Winnipegcub

I agree with the general theme of this thread. Luv the scent of a woman and inparticular when I can draw upon a touch of it after we've parted. Makes me wonder what is better. Having one of your senses deeply invoked or multiple senses at the same time. Might be why '69' is so great. Feeling youself being warm, moist and consumed - while at the same time enjoying an amazing taste and being able to smell the sex in the room. And at the same time I can simply lie next to a lady, close my eyes, and take in her scent with deep breaths. OMG the human body is great! Posted via Mobile Device

What a classy lady. No wonder so many admire you. (+me)

Well for me kissing is a big attraction and a big part of the experience. I think it is such a personal way to connect with someone. I would lean towards ladies that are comfortable with this. I have been with those who just don't offer this. I wouldn't repeat with them. But it does go without saying that this is based on a mutual understanding and respect that the person has fresh breath, is clean, and doesn't have a cold. I do get a flu shot ad try and stay healthy so have never had to cancel because I'm not well. However, I wouldn't hesitate to advise a lady if I was under the weather and the majority I've met would certainly understand and appreciate it. And I know they would do the same. Cub Posted via Mobile Device

If we accept that we are all human and carry with us high levels of emotion than it is completely understandable how this can be very difficult. At one end, we hear stories of SPs/Clients falling in love and spending the rest of their lives together. Maybe that only happens in movies but, I have heard of it and I guess need to accept that it is possible. Well if that is possible than it is also easy to see that one side could fall deeply for the other and loose perspective of what the relationship is and where it is at. So could that possibly make it very hard for a client when their favourite SP retires. Absolutely. I guess in the same respect for human emotion an SP could be very bothered if loosing one of her favourite clients. The reality is, an emotional loss at any level is a loss and in the situations that get created in this world it is easy for me to understand how they can be painful. Personally I've come close but I think thusfar have done well at keeping things in perspective. I know I have gone through mini emotional roller coasters in particular when it comes to ladies I've gotten very close to. I'm OK with this and find it somewhat exciting but is certainly true that we need to know where the line is and keep things in perspective. A few months back I had my favourite lady considering leaving the business to pursue a relationship in her private life. In all honesty this was very difficult for me although I think I always held it together. In the end I kinda got over a little emotional hurdle and truly realized that I cared about the lady so much that I wanted what was best for her and even if that meant I would never see her again. I think I had to go through that once just to strengthen my resolve and know that I can. Do I deeply miss those who I've been fortunate enough to spend time with and have decided to move on. Absolutely! But stronger than that feeling of loss is the admiration and hope that they are enjoying life in a new way. Cub

Funny I've seen feedback from ladies from not so great meetings and always wondered if we'ld see an open review of a guy. Also thought maybe a guy should advertise. I know just a silly thought. But I'm glad you wrote this. A very erotic read and kudos to Jim. Cub Posted via Mobile Device

WOW Erin! I couldn't agree more strongly - now let's get together. JK. Actually I do think it is an interesting observation. Hugs Cub Posted via Mobile Device

I guess I start by limiting the stressers around me. It includes trying to stay away from negativity and bitchy people. Positivity can spread. Like others I do have a mix of relaxation and physical activities that work. Relaxing - glass of wine outside in the hottub staring at stars works. - listening to some easy music. - sitting by the fire and watching the flames. - camping Physical - building anything. - yard work/cutting grass. - dancing Interesting never realized till now but being with a lady is both physical and relaxing. No wonder I love it so much. Cub Posted via Mobile Device

The Easy Bake oven. My sister made me cookies all day long.

SMQ is here to save the day! Well at least bring a little joy back to it. WB.

How much I MISSED the look, smell, taste, and touch of a woman! You are treasures. Cub Posted via Mobile Device

OMG, Miss Evans have you got us pegged. Well at least me. Nice Post. I've never considered the price in my encounters. I guess I likely have an upper limit but haven't yet reached what I considered beyond what I wanted to pay. At the same time I don't bargain shop. From a client standpoint I guess I would be more 'low volume' and 'high quality'. Don't meet someone every week but when I do I want a true experience. Cub Posted via Mobile Device

I'm with OttAdv on this. I have had times when this has happened but I took it as a surprise and less than something that could be predicted. For this reason I wouldn't want to name the specific ladies. Amazing that as open as CERB is, I still think some areas require discretion. Cub Posted via Mobile Device

Board games had a big roll in our home. Favs included; Clue, Stock Ticker, Masterpiece, Monopoly, Dealers Choice, but my personal best toy was my Strombecker Road Race set. Cub Posted via Mobile Device

I probably stopped wearing cologne about 5 yrs ago when I became more aware of persons with alergies. Back then I did have/wear many different kinds and do like them. I never did wear a lot. But I more often wore something from Karl Lagerfeld that was just called 'Lagerfeld'. Not even sure if its around anymore. However, I may need to re-think this approach and have a small supply of the ladies choice. Posted via Mobile Device

Oh CATO it is very nice and should be honoured in person. Sent you a PM. Cub

Hope I stay on safe ground with my views. I have no problem with the OP and think it was a fair question. I believe the problem arose when a little more clarification was provided that implied a generalization which is always dangerous and usually wrong. For me I have seen both local and touring ladies. I've had great experiences in both so would never want to reduce my options to just one. I have also had the rushed/mechanical encounter but would first consider it might have been me or chemistry vs a particular kind of SP. I do find that some cities I travel to just don't have the calibre of choice I like and therefore am grateful for the ladies that visit there. My plus for finding a 'local' gal is that then I know she will likely be in the particular city when I visit there. From a client standpoint I'm glad to be able to have both options. And what I choose really depends on the city I'm visiting and who is there at that time. Cub Posted via Mobile Device

I picked Heather. They are all amazing but love the natural look most.

It really isn't important to me what it is called. However, I think I have more often tried to mirror the language that the lady uses in her ads/website. If she says it is a meeting then that is what it is, if she likes encounter then I'm ready for that. However I think for most it might be more of habit than preference. As long as any negative words are avoided and the communication overall is positive and respectful I think any label for the 'rencontre' would be fine. Cub Posted via Mobile Device

Like a few others I have a good sense of time so have never gone over. I try and ensure it is a non-issue by first being respectful of the time we've booked and then nearing the end of the session making sure we have idle time to cuddle and chat and cuddle. I also do at least 2 hour appts just to avoid feeling rushed. Cub Posted via Mobile Device

Yeh, CATO they are working and killing us. Maybe she'll do a Canadian tour and we'll all be blessed. Continue to enjoy! Cub

Are you wrong, or haven't yet found the right question?

Good reminder for all of us Kubrickfan. Any reco I've done I've always sent to the lady first just to make sure they are ok with everything I'm saying. But probably also a good lesson here to not start anything with "Is not...". Staying in the spirit of CERB and positiveness of this community likely better to describe what a lady is in positive and factual terms. And if you can't stay within this then don't say anything. But I could see myself writing the exact same way you did without giving it much thought. Thanks again for keeping the bar high for this community. Cub

I've only been to 1 SC in 1 1/2 yrs since I found escorts but when I used to visit them I did the 'Bill on Stage' all the time. Well at least once a night if a special lady I liked or thought she had a great stage show. I generally sit at a back table so always was a little macho to be able to head up to the stage and lay back next to a bunch of young guys who might get in Aww at what I was doing. Find the ladies very much appreciate it whether, 5, 10 or 20. Trick is to keep your hands down on the stage and let the lady do what she wants. Did it with a $50 once and wow did I get a reaction. I'll save that story for another thread some day.

Isn't eating seaweed good for you?

Have fun Cleo. Remember treat those Aussie cats you run into well. We're all one big global cat family. Cub