go nowhere. It can be hard to sift through these to find the callers who may truly be geniune and I think at times we get swept away in this approach. But by the same token I think as clients we need to respect the ladies time and not draft a storybook. However, in the end if good communication is established by email, then it is likely we'll have good communication when we meet - which will make for a more enjoyable time for both. Cub
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    So abolutely a true story. A few years back I was taking the kids around the area on Halloween night. A couple of crescents over we diligently worked our way house to house. As we approached the front of one house a couple teen kids came running from the front laughing and giggling. Me and my two little ones approached the front door. I always stayed one step back. As they yelled Trick or Treat, I got a glimpse through a window in the upper part of the door and into the house. A young lady in a princess costume was laid back on the kitchen island getting it from her prince. My glance might have lasted a total of 5 seconds but I felt like I was frozen. Of course my kids couldn't see anything but away the royal couple went. I felt like I wanted to stay there and keep watching until noticed, the end, or I don't know what. Needless to say after what seemed like forever (5 secs), I told my kids that no one must be home. Never did find out who lived in that home and subsequent Halloweens didn't provide the same treat. It was awkward and yet exciting for the brief moment. I'm sure they knew exactly what they were doing and enjoyed being on display. That was my little exposure to Voyeurism and curious to hear any other stories. Cub
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    Seriously guys. You all have her information on EC. We have a nicely and detailed reco from a member. And all you see is PM Me, Yeh PM Me too, I wanta know send me a PM. The lady has provided her information and how to contact her and a member has given you his experience. Either decide yourself if you want to see this lady or stand down. I'm not sure what else you could be PM'd. I know I've seen enough that she is a lady I would value spending time with. And if I get the chance I'll share my reco but don't bother asking me to PM you. Cub
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    And.... When we heard the sound of the mosquito fogging truck at night, we would all mount our bikes and ride behind in the smoke. We could just as easily be spanked by our friends parents as our own. Posted via Mobile Device
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    Good point on the un-opened bottles. I always ensure nothing she may be having is cracked until the lady is present. Posted via Mobile Device
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    I have almost always had something during the encounter. A beer, a glass of wine, some port. Have been at incalls where offered, so I'll have 1 and when I host I'll often ask the lady if she has a preferred drink that I can have on hand. I almost never drink before and have never been close to being intoxicated. Don't think I would like that. But a social drink with company is certainly fine for me. Cub Posted via Mobile Device
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